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5'10
130 lbs
16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
1 tattoo
no regrets




"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


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hey i have a question for all guys: are guys turned off by big feet? i wear a size 8 1/2, and so i was just wondering. thx for all answers, i'll give all NICE answers 5s! ♥

Ahahah not really, it doesnt really matter, its not like they go up and measure. Im size 10 and at times 10 1/2 and nobody seems to really care. it might be cuz im around 5'10 but hey. Haha dont worry its not horrible. Good luck with your feet!

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so i got my hair cut today and i wanted it to my shoulders, she cut it to the bottom of my ears instead and i hate it, i think it looks so bad. is there anything i can do to make it look better?
and please dont tell me to grow it out, thats common sense

aw i hate when that happens. use bobby pins and cute clips to take small sections of ur hair and clip them back or something that looks cute!!

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Why is everyone"s belly button different because i have a belly button fetish and i was just wondering+.

Hmm, well i noticed that theyre is basically just an innie or outie, and then those differ. its like hair, eyes, lips, face, breasts, etc. everyone's is different; basically..yeah BYe

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I just wanted to get this off my chest and I wanted to know if it seems as though I'm going through alot for my age...I'm only 13. Here goes.
I did drugs (cocaine, and pills), I was constantly getting in fights, I've been to court 11 times, arrested 3 times, longest was for 7 months, I've been taken away from my family for a little while because I needed "help", I had a boyfriend for three years,then we got into a fight because he was moving, as soon as he left my house after the arguement he got into a fight with these people, got hit in the back of the head and died before I could say sorry about the fight, I never told my parents, they still don't know about it, after that I started to get into cutting, then I tried to kill myself by doing the following : drown myself, hang myself, stab myself in the stomach, from which I now have a scar on my stomach, had to stay in the hospital for that for a couple of months, then got taken away from the family again, then after I got out I tried to shoot myself but accidently left it on that safety thingy and couldn't get the nerve to do it again, I tried to get an ex whom was the boyfriend at rhe time to shoot me and he almost did 'til his mom walked in, I got taken away from the family again after that and was gone for about a year, he got arrested, and then I got heavier into cutting to the point where I would cut everyday even without a reason. That's when I got into the drugs then I got expelled, got sent to rader, my family now does not mention me to friend's, they tell me to my face that I'm an embarrassment, they all tell eachother they love eachother in front of me but have not once said it to me. Then I became bulimic, then anorexic, then after I stopped I found out my mom was over dosing and was bulimic and still is to this day. My brother might die at any moment because he now has heart problems and he's supposed to take medicine to help him but he doesn't take it, my parents are trying to get me sent away to korea or tennessee so I'll be out of their lives but none of my relatives in either places want me with them, I have no clue what's going on in my life anymore, my family insult me constantly, my dad and brother both hit me and I have serious health problems ( I get headaches at a minimum of 4 times a day, I pass out at least once every other week, and i throw up at least twice a week and I have no idea why) and my parents won't take me to the doctor to find out why, they've told me they hate me, and I do not understand myself whatsoever, and my parents told me pretty soon they plan on kicing me out with out a place to go and I'll just have to find out how to take care of myslef, and are trying to get me sent to a "institute" for help. And I was forced into sex because the person threathened me and I don't know if that is considered rape. Am I going through too much for my age?

Sorry it was so long...

Youre certainly going through alot.
&& i know how that is. i keep myself through each day telling myself, that all i really have is myself. i try to stay away from the drugs and before i do everything i think about it. My family are drug/alchohol addicts and abusers..i've gotten myself up on my feet. just try every day to get through it. i've learned to deal with my health problems myself. what you actually can do-only if you want- is call child services. they will put you with a different family-but thats something you need to think about 'do i really want this'. you'll never know whats going to happen tomorrow. and try as much as possible to stay away from your family. try staying after as long as possible in school and maybe going to a friends house or something. dont try suicide because its not an answer, its an escape. "we were meant to live for so much more"
--for now just be true to yourself and try not to let anyone let you down&be strong. Stand up for yourself. You've been through so much you should already have strength built up inside of you. You can also go to a school counsiler and tell them whats going on because, in my opinion, this is pretty serious. I went through a suicidal stage in my life too and ive gotten out of it and i am so glad i did because honestly, theres a lot to live for. It's hard to talk to other poeple about these kinds of things because it seems like everyone around you has a pretty good family so try talking to an adult, or instant message me on aim:slipping awayx96 if you want someone to talk to.
sorry if my answer doesnt help that much, i just wanted to say that youre not alone and that things will get better. good luck child.

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Okay Does anyone know what I can use to wash my face in that will not make my face dry and will make it soft. I use Irish Spring soap it it like makes my face peel and makes it really dry it seems like it tightens my skin up or something. So does anyone know of anything like soap or face wash that want dry my skin out and make it feel soft?

theres specially formulated face soaps for dry skin by neutogena, clean and clear, etc. I'd say try something by Aveeno, theyre really good for dry skin. try looking on the bottle for something like "dry skin formulated" "for dry skin", etc. Oh and also umm cetaphil is good for dry skin, but its kinda pricey. Theres alot of different products to buy so good luck!

