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I'm only offering you options, choices, and personal advice. I can give you facts, rules, and personal statements. Whether or not you choose to use my advice or not is your own decision but please, respect it. I refuse to sugar coat anything, and I hate saying google it- infact I refuse to use google as verb.
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I been dating my boyfriend for sometime now. I am only 15 and he is 16. we made a mistake and have a son together now who is 3 months old. my boyfriend has lied so much to me. he disappeared for weeks at a time with out telling me where he was going or when he be back or with out even calling. he told he was going to sleep before but left his house and stayed at this girls house who liked him and his ex girlfriend lived there to. i try over and over again to forgive him but we keep fighting i forgave him all those times and never broke up with him. because i love him and i want him to around for his kid. he dropped out of school he gets fired from every job because he doesnt go to work because he is to tired his son is scared of him because he is never around i dont know what to do anymore please help
Wow that is one terrible situation. Do you have your parents support? If not, I suggest you get they can really help out with taking care of you son when you're at school and you will always have them there if you need to find the father.
You both are really younge it's not like those girls live by themselves. Try to talk to him, reasonably. But I think before you make any plans you should ask him if he even wants to be a part of your life and your childs life. If he says yes and honestly means it I suggest you lay down how you want to be with him and how going to school togehter can stregnthen your relationship and you can come home together to see the baby and will make taking care of him smoother. If he says no, which hopefully he won't then I suggest getting your parents into the situation if they're not.
I really hope everything works out some way or another.
oh and by the way: you're 15, the first girl is full of it when she says get a job because there is none a 15 year old can get. i think both of the other people who have responded to understand reality. he hasn't been able to keep a job and is out of school so he really is just a ball and chain on your childs life as of now, especially if your childs doesn't want him near. if there is a way to get your child to want him and him to want you and the child that would be great but if he keeps this up maybe breaking up will be best for the child.
How long will it take to see improvements if I do tae bo every night?
also, will it make my arms leaner or bulk them up?
and does anyone know how many calories it will burn?
if you are constantly moving tae bo can burn tons of calories. but you can't just movie your arms you have to jump around or jog in place.
you should see results in about 2 weeks but feel results within a few days! haha
I apologize if this is long. Well last week my friend claimed that she
told my crush that i like him and i thought o great he doesn't like me
and hes going to avoid me and stop talking to me. Before this happened
we would always talk too. Anyways he didnt avoid me, i did instead. i
stopped talking to him, when he would come my way i would turn around
and go the other, and when he would be around me i would completely be
turned the other way acting like he wasnt there or igonoring him. I was
doing that ever since today. Today was just different. He started
talking to me again. Here are all the details: I was walking up the steps and
there he is below me skipping steps and quickening his pace almost
trying to be near me i guess, then came this assembly and my friend and i
were walking out side and here he comes with his friend and we both turn
and the same time and make contact and whenever we make contact it just
feels so nice and warm and just great not cold or anything, as my
friend and i were walking he just starts running to be by me but like i said
before i was paying no attention to him but knew he was there, we get
inside and he was behind me all of the sudden and he was SO CLOSE to
sitting next to me when his friends told him to sit on the other side of
the building so he went. (once again i apologize for this being so long
but please answer my question)Lunch time: i still wasn't talking to him
and i go up to get a snack and once i get up there i see him come in, i
am in line and he kinda pushes me out the way kind of looking for
something but he didn't even look for what he was looking for and his hand
on my shoulder was nice and soft and stuff. Then outside he started
mocking me for no reason and teasing me. Toward the End of the Day: i was
getting my stuff from my locker and my locker is right by the door of
his last class so im getting my things and he walks out and starts
messing with me and tried to kick my locker closed and started hanging out
with this guy he has never met before and started mocking me like he used
to and always told me he did it because he liked seeing me angry. Then
i go downstairs to get my friend and hes down there and then started
mocking me again because i told him he scared me. Now the mocking and
eeverything from lunch to the end i started talking to him again but
should i? So thats is. Can you tell me what all this means please. Am i
wasting my time if he's just talking to me just to be flirting?? Thanks a
bunch!!
Stop ignoring him. He's probably getting annoyed because you are ignoring him. You like him you shouldn't be so distant. People like people and you shouldn't feel so mortified by it. I promise you that if you start making good and real conversation with him it will stop. I think because your friend told the guy you liked that you liked him you are making a big deal when he walks up the stairs or is in line at lunch. Just be cool and relax. Guys don't only flirt meanly they flirt nicely. What time do you think your wasting is the question... what have you done to make you waste your time? All you have done is like him so far. Just keep on being yourself don't get all tense about your situation.
what gives you better results? exercising a few times a week and eating 3 meals or eating 3 meals plus snacks and exercising more.
thanks
What would you prefer to do, eat more and exersize more. Or eat less and exersize 3 days a week? As long as you're eating a good diet one which is high in lean proteins whole grains and veggies either should work well. But the results will be the same, 1-3 pounds a week with a steady reasonable diet.
does anyone know a good deoderant brand that really works and holds back oder and smell?
