Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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hey, how do i turn my monitor off easily when i leave
the computer? like is there a button on my keyboard
that i can use?
i have a dell inspiron 2200
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hey!
Well I didnt know what a dell inspiron looked like so I googled it, and its a laptop eh? Well I don't know how to maneually turn it off when you're leaving, but instead of a screensaver you can set your monitor to shut itself off, and if you set that number to like five minutes then as soon as you leave, it should shut itself off, within that shortamount of time that you select. The only problem with that, is that if you are inactive for five minutes or whatever it will shut the monitor off, but it can help you to save electricity, and if what that other guy said is true and you have to go out and buy a keyboard or something just to shut off the monitor, then maybe it would just be easier this way.
I hope I helpped,
Love ya,
Angie91
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is it better to wait a while to make a move on a quiet girl and hope that she will eventually like u and trust you and be patient anf all or sholud u just move on??
please help me coz this is cracking mr up (link)
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Hey!
Well quiet girls are often just quite until the shyness moves on. I think you should try to build up a relationship with her. Get to know her, and slowly make moves. She'll let you know what shes comfortable with and slowly you'll see her other side hopefully. If not, and she ends up turning out to be someone who is too quiet for you then yeah, move on. But I think the trust thing should come easily. You might be confusing someone who has a fear of being hust by guys, with a girl who's just alittle shy. I hope I helpped answer your question, love ya,
Angie91
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i want to be funnier/wittier/sarcastic. how? (link)
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hey.
Wow that answer sucked... I'll give you something to actually work with.
I'm way sarcastic, and it drives people nuts, so I don't wanna create a monster here. But I think I can give you a few tips. Sarcasim is acctually quite complicated. What you have to do it look at a situation. And start off with the easy stuff. The easiest one is the "noooo".
So like someone says something thats obvious and basically stating the visual. ex: "It's windy out today" when your hair is blowing all over the place. Say "noooo."
Sarcasm is all about the tone.
Now wittyness, this is a hard one. I'm not very witty and it takes a lot of practice. It's basically like sarcasm, just more joke like. heres a situation. "She's sooo boring, I can't pay attention in her class." you would say something like "I actually enjoy her class it gives me lots of time to think of a way to teach the guy infront of me how to take showers." HAHA. thats a problem at my school. anyways, that was a bit more sarcastic than witty, and as I said I'm not really that witty. It's just about adding something random to the conversation, and it is alittle bit about combining it with sarcasm.
Then theirs funnier. Everyone wants to be funnier because people like funny people, but there is no really way to be funny. You basically just have to try and do things spur of the moment. Say things that make people smile, or at least make yourself smile.
Funny people dont feel selfconcious and don't think too hard about their jokes. You'll get laughs on the ones you wouldnt expect and the ones you do expect everyone will be like..huh?
My last tip is to tell stories. The more you talk, teh more laughs you'll get. Talk about some random thing you saw on the way to work, or something ironic you saw on tv.
The three things you want to excel up go together, so if you master one, you'll be able to get them all, dont worry. And remember, dont let it go to your head, its just something that comes out.
