Hi, my name is Katie and I'm 15 years old. In those fifteen years I've literally been through more than most people go through in their entire life. I absolutely love helping people, and I've been told by many people that I'm good at it. I'll definitely love to give you advice, but I'm telling you right now I will say what I think, I'm not going to sugar coat everything or tell you what you want to hear just so you'll give me good ratings. So if you have any questions, about anything at all, just ask away, I'd be more than happy to help =]
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he is in high school he is really cuite he hates my cousin he dosent know me (link)
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Well, first of all, I don't want to sound like your parent, but BE CAREFUL WITH OLDER GUYS! I am in high school and my guy friends that get together with middle school girls really do only think of one thing; sex. They think because the middle school girls want to seem older than they really are that they will give something up easily. So be careful!
Now that I'm done lecturing :) ...
Realistically, if your in the lowest grade at your school and he's in high school it's not going to work.
But if your in the top grade at your school you have a chance. Get to know him, smile at him when you see each other, you both know your cousin, talk about your cousin together.
Good luck, and be careful :)
-Katie
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Where I live, every single guy is obsessed with skateboarding.
I dont mean its their hobby.
I mean they are obsessed.
I have never heard a guy say something other than a skateboarding trick, thats all they ever talk about to eachother.
The sad thing is , im not over exaggerating.
I know they like it and stuff
but do they ever think of anything else besides it?
thnx. (link)
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Hmph, that's boys for you. Obsessing over something little. But it's not something little to them apparently.
Take the most important thing in your life, like your family or friends, I guess you could say skateboarding is that to them.
If your looking for a boyfriend in your town then it looks like your going to have to put up with their obession, just be supportive and even get in on skateboarding a little bit. Ask the guys to show you how to skate or teach you a trick. It shows them you want to get involved and opens their eyes to show them 'Hey, here's a pretty cool chick!'.
-Katie
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There`s this kid and I'm not sure if I should tell him I like him or not. I think he MIGHT like me, at least a little, but I dont know if he'd go out with me. I also dont want to ruin the friendship if he doesnt feel the same. I would seriously be suprised if he didn't feel the same though, because I flirt with him all the time, and he definately flirts back. We have a pretty close bond already I think. I have his number, but have never called him yet. I'm thinking that maybe next weekend I will call him and talk to him about it, but I'm not sure. Could someone please help me out? Thanks. (link)
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Call him just to say hello and let him know you were thinking about him. Suggest going to see a movie or something.
But don't call too often or get upset if he can't hang out; he'll think your obsessive! Play hard to get, that's always good =]
And if you start getting the feeling that he likes you, then tell him you like him.
Just hope for the best, but expect the worst! Just don't get your hopes up too high. That's the way to guard your heart so you don't get hurt.
I wish you the best of luck!
-Katie
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So its like 3/4s thru the basketball season and my shoes SMELL TERRRRRIBLE.
I tried putting little air fresheners in them...ive tried stuffing them with newspaper(read it in a magazine) and NOTHING works.
Im afraid to put them thru the washer because before it screwed up my last pair.
Anyone have ANY way to make them smell better???
Thanks!!! (link)
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Try spraying them with Lysol to kill the germs that are carrying the smell. And of course rememeber to keep your feet clean. Scrub them with good smelling soaps after practices and games.
-Katie
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I am 28 now, graduated from high school 10 years ago. I am taking part in planning our high school reunion and I was looking through my old yearbooks, for phone numbers and stuff. I came across a note from a guy I always knew was in love with me, but he was a nerd so I never gave him a chance. I was good friends with him, when no one was looking. I always kinda had a crush on him too, but could never go there. I remember him writing this note, but I guess I never really looked into it.
Here is what he said in 11th grade:
"Well, what a crazy year! It went by too fast. By the way, the reason why I didn't go to the prom was because I didn't know how I could handle seeing you with your date. Oh well, I have to live with that now. I'm sure you kow my feelings about you. But I know you just want to be friends. I can handle that. Until then, see you in my dreams. Your Imzari, Rob"
He never would tell me what Imzari meant, and of course none of my friends knew. And this was before you could just look up anything on the internet :)
Here is what he said senior year:
"I really can't say anything more. I guess I have already said it all. See you in 20 years. Love, Rob"
I spoke with him maybe twice since then. We have both grown up and got married. I am happy, but I do sometimes think of him.
I looked up what Imzadi meant today, it means soulmate, beloved, first. It's roots are in fantasy but it's conception is in the soul. How deep is that?? Oh my god, it made me cry! I think that's the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me!
My question is, what do I do when I see him? I want to tell him that I was sorry for letting my social status get in the way of how he felt about me and how I secretly felt about him, and I want to tell him that I looked up the word Imzadi and I know what it means. We are both married, and I am happy- I am not looking to leave my husband or anything, I love him. But I am wondering if it is appropriate to say those things, or maybe I should just leave it alone. Maybe I should just give him a hug and say how happy I am to see him. I really do want him to know that I am sorry, and that I looked up that word. I just don't want to cause any problems.
