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Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

hey i have this friend and i dont really like her and she annoys me. well she considers me her best friend and all and always wants to come over. i always make up some excuse so she doesnt. my mom doesnt like her either and doesnt want me to hang out with her. i mean that would be fine and all but we dont only go to school together we also have dance together which is EVERY day of the week. so i cant really get away from her. i dont want to hurt her feelings or make her mad at me (or her mom mad at me) cause than at dance it could be a problem. wat should i do ???

Be nice to her. Don't be all cheerful around her and everything, and when she wants to hang out with you, give her a semi bad excuse so she gets the point, but not so bad that it's unbearing. (i don't feel well will do just fine) and then there will be no tension, but no friendship
Lizzy

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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!

You can lose some eyelashes, but not total damage. What you should do is get clinique full and curl mascara and it will curl on it's own
Lizzy

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well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child..

Dad's can be like that. Just ignore him for a while and pretend like whatever happened didn't happen and try to be as polite as possible, he is probably going through a stage where he just doesn't want to be around someone who doesn't chose him first
Lizzy

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well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child..

Dad's can be like that. Just ignore him for a while and pretend like whatever happened didn't happen and try to be as polite as possible, he is probably going through a stage where he just doesn't want to be around someone who doesn't chose him first
Lizzy

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ok well ill get rite to the point. my friend asked me out like 3 weeks ago and i sed no. but no that i come to think of it i think i should have sed yes. but my sis says that i should just go ask him out but i told her that its to late and he prolly doesnt like me ne more. wut should i do? i dont wanna ask him out cuz i gess im scared that he would say no.

Just tell him you had a lot on your mind that week and do want to go out with him. Since you said no, you'll have to make the first move, otherwise he'll never know you do want to go out with him
Lizzy

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I have a crush on a guy that's I've known for 3 years. he is on year older than me and his younger sister, who is one year younger than me, is my best friend. I've had a crush on him for more than 4 years and we used to like each other, but not to the point of dating. She's told me that she THINKS he likes me too but we're not really sure. My mom and his mom are REAL good friends, but my mom is the boss and their mom is an employee, and according to my mom she doesn't want us to date or be anything more than friends because she's afraid if anythign will happen, it will ruin their relationship. My 3 questions are--How do I drop hints to let him know I still really like him? How do I know or get him to show that he likes me too? (because at times he can be a real bi0tch.) and how do i show my mom that if anything happens we'll stay friends? (i've already tried talking to her about it...) thx

Just tell him you like him. Don't beat around the bush, that's just wasting time, your mother doesn't have to know your going out as more than just friends, kinda like on romeo and juliet, they disobey their parents for true love, but if he isn't worth it, don't do it
Lizzy

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Hi school is just getting ready to start and i've been homeschooled for the last year,or so . How can I get my mom to put me back in school???
signed
help needed

Just tell her that you really want to see what it's like to get in a real high skewl opposed to homeskewling. I'm sure she'll understand and let you go back to a public skewl if you talk to her
Lizzy

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i was just wondering something.. so maybe you can help. well tonight... my bf fingered me.. and we've done it before.. but i guess we did it "rougher" this time... and i went into my bathroom once he left.. and i was bleeding... and it hurt.. and i was just wondering if this is normal? i dunno what it is... but yeah.. plz help!!

he may have cut you out since it was too rough. or maybe if you are a virgin, your 'cherry broke' which doesn't mean your not a virgin anymore, it happens with fingering, vibraters, or even sitting on your foot don't worry about it
Lizzy

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ok idk how to say this. i read my sisters away message the other day and it sed "my life is so perfect. so dont try to ruin it" and i feel like my life is crap cuz of everything that is going on. how it her life so perfect and mine so horrible? wut am i missing?

one word, optimism. It's not bad to be a pessimess but it does make you see your life in a crappy view. Just try to see the good sides in life, like your sister, i'm pretty sure that even she doesn't have a perfect life. Even go through memories that you enjoy, that is what you are missing
Lizzy

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my sis moved out sometime after christmas. well she didnt exactly move out. shes was 17 at the time and she kinda ran away. but she stayed at her friends house during the last half of her senior year of high skool. now she is in college cuz shes taking summer courses. i miss her so much and only talk to her like every other day on the internet. what do i do? i miss her soo much and i dont know wut to do. i havent seen her alot this year. and it was her senior year which is important to some ppl. that and i feel like i wont see her anymore. wut can i do?

