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13/f...there are two different schools in my town. i go to one, and my bf goes to another. lately hes been acting really weird and i think he's interested in someone else. How can i keep an eye on him if we're in different schools all day? and how am i supposed to know if hes flirting with other girls? please help, i rate good answers. (link)
well i think you should talk to him first and ask him. be like "Whats up with you, why are you acting weird lately" if he says nothings wrong, just make sure. There has to be something, you might have to ask him whats wrong more than once to get it outta him. And ask him if theres something else.You should be able to talk to him about anything.

other wise you could ask someone that you know, and he doesnt know. and have them watch him i guess.

hope i helped


does anyone know how to center your about me on your myspace so its no all one big paragraph??

i'll rate all 5's
thanks- (link)
for each line you start you'll go like this..
example:

my name is...
i like to do this...

you have to put it before and after every line.

hopeee i helped


what is Cellulite ?? (link)
fat. you get what some people call "cottage cheese" legs, or arms, or something.


how do you set a myspace to private?? thanks! ♥ !! (link)
make sure your signed in. then click on "home"
you'll see the

View My Profile


Edit My Profile


Upload / Change Photos


Account Settings


Safe Mode

now there are 2 ways!

#1 you can go to edit my profile.. and go to basic info. CHANGE YOUR AGE to 14 or 15 then people MUST be your friend to see it.

another wayy..
#2 you can go to Account settings. go to Privacy Settings and change it to what you want.

hope i helped. sorry if its long.


What are signs of a boy liking you??? Cause i like this one boy but i dont know if he feels the same way!! (link)
1. the guy will be nice to you.

2. he will tell you that you did good, even if you did horrible.

3. he might make fun of you.

4. he'll want to be your friend.

5. he might compliment you on your hair, even if you wear it that way everyday.

6. he'll stick up for you.

7. he will start hanging out with your friends.

8. he'll flirt with you.

9. he'll call you for no good reason.

10. he'll make eye contact with a happy grin on his face.


hope i helped


ive been trying to put my limewire songs onto my itunes for awhile now, and nothings worked! ive tried dragging the songs, but whenever i do that thing with a circle and a line going through shows up. ive also tried putting the limewire songs onto a cd and then putting them onto itunes, but that didnt work either. on my itunes a new playlist opened that says "my limewire tunes" and i cant figure out how to transfer those songs onto my itunes library. please help!!! i rate (link)
well open your limewire. then go to the downloading part. click on the word "EXPLORE" its an option. look for it, then go and you'll get the list of EVERYTHINGG you've downloaded, then you can highlight it and drag it into your itunes.

hopefully it makes sense to you. thats how i did it.
if it doesnt message me in my inbox. i can help you understand it lol.


on tuesday me and my bf were foolin around and he ended up giving em a hickey..normally its okay but this time its like really dark and noticeable..its one the side of my neck and kinda towards the back..like right under my ear and back like a cm.well i been wearing me hair down since so you cant see it at all. but if my hairs not down its veryy and i mean VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust em they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help (link)
heres a website that might help you out.

http://www.ehow.com/tips_3556_5.html

people posted ways on how THEY got rid of them.
hope i helped


I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?

I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental? (link)
all i have to say is, who are you to judge people?

just because they have never dated or kissed, doesnt mean they havent talked enough to get to know eachother.

plus younger girls say it to say it ALLL the time. Yeah its obvious they dont know what LOVE really is. but let kids be kids.

if its something that "offends" you then.... tough..


this isnt really sex but i didnt know what to put it under. anyways i trimed down there and shaved near where the blood comes out (i forget what its called) and now where i shaved has little red bumps. is this bad and how do i get rid of them? (link)
i'd assume your talking about razor burn which means you probably didnt use enough water n soap. put conditioner on it first, wash it off, and then use soap and shave. Make sure you shave down too. hope i helped


I really im in love with this boy, but he has 3 g/f`s. yea, he's a big player. i have tried and tried to get over him, but i just can't. I dont think he would really like me, because he likes darker girls like mexican girls. What should I do. (he has no clue i like him, and I wouldn't want to tell him, because I'm embarassed he'll reject me. :\)

