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i like him sometimes and then i dont like him anymore.i dont
So theres this guy whos in my class, and hes a sophomore.i like him sometimes, and at other times im like "why do i like him" i dont know but i dont really wanna like him, and i wanna find find someone else that i like. :[ what should i do? cause in my mind, i know that i have feelings for him, but i somehow dont want to.
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Hey!
Well there are two differnt ways to go about this, you can try to get over him (which is almost impossible) or you can let yourself get over him.
I've liked this guy forever, and I always try to get over him, (thats why I said almost impossible) but it never works (sometimes you just need a certain willpower though) so I always end up liking him again. So One day I just decided to forget about trying to get over him, I mean eventually he will get out of my mind, it just sucks that I have this crush on him now.
So you can try that or you can actually try to get over him.
The reason its harder to get over a guy you havent dated, is that feeling of regret. Like "what COULD have happened." I think the only way you can literally get over him, is to decide whether or not to ask him out. If you decide that hes an idiot and you wouldn't want to date him, then that may work as a way to get over him. Or you can build up the courage and ask him. If he rejects you, then you can begin the natural moving on process.
As far as finding someone else to like, that might help you to move on, but thats only one of many steps in moving on, so if you only try that, you wont move on. Honestly, I dont thi8nk you can actually literally move on, untill you have completed all of the steps (which I can give you, if you decide to commit to moving on, just let me know you want them).
Heres what I think you need to think about, who really cares who you like? If you like him, you like him, theres nothing you can really do until you decide to ask him out. So until you figure out why you don't want to date him (or get the courage up to ask him) I think you should just let the crush move on itself. Thats my opinion anyway, hope it helpped.
Love ya,
Angie91
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I feel the same way to. You know guys arent perfect so maybe you are just seeing the weakness in him. And some other times you are seeing the strenghts which you admire a lot. But you arent sure so what I would do is just go with your instincts. If you really want him, and you really find him attractive etc. etc. nice personality. Then go with your gut. But thats what is part of a crush is, like your not so sure if you like someone. So dont think that way, just be happy that you like him deep down. I wouldnt pressure yourself though. Maybe your true feeling are just there but you dont want to know that. So just see him, and you'll know in time.... if you like him or not. If you dont then maybe its time to find someone new!! But i bet you like him for sure!!
♥KASSIDY
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well first off you cant help who you have feeling for, even if you hate this perso nwith a passion.
secound the more you lie to yourself by saying you dnt like him, your gonna like him eevn more.
when you try to avoid the fact of like him your so worried about that , that your thinking of him more, so you like him more.
so just play it off easy you like him, so stick with that and im sure on the way you will find someone else you like more and bada bing bada boom xD
hope this helps
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