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describe myself hmmm well im a wild out going girlie!
im from england, i've been through a hell of alot with parents... counsellors... social workers... sex...pregnancy... relationships.. long distance love... all that so you can ask me almost anything!
my friends say im good at advice but i dno lol i do try my hardest if i dont know what to say or the best option i dont say it saving people getting annoyed with me lol hehe!
drop messages in my inbox im more likely to answer then on the site :) xXx
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i'm in 10th grade/female and theres this boy i was talking to for about 4 months then we suddenly just stopped talking because of people making up all these rumors about us so he ended it cause he thought i was the one saying it all. for awhile i was ok with it but then i got the feeling i was never really over him. and now i can't stop thinking about him were sitll friends and i tried talking to him about it but he says things are just different now. how can i get over him, please help its been soo long since we stopped talking and i'm still not over him. like wtf? (link)
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rumous r stupid who believes them??? try talking to him and say that you didnt sthat the rumous, ask him why he decided to believe them in the first place, hun theres no way of really getting over somebody if he's a love you'll never get over him ever he'll still be there in your heart even if someone has hurt you so bad they'll be there, try going out with ya mates and spending lots of time having laughs u wont be thinking about him then, with time it wont hurt as much and u'll start to think why u liked him in the first place, good luck hun! x
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well, my bf and i go to diffrent schools so we try to hang out as much as we can inbetween my soccer and work for both of us. during the week i try to go over his house every night i dont have soccer adn she always fights with me about it...
i mean id have him over my house but she doesnt like people over??
what can i do to make things better between my mom and i? (link)
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try talking to your mum and find out the reason why he can't go round yours, and ask her why it's such a problem!
maybe your mum just feels like your spending so much time with him and she feels left out like all your attention on him. maybe she's just worried you'll get up to something you shouldn't be or she's worried you'll get hurt,
why don't you suggest u go on a mother daughter day go shopping or something when she feels she's not being felt out then say can he come over so she can really see what he's like and that he can really like him and that he's really worth everything hope it goes well hun xXx
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ok well i liked this boy for a really long time, and my friend told him i wanted to talk to him. Turns out he has a girlfriend but what got me was what he said. "I have a girlfriend now, but maybe when we break up." ok who says that? am i overreacting or something cause now i dont even wanna talk to him. Who thinks about when theyre gonna break up with the person they're with? does he think hes a pimp or something? ugh.. i jus wanna see someone elses view. thannks! (link)
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your not overreacting at all!! i wouldn't want to talk to any person that said that about me, and if i was his girl friend and found out that no matter how much i liked him i would dump him he's obviously a user and likes playing with girls's minds he's just not worth it and u can do so much better then him hun!
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I recently started dating a guy with a very very close family. I am 22, he is 24, and still living with his parents while he saves up to buy a house. The problem is that I'm starting to see signs of his parents making too many decisions for his life.
First of all, he is christian, and quite religious. Me and him have made the decision to wait to have sex, at least for now. I think this is a personal decision that is between me and him.
He stays at my house sometimes, and has already slept in the same bed at me while staying at my mothers house, at my house, and at my sisters house. There is not a problem with this because we are both adults, and are very capable of making out own decisions.
But, recently he told me that he doesn't think he should stay at my house anymore because his parents are already getting suspicious. He has already told him that we're not having sex, but, apparently, they don't believe him, and are trying to stop anything from happening.
Another thing is that I'm planning a trip to Florida, and he really wants to go. He is allowed two weeks vacation from work, and would only need one week. The problem is that he works for his father. I would not see a problem if his father told him "I don't think I can give you the time off, because I need your help here" But, instead, he said "I don't think you should go because you need to save your money"
This guy is 24 and is capable of making his own decisions on where he sleeps at night and what he spends his own money on.
I'm wondering how I could make this clear to him, that it bothers me, without making it uncomfortable. I do not want to make things uncomfortable for me and his parents, him and his paretns, or me and him. Any advice would be much appreciated. (link)
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i don't know if this would work but you could print off what you just said and "accidently" leave it somewhere and when he comes round he would see it or even write in a diary or somewhere in your own words pretending it's to someone else when he see's your feelings he will really care and talk to you about it..
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Hey my name is Chad im 21. I met this girl last october online and we have been talking since then. I called her a few times but her sister ratted her out and since then I havent been able to call. By the way shes 18 and her name is Emily. In march I asked her out and we have been close since then but its come that time we really want to meet. Thing is they are are christians and her mom thinks I only wanna take her virginity. Her step dad just left sunday so its only the mom, her and her sister. I really want this relationship to work and so does she but, I need to know some ways to prove to her mom that I really just want to be with her daughter for a serious relationship and not for sex. Any ideals? (link)
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me and my boy friend have the same problem apart from im 14 and he's 16 he's a different religion and his mum HATES! me and if he does something wrong she'll blame it all on me! i met him online and started tlking to him on the phone then i met up with him (he said he was going to his mates house and we were going out 3 months) when we found out if we definatly liked each other we met up more and had to go behind his mum's back but.. when his mum found out we had been going out 6 months she wouldn't talk to him for like a week she wouldn't say a word,he wished that he told his mum from the start.. even if she was mad she wasn't able to turn off feelings that he had for someone.. she would have a face it one day
hope this helped ya hun!
