I am a nurses assistant. Im also a bridal consultant. I want to become a teacher. I moved alot. I have lived in small towns and so i know most of my experinces to be around family and friends. I know much about health and nutrition. I have dyslexisa. I have three brothers. two of which i know and one that ran away. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half... im sure theres more to know about me! but thats all folks.
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i've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and we've been having sex for about 10 months. like the sex is good but i don't think i'm cumming during sex? and whats the difference between cumming by clit & gspot? how's an orgasm and cumming different? i feel good during sex, but just don't reach a climax... like ever. help me please!
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well cumming is usualy just used from a guy because a females orgasm usualy does not make you squirt or anything. they usualy ask if your "cumming". if you have never had an orgasm the best adivce i have for you is to find out what you like. this means masterbation. if you dont do this then you wotn be able to tell when your aroused compared to just enjoying the sex and what to tell him so that you both enjoy it more. this means either you can do it by yourself or if you cant get in the mood by yourself then do it with him without having sex. take it slow and you dont have to always have SEX to have an orgasm. and if you dont have orgasms while having sex then you might have better luck with your clit. try that. i dont really want to get too explicit on here... but if you want to know ways of doign that you can look up on the internet or just send it to my inbox... but either way i hope that helped
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I am very confused. =] Any help is appreciated!
1) What is the mininum wage now?
2) What kind of jobs can one get whose salary goes beyond the minimum wage (lifeguarding, etc)? Only jobs with training or can entry-level newbies do anything?
3) What kind of jobs are open to 16+ college bound persons?
4) It would probably be better to get a job I would have a greater chance of landing a job if it were "full time"? So that means working over the summer as opposed to weekends during the school year, right? How many work hours would that average per week approximately?
5) How does the process work? I go in, ask for an application, fill it out, hand it back and wait for them to call and schedule an interview? If all job processes are different, what is the general process usually?
6) Any other tips.
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1) minimum wage depends on the state you live in. (where i live its like 8.15)
2) most jobs will start out minimum untill a few weeks or a month, but you will need to get something like a CPR card, food handels card, ect. types of cards or cirtificates. that will help you get a higher paying job without needign a degree or anything.
3)In most states there are alot of restrictions on 16 year olds working because of child labor laws. if you ARE 16 focus on a fast food place. there are many jobs other than fast food. at your school go to your career center or counsilor and ask for job help. companys usualy ask them to tell the students about job offerings in their companies... like being a secretary or a park maintance.
4)Many companies will nto allow a high school student to work full time DURING school. so yes it would be best to work in summer for full time. full time is 21-40 and part time is 1-20.
5)They vary. the best thing you can do is go in looking ready and crisp. ask for an appilcation, fill it out, when you go to turn it in ask if the manager is there, if they are, ask if you can speak to them, tell them any special schoolign or interests or goals you have, dont tell themy ou need this money. but tell them you have goals, liek you are excited to work and such. but all in all job processes are pretty much the same.
6)BE PREPARED! have a firm hand shake. speak clearly. take time on applications to write neatly. if they cant read it they will throw it out. and be ready to explain anything they ask about your resume or application. and SMILE.. smiel while saying hello. while shaking hands. smile when you say thank you very much. things like that
i hope that helps. if you need anymore clearification you can send it to my inbox.
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were can u get like self waxing things for down there?
and will it hurt? what will it feel like? (link)
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you can get them at any big store (fred myers, safeway, target). for some poepel it doesnt hurt... but the first few times yeah it well hurt. i think people get used to it. i have only used it once. make sure you read the back of the package too
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ok so i have a long list oof love life stuff i NEED to talk about with someone... is anyone interested in helping me out? (link)
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if you still need someone to talk with about it you can send me messges into my inbox
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Ok I'm a 15 year old guy, ever since i was 8 I have always like girls,I asked my dad to let me see naked girls, I even whent on the internet once to see em because I was so curious.. I have in fact said that girls in my class were hott and have told them that... untill recently when I wasn't getting aroused by any girl... I looked at porn seeing if it may help I sat there and thought of naked women it didn't work.... I am postive I'm straight and I have never even thought I was gay, I never have liked men , I have friends come over all the time we don't do anything odd we usually hang out and play video games. Lately it has freaked me out the fact that I'm not being aroused by women.
