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Trying to get a mom to like me...
Hey my name is Chad im 21. I met this girl last october online and we have been talking since then. I called her a few times but her sister ratted her out and since then I havent been able to call. By the way shes 18 and her name is Emily. In march I asked her out and we have been close since then but its come that time we really want to meet. Thing is they are are christians and her mom thinks I only wanna take her virginity. Her step dad just left sunday so its only the mom, her and her sister. I really want this relationship to work and so does she but, I need to know some ways to prove to her mom that I really just want to be with her daughter for a serious relationship and not for sex. Any ideals?
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Actions speak louder than words. You will just have to show her that you are polite and will treat her daughter with respect. Of course you will have to meet her in order for that to work.
You can't really blame mom for being skeptical of an online relationship. She wouldn't be a very good mom if she weren't. Hopefully when you meet them...and I would ask to meet them as a group first, she will see that you are sincere. :)
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me and my boy friend have the same problem apart from im 14 and he's 16 he's a different religion and his mum HATES! me and if he does something wrong she'll blame it all on me! i met him online and started tlking to him on the phone then i met up with him (he said he was going to his mates house and we were going out 3 months) when we found out if we definatly liked each other we met up more and had to go behind his mum's back but.. when his mum found out we had been going out 6 months she wouldn't talk to him for like a week she wouldn't say a word,he wished that he told his mum from the start.. even if she was mad she wasn't able to turn off feelings that he had for someone.. she would have a face it one day
hope this helped ya hun!
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You could start by not going behind their backs, and go meet them face to face.
I'm a female, but I'm in a similar position. My boyfriend is 24, and his family is quite religious. Me and him have already talked about sex, we both have different views, but we've decided to wait for now. My mother knows this, and she knows I have no reason to lie to her. But, his parents don't seem to believe him. They don't like him staying at my house, and don't want him to take a trip with me.
I'm starting to think that they will eventually begin to think of me as a bad influence more and more. I wouldn't pressure him into anything of course, but if he stays up late talking to me for instance, then they will blame me if he ends up waking up late, and misses a couple hours of work that week.
Basically, I'm trying to be honest about myself, and be open with his parents. I would definately suggest going to meet her mom, be nice to her, be all polite and stuff. Also, treat Emily very respectable and all that good crap.
They are most likely going to be hesitant at first no matter how nice you are. But it ultimately has to be up to Emily. Once you and Emily are together for a while, they will begin to see that your a good guy and not just in it for sex.
But, whatever you do, don't try to hide the fact that your dating and sneak around.
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