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Ok i know im kidna old but I had a babysitter kind of coem ovr after school till my dad comes home. Shews was 21 and really cool, im 13. Last week she left and i was really sad i cried, i know this is wierd but do you guys think im over reacting. She came everyday for 2 years. (link)
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awww babe no that aint over reacting at all! im sure if someone close to me went away like that after knwoing them so long i would cry too..
u know people say just let your tears out.. well that just shows it's alright to cry.. you shoudln't hold something in, it only makes things worse and i'm sure you will see her soon enough she'll come visit you and you'll go see her, you'll talk to her on the phone i'm sure!
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i feel terrible, because my friend told my other friend that i like him and now hes mad at me. im really mad at the friend who told him because i didnt want the one i like to know because i already knew i couldnt have him and i didnt need proof. I dont know what to do, how can i get him to stop being mad at me?
And my other friend, i thought he was mad at me but hes not, and when i said i dont have anyone left he said "you got me" and i said not really because i feel like your slipping away" and hes like, "well im not" and now i feel like hes so sweet, so i dont deserve him.
also, i feel really sick, like im holding it all in and i just wanna let it go but i can't, anyone know how i can cure this?
also, my 2 friends were talking to me, and the one said ive been in a bad mood lately, and the other one said i need a vacation to relive all the stress, but the only reason im in the bad mood is because the friend i think is so sweet keeps talking about this girl who i dont care about, because i just stopped liking him and im just getting over it, and he knows im sick of hearing it, and i think he's trying really hard now not to talk about her, but i still feel like thats all he can think about.
thanks.
love much (link)
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awww hun! well the friend that told the guy you like that's selfish that isn;t your fault at all so don;t go blaming yourself over something like that..
you mya not think it but i guess the guy that says he cares really does maybe your just feeling so slow right now you don't think anyone can care about you, there really is people that genuinally do care and i think he is one of them!
if you feel like you are holding it in why don;t you go to a sister?? your mum??? a close girlie mate someoen that you can really trust and wont tell anyone..?
why don;t you try talking to that boy again say that u knwo my feelings i don't like you talking about this girl im sorry but it's bothering me, tell him how you feel and see what he says..
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hey all how i could i convince my parents to let me get a cell phone they said when i start working i could maybe get a cell phone and it's not because so many people have cellphones i just want one i don't know what to do but now they won't pay for it now they said i don't need one i don't know what to do tips ideas etc.... thanks (link)
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hmmm trying to remember when i got one...
do u go out alot??
say that your always having to use a friends phone to call them and that if there was an amergency what would you do??
say that you would keep it up with the costs and that you wont use it for messin about with! good luck! xXx
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they say eyebrows define your face or something. Well you see,my eye brows are PITCH BLACK and my hair is,well its light brown. I wanted to no any good styles so it dosent look like i made to much brow be gone,but enough to make it look good! [[i was thinking along the lines of jojo's eyebrows.]] Please Help. (link)
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go to a place where they wax eye brows talk about the shapes you want they will help you and i'm sure if you take a picture of Jojo they can help sort out the shaping then u'll knwo where the pluck from then on good luck! xXx
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I saw the Grudge last night, and I thought it was pretty scary,and now I'm really scared. Like when I'll be in my room, (my light always does this)the light will go on and off and I've never been scared by that, and now I'm totally freaked out! what should i do?!! (link)
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hehe i watched that yesterday, i got a bit freaked out the best thing is watch another movie like a really girlie one, get into it and you'll really forget about everything that happened in the grudge it really does work! xXx
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I have naturally straight hair, but my cuzin (Nikki) ahas straight also, but she somehow gets it superr straight! She wont tell me how she does it. And i dont have enough money to buy a new straigter. (i have one but it works for freakin crap) (link)
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if you have a hair dryer you can get attachment which has this straight edge kind of effect and also with some hair dryers you get this brush type thing with ceramic brissels it's really good and makes it dead straight!
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do most girls shave their pussys? (link)
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i know this sounds kinda weird, but what age do most girlies start shaving down there??
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Alrighty. I like a guy named Dylan. He's not cute. I don't know him. Yet, I still like him. I can't sleep at night because of him, and I feel it isn't fair. I want to do something about it. I want to ask him out. But I have never asked anyone out yet or had a boyfriend, but I think I am now ready and mature enough. My best friend told him that I liked him, and he replied, "I know." Now what? I mean, I want to get to know him, but we are both shy people. How do I get to know him? Then, how do I ask him out? What do I do? (link)
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ask him out you can't lose anything! if your really scared get talking to him find his real personality, if he mentions you liking him then say well how do you feel about me, if he's confident then he'll give you a straight answer.. go for it!! GOOD LUCK !!
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i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him
i really don't kow what to do (link)
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thats mean of her to do that can you really call her that good of a friend if she would start rumours about you...
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ok im always nervouse and shy around my boyfriend im just not comfortable around him yet and hes shy all togehter so how do we break the ice to were it can just be fun and relaxed to hang around him. (link)
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i use to be like that, hang around with other guys to make you less shy around them just imagian your talking to one of your other girly mates, just change the convosation a little lol, he'll get the hang of it and talk back to you, try making a few jokes about how you like guys that are confident he'll pick up on the hints
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how do you get a girl that is a pussy to tell you stuff to tell you how she really feels...cuz its getting pretty annoying...
(P.S. my guy friend asked this question...not me--no, not a lez) (link)
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you start by not calling her names then you get to know her a bit and she may become interested in you, don't be too forceful thought you may hurt her!
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