What does this mean?
Also does stressing out over something like this make me gay? (link)
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i persoanlly dont think anything makes someone gay... so i really dont think that worrying about it will make you gay. have you ever been able to get off? ( that might be an odd question but there are some guys that cant unless they are actually with a girl) have you ever been turned on by watching gay porn or focusing ont he guy in a regular porn? if not its really not that weird becasuse there are lots of guys that can not be that aroused or even get off without being with a girl.
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So when I go down on my bf, some stuff comes out of his penis (not sperm) its like, before he gets off and its kind of salty.. but i know its not sperm because its clear..and theres just a little bit. He has never actually ejaculated in my mouth, so i dont know what cum tastes like. so my question is, What is it? and if you know what it is, Does it taste the same as sperm?, and if not, What does sperm taste like? (link)
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its pre cum. it doesnt have sperms in it but i wouldnt actually know if it tastes the same.. but its the same fluids that go alogn with the sperm... so maybe it does.
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so, i want to be an actress, and next year, i'll be in high school, and im for sure taking drama. what other steps should i take besides taking drama to help me?
thanks, sorry if its a stupid questions.
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join plays outside of your high school. different theater teachers teach you different things and different techniques. you could look for drama schools or call a local community college and ask about their castings and stuff. i hope that helps. and good luck have fun
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ok this is really weird...im a 13 y.o. female and started my period (not 4 th first time) ON January 5th and it ended the 11th and now it's Feb. 15 and it still hasnt came this month whats wrong...P.S. im still a virgin and i dont want to talk to my mom or doc about it....PLEASE HELP!!!
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this is normal!! make sure you keep tracks of dates and if it goes more than three months you need to get a doctors appointment. but it is normal!
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Is it wrong not to go out with somebody because of their religion? I like this guy, but he doesn't believe in God, and it pisses me off! I don't want to force him to believe in what I believe in, but at the same time I would like somebody to have the same views as me. I'd probably even prefer to find a boyfriend in the church. Is that wrong? (link)
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i think that you should be more open. you should not get mad at people just beucase they belive in another god or no god at all. but if this is what is important to you (your religion) then its good to find someone that finds that important too. you might end up resenting him for not believing in god. so you are probably right you should stick with someone in your church unless you are going to be open minded enough to accpet someone else for who they are and remember.. people can have good morals and have good ethics and NOT be christian. but do what feels best to you. find out whats most important to you. i hope that helps make a decision easier
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I'm in the 7th grade, and learning about World War 2. I find it really interesting! My teacher mentioned that there might have been some criticism of the U.S. and some of the decisions they made during it. Do yall know of any examples?
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Well.. there were alot of things that the U.S. did to both Germany and Japan during that time. like... we bombed japan. killing ALOT of innocent men, women, and children. But then you have to remember that at this point in the war little kids and civilians had guns and would shoot the U.S. armys. it was a big risk and there was alot of pros and cons. As with germany. (im kinda rusty on this part) i guess we lied to them alot. lied to them about D day (the invasion into france).. im sorry i cant rememebr more of ww2.. but i hope that helped a little bit
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Is it normal not to feel pleasure from masturbation? As in, not feeling pleasure from actually inserting my fingers? I do get pleasure from clit stimulation.
I know alot of women don't get pleasure from sex but I'm a virgin and I'm just wondering if it's normal not to get pleasure from masturbating and if I don't get pleasure out of it does it mean I won't get pleasure out of penetration? (link)
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yes that normal. im one also. but it can also be a mind thing. i knwo it seems cliche to say but it can be mind over matter. you could probably get pleasure if its slow and lots of foreplay even if you dont get off during the forplay you could get off during sex.
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When you masterbate or finger yourself can that break your hymen? can you tell if its thick or thin that way? Or is it to far up? Sorry about all the questions, but I'm curious. (link)
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yes you can break your hymen that way. for some its easy to break their hymen it can be done on a bike just riding.. or sometimes you have to have a surgery to get it cut. (thats really rare). its on the outside of your vagina. its pretty much the hole.. if you have not broke yours by fingering yourself then it is probably strechy and will only be broken when you have sex. i hope that answers the question.
