My name is Jillian and if you've got a question, I'll answer it the best I can.
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well last night i spent the night at my boyfriends house because his parents were out of town . we had sex like 5 times all night . but everytime he cummed , he pulled away &nd we stopped for a few minutes . one time there was a little bit of cum next to my vagina &nd i think may just A LITTLE tiny bit might of actually touched my vagina , but if any did at all , it wasnt alot . could i possibly get pregnant for just a little bit touching ? &nd i woke up this mornign &nd my stomach has been hurting ever since &nd i even felt like i was gonna throw up a couple times today . does that mean anything ? its jsut the next day , that doesnt mean anything about what happened last night right ? (link)
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take a pregnancy test to be sure.
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Well, I'm 14/f and I have these purple...bags, i guess you could call them, under my eyes. They're not like PURPLE PURPLE. they're like...not even purple. They're really annoying, and whenever i take a picture, that area under my eyes comes out dark & unattractive. Does anyone know what these are, and how i can fix them? thanks in advcancee =) (link)
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Sometimes not getting enough sleep makes them. get 8 to 9 hours per night. sometimes stess can do it too. when i get them make up helps XD it dims down the color.
But sleep is the key I'm tellin yuh
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I know this sounds totally stupid, and i feel like really dumb for saying this but whatever, okay so im like a 34a getting to a b-cup but i don't have clevege, how can i do this? people joke around with me sometimes, and then i see other girls who have it, how do they do it? and dont say like "you dont need to" or anything, is it a push-up bra or something? tape? or i have no idea. but help, because my friends need this to haha. [[ also i have no idea what catagorey to put this in ]] (link)
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uh you have to be born with it XD either you have it or you dont.
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I need some serious help.
Okay, I'm 17/m and was hit by cupids arrow about a year and a half ago. However, recently my gf, that I'm still completely in love with, has gone out of town and out of reach (3 hour drive with no car working full time at a restaurant) for the entire summer.
Now, there's this friend of mine. She's very cute in her own way and because of mine and her past relationship were really flirty when were by each other. The thing is I can't control myself when I'm close to her and I go completely nuts (out of my mind) and do things I would never even think about with any other woman (except my gf). I guess what I'm trying to ask is, how do I keep myself from having to make that decision without hurting anyone.
P.S. I'm still extremely in love with my gf as far as I've told her I want a family with her.
Thank you for all your help. (link)
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I think you should limit yourself to hanging out with your cute friend. If you really love your girlfriend then you would be willing to make a few sacrifices for you and your girlfriend's relationship.
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How do you feel pretty when you're completely different from everyone else?
I can't help but pick my flaws out. I'm not fair skinned or have that off the beach tan. I have big eyes but not big eyelids. My eyebrows are small. My hair is dark brown as well as my eyes.
Everyone seems so attractive to blondes, big eyes, colored eyes.. tans.. just so pretty..
and I feel like a child because I look different :( i don't know how to think differently.. I've been told I'm attractive.. but there's so many people that look similar and I feel out of the loop. But then again, I don't care much to be in it. I just feel like I'm there and unworthy to be a model. (link)
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but...why would you want to look like everybody else? the blonde hair, tanned skin, blue eyes, etc. thats overdone and its nice to see somebody who looks different once in a while, you know? you just have to love what you have and what you were born with. the natural stuff is the prettiest.
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what do girls like to see guys do. This may seem stupid, but im wondering what girls like to see and what gets them going. Also what qualities do girls like in guys. (link)
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girls will fall for a sensitive guy in a split second. like if he shows qualities like being caring and stuff like that. like if the guy has a really little sister or brother and he actually plays with them and acts big-brotherly to them. not like an ass "GET OUT OF MY ROOM" type of stuff.
also, some other qualities girls love in guys is guys wanting to protect the girl. protecting a girl is a way of saying nothing should happen to her because shes special. and girls love that a lottt
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in youtube there are tons of comments on girls that love emo boys because of their side parted hair,makeup,tight girl jeans and stuff.I was wondering why is that so? i mean i understand the hair maybe,but why do girls go for guys that look like.....girls? with their makeup and tight jeans? don't girls like macho man who wear boyish stuff? please clear my confusion thanks.
p.s:besides the above,comment on what else you like about emo kids. (link)
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emo guys are sensitive. they actually share their feelings with girls. unlike macho guys.