Good luck, and I hope I helpped,
love ya
Angie91
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im so effin pissed at my parents. like really really really pissed. i even feel myself getting mad.. and i just came from crying my eyes out in my room. anyway, my parents for some retarded reason will not let me go to any of my friend's sleepovers. i've only slept over at my cousins' houses but my parents were there too.. so it wasnt really like you know.. "girls night with friends". and in 4th grade my friend had a sleepover.. and i couldnt go because my parents didnt like the idea. that sucked because i rarely get to see her in the year and she was one of my besties. and now im 13 in 7th grade and its the SAME THING!! my friends 13th bday party is a sleepover, and well i guess i could also go home and NOT sleep over there, but its also the date of some meeting my family goes too. its optional for me and my siblings though, so i dont wanna do go i can go to my friend's party. BUT NOOOO my parents wont let me. she lives like less than 10 mins away from me, near my middle school so it wont be that hard to find either. and i dont understand why they cant drop me there before and then like pick me up when they get back from their meeting, or have my friend's mom drive me home, since my other aunt stays home at my house too. BUT NOOO we cant have that either, parents. i even asked them.. i ask them occasioanlly and they just say their own STUPID reason which is "we dont believe in sleepovers". how GAY is that???? im sorry that im overreacting here but i just feel like cursing really badly and screaming. it makes no sense!!! whos parents "dont belive in sleepovers?" NOBODIES! except MINE! im african, like my parents directly came from cameroon, so i guess they werent used to doing stuff like that at their house. but like they even got to have pets.. a cat and dog, and here we arent even allowed to have a hamster because they dont think we can care for a little thing! (and i dont like fish). anyway, what could be the reason why my parents dont like sleepovers? is it the same with you? do you know anyone who has the same situation? can you think of a way how i can still go, because i told her that i could because i assumed my parents would just let me go this time because ive been acting pretty good this week and even tidied my room without them yelling at me and etc. i even thought that it was cause they didnt trust people who werent like their race.. like white people which my friend is.. but i havent even had sleepovers with my other african friends, so its nor that. or they think that the parents will rape us. oh my freakin god. there are several other girls at the party.. im sure someone will notice if somethings up. and i dont think every flippin person in this world is a sex offender.. and even if some are.. like why cant i just go to the party??? my mom said it wasnt because of that either.. and i asked her WHAT HER REASON WAS! i asked my dad too and he AGREES! WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY FAMILY??? WHY CANT THEY JUST LET ME GO TO THE EFFIN PARTY FOR ONCE!! I CANT LIVE MY LIFE NOT GOING TO ANY SLEEPOVER TILL IM LIKE OUT OF COLLEGE?? WTF I'LL BE IN WORK BY THEN!!!!!! THATS NOT THE SAME AS A "GIRLS NIGHT OUT" AND IM FED UP WITH MISSING FRIENDS SLEEPOVERS ALL THE TIME BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS NOT LETTING ME GO FOR NO EFFIN REASON!!!! (link)
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Well, this is an interesting situation. I actually know a lot of people who are affected by this rule, so just know you arent the only person who has strict parents.
Heres what I know from experience works to an extend. If you stay nice and calm and think of all of the points you want to make, and then make them in a way that doesnt make you sound like you take them for granted, you might get them to budge a bit.
You need to tell them that you understand their rule (even if you don't) and you want to abide by it, that you respect them and their rules. But you feel that you should be aloud to go to the party for a little while during the evening. See what they say to that. If they say no, then try and act calmly when the next one comes up.
If you are aloud to go for the evening. Ask the person hosting, if she can announce before the party that anyone who wants to go home can leave at a certain time, and that way you wont be the only one leaving at that time. Ask hosts in the future to have parties earlier in the evening, like starting at 4 or 5 and that way you still get to spend a lot of time with your friends.
When you're at the [arties dont talk about how you arent aloud to sleep over as if it were a big deal. Pretend you want to go home, and tell them that you hope they have fun, but you had a great time in the length of time you were there.
As far as hosting your own party. Ask youre parents if they will let you have a party that goes until 11 or 12 or something, and that everyone can go home but you can accomplish the same stuff as if you were sleeping over. Tell everyone to come in jamies and slippers. Tell them to bring pillows and make up and all of the other things you use at a sleep over. Watch scary movies or whatever, and then at midnight they can go home.
One day when there arent any sleepovers in the near future, ask your parents why they dont let you have sleepovers. Ask them to explain it to you, not just give you a "just cause" kinda of answer. Try not to object to what they say, just ask nicely and you can figure out why they see sleepovers that way and try to go around those details.
This whole situation is about how you handle yourself, if you go into it with a bad attitude you'll come out with less.
I know you're upset, and thats totally okay, and you need to blow off steam, but I think that if you use less CAPS LOCKS it might be easier for us to read. :)
I know this is tough, but sleepovers are only like a 1/8 out of all the parties you'll have in your life, so yeah it sucks sometimes to be left out, but there will be millions of great times during the day. So if your parents are impossible to sway, life will go on, it'll just be a little duller. :(
I hope I helpped answer your question let me know if you need more help, love ya,
Angie91
Also not to be mean to the person below me, but I think that if you try her suggestions, they might work, but I think that they will probably not and a calm approach to the situation will make you seem more mature, and it will help to show your parents that you are ready for this type of situation.
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can you still have sex and get pregnant if you havent gotten your period yet? im just curious, im not interested in actually having it tho.. but what would happen instead? 13/f (link)
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Yes. There is a chance that it could happen. You ovulate before your period, so you could be just about to have your period and not know. If you arent ovulating, then it would be just the same as if you had already gotten your first period.