You really need to get in contact with her. I have six siblings, and have only been able to see one within the past two years, don't even talk to the others. Tell her that you miss her a lot. Make plans to meet up every friday night and do something fun together, that will keep your relationship tight.
Lizzy

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I really really like someone but i dont think that they would go out with me so .. what am i supposed to do ? i really wanna tell him but he likes other people..?

Well, if he likes more than one girl, how do you know he doesn't like you. Unless he is dating someone, you are free to just ask him on a date, be agressive and everything will turn out fine, even if he says no, i'm sure it wouldn't be the first time he's let a girl down and he won't string it on you, just ask! hope you get him
Lizzy

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I just found out today that I am a Level 1 Moderator =) =) I'm very excited but I think I am going out of town soon so I'm afraid they can take it away from me if I'm not active. Can my level be taken away at all?

Thanks so much!!

It won't be taken away, all you have to do is just sign on whenever possible, and in your info before you leave, tell people that you will not be able to answer for a while
Lizzy

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my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..

o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)

=0 me scared

help!

Maybe, when one really kewl guy likes a girl, that girl becomes popular to like, it's not a bad thing though, i'm sure every girl in your skewl would love to be in your position, take advantage of it, take the time to be hard to get and all.
Lizzy

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hi um my neighbor knows i like him and i think he likes me but today he had like 5 friends over and they were inside in the basement and like i heard one of them say to me hey logans gf! and i ignored her but then logan was like heyyyy rachellll! and u know what i mean but yah i dk if he likes me and i wanna go out wiht him really bad!!! please HELP!

Well, it depends on whether he said these things in a sarcastic way or in a fun way. Maybe his friends know you like him and are just playing with you. From the sounds of it, i think he does like you but you have to make the first move
Lizzy

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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Just tell him that you aren't ready, it's as simple as that, and if he denies you for that, it won't matter much because then he obviously doesn't care about you, just your body. Also, you said you don't want him to be your first, so if he doesn't understand, it doesn't seem like such a big loss, sorry to be so harsh
Lizzy

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my friend is really nice and like she lets ppl walk all over her! i mean be mean!! god!! she is just waayy too nice!!

She probably just wants to be nice to people because she probably had a bad experience with someone in a fight before. Talk to her, even stand up for her whenever someone is walking all over her.
Lizzy

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ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help?

show her what a regular sized girl should look like. Then tell her that a normal weight is more attractive then a thin gaunt weight. The reason behing eating disorders is never food. It is usually some emotional problem or low self esteem, if she seems to be very low self confident, you can bet she has an eating disorder. Tell her a little white lie like you went to a counsoler and it was just great to talk to someone, make her want to talk to someone too.
Lizzy
(hope she's ok)

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Me and my two other friends make-out. We say we just do it to practice for when we make-out with guys. But my friend say her name is "Katie" and me like really get into it. I know I am not a lesbian but for her I would do anything. And I like making out with her. We caress each other. Sometimes we even make-out when her parents are home. We even play games with other close friends just to make an excuse for making out we pretend we're in college and that we're lesbians. We lay down on each other and touch each other. I need help and I am confused. I AM NOT A LESBIAN but around her i think i am but around every one else I'm straight.. Please give me advice ASAP..

Signed,
Straight but Confused?

There are two things that this might be, you may be feeling lonely because you don't have a guy to kiss, and use her to feel needed, or you could be bisexual, which is not gay, but having feelings for one person of the same sex. If you go to gurl.com then press on sex life, they will give you information on it.
Lizzy

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okay...me and my friend are addicted to stealing. when ever we go somewhere like to the gas station or clothes we steal. we always steal candy and we steal undies. we try to stop and we just cant it is hard. and it is uncontrolable! what should we do?

theives

It's no abnormal to take a liking to a crime. Actually, i believe they have rehabilitation centers for that sort of thing if you are interested. When you go the stores, bring a really honest friend with you to stop you whenever you try to steal something
Lizzy

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ok i hav webbed feet is that normal sould i cut them with like scissors or something?

God no, some people have webbed feet when they aren't finished growing, it might grow in when your feet get bigger, but until then, just wear closed toe shoes
Lizzy

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