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this kinda has to do with my family
ok idk how to say this. i read my sisters away message the other day and it sed "my life is so perfect. so dont try to ruin it" and i feel like my life is crap cuz of everything that is going on. how it her life so perfect and mine so horrible? wut am i missing?
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maybe your concentrating too much on the bad stuff...try to have more fun and forget about anything thatgets you down!! look for the good in every situation..even though its hard to find sometimes...theres always good somewhere!! i think one of the worst things ever is when sum1 dies...especially someone i care about..but the good is...i have 1 more angel watching over me! if u ever wanna tlk feel free :)
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Hey! Well she could've been scarcastic.... And often times away messages aren't true at all. And she probably meant "I dont want to talk to you" (to the people who im her)
Nobody's life is perfect. The best thing is to realize what the good stuff in your life are. Trust me, your life will get better
xoxo,
Lara
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Its just an away message like alot of things say stuff and the people actually dont mean it! Talk to her ask her about it! :)
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Talk to her about it and see whats going on and maybe she will help you through your problems unless you post them here and i could try to help you-trix
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Well depending on what all really is going on,you should take a look at why you feel so unhappy!You never know,your sis might be hurting just much as you are,but chooses to either hide it or to fill her life with positives and try and get past the problems and hurt.Have a talk with her and ask her what her secret is,hehe!It might even bring you and her closer together!
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one word, optimism. It's not bad to be a pessimess but it does make you see your life in a crappy view. Just try to see the good sides in life, like your sister, i'm pretty sure that even she doesn't have a perfect life. Even go through memories that you enjoy, that is what you are missing
Lizzy
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Maybe she is just seein the positive in the problems in her life. And you 2 live 2 different lifes,So things are bound to be different. Just try to see things in a more positive aspect next time.
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well nobody is perfect and nobody has a perfect life.. your sister was probably just having a good day =) but all i can tell you is live life to the fullest... and don`t care what other people think or say because all that matters is what you think ! shake the haters off and be optimistic =) look at the good things in your life instead of the bad !
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I don't think anyones life can be completely perfect. People just try n hide their true feelins. You should just think possible n when you think of how ur life isn't perfect just think of how many people out there who have it worse then you.
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To tell u the truth ive felt that way alot..mainly about my brother (go figure). Im not gunna tell u wut u already can predict from a magazine but u gotta think about it..her life isnt gunna be perfect forever..and urs isnt gunna suck either. ur only missing something by holding back..u have to be confident. hope things get better!
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Well you need to be positive about things. Thats my saying lol "Always be positive, negativity gets you know where" You have to live your life, after all you only live life once...right?! So go out and have fun and live your life the fullest. Go hang out with your friends, go to partys (but dont do the wrong things, if you know what I mean!!), go to the mall, anywhere that is fun in your neighborhood. Hope this helps, if not just post back!!!
xoxo Kourtney
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