I hope I helpped,
Love ya,
Angie91
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Me And My Boyfriend Have Had sex About 16 times. Im 15 And I Dont Think It Feels Good? He Does Thoough. Is There Something Wrong With Me? Or Is It Normal? (link)
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Hey!
Well this is an interesting question. I'm sure theres nothing wrong with you. I think everyone has a different volume of enjoyablity, and I think that you might just not have reached what you find fun.
I think you should talk to him, tell him that its your turn to have fun and then kinda coax him into doing what you enjoy.
If it's like pain, then thats a different story. That means something might actually be wrong, and you should talk to a doctor, but if its just like awkward or boring, then its probably no biggie. You'll figure out what feels right, it'll just take time.
I'm not super experienced in the topic, but the one thing I know for sure, is theres nothing wrong with you (unless you're in pain, then you would know theres is something going wrong) and you just need to gain experienced. I hope I helpped, let me know if you need anything else. Thanks for trusting me with your question, I'm here if you need me. Love ya,
Angie91
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I have some dots on the nails everywhere...i don't know what they mean? (link)
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Hey,
I think what you're talkng about are those little white lines, a lot of people get them. Theyre bruises, they don't really mean any thing. Some people say they come when you tell a lie, or you're going to get a present, but thats just a bunch of myths. As far as your health, they're probably fine, as long as you dont get too many of them. If you get one on every nail and they dont go away or something, talk to people. If someone can see your problem, theres more chance that they can figure out a better solution, its hard to give advice when you cant see them. :P.
But it's probably no big deal. Hope I helpped, love ya,
angie91
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iight. me and my ex been over since 2~20~07 we was together for not along time but the reason we broke up was 1:my parents was agaist us and 2 cus we cud hardly c eachother. but not even a week after we broke up 2 of his best friends told me he still was feeling me and y i don't call i told them y don't he call me, shit he got a phone. But anywayz i ended up calling on March 12th we talked he still was feeling me but he told me when he think of me he thinks of that song "Outta My System" by Bow Wow i waws like iight. and i still talk alil but now another guy is trying to get at me. HE just remind me of how my ex is much better. i like my ex still alot but he don't wanna call or shit like he tryna avoid me. So what that mean? what should i do? i'm so lost. (link)
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Well, as long as you are comparing a guy to your ex then you arent going to find anyone.
The reason he doesnt call is hes moving on. You shouldnt expect him to call because he is in the process of moving on, and you should be too.
I think that you should try to keep your mind off of him and find another great guy. IF theres no way for this to work out, and you know that there is no way to make it work then stop trying. Try and find another amazing guy to take his place. There are millions of them out there, so if you dont find one right away, then I'm sure you will really soon. If you need some moving on tips, let me know I have a million of them.
Good luck, and I hope I helpped. Love ya,
Angie91
P.s. I think that you will get more responses on your next questions, if you try to use proper spelling and grammer. I just thought I'd let you know so that when you ask your next question you can think about using that and maybe more people will respond with quality advice. :D
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ok so i have a boyfriend..and like half a year ago we had problems because i found ot that he was signing to this girl blog things like "oh your so pretty i don't think you look ugly in that photo in fact i think you look reaaally goood ;) " and stuff like that and i got mad because when he added her on IM i asked who was her? and he said ..oh some girl from school we are not friends she just added me i dk why ..so okay i leave it like that ..then i found out more things like that like "you're not ugly! yoour pretty and i think you are cute , why did't you got online!=(! well hope i'll see you tonigh online bye" ..and that really disturbs me its like i trusted him and stuff and he does this :S!!! we got into a really big fight and broke up...then he apologized and started like oh im sorry its just that i feel pitty for her , she's always telling me things like"im soo ugly nobody wants me" and i just wanted her to feel better iam really sorry ... so i forgive him..then when i started going from blogs to blogs i found another one ..but this was older..like 2 moths before that and things where just similar but this time the girl posted things like oh (name) i love youuu (as a friend of course) thanks for everything sweetheart! and all days was like "(name) i love youu" and his posts where like "thanks you don't know me that much and already are posting things for me i lov you bye" ...so i got mad againg then he apologize and stuff and i told him im sick of finding out things like that :S okay so i was the one looking for it ..but if i hadn't been looking then what would hav happen??..and he was like "im rally sorry please blablabl, im sorry i didn't trust you enough but i swear it won't happen again" ....now it's been like 8 months from that ..and now i found out something else...he and his friends make videos like "smosh" videos that kind of things and people really likes them etc..anyway i knew that some girls and boys added him at his IM ..and i asked ..and he said "yeah they saw the videos and started asking me stuff and telling me that they liked it thats all don't worry "...then he deleted all the boys and let only 2 girls ...i asked him what happened to the people that added you from the videos??..he said : oh i already deleted them dont worry :) ...and then i was like ok :)...today i got into his blog and started looking for the other girls blogs..and there where messages like "hey how are you?".."im fine thnx talk to you later"...posted by him...when i asked him yesterday ..the last post that i found was the only one you answer to any of them ??..and he said "yes that's the only one " ...today i found out that he has this 2 new girls in his IM (some of the ones he deleted according to him)...and found out that he's still posting to this new girls ..(nothing like the past ones ) but its like he told me he didnt :S ...am i wrong ?????? sorry its too long ..its just like its really sad that hes like afraid of me or something ..should i broke up with him for not telling me ?? (link)
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Hey!