Ban deoderant. The one in the green bottle. They smell great and REALLLLLLY work, better than secret.
i ran/walked a mile on my treadmill yesterday and i did the same thing today. it takes me about 20 min. im 5'3 and i weigh 123, and i would like to weigh 110. if i ran/walked a mile everyday how long would it take me to get to 110? and how long would it take me to lose like just a couple pounds? also, i have a big butt and i really dont want to lose it lol, do you think i would? i just want my hips smaller, my love handles gone, and my stomach to be a lot flatter. i want my butt better looking, but i dont want it gone lol.
first off if you don't plan on eating healthy with your exercise you're pretty much sweating for nothing. 70% of loosing weight is diet.
yes a mile everyday will help you reach your 110 goal. it can take you like 3 days to loose 2 pounds but that's usually only water.
i don't think you will loose your butt if you loose 13 lbs but there are toning workouts for you butt to make it tighter- ever heard of the workout 'buns of steal'?
running will help everything but you really want to do some toning and muscle work too. crunches, push-ups, squats, lunges, leg lifts, oblique crunches, ect.
how can a girl make her orgasms more intense??
i ned advice asap.
ty in advance.
Breathe deeper and slower.
I've been trying to watch what I eat lately, and it doesn't seem to be working. I have trouble controlling the amount of calories I intake, and it's getting to be a problem. I'm on the verge of being overweight, and I've been getting more active. Food is the only thing in the way.
What can I do to help restrain myself from eating just junk. Any suggestions or tips? Anything?
Thank you so much!
Well you are already admitting that you want to stop eating uncontrollably so when you're about to grap something to eat whether you're bored or want something to munch on just remember that. Grap a piece of fruit instead. Buy some of those carrots and ranch dressing lunch snack things. They're good and it's a perfect snack.
When a girl shaves her pubes, do they shave it ALL off? Or just the sides? Whats most common?
Most girls shave everything off. I wax, I have been waxing since I was 14, I think it's just disgusting to shave your vagina but unless your good with pain don't wax it haha.
Does anyone know any quick constipation remedies?
thanks
Try eating unrefined food such as whole grains, fruits, vegetables, beans, nuts, seeds), drink at least 6 glasses of water daily, and get lots of exercise. Stay away from corn syrup which is an ingredient in a lot of foods and stay away from honey too.
I came onto this site a few weeks ago asking a question about becoming a model and how you have to look.
But, what is beautiful? Someone on this site told me "If your not beautiful, then don't bother"
But what are the criteria for being beautiful?
..
To be a model, to put it bluntly beauty is this:
skinny preferably size 0, size 4 MAX.
some boobs nothing to large.
great bone structure (chin, jaw line, cheek bones, forehead)
good completion (i.e: no zits AT ALL)
good teeth
no huge thighs
no huge arms
no wrinkles
good hair, not thin.
i suggest you watch the show 'The Agency' on VH1. it's about the Wilahmina modeling agency and believe me, they are HARD CORE. it will show you first hand what the modeling beauty world is like.
I have been on diets before but nothin really worked. I was 169 pounds when I started the last one I was on and I lost 5 pounds. Thne my mom didn't but or help me with anything else after that so I ate what she ate/or made me. I am now 195 pounds and im only 14!!! I amm very much overweight and I wanna loose but when I try now it seems that i only gain. I want to try the Special K cereal but my mom wont buy it. she says its a waist of money. I do have a boyfriend and he doesnt think im fat but I am and every girl knows that if they ask their boyfriends they are gonna tell you what you wanna hear not what you need to hear. I need some tips on how to loose weight and things I can do to boost my metabolism. I wanna loose weight as fast as I can!!! even if it means puking after meals I will do it!! If you have ever been overweight and/or fat then you know how it feels to want to be skinny.
I know how you feel, when you say you will do anything and want to loose fast, I know how you feel. Anything will go because thin tastes better than anything. Thought I was never considered overweight I use to go through issues in my past. One thing I learned about loosing weight is that there really is no fast solution if you want it to last. If you want to a life time solution it will take hard work and definitely no puking. I suggest you read up on the South Beach Diet (southbeachdiet.com) It works THE BEST hands down but only if you follow the plan correctly, no slipping up! It's hard but worth it. The only problem with any diet you do is that you start off hard and then it gets less strict and you may gain a pound and get mad and eat less and loose a pound but then you will gain it back. So if you decide to do this diet or any other just stick with the plan, don't get upset if you gain a pound or you're not loosing fast enough. Also, exercise. 10 minutes on the treadmill a day is not enough. I suggest 30-45 minutes of cardio whatever it may be (running, treadmill, elliptical, dance, DDR, swimming,ect.) 3 days a week minimum. Also do muscle toning with it, lunges, crunches, pusups, leg lifts, arm curls, ect. (DDR is amazing for both cardio and leg toning).
