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Ok if u have sex in a pool or like in the shower pretty much in water and u dont wear a condom can n e thign happen like when the guy busts?!?!?!?!
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Yes,it can happen.IT being you getting pregnant or an STD being "exchanged".You do have options for protection in water such as the sponge and your basic spermicidal foams.Talk to your doctor about those or check out www.plannedparenthood.com for more information on them!!

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Well I'm not looking forward to a root canal I'm doing on my tooth after New Years..haha ive heard it hurts sooo much!!! and if ne of u has seen finding nemo the guy is like freaking out LoL! so if u have done a root canal or know someone who has tell me..does it hurt? a lot? what happens..thanks i'll rate high..even if your answer isint the best cuz i dont wanna be mean! haha

I had a root canal when I was 4-yrs-old!!It was my first ever trip to the dentist,haha! No,it's not as bad as some people make it seem.And any pain or discomfort will go away before you know it.They'll give you meds for the pain more than likely,and you'll just be kind of sore and blah for a couple days!! Trust me,I've had everything done to me just about:root canal,braces,tonsils and adenoids taken out,wisdom teeth cut out!! It's really not so bad!You'll be fine! If you have any more questions about it,drop me a line in my inbox!! :)

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I really need help... I started dating an ex of mine thursday night.. Well today we started fighting. My cousin told me that he was just using me for sex. and I guess I kinda believed it. but I've been acting kinda shady towards him and he asked why. So i kinda mentioned it to him. and now hes really pissed off.. he hates my cousin.. he doesnt want me around him when I'm with her. and I'm almost always with her. but then hes like I'm going to bed.. I was like dont be mad at me. and he got off.. didnt even tell me he loved me. I'm afraid I really ruined things with him. and I love him more then anything in the world. I dont/cant lose him.. HELP! I'm crying here.. I dont know what to do!!

Well,it sounds like you and this guy need to have a talk,face-to-face.What concerns me is the fact that he got so defensive so quickly when you mentioned what you had been told,and the fact that he is rude enough to TELL you not to hang out with someone,much less your own cousin.But,that's not to say he's guilty of anything.It's possible your cousin is jealous and fears he's going to take your attention away from her,and therefore was willing to say anything to break you up.But she could've been telling you the truth.I'm wondering why you say you believed it when she told you he was only using you for sex?Had you suspected this before?At any rate,sit down with your guy and let him know that you were just telling him what you had been told.Express to him how much you care about him,but that you need and deserve to know the truth.Also let him know that you don't appreciate him telling you who you can and can't hang out with!!He has NO right to do that!Never settle or let someone play you out like that.But for now,you don't know anything for a fact,so sit down and talk with your boy,give him a chance to give his side of the story!! Hope this helps ya some!Let me know what happens! :)

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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me

At your age,yes,age does matter!!There are so many differences between an 18-yr-old and a 13-yr-old I can't even begin to list them here!!But the number one thing-IT'S ILLEGAL!!!! It's totally normal and natural to fantasize about or crush on an older guy at your age.But look out for any 18-yr-old guy who will go after a 13-yr-old.His intentions are 9 times outta 10,NOT good!! I know you probably don't want to hear this but it's the truth.Don't worry about it,I'm sure you will find a good guy that's closer to your age!! ;)

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ok i know i had this questions earlier but i didnt ge tot see the answer to it... is getting your belly button peirced dangerous at all? and also is there an age where you to be old enough to get them peirced. thanx cuz i really want to get them done!!!!

It's not dangerous!! I'm not sure on the age factor.I know if you are under 18,you need a parent signature to get it done.But I'm not sure if there's an age that they consider too young!!

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Hey! I was wondering if anyone new any "Inspirational" Friendship type songs. The songs I have so far are; Wind Beneath My Wings, I Believe I Can Fly, I Turn To You, Live Like You Were Dying, Ask Me, Coming Out Of The Dark, Hero, Angel, Angels Among Us, Angels In Waiting, I'll Be (By Reba). I know not all of those are Inspirational songs. But if you know any that someone can realate to because of a hard time. Like Ask Me is about sexual abuse, or songs about anxiety or depression post them too! Thanks!

