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Hi Everyone. I'm Alli. ♥

So after a 3 year break. I'm back and ready to answer any of your questions you may have. I hope to help anyone & everyone as best as I can. Have a good day!

:)

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I don't know if I like this guy like a freind or MORE then a freind. What kind of emotions do you feel for antoher guy in making this kind of dicision?

--More then a friend?

Your usually really nervous around him, or you can't stop thinking about him & all you want to do is talk to him/be with him. :)

♥ Alli

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hey how do you get thoe hearts on your advice column and can you put them on your profile if you have aim???!!?!??!

&hearts1; but take out the 1. :)

♥Alli*

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Do females find guys with ape like hairy chests sexy?

No. Shave it off, Now. :)

♥ Alli*

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Hey is there anyway that you can search for an email address? like could i get someones hotmail email if i know a bunch of stuff about them? if so send me the search! please xoxo

Nope, you can only e-mail search members if they are from MSN or Yahoo.

♥ Alli*

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hey um i really need a new screen name. i love country music, but im not like a redneck/dixie/southern or anything lol.but i love them still, but thats not just what i am right now. so i want like acountry sn but dotn want to sound like a redneck ya know ? so have any ideas ..

Hmm, you love country music? Well, maybe you could think of someone whose your favorite country singer? Or something that reminds you of country? I'm sorry i couldn't really help you much more, but you didn't provide enough info about yourself for me to figure you out one.

♥ Alli*

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Ok well i have been best frineds with this guy forever like since we were babies and i am in love with his sister. her name is alli too she is absolutly beautiful. i see her all the time and sometimes she acts like we r friends and others like she completely hates me. do i tell her how i feel and risk ruining my friendsip with her bro or just keep quiet? her bro is kinda protective

lOl ♥

♥ Alli*

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hi !
your profile was on a featured list & you seem like your good at helping
so i was wondering if you have any good screen name ideas
i maybe wanted one with my name ' jenn ' in it
i tried viva la jenn - based on viva la bam & viva la juicy.. but it was already takin
and i really need a new sn
so if you have any good sites or names that would be great
=] thanks hun !

Well, how about:

Viiva La Jenn
Viva La Jenn (then your birthday)
Viva La Jenn (and your favorite #)
Viva La JennxO
Viva x La o Jenn :)
xo viva la jenn (thats my favorite.)

♥ Alli*

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i have 2 friends i will name them bob and mary

ok my 2 friends dont like each other like for a hour they like each other than hate each other well my friend mary i knew her longer than bob they both like me always but mary some times ditchs me in school for like 10 mins than comes back and bob never does that. but every word bob says just seems like a lie i dont know why maybe so i can like her better dont know and i only knew mary only a year longer than bob. mary seems funner to hang around with but i dont want to let bob go cause we are in the same grade and me and mary arnt so we dont really spend as much time in school together but on the phone yea i dont know what i should do i kind of dont want to get them to be friends cause than mary takes bob away from me please help me.i like them the same

Hey,

I guess i can see where your coming from, a little bit.

But take my advice here:

In friends theres only this,
1 friend you think is true, and 1 friend that IS true.

You need to find out for youself who your true friends are, If someone ditches you, How is she your friend? If someone repetitly lies to you, how is she your friend? If one of them gang up one you, their NOT your friend.

I suggest making sure you know who your friends are.

I'm sorry i couldn't really word this any nicer,but im being completely honest.

Think about it.

♥ Alli*

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my mom gets pissed when i leave stuff at school. we have an email program at our school, where our teachers can email us homework. Well my teacher sent m e somethign and i dont have the book, because i didnt know what the homework would be, untill i checked my email onc ei got home, so what should i do?

Well, Wouldn't your teachers tell you if you have homework or not? It makes no sense what your saying. Unless you go to a special school or something. Have your mother drive you up to your school and pick up the books you need, it's for your own grades sake.

♥ Alli*

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ok me and my friends never really go any where what are somethings we can do and how do i tell them to go places

Umm, Well, You guys should make plans to do something. Like maybe during the weekend?

You guys could go to the Mall, Go see a movie, maybe go out to lunch? Or you can always hang out at your houses! It's always fun, and no cost twoards anything :)

♥ Alli*

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hiya
recently i feel like ive been loosing my self.
ive beeen moody, snapping at my parents and self harming, ive also been considering suicide because i dont see any reason why i can continue to live. my parents split up about a month ago, im overweight, and i just feel useless. i lost my first love over ago because i realised how much i wanted to be with him after he left. i just dont know what to do any more. im 16/f and i just feel like ive lost my life already. i dream about love falling asleep under the stars with the person i love but i cant find that person to be with.
any ideas why im feeling like this and how i can stop it will get 5's.
thanx
emma
x

Oh dear. Sorry to hear that.

First off, don't get so low on yourself. Theres got to be something good you can say about yourself.

Just think of how many people will miss you if you attempt to do something as stupid as suicide.

Sure, your moody & can snap at your parents about the most random things..but in the end they will always care about you and always love you. Spend as much time as you can with your parents.

There are many girls who are overweight, and theres absolutely nothing wrong with it. Ever heard a big & beautiful? Try exercising more, not over obsessing, but running or crunches could help.

You will expierience many different guys in your life, hes not the last one you'll find. I promise.