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lets say you were going out with me would you say im pretty ...or fat??
heres my link:
http://www.slide.com/mscd?pxcid=nFE7FaWfGOKBFiZSt6-jrMZ9yeyB1LJkFwA9MCVY7ZjzLlPszA3OtdH0IcYXQABt&pxciid= (link)
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You aren't fat at all don't worry. love yourself; never doubt.
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Hey, basically I've decided to cut off all contact with this person. And it's been about 5 days now, problem is, they haven't called at all. That obviously makes me feel like shit, like they don't care at all that we're not talking, etc. But I CANNOT/WILL NOT call them. I need some willpower, basically someone to say some things that will help me NOT call him. He is 17/m, I'm 16/f. PLEASE help, I DO NOT want to give in, but it hurts that he doesn't show he cares at all! THANKS! (link)
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if he doesn't care you aren't talking, why should you care? obviously he's an ass and why would you want to call somebody that doesn't care if you're in their life or not? you just have to think "i dont need him" and know you're doing the right thing for you.
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I was wondering how long it takes for Tylenol PM to take effect as in make you sleepy. & is it okay for ppeople to just sell it without perscription? Couldn't someone like OD on it [as in the making you drowzy part]and die or something?
Yeah, I know. I wonder about weird things =P (link)
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i'm not sure how to answer this. but the less medication you have in your body, the better. all medicine can go wrong and its not ok to become dependent on any kind of medicine.
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Why is it so bad to exercise before I go to bed? That's the time when I usually want to? (link)
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because exercising, as odd as it sounds, gives you a bit of energy and makes you more awake.
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I have the, what people would call "jewish nose". It's seriously myth. lol. But yeah, "it's" very obvious. And today, I was just randomly talking to a guy friend...and he says that my "Jewish nose" is very ...well, it shows a lot. I feel extremely offended. Should I feel this way?
[By the way...sorry if this offends anyone :O. I don't believe in it myself] (link)
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hm. you should love your "jewish nose" and its his problem if he thinks it shows too much >> it was rude of him to say that and he's probably insecure, himself. i would be a tad embarassed and maybe offended. but just brush it off your shoulders.
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so I am 17 girl. I have always had a problem with guys. They all think i'm hot, i have no problem getting their attention. But i am not easy (don't want to give you the wrong impression). I have always treated the guys i'm with extreemly well, (not a bitch, not clingy,..and so on) but the guys always treat me like shit.. and basically just play me, it sucks and 90% of my relationships end up with me getting hurt and them not giving a shit. now the other side of my problem, i get some guys that i am not interested in at all and never have been, obsessing over me. i hate being mean so i have a hard time getting rid of them, but i don't lead them on at all. Do i just let them keep liking me and let them figure it out or do i say something, because so far the ignooring hasn't been working, and the last thing i want is to come off as a bitch. And i don't want the guys i like to think of me as their bitch.. so what do i do? (link)
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i think you should try to go out with a guy you wouldn't normally date. maybe one of them that obsesses over you. i think you'd be surprised. and if the other guys think you're their bitch, slap them in the face and walk away. because you deserve better. plus, a lt of guys in high school are immature pigs. just remember that haha
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I'm really confused and worried about my vagina. I don't know, I just don't think it looks normal.
On the lips, it's a brown color, and I don't think it should be. And my actual vagina is closed, i guess. Like, it doesn't look like a hole, and it won't open unless i physically take my fingers and open it. Because there's like a piece of skin that's over my vagina, almost. And there are these two little pieces of skin that are coming out of it.
I'm just paranoid now, because I can't put a tampon in unless I hold it happen, and how can I have sex is my vagina is like, closed?
I don't know. Is this normal? Or does it sound normal, at least? I've actually tried googling for pictures of regular vaginas, that's how paranoid I am. But i just get really innapropriate pictures. I know this sounds really weird. But I don't think this is normal? Well, is it? 14/f (link)
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hmmm if you're that concerned about it, ask a doctor or a gynocologist(sp?). hich is the vagina doctor. they would know best. at this point talking to your mom first would be a good idea.
