I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
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Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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I like a guy that is nice, funny, but he flirts with everyone. We aren't really dating yet, but we like each other. How should/ or should i talk to him about being more of boyfriend and girlfriend? And if i do than how should i ask him? (link)
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hmm, really i'm not the best pick to ask on how, but just bring it up casually, like that you like *stuff about him* in a bf blah blah blah. that or you could just come right out and ask him, hey i think you're really sweet, and i think we'd make a good couple. so do you want to be my bf blah blah blah.
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There are 2 gusy i like. Guy 1- nice, funny, likes me, and cute. The bad side of him is that he flirts with almost everyone, and is older than me so doesnt really hang around my friends. Guy 2- sweet, shy at times, funny, cute. The bad side to him is i dont think he is that interested in me. Well i can't deside which one to choose, and if i choose guy 2 than how do i see if he likes me? (link)
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why do you have to chose?
no just kidding. just fallow your heart. after all, its you that knows truely which guy is ment for you. keep in mind, that when/if you chose one, that you have to kinda like cut ties with the other.
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I went out with a guy for about 9 months last year and it was the BEST thing that ever happened he was unbelievable, and I can't even tell you why we broke up because I don't even know why, I was being stupid thinking I didn't like him when I did. I have a problem of deciding to start a relationship because I always am afraid I will meet someone else during one and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but it never happens..i dunno i am just paranoid? It's been abouttt..6 months since we broke up, do you think it's okay to get back together? (link)
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yea. i think it is. and your being a tad bit paranoid, but your realizing that there are otehr people in the world, which is good. some girls get stupid and think that they're going to marry their boyfriends from like 7th grade.
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OK. i just bought this really cute mid-thigh length white denim skirt and i have no idea wut to wear with it. i know this is probably the stupidest question on here, but if you could help me, that'd be great.
o yea and i rate. (link)
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colored shirts basically. like white denim goes with anything. where like a red sweater or something.
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this guys at my school is so cute and funny and really awsome and nice, and i really like him.we're like best friends and people think he likes me which is great cuz i like him so we cold hook up or something...anyways the problem is i don't know how to tell him how i feel because i'm afraid he'll react badly to the situation and get all weird with me..how can i make sure none of that will happen and still know if he likes me? (link)
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umm sorry, but you can never be sure. friends are not the best credential for that either. they might think things that aren't true, or they might be trying to make you feel good or something stupid like that.
making the frist move is always nerve racking so you can a. drop huge hints (like billboard size) and flirt and wait for him to make the first move, or b. you can tell him about your feelings for him and pray or something. theres no garentee. sorry.
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I am soooooo entirly confused! See I've liked this kid named... well lets say CJ.... I've like CJ for 2 years now... and from what I know he hasn't liked me. We've been friends for 2 years and I want something more of our relationship. He's been dropping clues that he has liked me but he also did this before, like 1/2 a year ago. The other day I was talking to him online and he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no and asked y hoping he might ask me out... but he said "uhh...nvm gtg" and then he signed off. So I am totally confused and I need advice of if he likes me and also what I should do next....
~*Confused*~ (link)
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guys are always confusing, but i think this one has a diffinate interest in you, lucky! so sit back and relax and wait for him to make the first move.
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i have 3" zits all over my legs with 1" whiteheads.how do i get rid of them? (link)
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those are pretty big, so you might wanna go visit your dermatologist.
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does n e one know good ways to relive stress...i've been through a lot latley and i would like to know if there was n e thing i could do to help myself get over it!
MUCH THXZ (link)
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meditation, sports, exercise, chocolate :-), writing, drawing, singing, and in my case musical instruments, jazz, screaming into a pillow. theres this weird way of tightening your mussles, holding it for ten secounds and then slowly releasing it that illedgedly gives you some kind of mentle relief, but its never worked for me.
drugs are not an ansewer.
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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor? (link)
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LUCKY! nah, i don't think so. you may just be irregular. if you've had it for a while, like a couple years, and this is something new, then it might be a good thing to go see your doctor. always go see your doctor if you have concerns about your health.
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im a big christian. very religious--but the guy that i like, and likes me, is jewish. i know that sounds dumb, but seriously, i dont know how my parents would feel. what should i do if he asks me out? (link)
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date him. love knows no religon age sex ect.
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Okay, I'm a freshman and there's this junior in my spanish class. Well, I always catch him looking at me, like all the time. And he's REALLY cute. But he has a girlfriend, I'm just wondering.. but what do you think about this? His smile like melts me, and i'm just wondering if there's something there. (link)
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umm, think about it for a secound. you're fourteen/fifteen he's sixteen/seventeen. when you're twenty he'll be twenty-two. when you're 30 he'll be 32. now does that seem like such a huge age gap? 2 years is nothing!
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Ok, I'm 14/f
And there is this guy at my church. He is soo funny and he's a really good Christian, which is very important for me, and he has an awesome personality and is very fun to be around. The only problem is, he is really small. He is like 1/2 a foot shorter than me and weighs about 30 lbs less. Beside all this, I really like him a lot because of the inside, which is really what counts, but I'm afraid of what my friends would say if we dated. Because well, I've been known for going for the good-looking guys. So what should I do? (link)
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your friends opinion shouldn't matter to much, not to mention unless they're shallow they won't care. and reputations shouldn't matter to you if you really like this guy. date him anyway.
