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what to do.
There's a boy that I started going out with last April, and he's the greatest boyfriend I've ever had. We couldn't of been more happy. But, he ended up breaking up with me 4 months later and he did lie sometimes. He's had 2 girlfriends since then and I've kinda been scared to trust him, but he's made a promise to himself, friends, and family for his new years resolution that he will be more responsible with his relationships. We both have started to like eachother again, but I know a lot of my friends will get mad. One side of me doesn't care, and one does. This time I won't make any promises to him or anyone else, and I know how to deal with things now. Should I date him?
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Hey, if the guy is trying to change, and you two like each other again, I say it's worth a shot. Just be more careful this time and don't trust him as easily. Tell him flat out that the moment he lies to you, it's over. As for your friends, make sure to tell them that you appreciate their concern, but your love life is your business: not theirs. I hope everything works out!
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If you both like each other again, I'd go for it. But like you said, don't make any promises to him or anyone else. Besides that, I'd go on a few casual dates to see if he's actually serious, and if he is, then you can take him seriously.
And as for your friends, if they get mad, then that's their problem. Who you date is your choice, not their's & they shouldn't be so concerned with it. It's your life, so you live it your way.
♥T!NA
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Go on a few dates but dont get into anything serious until you know he is serious
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Well, I think if you both really like each other and you both want to get involved in a relationship with each other again, then you should go for it. If your scared to trust him then you probably have a good reason. So, just remember to guard your heart, you don't want to get hurt again, right!?
Remember all the lies and all the things he did in the past, don't hold a grudge or anything, but just don't ever forget you and his past relationship together.
And hope for the best, but expect the worst.
I wish you two the best of luck!
<3 Katie
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