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does smooching causes pregnancy? (link)
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im not sure i understand this question. but if you are already pregnant and the baby is late you can enduce labor with smooching.
but if you WANT to get pregnant and you thinksmooching will do the job, it won't. their are no eggs in your mouth and no sperm in his.
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ok i have 2 questions plz answer both( there kinda weird but i need to no)
1: where do you put in a tampon i no its in your vigina but wear in it??
2: if i put it in doesnt it mean like im not a virgin anymore because if you put it in its like i dont know but if you no what i mean then please tell me
P>S my mom says that im still to young ot use one so i dont no if i should and i hate pads ..
14/f (link)
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ok you're right about the pads thing those are just pure nastyness. with tampons, you have to do some trial and error. at first you may put it in the wrong way or in the wrong hole and it would hurt to even walk a step but you just gotta take it out and try again until you put it in to where you cant feel it there. when i first started using tampons, (at 13 so you are old enough) , it actually helped to read the little directions that came in the box. they had pictures and i figured out exactly how to put it in right. when you put it in you dont put it up you slant it a little back. also the best ones to buy are the ones that cost more :/
and no. you are still a virgin if you use tampons. tampons dont break your virginity, penises do. people spread rumours of stupid things XDD
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how do i get rid of laugh lines? i can't smile because my face is fat (link)
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I say you don't need to get rid of your so-called "laugh lines". Why do you need to get rid of them? Why do you need to stop smiling because you think you're fat? life is too short; smile and be happy and love yourself, because the time you worry about your weight and your appearance, you can never get back. you cant rewind life. love yourself. dont focus on your bad points. just the good ones.
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13/f ( I NEED HELP, NOW!)
So recently my friends dyed their hair pink, they thought it was like a temp. 6-8 washes will get it out sort of thing. They found out it was permanent..and that they would have to grow it out, or cut it to get the pink out.
I really wanted to dye my hair pink..but now i'm deciding between Pink and Blue..i have a dirty blonde/brown hair color. My mom wants me to get highlights. Plz tell me your opionion..and if i should TEMP or PERMANENTLY dye my hair
THANKS SOOO MUCH! (link)
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if you really want to dye your hair, do it temp first. so if you dont like it, it'll come out easy. then if you really do like it, make it permanent the next time.
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Ok so I have this guy friend and ive known him for like 3 years and ive had a crush on him since i met him. he knows i used to like him and actually he thinks i still do like him. but ive accepted that he doesnt like me back so im over it. but whenever i introduce him to one of my friends, he ends up liking them better and hanging out with them more then he did with me. i'm sick of it, but he still wants us to be good friends. how do i overcome this? also,the friend i introduce to him usually ends up liking him [hes charming e_e] and then talking about him 24/7 to me. its happened way to many times with the same guy friend! (link)
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When you look up the word "Flirt" in the dictionary, im pretty sure this guys picture will come up! This sounds like torture for you, and only YOU can end it... and the only way to do that is to get rid of your problem. And by problem I mean "mr. guy friend." It would definitely help if you told him that you are uncomfortable with him flirting with your friends, even though he knows you are over him. If he seems to understand and possibly change, (miracles DO happen...) then you will be able to continue this friendship. I know it will be tough to discuss your problems with him, because im sure you still have an INKLING of feelings for him! I think you can do it, and you will probably have to if you want to take the weight off your shoulders!
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Hey everyone,
I've come to the realization that I should probably just get over my guy friend that I like a lot. I always thought that maybe him and his girlfriend would end, but its up to their 6th month together, and when he's on the phone with her thats the only thing he talks about. I text him a lot, and we always had been good friends since 3 years ago but since he has been going out with his girlfriend we've kinda slipped. I'd just like to know what I can do to get him out of my head, to stop looking at his myspace and texting him and basicially just torturing myself!
Any advice would be helpful.
Thanks so much (link)
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Maybe hanging out with some other guy friends [or meeting new guy friends] would help. you just have to discipline your mind; if you start thinking about him, quickly think about something else like what you want to do for that day or how fun it would be to see Dane Cook live. you know? Or maybe think about his flaws instead of his positives. It will get you thinking, "hm hes not as great as i thought :D"
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