The only way you can stop these feelings your are having, which i can sense is depression, don't be so negative on yourself, do some of your favorite things to relax you, as in music or something of that sort. Always understand there are many people who love you, and the people that are judgemental must have something wrong with themselves. Be optimistic & outgoing and people will understand how wonderful & special you truley are.

If you need anything, just IM me at xsweetlove16x, im here for you.

♥ Alli*

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my best friend is depressed. and it makes me so sad! she says shes fat when shes NOT she says shes ugly when shes NOT and this one guy was like do you have a myspace so she gave him the link and said ew your ugly and signed off.. so she is really sad about that.. i keep telling her that if she thinks shes fat she should just go on a diet and i would go on it with her. she doesnt need to make herself prettier cause shes pretty enough! what can i do to make her feel better?

Aww, I'm terribly sorry to hear that.

I go through this TONS of times.

You should talk to your friend, tell her your deep feelings & what you really think.

Make her understand that you love her and her other friends love her the way she is, she doesn't need to be "perfect" tell her her personality is the only thing that counts.

That kid has no right saying what he said, HELL HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HER! Thats terribly wrong.

Tell her that kid must have something wrong with himself if he has to bring a nice girl like your friend down..

Tell her whats true to your heart, thats what makes a great friend. =]

Take Care.
♥ Alli*

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My vet keeps sending me postcards wanting me to bring in my cat to get her yearly exam and shots. Is this really necessary? When I was a kid, we never brought our cats to the vet. We live in an apartment, so my cat never goes outside or is exposed to other animals. So I don't see a purpose for these vaccines. She was just at the vet 2 months ago for an eye infection, so they know she is in good health. Is it really that necessary that I bring her?

Sure, its Necessary. You NEVER know what could be wrong, and its very healthy to take your pet for regular check ups. Thats what you need to do when you have an animal, its important.

So, she was at the vet 2 months ago for an eye infection? Well, thats not good.

She could have something else. Even if you live in an apartment, how do you think she got the infection?

I would reccomend going to the vet, it may be money to get a checkup, but your pet will love you! =]

♥ Alli*

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AHHH I start high school tomorrow and I haven't been to public school since fourth grade. i'm really nervous :-/. 1stly, because i don't know ANYONE, and i'm afraid i'm not gonna make any friends. 2ndly, i'm gonna be terrible with finding classes, and with all the different teachers! so... HELP? thanks! i'll rate ya 5's:-)

Aww, don't stress hun!

Everyone is nervous for starting highschool. And i feel your pain about going to a public school again, its SUPER hard. :(

Don't doubt yourself on saying "You won't make any friends".. thats what i thought. But you will make TONSSS of friends, i gurantee it.

Just remember to be yourself, don't try to fit in..and always smile :)

If you need help finding a class, just ask a hall monitor or a teacher near by. They will help you with where you need to go. And if im not mistaken, they should have already gave you a schedual & hall directions.

Take Care & Good Luck!!

♥ Alli*

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i think i have artheritis in my arm. what sign should i be aware of. i know that its something to do with the joints and thats were the pain is..it happens anytime i lift something or add a little pressure to it. am a too young to have artheritis?? 13//totally FEMALE

Whoaa, your 13 and you think you have artheritis?

I don't think it can be..

Artheritis is strong/minor pain in your joints from your knees & hands.

But if your 13..that seems a little to young to be starting to have these pains at.

I would suggest talking to your doctor, and telling him where it hurts, how it hurts and he could tell you whats wrong & what to do.

♥ Alli*

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sometimes i seriously just cant sleep...is it bad for an almost 15 yr old to use sleeping pills?
any suggestions on what type (if its not bad)?

I don't think its bad to take ONE. But if you overdose, obviously thats bad.

Make sure you find out WHY you can't sleep. If it's the bed.. the dreams.. something??

Talk to your doctor & tell him whats wrong, he should perscribe you something to help you out.

♥ Alli*

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How do i cook a steak. It's abotu 8 oz.s and it's frozen

lol, first make sure its thawed out. Then you fry it in a pan or on a grill. Not that hard. Depending how big it is, 5-8 minutes on one side, 5-8 minutes on the other. Season and Eat. Not that diffucult.

♥ Alli*

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ok if someone is pregnent how soon would morning sickness kick in? and do all women get morning sickkness? do most women get morning sickness by the time they are 2 weeks pregnent?

Well, most all pregancies are different. Some women don't have morning sickness & some do. It all depends on the woman. Even if you do have morning sickness while your pregnant, i doubt it will kick in by 2 weeks. It would have to take a month or so at least.

♥ Alli*

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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks

signed
worried friend

OH Dear!

Worried Friend,

You need to SERIOUSLY talk to your friend. Tell her parents whats going on, it doesn't matter if she will be mad at you in the end, because you helped her and thats all that matters.

We both know probably what shes capable of getting herself into..

Tell her you need to talk to her, what your feeling, and what you can do to help.

Take Care my dear.. :)

♥ Alli*

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I just found out that one of my best guy friends likes me...I don't feel the same about him,but I have no idea how to tell him other than "i dont like you" and thats kinda mean *lol* I'm also afraid it will be awkward around him, any ideas how to make sure it's not?

Just simply tell him, i don't want to date you, and i'd just like it if we're friends as we are now. It can't hurt a bit, but if you leave the part out of being friends, then yes..that would be sad.

♥ Alli*

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