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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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hEy please help me if you can.! Okay, well ive been going out with the same guy for 7 months and im 13 if that means n e thing. We've done everything but sex, but im in love with him. The bad thing is that i dont do that stuff with him n e more bc i guess i dont feel a connection. I know he is in love me but how do i go about telling him that i dont want to be with him anymore? Im only 13 i want to go out with other ppl..also i think i just want to go on break with him..how should i go about telling him that?? PleAsE heLP! I know this is going to break his heart but i would rather do this than cheat on him!
Everything that you just told me is what you need to tell him. Tell him that you don't want to cheat on him and that you want to be honest and that your needs in this relationship aren't being met and that it's your responsibility to meet them. Or to make sure that they are met. Tell him that you're really sorry that it had to end this way and that you do care about his feelings. Tell him that he'll find someone who will love/like/care for him a whole lot better than you can. Tell him that he deserves more and he'll get it but you just can't give it to him. Just tell him simply that it wasn't meant to be. He'll understand it, and if he takes it hard, believe it or not, he will get over it. So just trust your instincts and tell him.
Hey everyone. I'm in a spot of a dilemma here. You see, I have this friend who I've been chatting to online for around 2 years now and he's coming down to meet (don't worry, he's not a pedophile or anything. we've spoken on the phone and web cam and all) anyway, we were planning to see green day together and he already bought the tickets and his plane ticket. Anyway, a few days ago my good friend who lives here bought me a ticket to see Green Day. It was going to be a suprise but then he found out I was already going and had to fess up. Anyway, the next time he saw me he HANDED the ticket to me, which I now have. My good friend bought the ticket for me as a present and I don't have to pay him or anything, and I'd feel bad making him give it to someone else. But the other guy can't cancel his plane ticket or sell his ticket (since he lives in brisbane and i'm in melbourne) advice please??
thanks
Well, it's really who you care about the most and who you want to go to the concert with you. I know that you want to be considerate, but this really is one of those situations where someone out of the three of you will be offended or insulted and one of those people may end up to be you. Tell the guy that handed you the ticket your situation. Tell him where the guy is flying from and try to make him understand that you really and extremely are sorry about it and maybe that he could go himself or give someone else the ticket that he wants to have the ticket to go to the concert. Just try to make him understand . Just try. Really try and make him see how much you care and how really sorry you are.
If im about 5'2 and 13 1/2 years old and weigh 115 pound am I fat or overwight?
Actually, you're underweight. And that's pretty good. Don't worry hun, girls would kill to be 115 pounds. They would LITERALLY KILL to have your weight. You are at the right weight. Don't worry.
what is a good way to start talking to someone who you like and you think that person likes you too. im sometimes really shy.
First, just start out small. Don't expect much if you aren't usually surrounded by the person much. If you know what the person's into, then just start talking about things like that. Don't seem like you're trying to force the conversation because that can cause him/anyone to think that you're weird. Just be you and try and talk about something that you both can relate too and if he's a guy, then talk about sports. Guys love sports and guys love girls that know about sports and the ones that can play sports and don't freak out if you don't know how to play that sport or know nothing about any sport at all. Just talk about it. Let him teach you. Or talk about what you like to do after school(if you go) or something that you're interested in. Just be you and be cool.
ok well i really like this guy and he wants me to go over his house and i want to (hes been to my house before and lets say me n him kissed **a few times**)but everytime he hangs out with a girl something happens weather its just a kiss or sex. and i wouldnt have a problem with this but after i found out that he only likes me as a friend and that he likes my cousin things changed...a few weeks ago before i found out that he didnt like me or before i found out that he liked my cousin he told me he wanted to finger me and i said ok but now that he likes my cousin should i go over his house when i no something is gonna happen?
No you shouldn't go over to his house. If you want a man, you should want all of him. Not only part of him. And only part of him really wants you and the other half might want your cousin or somebody else that he covets. He isn't worth that because he just really isn't special enough for that. He can't have it both ways. Why would you want him to have it both ways. You want to have all of him to yourself as he should want to have all of you, and only you, to his self. And he doesn't. Believe me, honey, he isn't worth the time. Just wait. You will find that someone who wants you and only you and every inch of you. You will find them it just will take more time. You'll find that when you're not expecting it, that that's when it'll hit you. Just wait. He isn't the one. He's , well you know, you just can't make it meant to be with him. You may want him to be , but you know he's not. Don't waste your time on him. Or your pride.