For some reason 3 Whitney Houston songs came to mind right away,maybe it's the name ;) But the songs are "Count On Me","Step By Step",and "My Love Is Your Love". Also,the Monica song "For You I Will".Celine Dion's "Because You Loved Me",R.Kelly's "The World's Greatest",Mariah Carey's "Through The Rain" and "Make It Happen".And for an upbeat twist,Destiny's Child's "Survivor"!! Hope I helped ya out some!! :)

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i can remember the title to this one song. but i know liek all the words n stuff. but it goes like this...love me love me say that you love me, need me need me, say that you need me, so i creid and i begged for you, love me love me, saythat you love me, fool me fool me go on and fool me, i cant care bout anything but you..." WHAT IS THAT SONG! ill rate really well!!!

I think it's called "Love Fool",and I know it's by The Cardigans,I remember seeing them perform it on a episode of 90210,hahaha!! ;)

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hey i downloaded some music from a website and i was just wondering how i can put that music on a blank CD if anyone knows how please tell me thanks

You'll need a program like Roxio Easy CD Creator(that's what I use).They make it very easy!Takes you thru it step-by-step!! You just insert a blank CD and follow the instructions!!Hope this helps you out some!! ;)

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okay.. i know this song.. but i dont know who sings it or what its called.. it goes.. cuz bak home.. we love to dance.. and we can be two steppin or ravin to trance.. and when the party is krunk.. the girls back it up.. we got sytems in the cars and 20's on the trucks.. and its a country/rap song.. thanks.. i will rate

That would be my boys Big & Rich,and the song's called "It's Rollin"!! ;)

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I get really bad migraines almost everyday. I've tried taking advil, bayer, exedrin migraine..almost every kind of aspirin, and nothing helps. My doctor doesn't want to prescribe something to me because I'm only 15. So my question is does anyone know of a way to relieve migraines? Not regular headaches but migraines..thanks

I get migraines too,and it is hard to get a doc to give you the meds for them because most of them are considered "controlled substances" and very strong drugs.I'm not sure of any other ways to help them,but to express to your doctor how severe they really are,and how much they hinder your daily activities.He may reffer you to a neurologist to run some tests and confirm that it's migraines you are suffering from.Once they determine for sure that it's migraines,the doc should be a little more willing to prescribe you the right meds!!Best of luck,let me know how you're doing!! :)

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I know silly question but I want my last day of summer last.. I thought you guys give me some ideas to do tommorw.. and beisde nobody dont want waste there last day of summmer. i mean i am ready to be a senior.. my point is i dont want to watch tv all day beecouse i want to do something keep me busy. thanks. i know few list clean,layout, what other 18 and up do with out job and cars and beise driving.. any tips.... I know worst advice qestion but oh well i just bored lol.. thanks

This may sound like a dumb idea,but maybe have your friends over and you guys can look thru old pictures and yearbooks of your last 3 years in high school!You guys can swap silly stories,and play some old songs that remind you of old times.Maybe you could all sit down and put together a scrapbook to commemorate your years of high school,and leave blank pages to be filled in with stuff from your senior year!Or maybe you could all write down your dreams and goals for the year and put them in a little box or something and put them away until graduation night!That way,you'll have time to talk about your future goals right now,and you'll have something special for graduation night!!!Hope this helps some! ;)

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Ok...so this is kinda gay..but how do you get those gorgeous jessica simpson soft curls...i have the tools and my hair is natrally curly ( but not the pretty curls the messed up ones)and i have mind you that my hair is THICK! ahh i love it some much

I have really thick hair too!! So,I feel ya! Hehe! First off,wash and condition your hair as usual,and add a little bit of volumizing/controlling mousee.Then blow dry your hair straight using a large round brush.After that,seperate your hair into 1 to 2 inch sections and spritz each section with a spray gel or a light hairspray before curling the section with either a large barrel curling iron,or setting it on some large velcro rollers.After you've finished curling it with the curling iron,or after the rollers are done doing their thing(hehe),let your hair down and tousle it with your fingers.Then spritz it with a shine/gloss spray to add shine and help get rid of the frizzies!!Hope this helps!! ;)

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ok, recently i jus started being a columnist (yea, and i need advice!!)Anyway, i dunno wats wrong wit me. But i started this on.... Aug. 16th i think, and since then only OnE person dropped a question in my inbox. I know i give good advice cuz my average rating wuz a 4.57, but then how cum i'm not gettin any questions?? Is it that i'm not being patient enuff, or wat? Cuz i'm thinking about quiting being a columnist. Help me out please. thanx

Answer some questions posted here on this part of the site,and leave your link in some guestbooks or sites where you're likely to get exposure!!Send me the link to your column and I'd be more than happy to post it up and tell people to check you out!! ;)

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recently i went away to sleepaway camp where i fell for this guy. He was cute nice and funny. I had such a blast with him. We went on a boat together and hugged. But then we had a dance and he and i just looked at eachother. But i seriousley thought he liked me! but then when another girl asked him dance he looked at me with a sad face.! The dance was the day b 4 camp ended and i dint get to talk to him again! He gave me his sn and stuff but hes never online!!!! I really wanna talk to him and find out if he likes me to or whatever. But im so confused does he or dusnt he like me and what shud i do?