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This is a bit of a hot-button topic and I want everyone to know that I understand extreme responses, but I am asking here in the spirit of recieving support and suggestions. I'm interested in the practicalities of your opinions, here, not simply upon recieving judgement. PLEASE show some compassion and kindness.
So here's the deal: Next week I'm taking a plane flight to Scotland to marry my partner of 6 years. We have a very strong relationship. However, I feel I have very little on the level of practical support to offer in the relationship -- such as a finished education, a job, general income, etc. This relationship is my priority at all times and I will not compromise it for anything.
Recently, I was looking through job offers in a local paper and found an ad for escorts, offering daily cash, a safe environment, and training. According to the person running this service, an escort can make $10,000 a week -- with such an income, I could not only prepare MYSELF for travel, but I could help my incapacitated father a $1000 root canal on his last working tooth (his densures don't work for chewing), I could pay off ALL my college debts, and I could move on with my life.
However, I know that there are many negative aspects to consider in the world of escorting: disease, stigma, relationship integrity, and legality, as well as personal spiritual health & self-image.
If I lived in a world that had none of the above negative factors, I'd be all over the opportunity! Unfortunately, such a world doesn't exist, and I'm here asking you for alternate ideas, suggestions, anything really.
I'm stuck between my debts, my desire to contribute & not be dependent, my sense of responsibility, my feelings of inadequacy and desperation, and a general feeling that escorting is not something I should do, due to the risks. Help? (link)
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ok escourting as in a sexual escort is a very very bad idea. there is escorts that do not involve sex that might work out for you. however it would not only damage your health, but what if your partner found out about your escourting? If you're not willing to sacrifice anything for your relationship, then do not do that.
A good way to make quick money is magazine publication. its not time consuming and depending on how much and what you write (and if they except it of course) you could make a decent hunk of change. write for a local paper or something. you are a decent writer from your question.
you can always pick up another job and such. if he's willing to marry you, i doubt very much he's not too worried about how much you make on the "practical" end of the relationship if he loves you that much. yes ofcourse you need money and such, but don't offer yourself and decency for that. there are other ways.
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i dont know what to put this under .. but my back is KILLING me .. its like my upper back and idk it feels like someone is stabbing me in the back its all along my shoulders .. (link)
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if its not a mussle pain go to a doctor. if it is just mussle pain, or like stress on it, get some one to walk an your back, or stretch it out or somehting.
by not mussle pain, i mean like internal organ feeling kind of pain.
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Im going to get my ears piercing in about a half hour on a 1-10 scale how bad does it hurt? And do you think i should get a double piercing in a few months? (link)
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it doesn't hurt that much. i'd give it a 4. i was in secound grade when i had mine done, and i didn't cry. wait a little longer for the secound piercing because if one whole gets infected so will the other.
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Hi my name is jess and theres this boy in my school that new i got to know him good and he started to like me than i think we went out now hes saying that his dad says he's to young to go out wit anyone is he saying that for a eccuses or do u think its true.
ps can you tell me what i could do to go out with him
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hmm, if he likes you, then its true. if he doesn't than its an excuse. if its true, then there's nothing you can do but wait. if it isn't, flirt. flirt madly.
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OK guys.. A really cute guy likes me and invited me to go to his football game tomorrow since he's one of the starting players. I know to cheer for the team and when he does good, etc.. But I dunno if I'd be able to see him after the game. I want to see him but I don't want to wait around for him if he only wanted me to be there for support. So should I wait for him or just leave after the game ? (link)
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football games are fun even if you don't like the sport. take some girlfriends and all, sit in the stands and cheer your heart out. seriously, most people bearly watch the game. its like a huge social event. and if he's cute, imagine how cute he's going to be in a pair of tight shinny shorts . . .
hmm waiting for him after the game, that might not work out so well. coaches tend to talk to they're players after the game. as he's going out, call to him and like wave or something so he knows you're there. say you'll call him or something like that.
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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl? (link)
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no way. flirt all you want. open his eyes!
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this is going to be long...
I have this gut feeling that my brother is gay. I really believe that he is. I don't have a problem with it or anything because I love gay people. His best friend is bisexual even though he won't admit it. He's kissed guys in the back of school and I've seen him and he also kisses girls. So I pretty much know he's bi. So getting back to my brother, I just really think that he's gay! I swear it's like i have gay-dar or something like that, he's always staring at my boyfriend when he comes over, when he has his friends over, they are in his room for like 2 freakin hours WITH THE DOOR LOCKED and if he hears me walking up to the door he yells at me. I mean come on, he's never had a girlfriend and he always says he doesn't want one and that he'd never get married. He says, and I will quote, "Girls are a waste of my time." When I told some of my friends that I thought he was gay, they all responded with "I always knew something was up with your brother." Or something along those lines. Even guys that barely know my brother say that he's gay. My only worry is that my dad is homophobic, and my mom said that she'd be really upset if she found out that he was gay even though she has gay friends. How do I tell my mom of my suspicions? If it's true how would my dad react in the future when he comes out? How can I deal with this?? (link)
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you're father will love your brother unconditionally. tell you're father what you're worried about, but talk to you're brother first. make sure that he's gay and then he has to comfront him. there's nothing you can really do. sorry. but being gay is no big deal. being gay is just a part of life that your brother has to deal with. just support him. that's all you can really do.
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Whats a rebound girl? i think i kno but im not 4 sure lol i kno its a really dumb question but (link)
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after some one breaks up with their gf (in this case) its like the first person that he dates, usually like anywhere from a couple hours two maybe three weeks after a break up.
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