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Hey has anyone seen SAW 2? Can anyone tell me if it was scary? like REALLY scary? Or what about SAW 1? was that one scary? like REALLY REALLY scary, like would it make a girl cry? Cause i guy just asked me to see saw II..and i wanna say something like " o wow, you're gonna have to sit pretty close to me cause i cried my eyes out during the first one ;)" or just..cause the first one freaked me out..or whatever. Just to flirt a little you know =) So can anyone just tell me briefly what it was about??

aw saw 2 was awesome!! This guy takes people adn traps them into this house..some of it is more gross than scary. ..like the things that theyre supposed to do in order to live are pretty nasty haha. its one of those that you have to pay attention to. what you can do is say something like "o wow, youre going to have to sit pretty close to me because scary movies freak me out' or soemthing about it being gross or something. its a pretty awesome movie
AND STAY AFTER FOR TEH CREDITS TO LISTEN TO THE MUDVAYNE SONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DO IT!!!!!!!!

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What does OMFGOZORS stand for?

O-oh..M-My...F-fucking..G-God...and then just ozors..sometimes its just to make fun of people that are "lol LOL OMG OMFGzzz"
hope i help..

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Hey guys,
I'm gonna be getting some money soon, and I was wanting to get my nose pierced. If any of you have it done, can you let me know how bad it hurt, and how much it was for yours to get done? If you can also can you please let me know what side of your nose your supposed to get pierced? Thank you so much! :-)

wow. okay..its about 30 dollars. and the pain, hardly any whatsoever. im not gonna tell you it doesnt hurt because usually if someones getting a metal needle impailed through their flesh..its going to cause some pain. so yeah it hurt the least out of all my peircings. and i have 11.

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this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much

Ugh, this guys a jerk and you shouldnt be wasting your time on someone who is treating you like crap. It'll be hard, but in my opinion you should just somehow write a note, letter, or email telling him how you feel, and that you guys just shouldnt be friends with each other anymore because all its doing is causing you pain that you don't deserve. But you dont have to do this i just think it would be a better idea than you going through all this confusing jerk crap that hes making you do. I hope i help and that you dont let this guy get to you. good luck

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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much

Wow...ok. Well..seems to me he could be ignoring you because you said you werent over the other guy but the only way to know is if you ask him, and you did, and he was 'watching a movie'....ignoring you. He couldve been upset because you said you werent over the other guy..and it sounds like he liked you from the way he was acting the other night. im not really sure what to say for this question, but i hate rejecting questiosn, so i'd say just ignore him untill he wants to talk to you again.
good luck dear

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I need a good long list of emotions/broad topics, such as HUNGER, ELATION, IDIOCY. At least 5 if you can? PLEASE do not say "happy" "sad" "love" anger"! And if you say "Idk lol hope I helped!" I'll give you a 1 and report you. Get to work!

Thanks!

VENGANCe

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This is for people who go to University High In Normal, IL. Are there dances like homecoming or whatever there??? If not, what DO they have?

hmm i live in chicago but ive heard of normal, il..if you have a myspace you can just search for users that go there and then send them an inbox asking them that. good luck!!

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Do guys find stretch marks unattractive?

i hope not.
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my friend is looking to buy a "riddell" protective padding piece for football. it is in the shape of a cresent moon.. what is it for?

im thinking its for your penis. and im not kidding.
but it might be for the shoulders, but probably for the penis, because penis and football dont make good matches.

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i well i got a cold sore yesterday and its not herpes or nething..and i have abreva...but my ? is..do u kno of ne way to make it go away faster?

thanx a bunch!!

okay i get cold sores ALL the time so trust me put some vinegar on a cotton ball and keep it on there for a long time, it dries up the cold sore, i had one IN MY NOSE so you cant imagine whats it like sleeping with a vinegar cotton ball in my nose, and one time it dripped into my mouth and vinegar tastes SOOOO BAD!!salty! haha anyways..vinegar works for a lot of things haha alot of the questions i recently answered..i said to use vinegar haha yay for vinegar. okay good luck cuz cold sores SUCK!

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My friend was smoking joints in my car yesterday and now my car smells like weed. How can I get the smell out? Other than airfreshner

hmm roll the windows down and put a full cup of vinegar in the car for like 24 hours it absorbs the smell it works but be careful when your driving bcuz u dont want the cup to spill and smell all like vinegar..eww haha. good luck dear!

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ok all the time my hands get all clamy and sweaty and even after i put on lotion is there anything i can do or iam i stuck with clamy hands

Hmm there is a condition called hyperhydrosis when no matter what youre hands are sweaty, but hyperhydrosis is when theyre almost dripping with sweat, but you can try deoderants like certain dri that you get in walgreens or jewel, and just put it on and rub it in at night, or if that doesnt help you can go to the derm or order this suff called 'dry-sol' it works realy good on underarms i dont see why it wouldnt work on palms. Good luck!!

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well im 16 and im a gurl and im still a virgin in every way but what i want to know is ,is ok to masterbate and when you have sex for the first time does it hurt also when you masterbate does it feel different when you acually have sex or does the pleasure feel the same please help iam i disuging or normal

I dont really know cos i dont but..Umm its okay to do that, alot of people feel that way that they are weird cuz they masterbate. Its a natural thing that sexually mature humans do. Sometimes having sex for the first time hurts, only if hes too big, or something along those lines. I think that the feeling when you have sex is different instead of when you masterbate becuase is sex and it probably feels alot better. well i wouldnt know..yet xD. I hope i answered all your questions!! have fun lol.

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I knew the answer to this riddle when I was little, but I can't remember it now.

Here is the riddle:
What is greater than God
worse than the devil
the poor have it
the rich need it
and if you eat it, you'll die?

ahha yeah the answer is 'nothing'.

i like that one =).

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I don't think me and my boy friend are boy friend and girl friend.We never kissed.And now he lives in a different town but he comes over sometimes.

So whats your question??

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