What do you think???
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I understand how you feel the need to get some closure with this. But your right, maybe some things are better left alone. Both of you are married and happy now. Maybe a hug and a "I'm glad to see you" would be the best thing in this situation. It might be embarassing for him to talk about this face to face with you.
But if you do get the chance to sit down and talk with him one on one let him know that the notes he wrote you meant alot, and that you really appreciated it.
I hope this helped.
Katie
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alright, well I asked this kid out a few days ago. Last night he said yes, so we're sorta "going out" now.
In the beginning of a relationship everyones just all happy, giddy & stupid. But I want this relationship to be a good one. I don't know where to go from here. It's going to be weird just going into school on Monday and seeing him. We're both really shy people. I abosutely HATE talking on the phone, because (no lie) I sound like a 3 year old.
The question is, where do I go from here? how do I get my relationship going? =/ (link)
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Well, the guy said yes for a reason, he likes you! And you like him, obviously. The relationship in the beginning is going to be a little wierd and akward, but the more you talk and get to know each other the more comfortable it will become. Spend time together at school. Hold hands, hug, write notes, etc.
If you don't like talking on the phone then chat with him on myspace, if you both have one. If you don't then maybe you should try to talk on the phone to him, I'm sure you don't sound like a 3 year old all the time :)
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ok so i wanna start by saying that i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend.
ok dont get me wrong i like my boyfriend a TON,like i makeout with him and would do anything for him.
but sometimes i get the feeling like he doesnt like me even tho he says he does.
and sometimes he treats me like im stupid.
i didnt realize this until one of my best friends pointed it out.he told me that he really likes me and is always telling em how lucky my boyfriend is.
i hangout with him at him house and we have SO much fun,its almost like were going out already.
but i havent done ANYTHING to cheat on my boyfriend.
my question is,should i breakup with my bf for my best friend who would treat me better,or stick with my super hott amazing boyfriend that i could try to fix things with?
also,im not really sure who to choose because when were alone my boyfriend is really nice.and when im alone with my bff hes so funny and sweet. this is killing me i cant veen sleep at night.idk wht to do.=[. (link)
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First off, I want to say that it's normal to have these thoughts and feelings. I can't tell you who to chose, you have to make that descision on your own.
I can tell you this though; TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND! It's very important to let him know everything you've said here! Let him know you worry about your relationship together, and you've been having thoughts about your best friend. If your boyfriend doesn't seem to care, then he's definitely not worth your time. But he probably will care and get very protective over you.
Also, talk to your best friend about this too! You don't want to break up with your great boyfriend just to have your best friend not share the feelings you have for him.
Good luck, and I hope everything works out well for you three!
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Hey everyone, I have VERY oily skin and I'm looking for some products I could buy at walmart to help me out. My main problems with my skin are HUGE pores, blackheads/whiteheads, oil, and a rough texture to my face. I'm looking for something that gets rid of black heads, removes dead skin from my face, shrinks my pores, and lessens the amount of oil. Does anyone know of just one product that can do all of that or do i need to buy different products! help please! (link)
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I too have this problem with my skin! I've found that washing my face once in the morning and at night with ProActiv helps clear up some of the acne. Bur ProActiv is expensive, so Neutragena's Deep Cleansing Face Wash works well too for me.
For the oily places on your face there's a quick way to fix that without spending lots of money. Cut a lemon in half and slide it across the oily zones so that the juice gets on your skin. Or you can buy Biore's face wipes to use during the day.
And of course, remember that touching your face or picking at your blemishes adds more oil and residue to your face.
I wish you the best of luck!
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how exactly do you do that? i dont want to play TOO hard to get incase the guy gives up but i dont wanna be so easy that he loses interest
-15/f (link)
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Your exactly right! You don't want the guy to give up or lose intrest.
Make him come to you, but it never hurts to give him your phone number, or if you have a myspace casually drop him a comment saying hello and that you were thinking about him.
As things progress it'll be clearer and clearer the way he feels about you.
Good luck!
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There's a boy that I started going out with last April, and he's the greatest boyfriend I've ever had. We couldn't of been more happy. But, he ended up breaking up with me 4 months later and he did lie sometimes. He's had 2 girlfriends since then and I've kinda been scared to trust him, but he's made a promise to himself, friends, and family for his new years resolution that he will be more responsible with his relationships. We both have started to like eachother again, but I know a lot of my friends will get mad. One side of me doesn't care, and one does. This time I won't make any promises to him or anyone else, and I know how to deal with things now. Should I date him? (link)
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Well, I think if you both really like each other and you both want to get involved in a relationship with each other again, then you should go for it. If your scared to trust him then you probably have a good reason. So, just remember to guard your heart, you don't want to get hurt again, right!?
Remember all the lies and all the things he did in the past, don't hold a grudge or anything, but just don't ever forget you and his past relationship together.
And hope for the best, but expect the worst.
I wish you two the best of luck!
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