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I've been trying to get pregnant for the past two weeks. I'm really bloated, really moody, and I also eat and drink a lot. Although I took a pregnancy test a couple days ago and it came up negative.....Could I have taken the test to early?
Best time to take a preg test is first thing in the morning when you get up. Your pee is more concentrated. Sometimes the tests can be faulty so if your are unsure got to the doctor. maybe if it wont show up in your pee get them to do some other test. :)
okay my boyfriend came over last night and we had sex, my stomache hurt a little bit during it. today when i got home i got my period. the thing is im on birth control and have been for about three months, and im not suppose to get it untill next weekend.. is there something wrong ?
Sometimes you will come on your period early or late. It's nothing serious. where you haven't been on the pill all that long your body may be adjusting to it. it also depends on the type of pill it is. if it happens more often then usual esp when it's after sex talk to a doctor but if it happens once in a while close to your period i wouldn't worry too much about it. :) goodluck
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I'll just get right to it I guess - after sex it burns when I pee, and also my vaginal lips are just sore in general for a bit afterwards
I don't have any other symptoms, and to be honest this has always been the case in the four years that I have been sexually active. So I really tend to think it's normal?
I also get frequent UTI's and I find that if I drink a lot of water after sex, the burning goes away, so I think it's something related?
I haven't been tested in around a year and a half, but aside from maybe 15 minutes of tenderness after sex and a little sting when I pee, nothing really happens to concern me so I just haven't considered it necesary
but anyways someone I'm with started complaining today that the head of his penis hurt and that he'd like us both to get checked out
he mentioned stinging, but not stinging during urination
he just basically said that the tip has persistently hurt all day
so anyways, we're both gonna get tested ASAP because he hasn't had many sexual partners and he's apparently really freaked out about this, but I honestly think it's normal? I mean we've hung out like a grand total of four times & had sex nine, all within the last week and a half or so. So it seems normal to me that he would be a little sore? especially after almost a year of inactivity, and considering we're a little rough.
anyways, obviously only the doctor can give us a solid answer but I just wanted some opinions? Because his freaking out has got me freaking out a little bit :P I was hooking up with a kind of shady guy a few months ago, and he's the only person I can think of that I could imaginably contract something from. But it would be SO embarassing if that were the case and I somehow just didn't notice before passing it on to this new partner. I would feel terrible even if it were something easily curable, so I'm just hoping that my gut is right here and it's something normal
so yea any opinions or similar experiences would be appreciated :P sorry this is so long & thanks in advance!
It's normal to have a stingy feeling after sex. vaginal cream cools it down and it's usually gone the next day :) also helps with yeast infection. Nothing too much to worry about. Yeah it's normal for the guy to get a little redness it's just the heat from the friction of sex. I don't know if this helps but I hope so :) ♥goodluck!
15/f
i recently had safe sex about a week ago and am expectin my period in about another week but for the past two days i've been getting this weird pinkish discharge. could i be pregnant?
Discharge is normal. If it bothers you a little more then usual go talk to your doctor. I am sure it's nothing to worry about all woman get discharge :) ; ♥good luck!
16/f
Basically every girl in my grade including my best friends have had sex they also have boyfriends. I am really independent and mature for my age and dont feel the need for a boyfriend whatsoever. However I do want one as of right now but I am really picky. I'm not going to date someone who I dont even like but I do realize that the perfect guy isnt going to fall into my lap. But anyway I do sort of feel like the odd one out since im a virgin compared to everyone else. My bestfriends always have their boyfriends and have sex. On one hand I am perfectly fine with waiting for the right one but on the other hand I do feel left out. I dont know...any advice or personal experience is greatly apprpeciated :)
Please don't have sex unless you are ready. With sex and oral sex you can get STIs. Okay, you already know that right Lol. Um. You know what.. Don't do it because everyone else is doing it. Do you really think they are ready? No! They are doing it because other people are doing it. Don't be a followers. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin until you are ready. It's personal and your body take care if it. Maybe the perfect guy wont fall into your lap right now but maybe later. And if you are good with waiting for mr.right or until you are completely sure then got for it. You will feel Odd because everyone is following everyone that's normal. Of course you want a boyfriend what girl doesn't want one. Someone to run to and cuddle with :). I am sure you are a beautiful girl :) and there is someone there for you but don't rush it. Waiting can be the best thing to do. I might be a bit confusing I am new at this :) but I hope this helps somewhat :) ♥good luck. let me know okay :) . hehe
So I had a dream that took place in my room involving my bff "our" ex and me... so i Was laying on my bed texting him and she was laying on the floor, i stared giggling and telling her what he was texting me without looking at her but when i looked down she had no shirt (or bra) on squeezing her own boobs...while i was texting him he was saying weird shit like your too young for me when he's dated people younger than me which was weird of him to say.... so please help me:)
14/female
HELP ME!!!