Well the reason he's scared of you is obvious, he's worried you're going to break up with him. Which is your fault (sorry but it's the truth). I think that you should sit down with him and tell him that you love him, and you arent going to break up with him (oh yeah, I think you shouldnt break up with him). Tell him that you want to have a trust there, and that he should be able to tell you the truth and not hide anything from you. Tell him no matter what he says you wont get mad, (that way if he does cheat on you or whatever you think might happen, happens he can tall you and not keep it from you) tell him that sometimes you get angry about things, but you still wish he would tell you the whole story about things, because that way you don't have to worry about whats going on behind your back, and you can trust him fully.
If you tell him that, and hope that he listens and knows that you are serious, then he will be willing to show you the truth and hopefully you wont feel the need to worry about that girl and her blog. You've got him and she doesnt, so you should be happy that you have an awesome loving guy right? :D.
I hope I helpped, if you need anything else let me know,
Love ya,
Angie91
Well if he keeps doing the things you don't like, what you need to do, it outline what he is doing "wrong" and tell him if he continues doing those things, you are going to have to end the relationship. Ask him if it's clear? And then if it is and you catch him doing it again, its time to end it. I hope it doesnt come to that though. If it does, let me know if you want some moving on tips, I've got ya covered!
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15/f, this girl who i've known since 6th grade had a sweet 16 last night. We became pretty good friends in 7th grade, and we have an inside joke. Now, I'm in 9th grade (she turned 16 because she's asian and her parents kept her back a year so she could learn the language better or something lol) so now, I have science class with her, and I'll talk to her occassionally. I've always been nice to her and everything. But she didn't invited me too her Sweet 16. Yet she invited people she just met this year. And yeah, maybe she's become good friends with them, but still. I'm pissed!! Idk, maybe she thought if she invited me, she'd have to invite my 2 best friends, but she didn't want to because she's not as close to them. And then that'd start a whole drama thing. But it wouldn't. UGHH! I'm mad. Should I say something to her or would that be too bitchy? And do I have a right to be mad?Thanks! (link)
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hey!
This is tough, you just have to know that she probably didnt do it on purpose and that it was probably about how many people she could invite, or maybe she doesnt feel that same bond of friendship as you do. Basically, no you shouldnt talk to her, it's her party and she has the right to invite whomever she wants. If you are a good friend, you wont hold a grudge and she knows that. In life you arent going to get invited to ever party, you arent going to get every thing you want, because life sucks sometimes.
Yeah your pissed off, and thats okay, if you still havnt cooled down in a couple of weeks then talk it out, but reall ythat would make you sound bad, because one day you'll learn that you cant be invited to everything, and you just have to get over it. That comes with time. Some of my friends still don't understand that.
The next time you hear about a party you're not invited to, find something else to do, and then when someone brings it up later you can say oh I was watching this super funny movie or whatever.
As far as the science class thing. She probably wasnt saying it so you would over hear, she probably was just talking and didnt realize you could hear. The downfalls of evesdropping I guess.