Thanks! i RATE 5'SSS! (link)
As hard as it may be, you gotta get over him. Look hes already got 3 other girlfriends? hes a manwhore. you dont deserve it. Trust me dear, there are PLENTLY of guys in this world who have respect for girls, and can stick to having just one like there suposed to. That boy obviously has some issues to be having 3! I promise your better off without him. hope i helped alittle


What are some cool Preppy Clothing or Accesory like bags or jewelry store? online store would be fine too...

other then Abercrombie & Fitch
or Aeropostale
or American Eagle Outfitters


and do not make fun or mock my question in any other way or i will report you and get you banned like i did to other person who mocked me

and if you give at least one website that is actually PREP i will rate 5 (link)
Preppy clothing is pretty much anywhere, now adays. i know Hollister? also like buckle?

http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/homepage.html

http://www.buckle.com/

maybe even a Macys. They carry a bunch of diffrent brands and have alot of cute "preppy" clothes. idk.

hope i helped


I met this guy on the internet and he's coming to pick me up in an hour or so. EVerything seems all right and my intuition tells me its a go but everyone always says to be careful so I thought I'd ask. Don't be too hasty to answer cuz I'm really for going. (link)
honestly thats a BIG risk, make sure you've told someone all about him. Heaven for bid something happens to you, but just in case, cause stuff happens and people are decieving. but have fun!


ok well i have a bf that iv been gion out with for about 3 months,im not sure wether to stay with him or not,i mean all of my friends are telling me to brake up with him and try out some other gies,but i love him and sometimes i dont i have no clue what to do,pleasse help me!!! (link)
ok dont stick with someone of your confused about staying with him.

but why would you break up with him? you didnt mention anything wrong with him?

if you like him stay with him. if your not sure or dont want to, then odds are it should end.