It sounds to me like he probably does/did like you.He was probably hoping YOU would ask him to dance!!! ;) If you can't get ahold of him online,maybe one of your friends from camp has his number or something!!It's definitely worth a shot!! Best of luck girl!!! :)

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Hey there. Okay, I've been on birth control (Tri-Cyclen) for a week now ... and about 4 days into it I started getting cramps, and having diarrea. It continued like that for 2 days. I also have to pee like, every 15 minutes. lol. Is this normal, or should I talk to my doctor about it.

You might wanna check with your doc about that.Sometimes with the pill it's a trial-and-error sorta thing.I started on Tri-Cyclen and it didn't "agree" with me either,so I was switched.It differs for all girls,and I know a LARGE number of women who've had to be on 2 or 3 different ones until they find one that's right for them!!So I say check with your doctor!!See what he/she says!Let me know how you're doing!! :)

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im asking this question for my friend ... a few months ago she wanted to be homeschooled ... then she found this really nice boarding school that she liked A LOT! so she requested information and things of that sort on teh internet and things like that...well she was sure her mom was going 2 say yes...well her mom said that it was A LOT of money 2 pay especially shes one of four kids...four girls...so it kinda sux for her! i feel really badly for her and she asked me 2 write this...she cant go to the boarding school or homeschooled and she doesn't want to go 2 public/private school because in her area...they judge you at pub. and private school...

PLEASE HELP THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HER AND ME!!

AND AGAIN PLEASE HELP!!

That's tough!! She is going to have to get used to people judging her and making assumptions about her wherever she goes.But,if this is about getting a good education,that's another story.I was homeschooled for the last half of all 4 years of high school due to illness,and missing so much school.She may want to look into getting a private tutor,which she can speak to her school counselor about.Also,there are several internet homeschool programs where you do your school work over the internet,and the school sends you the books and such.You're required to take tests and everything else.That might be another route to look into.Go to yahoo.com or google.com and type in something like Online Homeschooling and see what you find there!!Hope this helps some!! :)

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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx

Honestly there's a big difference between Freshmen and Seniors.Not to be rude but usually,when a Senior is after a Freshman girl,it's for one real reason!You're probably a very pretty girl,and so the guys take notice of you pretty quick! ;) It sounds to me from the way you talk that you're already uncomfrotable with the idea of this party,so even if you went you wouldn't have any fun.And what good's a party if you aren't enjoying it??My advice,tell him thanks but no thanks.

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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(

Well,a lot depends on what it is he did to you.But to me,it sounds like you really truly love this guy,and I don't see any signs or reasons not to believe or trust him.Give him another shot.But remember the saying "Fool me once shame on you,fool me twice,shame on me!".Meaning,if he starts acting shady or things start to go the way they did before,don't just sit by and let it happen.But for now,I say trust him,give him another chance girl!!Everyone makes mistakes!! :)

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Hey! im moving into a new house in september. my room there is much smaller than my current room so i will have to change all of my stuff! I was wondering if you knew any sites that gave cute, creative, classy, unique, crazy, or pretty ideas on decorating rooms. I am 14, soon to be 15..and obviously a girl. I am kinda a 'do my own thing...be different' kinda girl. I want a room like nobody elses. Do you know of any ideas for decorating it? Or any sites that could help me out? Please respond quick..i am moving september 20th!

Hey,you might wanna check out www.wakeupfrankie.com and www.pbteen.com (that's Pottery Barn Teen).You can request a catalog off each website or shop online.They both have some really cute stuff that you can even customize!! Hope this helps! :)

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Hi im shandiebaby11 a columnists but i have a question of my own ! Does anyone know of any good web sites where i could check out a high school diploma program ? I was homeschooled but i want to get finished quicker ! Thanks !

Try PCDI,The Professional Career Development Institute.Their website is www.pcdi.com !!Hope this helps you! I was homeschooled too,so I know how it is!! :)

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