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ok so i have a boyfriend..and like half a year ago we had problems because i found ot that he was signing to this girl blog things like "oh your so pretty i don't think you look ugly in that photo in fact i think you look reaaally goood ;) " and stuff like that and i got mad because when he added her on IM i asked who was her? and he said ..oh some girl from school we are not friends she just added me i dk why ..so okay i leave it like that ..then i found out more things like that like "you're not ugly! yoour pretty and i think you are cute , why did't you got online!=(! well hope i'll see you tonigh online bye" ..and that really disturbs me its like i trusted him and stuff and he does this :S!!! we got into a really big fight and broke up...then he apologized and started like oh im sorry its just that i feel pitty for her , she's always telling me things like"im soo ugly nobody wants me" and i just wanted her to feel better iam really sorry ... so i forgive him..then when i started going from blogs to blogs i found another one ..but this was older..like 2 moths before that and things where just similar but this time the girl posted things like oh (name) i love youuu (as a friend of course) thanks for everything sweetheart! and all days was like "(name) i love youu" and his posts where like "thanks you don't know me that much and already are posting things for me i lov you bye" ...so i got mad againg then he apologize and stuff and i told him im sick of finding out things like that :S okay so i was the one looking for it ..but if i hadn't been looking then what would hav happen??..and he was like "im rally sorry please blablabl, im sorry i didn't trust you enough but i swear it won't happen again" ....now it's been like 8 months from that ..and now i found out something else...he and his friends make videos like "smosh" videos that kind of things and people really likes them etc..anyway i knew that some girls and boys added him at his IM ..and i asked ..and he said "yeah they saw the videos and started asking me stuff and telling me that they liked it thats all don't worry "...then he deleted all the boys and let only 2 girls ...i asked him what happened to the people that added you from the videos??..he said : oh i already deleted them dont worry :) ...and then i was like ok :)...today i got into his blog and started looking for the other girls blogs..and there where messages like "hey how are you?".."im fine thnx talk to you later"...posted by him...when i asked him yesterday ..the last post that i found was the only one you answer to any of them ??..and he said "yes that's the only one " ...today i found out that he has this 2 new girls in his IM (some of the ones he deleted according to him)...and found out that he's still posting to this new girls ..(nothing like the past ones ) but its like he told me he didnt :S ...am i wrong ?????? sorry its too long ..its just like its really sad that hes like afraid of me or something ..should i broke up with him for not telling me ??
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Well the reason he's scared of you is obvious, he's worried you're going to break up with him. Which is your fault (sorry but it's the truth). I think that you should sit down with him and tell him that you love him, and you arent going to break up with him (oh yeah, I think you shouldnt break up with him). Tell him that you want to have a trust there, and that he should be able to tell you the truth and not hide anything from you. Tell him no matter what he says you wont get mad, (that way if he does cheat on you or whatever you think might happen, happens he can tall you and not keep it from you) tell him that sometimes you get angry about things, but you still wish he would tell you the whole story about things, because that way you don't have to worry about whats going on behind your back, and you can trust him fully.
If you tell him that, and hope that he listens and knows that you are serious, then he will be willing to show you the truth and hopefully you wont feel the need to worry about that girl and her blog. You've got him and she doesnt, so you should be happy that you have an awesome loving guy right? :D.
I hope I helpped, if you need anything else let me know,
Love ya,
Angie91
Well if he keeps doing the things you don't like, what you need to do, it outline what he is doing "wrong" and tell him if he continues doing those things, you are going to have to end the relationship. Ask him if it's clear? And then if it is and you catch him doing it again, its time to end it. I hope it doesnt come to that though. If it does, let me know if you want some moving on tips, I've got ya covered!
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