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I love giving advice & I think I'm pretty good at it. I can get along with almost anyone unless they piss me off. I adore Hollister, it's my favorite store ever. I'm not a girly girl but I'm not a tomboy either. I don't wear any make-up at all, I don't like it. I hate it when girls wear way too much of it, it's.. ew. I'm a pretty big goofball & I love making people laugh. I'm not very mature, either. Love me or hate me, I'll still be me & I won't change for anyone.


I have a lot in common with people but I'm still different. I'm not stuck up & I like making new friends. I have a lot of them but I have no idea what I'd do without my best friends. I don't judge people by the way they dress, their personality is what gets me.


Music takes up a huge part of my life. I listen to pretty much anything & everything. Literally, you name it.. I probably like it. I love romantic songs & songs that make me wanna dance. :D


Kevin is the love of my life. He's always there for me when I need him & he's everything I've ever wanted. He's handsome, romantic, sweet, smart, hilarious.. everything. Words can't express how much I love him. We've been together since June 14, 2005. We're gonna be together forever & no one can stop us. ♥ ♥ He has a column on here, too. His name's OxVolleyballQT98 but he's never on it anymore. Look at his advice if you want to though, maybe he answered a question that you need help on.


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I have a problem, and it's very bad. Sometimes I just want to cry and cry forver. I have a phobia of not being perfect. I need perfect grades, perfect friends, perfect face, prefect body, perfect breast, perfect family, perfect house, perfect life. I don't know what to do. I always feel so ugly, and that no one likes me. Yet I am very popular in school and have lots of friends. I go to parties every weekend... and try to live the classic Hollister & Ambercrombie California barbie. I'm pretty good at it too, except for my confidence. I'm 5'3" and weigh 103 pounds and am constantly worrying about my body. Everyday I will look in front of my mirror with nothing on and just look at my body and cry. I'm fat, no breast, no butt, my face is too big, my arms are to skinny, but nose is to big, my chinis ugly. I have a dissorder adn I don't know what to do. Sometimes I just think if i should throw up after meals... but the thing is i don't know why i should. Everybody thinks my life is great and perfect... but it's not. I'm so unhappy about everything, I hate my life sometimes i just want to die. What is your advice? Should I stick with my dream of being perfect and plan my plastic surgeries when I get older adn stick with my studies. Or shoudl O let go? Should I go to councilling, please help... I'm so confused!

Hey there, it's okay. Don't think so bad about yourself because no one will ever be perfect. No one will ever have the perfect body, perfect face, perfect life, etc. because we all have our flaws. We'll always think somebody's prettier, smarter, whatev. Don't get plastic sugeries or anything like that because it's fake & not pretty at all. You're probably very pretty if you're popular in your school & if you have a lot of friends. You're not fat at all if you're 5'3" & weigh 103 pounds.. you're so skinny! If you want to go to a councelor, that's fine but I don't see a reason why. Girls always have problems with the way they look when they're a pre-teen or a teenager.

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16/F.
My 2 best friends have been going out since the summer (don't worry, it's a guy/girl....) I'm really happy for them & all, but sometimes it gets annoying, because whenever I do get to spend time with either one of them (since they're constantly with each other), we always end up discussing the person's bf / gf. They are always asking, "So what does he/she say about me??" & I always end up having to spill the juicy, mushy details of all the "oh she/he's so hot" & all that. I feel less like their friend & more like their spy now! It really makes me feel used. So, my question is... is it wrong for me to want them / encourage them to break up (I know that seems kind of selfish, but....) or what am I supposed to do about this? I rate 5's for non-crap answers. ;)

No, I don't think it's selfish of you. Some couples aggrivate me when they do that stuff & I want them to break up, too, but if it's one of my friends I'd talk to them. Talk to both of your friends seperately & tell them how you feel & that you don't like being in the middle of their relationship because you feel used. They're best friends with you so they should understand how you feel.

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okay, so i like this guy and he flirts with me and stuff and i do back. but the problem is that he has a girlfrienf. they have been going out over a month now and i dont know how serious it is. he never bring her up when we talk so i dont know if he knows i knows that he has a girlfriend. but i really really like this guy i mean a whole lot. and i thought he would be my first guy to go out with and we almost danced at charity ball, but he had a girlfriend which i knew, but he never said "no" we just didnt. and he felt bad and asked one of his friends to dance with me. but i said no. does he really like me or am i just like his little pitty friend?? thanks-- michelle

Aww, well I know you like this guy but he has a girlfriend so maybe you should wait until they break up & don't flirt with him that much. He must love his girlfriend if he's still with her but he might like you because he flirts with you & he wanted to dance with you. Just give it some time, don't start any trouble with them & maybe you'll have a chance with him later on.