So, it's okay to be mad, but you just have to realize that she probably didnt do it intentionally, and if she did then shes not worth worrying about. Good luck, and I hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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I fell in love this year. We were together for a while, but he wasn't happy so he broke up with me. It's been 3 months, and I'm still not over him. People are like "try to get to know other guys" That doesn't work. None are interested at all. I'm extremely upset. I keep myself occupied with track and such, and it's not even like I have many friends to turn to, because they all tell me the same thing, since none of them have been through this before. What should I do? Please don't give me something stupid, I'm really hurting here. (link)
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Don't worry you're in great hands. I know all the tricks for moving on.
This is a tough time for you, and you need to start slowly and move up to likeing other guys. Not the other way. You dont start by riding a two wheeler, you start with a trike right? Start slowly and move up to that phase.
So heres what you have to do, you start by keeping yourself busy, which you are doing. Good job, but you need to find something new. I mean by all means continue with track, but you need to find something totallystrange and new that you have never ever tried before, this will be like a landmark in the moving on process. With every achievement, its a stepping stone.
Then spend more time with friends and family. Try to set up a family movie night with your parents and siblings. Try to set a night each week where everyone goes to the mall as a group (with your friends). These types of things will help you to keep your mid off of him, and it will also help you to have fun with your friends. As soon as you feel yourself feeling down tell yourself that this is time to be happy, and you can mop around when you get home.
write about it. Get a journal and try to write regularly. Talk about your feelings as well as what you did that day. Write about anything because it will help you to get your feelings out and make sense of how you are coping with this situation.
Set goals for yourself. Make sure you have about ten and write them down. Also, beside each goal write what you are going to do when you achieve it. Like say you plan to clean your room once a week for six weeks straight. Then when you achieve that goal you are going to take two of your friends out for dinner. Then when you do, follow through with it. Make them Realistic, goals with realistic rewards.
After you follow through with those things, then you can start to find new guys. But if you get through all of that and you dont feel like you're moving on, let me know and I'll give you a few more tips.
I hope I helpped, I know this is tough for you, but you'll get through it, and if you want more help, let me know. Love ya,
Angie91
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basically, my boyfriends best friend hates my guts. i tried being nice to him, but then i got in a conversation with him about religion and he said something really rude after..basically, he told me that he doesn't think i really like my boyfriend and i'm just with him because "i can't get anyone else". but thats NOT TRUE. i like my boyfriend ALOT and i would never be with someone if i didn't like that..but yeah..i didn't get the chance to say anything back to him, so now i'm pretty sure he hates my guts.
what can i do to at least try to have him be nice to me? he doesn't like me at all and i really don't want it to be that way. he's my boyfriend's bestfriend and i want him to respect me as a person..and not think that about me.
idk if that was confusing or not..but help? (link)
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It was a little confusing, but I'll try to help anyway.
I think that the reason he doesnt like you, is because he's afraid that you're going to either change your boyfriend, or force him not to see his friends, and instead spend time with him. So I would suggest the next time your bf says theres something going on with his friends, let him go, even if it means you have to change your plans. That will show that you are a leiniant gf. Let your bf do whatever he wants to an extent, that you can handle. Don't say anything back to him when he accuses you of things. Just say that you don't agree with what hes saying, but he can say what he wants if thats how he feels.
You can;t make someone like you. So you basically just have to let him become okay around you. Talk to your boyfriend about it, and tell him that if he sees his friend talking badly about you, to try and stand up for you. Its hard to say if he will ever treat you the way you wish he would, but he's not the one you have to impress right?
This is a difficult situation, but if you just take it calmly, and dont over react then maybe things will eventually calm down. Hope I helpped, love ya
Angie91
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So theres this guy whos in my class, and hes a sophomore.i like him sometimes, and at other times im like "why do i like him" i dont know but i dont really wanna like him, and i wanna find find someone else that i like. :[ what should i do? cause in my mind, i know that i have feelings for him, but i somehow dont want to.
Thanks :D
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Hey!
Well there are two differnt ways to go about this, you can try to get over him (which is almost impossible) or you can let yourself get over him.
I've liked this guy forever, and I always try to get over him, (thats why I said almost impossible) but it never works (sometimes you just need a certain willpower though) so I always end up liking him again. So One day I just decided to forget about trying to get over him, I mean eventually he will get out of my mind, it just sucks that I have this crush on him now.
