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I am having doubts on my sexuality
Ok I'm a 15 year old guy, ever since i was 8 I have always like girls,I asked my dad to let me see naked girls, I even whent on the internet once to see em because I was so curious.. I have in fact said that girls in my class were hott and have told them that... untill recently when I wasn't getting aroused by any girl... I looked at porn seeing if it may help I sat there and thought of naked women it didn't work.... I am postive I'm straight and I have never even thought I was gay, I never have liked men , I have friends come over all the time we don't do anything odd we usually hang out and play video games. Lately it has freaked me out the fact that I'm not being aroused by women.
What does this mean?
Also does stressing out over something like this make me gay?
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No. Sometimes a person isn't aroused by the opposite sex for just a season in their life. It could be because you are preoccupied with other stuff or some lady did something that just turned you off, or there could be no reason at all. It's kind of like, if you don't like fruit, it doesn't mean you like vegetables...you just don't like fruit at the moment. You will like it later once you try some new ones or whatever. Doesn't mean you need to run off with some vegetables.
Well, you're gay if you're seriously considering having an emotional and sexual affair with a boy/man. Hmmmm. An old musical artist once said, "If a man is guilty for what goes on in his mind, then give me the electric chair for all my future crimes..." So, even if you have the occasional trippy thought in your head, it still doesn't mean you are gay. There's a wide wide spectrum when it comes to sexuality. I'm sure you fall somewhere over to the left with all the other dudes who consider themselves straight. Some folks are way over to the left, some in the middle and some far off to the right in Gay Land. And then there's everyone in between.
Don't sweat it.
MamaJen
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No, stressing out over something like this makes you a teenager and a bit of a homophobe, but not gay.
Gay men like other men. You don't so you can't be gay. If you start wanting to have sex with other guys... then you are gay.
Seriously, you need to not worry about this quite so much. Society tells teenage guys that they should be sexy-obsessed and horny every moment of the day and that simply isn't true.
Different people have different sex drives and values. For some people, sex is very important in thier lives and it's a regular urge, for other the urge is much less. Not being all the obsessed with sex could be perfectly normal for you.
Stressing out about this will only make sex an even more difficult thing for you to think about. Best to just accept this as the way you are, until something gets you going. Let it occur naturally.
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i persoanlly dont think anything makes someone gay... so i really dont think that worrying about it will make you gay. have you ever been able to get off? ( that might be an odd question but there are some guys that cant unless they are actually with a girl) have you ever been turned on by watching gay porn or focusing ont he guy in a regular porn? if not its really not that weird becasuse there are lots of guys that can not be that aroused or even get off without being with a girl.
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