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hey my name is Jess im 13. well my boyfriend is really sweet and nice but he always thinks i have to be around him. im always canceling my plans just for him. Well im sick of it. Today i told him i was going out with my friends cause i had this all planned to go out tolunch but of course he wants me to hangout with him. he says i was being a bitch taking ym friends over him. its annoying but i really love him. what can i do to make him stop acting like this. I know if i say my friends are important to me to he wll get mad. Please Help
Sincerely, Jess

Talk to him & tell him to give you some space. He's a little too obsessive & jealous if he only wants you to be with him all the time. You're not being a bitch if you want to hang out with your friends & not him for once.

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So I haven't seen my boyfriend a lot lately. I'm afraid he's losing interest in me. He was sick before so he couldn't come see me. I haven't seen him in 2 weeks. I thought the break would bring us closer but it he hasn't been able to get a ride. I really think I'm not going to see him until next year which would be a month of not seeing him. Is it wrong to get upset about it? It feels like it is. I see him once every week or so.. So it feels like I haven't been around him in 2-3 months and people are saying that I'm too emotional..

No, it's not wrong that you get upset over it. I'd get up set over it, too. Talk to your boyfriend about how your relationship's going. If he'll make attempts to see you than don't break up with him.

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What the crap does this " ♥ " mean?

It's the heart symbol. You can't just put the heart symbol on your page, you gotta type in that code to put a heart on your column.

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OKAY... please do not anwser this question unless you are 100% sure

Can you get pregnant if you havent had you period yet?!?!

Yes, you can.

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Hey everyone. Well for New Years me and my one friend want to get drunk. Well, not drunk with alcohol but like maybe a caffeine high...play it safe. What are some drinks that have a lot of caffeine in them or any other drinks that get you really hyper...almost as if you were truley drunk. haha Thanks for the advice!

Any soda with caffeine [ Mountain Dew has a lot of it ], coffee, Red Bull, Bawls, AMP, Sobe.. basically any energy drink besides Gatorade. That's all I can think of.

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I have a bf and we've been going out for 3 months, but i've kept this hidden from my parents the entire time, i'm 13 mind u, and my mom wont let me have a bf she says its already enough that i've had my first kiss and she found me downstairs cuddling with a guy, with my head on his lap sleeping, i really dont see why i cant have a bf i think she's over reacting bc i know kids my age do way more than kiss or cuddle is she over reacting???? i'll rate high for any suggestions, or anyway to see my boyfriend w/o getting caught thanks

She might be over reacting a little. She probably just doesn't want you to do anything bad with a boy at your age since you're only 13. Your mom doesn't want you to end up having a disease or end up getting pregnant. She only wants the best for you so it's good if she over reacts a little because than you know she cares about you.

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alright so I like this guy but now he has a girlfriend..yea my friend =/ ...and my friend knew i liked him and she said yes anyways and the boy knew i liked him and asked her out right infront of myface..totally a BUMMER..i was mad at my friend but should i stilll be or should i act cool like i dont care..and the guy nows i was pissed off but this all happened a week ago...so should i stil be pissed or just be over it..and now how do i act towards the guy..

ill rate 5 for trying!! =)

Try & get over it. Guys are stupid when they know you like them & than they ask your friend out. They more than likely want to make you jealous. Just forget about him & act like you don't care towards your friend because she's ignorrant for going out with a guy that she knew you liked.

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Okay...i want some really good love songs. It would be best if they were by current artists, but if it's older thats fine. If anyone can give me this list quick and with good selections, i'll rate high

- "Just Gotta Make It" by Trey Songz featuring Twista
- "Stick Wit U" by The Pussycat Dolls
- "We Belong Together" by Mariah Carey
- "Better Off" by Ashlee Simpson
- "God Blessed The Broken Road" by Rascal Flatts
- "You & Me" by Lifehouse
- "Let Me Love You" by Mario
- "Obsession" by Frankie J
- "Best Of Me" by The Starting Line
- "Tiger Lily" by Matchbook Romance

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