So you can try that or you can actually try to get over him.
The reason its harder to get over a guy you havent dated, is that feeling of regret. Like "what COULD have happened." I think the only way you can literally get over him, is to decide whether or not to ask him out. If you decide that hes an idiot and you wouldn't want to date him, then that may work as a way to get over him. Or you can build up the courage and ask him. If he rejects you, then you can begin the natural moving on process.
As far as finding someone else to like, that might help you to move on, but thats only one of many steps in moving on, so if you only try that, you wont move on. Honestly, I dont thi8nk you can actually literally move on, untill you have completed all of the steps (which I can give you, if you decide to commit to moving on, just let me know you want them).
Heres what I think you need to think about, who really cares who you like? If you like him, you like him, theres nothing you can really do until you decide to ask him out. So until you figure out why you don't want to date him (or get the courage up to ask him) I think you should just let the crush move on itself. Thats my opinion anyway, hope it helpped.
Love ya,
Angie91
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on Advicenators. If you read a question and your automatically like "Oh i know this!" and you answer it without looking at other peoples answers. Well what if you accidentally put something that is almost the same as another person, and you get rated badly? is it still considered copying someone elses answer? (link)
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I usually try to remember to read the answers but sometimes I forget and then my answer unds up being the same (sorta) as the last person, you'renot copying their answers, but this can annoy people, so if you try to remember to read them, then at least you can avoid pissing someone off. Honestly, if the person is putting themselves out there and asking for our advice, then they should accept any advice we decide to give them. And some questions there is only one answer to, and I see like 17 people answer them, because they think, hey its easy I know it I should answer it, though the 16 other people put the same exact answer. So it happens alot dont feel bad if you did it.
If the person gives you a bad rating wel they're idiots who dont deserve your advice, because they only expected one answer...? I hope I helped you out, love ya,
Angie91
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how do you pronounce givenchy CORRECTLY?
i always thought it was gih-vehn-chee, but im not sure if thats right..? now im thinking its jih-vehn-chee but mayybe the ch is pronounced a k? haha thanks
thanks in advance, but please only answer if your positive (link)
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Well I have absoulutly no idea. But it seems like the answers you got were pretty confusing. So heres what I would do, go to google, and type it in, it will ask you if you want a definintion, and above the definition will be the phenetics. That should help you sound it out. I know I probably didnt help you out very much, but I totally didnt understand what the other answers were saying, so maybe this will help you out alittle. I tried anyway. Love ya,
Angie91
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supossed to have your gums sticking out under the braces hanging down a little its like stuck on the side of my braces is it supossed to be sticking out my gums what should i do (link)
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Hey!
Yeah I have that too. There are two different possibilities. The first one is the most likely, you probably have gingivitis, that is pretty common, and it just means you arent brushing right, so talk to your orthodontist and see if (s)he can help you get rid of them.
The other option is you're allergic to the metal. It's not as common, but it is possible, so talk to your orthodontist and see if thats whats wrong.
It will probably be one of those two, and either way they can help you out with them and teach you how to get it all fixed up. Hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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i dont know if this should be under here but anyway
im getting my braces off soon [ april 21 ] yay :)
and i was wondering whats a good toothpaste to make your teeth make/ and stay white! thanks .
and pleasee no white strips i cant afford them (link)
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Hey!
Congrats! Me too! I'm getting mine off on the 17th!! But anyways, I talked to my orthodontist and he said to just make sure that I floss and brush regularly, you can use listerine that has whitening in it as well as toothpaste that has whitening in it. Like Crest has the new pro whitening thing and there are a few colgate ones that work too, but what you should do is talk to your Orthodontist, or if you're close enough to the next dentist appointment, go in and get them whitened the same day. Thats what I'm doing because I'm due for another appointment, so I'm going to get the flouride treatment or whatever and ask him which toothpaste he recommends. If you go down the toothpaste aisle at the store, you should be able to find something that fits what you need, just read the labels and see what they promise and how often you have to use it in order to get the effect.
I hope your teeth look awesome! And also, I hope I helpped answer your question. Love ya,
Angie91
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well I know when you'r inlove you get the bubbly feeling..but does it wear out? I really like this boy and I liked him for about 2-3 years now and before like the 1st year I got all the butterflies and stuff and now I rarely get them. I know I like him inside...but do u get them all the time..or can they wear out? (link)
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Hey!