Okay, so you had a dream about your best friend being half naked and your boyfriend kind of ditching you on the phone or your ex.
I wonder if this helps:
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
To see a naked person in your dream and you are disgusted by it, signifies some anxiety about discovering the naked truth about that person or situation. It may also foretell of an illicit love affairs, loss of prestige and scandalous activities. On the other hand, if you are accepting about another's nudity, then it implies that you see through people and accept them for who and what they are. If you do not care about someone else's nudity, then it suggests that you need to learn not to be afraid of rejection.
I have a dream book that i read a lot so i kind of got some information from what i read. I hope this helps you ♥good luck!
Female-16
First of all, I have a pretty good relatonship with my mom. We can joke about stuff and get along well. Except when it comes to my clothing. She hates how I dress...skinny jeans, band tshirts, eyeliner, converse. It's the typical attire of a teenager today, right? She wants to dress me in leggings and dresses. I hate dresses and stuff like that. She sometimes makes me wear a dress and leggings when we go on an errand to walmart! She said to me twice already "I'm starting to question your sexuality." She obviously doesn't notice my crushes on rockstars and hockey players. I even have a boyfriend. I'm NOT gay.
What do I do/say to my mom to make her accept the way I want to dress?
You dress to your comfort level. Dresses are not in today's trend unless its your religion. Your mother should accept you for who you are and what you want to wear. Ask her: "Mom, Do you know how it makes me feel when you tell me I am gay? So what if I was would you love me less? I am not Gay I just want to dress comfortable. It's something I will grow out of but for now let me be a teenager." Wait for her reply let her know how your feel. :) I hope this helped. I am new to this haha ♥good luck!
18/f. I just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 4 months. And he knows this, but when I was younger, I was raped. Several times. By my older brother. and that's caused havoc with my love life, like you wouldn't even know. I just shut down for no apparent reason, I just get really scared and I don't know how to deal with it and it's so frustrating. and It hasn't been that huge of a problem, I'm fine with everything, we can have sex and I'm fine, but when we hit third base, I just can't do it. I can't give him head, I go into a nervous break down and I can't bring myself to do it. and yesterday he tried eatting me out, and I was okay at first, but just looking down and seeing him sent me into this horrible flashback and I can't let him do it. It just freaks me out too bad. I don't think this is normal, but does anybody else have anything like this? How do I make it go away? I want to be intimate with my boyfriend, and this is severally barring it. Thanks so much...
Sincerally, 3rd base horror
Does your boyfriend understand what is going on and how is he dealing with it? Sit down and talk with him and see where you two are in this point of the relationship. Sex is a big step and both partners have to be on the same page as to where each other stand and what makes either of you comfortable.
To a point I do understand where you are coming from and it was hard to tell the parents. But I think it was the best thing because now it's all out and I don't shut down anymore. And you probably wont either. It could help with you and your boyfriend being intimate. It's not your fault that it happened and although you may feel like it is and your parents may blame you. They wont. Your brother was in the wrong you were an innocent little girl. It is normal that you feel uncomfortable with the oral sex because it is going to remind you of the moment. But like I said if you tell your parents things might get better for you.
I hope my advice helped you hunny and if it didn't let me know okay. I don't want to give bad advice. ♥ good luck!