14/f
this is really kind of embarrassing, but one of my boobs is noticibly(to me at least) bigger than the other. it really bothers me and makes me self concious in like bathings suits and other articles of clothing where you cannot wear a bra. So i was wondering, is there any way i can "even them out" or something? Thanks in advance.
It normal but can be a little awkward. You're 14 so most teens your age wouldn't really notice anything. If you're wearing a bikini (halter or string) try tying one of the sides (the one of the boob thats larger) tighter. So use more of that sides string, it may help to make it look smaller. Theres nothing else that you can really do with a bathing suite without getting caught. However, to make the other look larger under clothing I suggest two things, one is a sticky enhaser which is like a gelly sort of bra cup (without the straps or anything) and you can just put it on the boob you want. They sell somthing like it at victoria secret but unless one breast is like two sizes smaller it will make it look large but I suggest you check it out. My other suggestion is this: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZM-201659&page=1&cgname=OSBRPSHAZZZ&rfnbr=3353
Like if your having sex or giving a blow job, and the boy cums in a couple minutes, like quick, is that like less pleasuring? Is it better if like its longer?
guys don't feel when they ejaculate, which is why the pull-out method doesn't always work. some people say that when the guy is done ejaculating he won't be hard for long but it's not always tru.e just keep him arroused and he will stay 'in the mood' for longer.
whenever i get my period i get a rash on my vagina and it get scabs and sweaty idk whats wrong?
Maybe you're just not cleaning your vagina properly. I mean, if it's around only the time of your period it's probably just dried up blood. Try changing your pad and tampon more often. It's probably sw2eaty from wearing the pad. If none of this is correct then see your gyno.
what hurts more...getting ur belly button pierced for your cartilige on ur ear?
For me, neither really hurt when I got it pierced. HOWEVER, the aftercare and pain is worse with the belly button.
I am a football player. I am 6'4 320 about and exactly fat fat but fat. I am pretty strong but not good looking. I understand this and i am losing weight. I am extremly friendly have lots of friends and have no problem talking to girls, but because well ithink because of my weight thats all it amounts to. I dunno but i am losing weight and all but what do i do now. I cant live like this its hard not having a person to hold. I guess i need dome help. I feel weird asking this. My friends would laugh so hard if they ever saw this. Oh and i will be going to college for football as a lineman. I am a junior. I have a year left and i need some help.
Men, on average, loose weight much faster than woman and gain muscle faster. If you're really willing to work on it I suggest you start a plan, such as South Beach Diet, Atkins, Weight Watchers, ect. Each have websites you can visit to get to understand their program. However, if you want to do this on your own this is what I suggest you do... Eat lots of proteins like eggs, grilled chicken, grilled beef/pork, tuna, salmon, tofu, ect. Eat whole grains and vegitables and fruite. Drink water with every meal if you can and the easiest way to loose weight, especially for men is to stop drinking sodas. Just by eliminating soda and sweet juices will help more than you can imagine! Mix a 35-40 minute cardio (which I'm sur eyou can due because you are a football player) with muscle workouts.
Ok, well my name is Erin. And I need a new HOT AIM screen name. here is some stuff about me...
I have brown hair.
I play basketball and softball.
I love guys.
AND IM JUST UR AVERAGE GIRLY-GIRL, WITH A SPORTY SIDE.
Any ideas for a new screen name???
Thanks a bundle!
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Erins Hot Sn
it's 'hot'!
how can you tell a coach purse from a nock off one?
http://reviews.ebay.com/Spotting-Fake-Coach-Purses-or-Items-List-of-Tips_W0QQugidZ10000000001254456?ssPageName=BUYGD:CAT:-1:LISTINGS:4
OR hahahaha...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061028142926AAIgGul
Do you know a website that tells you the average GPA of students accepted at different colleges? Thanks.
Theres not such REAL list. However(for SAT test schores), from real and personal expierence. You need atleast a 2100 to get into any Harvard type school. And a 1900 to get into UCLA. Average is 1550-1750.
If you want to get into a good college like Harvard, Standford, Columbia, ect. You need a 4.0 and if not then you need a 4.2-4.6 (which you can get by taking A.P classes) with great extra curriculars. Or you need a minimum of 3.8 with great extra curriculars.