As you get more comfortable with the person, your feelings change. There are lots of stages in relationships and as you move on throughout the relationship, or even just as you move on in time, you should notice the feelings and emotions changing. As you get more confident, and as you grow older then you will feel different.
Heres the one thing I know about butterflies. You get butterflies as an adrenaline rush, in the nervousness of a knew situation. Actors get them before going on stage and sports players get them before a big game and regular people get them when they like someone. But as an actress, my teacher always told me, that if you dont still get the butterflies, then its time to quit. It's time to move on and find something that gives you those butterflies.
Whether I agree with that or not is hard because I didnt quit acting, when it was time to. And my last memories of the class I was in are bad. So basically, you have to know when it's time to quit, and as soon as you get that feeling of doubt, then yeah its time to stop because otherwise your last memories of something that gives you butterflies will be a sad one instead of the amazing one.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you to break up, or stop liking him, it's whats in your heart, and sometimes there are just phases where the butterflies go away, but if you get that opposite feeling, then thats when you have to make your decision.
I know I kinda drifted off that original question, I just had to drop that word of warning quickly. I hope I answered your question and I hope your relationship works out really well. Love ya,
Angie91
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Hey, I just want to know if it is impossible to love a guy that you never talked to but you know his name? (link)
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Hey!
If you ask me, yeah it's totall possible to love someone you don't know. I mean theres even the saying love at first sight.
Back like hundreds of years ago people wouldnt even get to know someone before they got married, but they were in love.
It's all about what you feel. There are a billion different levels of Love. Theres that crush and attraction that is just a crush, and then theres that feeling where you just wish you were in their arms all of the time. It's how you feel. If you think you're in love with him, then you probably are, it may not be the same kind of love as if you were actually talking to him, but yeah you can definitely be in love with out words. Sometimes words just complicate the love anyway so maybe it's more than love with out them.Love is a feeling, an emotion, and you can have emotions uncontrollably, so you can have love uncontrollably!
I hope I helpped answer your question!!
Love ya,
Angie91
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i need help! i don't know if im wrong ...ok so i have a boyfrien , and he's nice and everything , but today we went on an argument about him not oppening the car door for me ...am i wrong for wanting him to do it?? even though he's nice and open places doors for me etc??..i told him i'd like that ..and he said :S its not like im going to be your slave or anything! can't you open it yourself??? ...and i was like ..i can obviously , but i would appreciate if you'll do it ....he sad your spoiled! its like i have feelings too! and im a person too why do i have to be all day after you doing evrything for you opening doors for you and for me who will do it? nobody does it for me , why do you have to be better than me ? we are both equal! ... then it turn into a big fight but am i wrong :S?????? (link)
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Hey!
Well I can't pick sides here, because I'm not in the situation, but I'll show you a few things, and maybe you can make up your own mind okay? :D
First of all, I like it when guys open up doors for me, but the car door may be a bit much. At least thats how I feel. I can see how he would feel like a slave if you want him to open a car door for him, because thats something that butlers do.
He is right on the equal thing, for years and years women have tried to work their way up to being equal with men, in the down side to that, yeah we lost a few of those sweet things guys do. But we dont have to stay home all day washing floors and we are aloud to wear pants in most cases, so I think that it all works out to be even.
It was rude of him to say that you're spoiled, and stuff though.
So heres what I would do, Whether or not you feel that he is right, relationships are all about communicating and trying to find a happy medium. So tell him that you over reacted, and that you may have been wrong (even if you dont feel that way) and that you want to be equal with him, and you think he's amazing, and you don't feel better than him, you just thought that was something that guys did for the girls they love (or a word less than love if you arent there yet). Tell him that you appreciate all he does, and it means a lot to you when he does those little things like opening doors and stuff, and you think that it proves that he is a real gentleman, but you love (or substitue for love) him whether he does it or not, and you hate that he feels that you don't appreciate it because you really do. Tell him that you hope he isnt angry with you, and that it was a silly little thing and you hope it didnt hurt him.
Whether or not you actually agree with that, I don't know, but its all about giving alittle for the other person, I doubt you'll get car doors from that, but hopefully he'll still open regular doors for you. Good luck, and I hope I helped, Love ya,
Angie91
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