everything happens for a reason


okay this is really hard to explain but i'll try...my best friend ryan (shes a girl) moved and she went out with this guy hunter...hunter imed me one day (after him and my friend broke up) and we talked and stuff and he was so sweet and i thought i liked him but i had a boyfriend and i told him i did so ya...my boyfriend was like a really good friend 2 but i didnt think it was fair to date him when i really liked hunter you know so i broke up with him and on aim i was talking to hunter that same day.and i said guess what and he goes what and i was like i broke up with andrew and he goes you kno whats coming next...will you go out with me! i really wanted to say yes but i wanted to ask my friend first to make sure she was like over him and i said hunter asked me out...do you care if i say yes and she ignored me and started cussing hunter out and then so hunter imed me and said...maybe we should wait,i still like you,and im not taking it back i love you,you just broke up with your boyfriend though,so lets wait. and all that was fine with me....well two days later my friend ryan came and stayed at my house for like a week and then 1st night she was there,hunter and me were texting and he called me and we talked for lk 4 hours (it was the first time we has talked on the phone) anyways and then the next day me and ryan went with my uncle to look at his new house and hunter texted me and i said im out of texts so i cant talk now and so i said he could text ryans phone...so he did and he was like can you hand tayler the phone for a sec...so she did and i gave it back to her (i was like in the car talking to my uncle and i didnt want to like be texting him) and then she handed it to me again and it said "will you go out with me" and again i handed her the phone and just thought i will talk to him about it later...then he texted ryans phone again and said " i really like you...but i guess you dont like me" so then i felt horrible so i texted him back and said "no no i do like you its just i dont want you to hurt me" and he said "i would never hurt you,i love you too much" so then i said "are you sure this is what you want" and he said "i wouldnt want it anyother way" so i said yes...and he was a good boyfriend for like a week and then we would be like talking online and he would say i gtg baby i will call you tonight...then he wouldnt call and then we would fight and all this stuff...and it happened like 3 times...then he texted me and was like "baby im sorry i've been a bitch and im such a dumass for treating you like this and im lucky that you stuck around this long please forgive me...things will change i will be the boyfriend you deserve which is better that what i have been" and then he was better (we still hadnt met in person.but we did see lots of pictures) then he broke up with me said he wanted to be friends and then we would talk ever day texting...but he wouldnt talk to me on the phone and he would always ask me for pictures then the fourth of july he texted me and said "we dont need to be friends" i was like okay whatever..after this im not giving you anymore chances and he goes i dont care your ugly and and i go your not excactly the hottest guy i have dated eitehr and he goes oh ya thats why u wanted me soo bad and i was like it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but its fine cause im over it and he didnt text me back for like three days and when he did he re-wrote what i had written him the "it wasnt you i wanted hun it was a boyfriend but thats okay im over it" and then he wrote oh thats nice you played me..and he was like look im sorry ok can we jsut start over i understand if you dont want to be friends i jsut feel guitly sayin all that shit to you and im sorry and then we talked and i was like well i dont know if i can be friends with you...you hurt me and he said and you hurt me and im sorry and i was like well i only said it cause you were being rude and acted like you hated me and even though i liked you i wasnt gonna be like oh baby im sorry i love you...and he was like i jsut said it cause i had nothing to say and said he had to go and asked me to get on aim the next morning so i did and we worked everything out and then we talked on the phone every so often and then this whole thing happened where he said sorry i cant call you and i sent a message to christina (a girl thats friends with me and hunter) and it said if he calls you three way me and i accidently sent it to hunter and he was like yeah he got really mad at was like you thought i would to you blah blah blah and said i hate you get out of my life then the next morning he texted me and said sorry i was jsut upset cause i thought you lied to me and i for some reason forgave him and we talked and we "friends" and then he said i like you and i was like ok..and he would say i love you and i want to meet in person and all this"well he said that one night and the next morning he said i dont like you anymore theres no other girl theres jsut no girl at all...and then we just talked as "friends" and then he was on the phone with christina and asked her to three way me so she did but i didnt really talk directly to him cause he was only on the phone for like 5 minutes cause then he had to go and i stayed on the phone and chrisitna said hunter told me to tell you he likes someone..but he wont say who and i was like okay so later that night hunter texted me and i asked him who he liked and he was like i dont want to tell anyone and i was like okay well if you get ready to tell someone you can trust me and he was like ok and he said i like justins girlfriend,ariel (justins his best friend)and then he said i gotta go i will be back on later (he has been texting me from his sn) then his friend justin was like hey and i go hi and he was like whats wrong and i said stuff with hunter and he goes like what? and i said its jsut hard liking someone that doesnt like you back and justin said do you know who he likes and i said no and he goes if you do please tell me i wont tell him i sware and i said im sorry but im not gonna do that to him and he said this is hunter on justins sn i jsut wanted to see if i could trust you and i can so thanks and i dont like ariel i like you and it turns out him and justin were together the whole time and i was like ok no big deal i couldnt be mad cause he liked me again and then i didnt talk to him for 3 days and he texted me and said i dont like you i like someone else sorry and i got on aim and i was like who do you like and he said well i like you but u live really far away but if you move here i would love to go out with you (we live like 20 minutes away,and my parents are looking at houses out there) and so i was like so theres no other girl and he goes no there is her names courtnei and i like her alot and i was like oh and then i found out he has asked her out and she liked him and he liked her the only thing keeping them from going out was that she had a boyfriend when i started typing this i just wanted to see what you thought but unfortunately since its so long since the beginning of this i jsut found out in his friends away message that him and courtnei are going out and i dont know what to do i mean i want to just tell him off and be like im sicking of you treating me liked this and i could careless if we ever speak again and stand up to him but that would screw everything up with us for good and a big part of me still wants him..i dont know why cause i have had guys that treat me 10x better and since we broke up two guys have asked me out but i have said no for him...i was waiting for him and then he jsut moves on like im nothing and i feel like just...i dont know im just really upset and dont know what to do everyone tells me oh my gosh taylor just move on but i cant its i dont know theres something about him that i cant let go of...what that is i dont know cause i mean hes hott but not that hott hes nice sometimes and i just i dont know should i tell him that i like him that i love him that i want him that i hate him or as hard as it may be jsut not talk to him and see if he comes back to me or even notices im not there for him...or if he cares anyways please please help me... *** broken hearted
laycee (link)
thats soo long lol.


okay well your best bet is to just forget the jerk. He obviously cant REALLY like you if he just goes from girl to girl, then back to you when it doesnt work out. There are SOOO many guys in this world that you dont even need to waste time on guys like him. Good luck hun


ok so theres this guy and i really like him and he really likes me. but were not going out. its a long story. anyways he asked me if i have ever kissed anyone and i said no and he was like well maybe i can change that next time we go to the movies. i was like um..ok. but now i dont no wat to do. because we might go to the movies on sunday. and like i dont no if i really want to kiss him. part of me does and part of me doesn't. if i don't how do i tell him? please help me i will rate high! thanks in advance! (link)
aw your probably just nervous. but dont do something your not ready for and that you dont want to do. Hes a guy and honestly dear, if he really likes you, he will understand and not rush you into anything. If he gets weird and starts not talking as much then chances are he just said that stuff cause he wanted to do stuff with you. Hopefully it works out for the better. Just let things happen as them come ok?