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OK this may not make sense to all of you, and if so, I'm sorry :P
Well the thing is..I feel more comfortable hanging around with guys than girls. I have an equal amount of guy and girl friends and I'm NOT a tomboy.
An ordinary girl.
But I donno, it's like with guys I'm more relaxed and more outgoing.
But then again, at the same time I have quite low self esteem.
Is there anything wrong with me? The way I feel more relaxed around guys, why is that?
Also what could I do to improve my self esteem? (link)
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theres nothing wrong with you. you probbaly enjoy being with the guys cause you may worry about girls judging you more than you worry about the guys. thats normal.. as for self esteem. for me its from within. i know it sounds SO cheesy and stupid but telling yourself that your outfit looks good today and stuff helps. you dont have to sit in the mirror and convicne yourself your pretty everyday. just small things that you can think about yourself as the day goes on.. if you know what i mean? just try it for a while. i swear it helps
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I'm 15/f, I'll be 16 in about 2 weeks.
My friends and I want to volunteer somewhere, but we're not sure where. They're 15/16/17 as well. We were thinking of volunteering at the Ronald McDonald House. I wanted to like set up parties for the Super Bowl, birthdays, etc. for the kids. But, for Key Club, we went, and it just seemed like you'd sit at a desk. That's not exactly what we wanted to do.
Anyway, any other ideas of where we could volunteer? We live in Cleveland, Ohio, if that helps.
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i volunteer ALOT!. what about elementry schools? animal shleters? homeless shelters? foster kids?
here is a link i use all the time i hope it helps
http://www.volunteermatch.org/?_kk=find%20volunteers&_kt=e6bc2409-bb8f-4737-9e69-e7e7942857dc
use your zip code and how far you guys can travle. i hope that helps and that you have FUN!
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Can you get pregnant before you have your period? Is it normal to not ahave started when you are fourteen and weigh 95 pounds. (link)
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as for not starting your period yet. yes it is normal. you might have a low body fat %. if there was anything seriously wrong with you your doctor would tell you. so dotn worry about that so much
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I am looking for a job, im 14...i am very good when i work in groups or with my hands i am VERY creative, but i am shy...and i know if i do get a job that i'll have to do the interview thing...is there any kinda "walk-on" job that pays decently well..(for a 14 yr old)
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even for a night time stacker at toys R us you will have to do an interview. believe me everybody hates them. i am REALLY shy too. practice questions. write your answers down to them or practice them with friends or a parent or something. they most commonly will ask "tell me about yourself" ex:im a student at so and so high school. "whats your greatest streghth" ex: im organized. "Why do you want to work for us" ex: i would like to be a part of your compan. im sorry i dont know any places that will hire you from just a walk in..
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14/f
I'm a virgin and probably won't be having sex anytime soon seeing as I'm single, but I wondered, how do people expect your vagina to look?
Cause when guys talk about it, they act like they expect you to be completely bare.
So, I'd like to know, if you're a virgin, how would you expect a girl's vagina to be when you do have sex? Like completely waxed, or shaved, or what?
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im a girl and im pretty sure your looking for guys opinions but i figure this might help. my boy friend does not like them shaved. he thinks it makes girls look like little girls and it kinda creeps him out. he thinks trimming it is fine.. but it really depends on the guy and i think they will be waaaay too into it to be worried about how you shaved or if you shaved and everything like that. i hope that helps a little bit.
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What's a good store to find bedroom furniture that a teenage girl would want? Or a store that sells white canopy bed.
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IKEA! ikea is wounderful! they have everything there!
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What are some acoustic rock songs I can play on guitar?
Thanks
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well i know this song is just getting popular because of juno but atleast you will now it. its the moldy peaches-anyone else but you. its like two chords. its pretty simple if your looking for one for a starter.
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I want to do stuff with my boyfriend... but how do I know that I look alright down there? Like, I know my boyfriend will love and accept me no matter how I look.. but I just want to know I'm all good?
I don't want to go to my doctor, either. This isn't something I'd want to waste his time with. Thanks. (link)
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everybody looks different down there. and all guys look a little different. beign different.. is the normal thing. as for if you start havign sex every year you will have to go in for a papsmear. so if you have any questions about antomy when you have those check ups you might as well ask. but untill then you really should be more focused on the safety of what your doing.
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