hope i helped? best wishes and good luck


Hey how do i get a girl to like me? (link)
be yourself?. laugh, joke, be understand, honest, caring, open, funny, sweet. You cant be tooo perfect. girls will notice you. The best time is when you know you like someone, then show it. Be her friend and talk to her. Eventually you can tell her. hope i helped


Ok, well i have this friend named heather. and we both like eachother as a boyfriend and a girlfriend, but we live about 30 minuets apart.. so were just friends. And i'm over weight, and im really thinking about not going to see her because of it.. She says my appearence dosen't matter but, i've just been made fun of and stuff soo much i can't believe her until i see her reaction. Someone please help me.

-Nab- (link)
Nab-

lets just say, if she likes you, then it shouldnt matter what you look like. Thats if she truely cares. Dont let it get to you. If she doesnt like it, then its her loss and there will be someone greater for you next. Good luck buddy


im not concited. but i am well liked at my school. everyone thinks im...
exsperienced such in the kissing section. well ... im not... when you come from my elementry u are like a goodie good. not that i am but what ever. so anyways i havnt had my first kiss cause im not a hoe and im saving it.
is that soo wrong. and if i do kiss someone. would it all just come soo much more naturally? (link)
ok well you being a "goodie good" isnt gunna honestly make people think you've had your first kiss. How would that make you well liked. who cares? for people to say that, they have had to of heard it.. i dunno. Kissing happens when your ready, theres no point in rushing it, or anything. Let things happen as they come.


My mom and I fight alot,and when we do it's bad. She never wants me to have any style, she wants me to buy the cheap stuff. She doesn't understand that kids do tease you if your wearing a shirt with Barbie on it. I used to be known for my style at school but since my dads paycut she wont even let me get a haircut because "It Costs Money." I know it costs money, everything does, but there are something a girl needs like shaving cream and actual razors not like those crap disposable ones. It's not like we have no money whats so ever. We're just struggling, I buy all my own clothes and things. Its gettin to the point where she wont buy my the shampoo I need or the toothpaste I need. She always insists on the cheap stuff and I'm sick of it cause we always end up fighting about it. She thinks I need a job, but what job *besides babysitting* can a 13 year old do ?!?! PLEASE HELP ME. I know its long, but I'd greatly appreciate it. (link)
ok honestly you know your parents are struggling so why would you even be asking for stuff? You have to understand they want whats best for you, but quality isnt everything.Shampoo is shampoo no one knows what you use, sometimes the cheapest is the best. theres a diffrence between WANTS and NEEDS. you dont NEED EXPENSIVE STUFF. you NEED enough to get you by.

try to understand what is going on. and if you buy your own clothes then not having any style is your deal. not your mothers. Try helping out and not acting like everything has to go your way.

not being rude but think about how YOUR acting..

best wishes to your mother, and your family


Hey! Skool is about to start and i have a problem! Well I started dating this guy um.. 7-12-05 well he goes to a different skool and well i dont like long distance rel. b/c i always think they will cheat! Also now that we have been together for a couple of weeks he acts different then he did when we first started goin out like he dont care as much! And well i sorda never got over my ex like a year ago and i miss him i need to know what to do like i wanna break up with this guy but i dont know what to tell him! please help!!
ASAP
Love Kayla (link)
ok honestly. dont get into any relationship you arent ready for, and can stay completely committed to. You jumped into it too soon not knowing the real him. Cause im sure now that hes been with you, hes starting to be himself. long distance is when your miles apart, diffrent cities, towns, states.. not schools. If you assume that guys are gunna "cheat" then you dont have enough trust with anyone to be in any relationship. If you freak out everytime they show alittle less intrest guys are gunna go crazy and end it quick. just think wisely.

if you dont like the kid then you just simply say "i think we should just be friends, and see other people. things arent the same and i dont feel attracted to you as much anymore" and your done :)

hope i helped, best wishes!




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