I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13)
Texas Chainsaw Massacre really wasn't that scary to me because it just had a lot of stupid people within the town looking stupid and doing stupid things. The only thing freaky about the movie was the way the people within the town acted and the things that the killer actually did to the people. They actually even show things that he collects in the movie if you haven't already seen it. The only scary thing about the movie is the blood and that really isn't scary at all. I reccommend Halloween, Scream 1,2, and 3,(the only thing scary about scream is that there's the possibility that it actually could happen in your community and the stabbing too)Freddy, The Ring, and the exercist. Also, Jeepers Creepers one and two too. Those are some that I reccommend. I don't know anything about the other movie that you mentioned. Sorry.
ok so my periods started today, agh what a pain. but im supposed to go to a theme park tonight and i LOVE rollercoasters and going upside down and stuff. if i wear a pad (cant wear tampons for some medical reason) would i like leak going upside down or something? haha idk really i was just wondnering if itd be stupid or something
haha
thanks to anyone who can help :-D
It all depends upon the size of the pad that you wear and if it gives you enough support. If you bleed heavily, then you should of course wear a supper. If you don't bleed heavily, then you know what size you should wear. So, as long as you keep a cleanly sanatized pad and change it frequently, then there shouldn't be any problem at all. The only thing you'll have to worry about then is odor. And any pad that has its own scent would definitely cover you. SO, I hope that was some help and have a lovely day.
my crush asked me to the halloween dance today. I accepted, but now im petrified. Im just really scared. WHAT IF EVERYTHING GOES WRONG... i dont know... what if ... geez, right now im freaked enough to believe that aliens can ruin this dance. i want everything to be perfect, but even still, in the mean time, how can i get rid of this... dance phobia thing ;)
Honey, I get what you're saying. But what you must already know is that everything in this night will not be perfect and everything within this night isn't going to go your way or just be right. There are going to obstacles that you're going to face and it's your choice and decision on how you handle them. You just need to be yourself and let nature or the party take its course. Trust me, everything will be alright and if it's not, then it's truly not ment to be and don't worry about it if it isn't. Just have fun. Try to be casual and just have fun. Don't worry about the dance because you may worry about it so much that it may actually become reality. Just chill.
me and my friend were best-friends since we were 4. we're 13 now and since we were 9 she's been hanging around with other people at lunch time.It didn't bother me that much .She became way more popular but it was like nothing had changed outside of school.When we 1st went into 1st year in secondary school (in Ireland)and i was really happy that she starterd hanging out with me in school again.Now we're in 2nd year and we don't see each-other outside school that much and we don't hang out in school and we're only in three classes together.she still talks to me like everything is fine.She doesn't sit beside me in two of the classes unless her friends aren't there!Sheonly sometimes sits beside me in the other class but lately she hasn't even been doing that!I think she's using me but if I tell her then she might not be my friend at all.What should I do?HELP!!!P.S. I'm a thirteen year old girl.
Talk to her about your feelings and if she doesn't respond the way she doesn't want you to respond, then you have to find a new friend. You don't want to be friends with someone that treats you like dirt. You want a friendship with respect. You want a friendship that has that attention and there's nothing wrong with that at all. Nothing. Talk to her about it because you could possibly value this friendship more than she does. Please. Trust me, it may be the only thing that's helpful for yourself. Just talk to her.
How do I ask a guy to homecoming?? how can I ask him like what do i say
Try to be casual and try to mention that it's alright if he doesn't want to come with you even though it may not be alright with you if he doesn't want to come with you. Start off with a good topic. Then gradually and casually take it to asking him out. Oh and don't force it ok. If you don't force it, you'll have a better chance.
What is 3rd base and how many bases are there?.I would never go furter than 1st base with a boy but you can't stop a curious 13 year old girl from wondering!!
Third base is sex. The next big step basically. One of the biggest steps besides marriage itself.
This sounds really stupid, but what is homecoming?
A celebration when they crown the queen of your school and the king, although some schools don't have a king, at your school or community.
My computer is really slow!!! We have these user thing that you click on your name and you type in your password.Well we have six of those on are computer. Well when the first person that logs on it the computer is fast but the second person that log on when the other person logs off it is slow. And I mean Really, Really slow!!!! Like you cant even click on anything,and when you do it make this really weird sound and it keep's doing this. And now when ever somebody else wants to get on then They have to turn off the computer, Then have to turn it on again Is this normal???? And how do you fix it?? And don't say get a new computer because It's not my decision it's my mom and dads. Please HELP I will appreciate it and will rate you trust me I check this mostly EVERY DAY so please answer it because I need help with this darn thing. Also when you get in to a progam this Anti Virus thing come up. Is that whats making my computer so meesed up, and slow????? : ) I added you as my favorite columnist.
Love Brittany
I definitely know exactly what you're talking about because my computer does the same thing. It's so slow because it's downloading and processing the information in your harddrive and it's uploading all of that every time you get onto the internet or everytime you get onto your computer. You don't have to cut your computer off but that will make it a lot easier for you when it comes to viruses not getting into your computer. Basically, the speed of your computer depends on your server at times and the watts that your computer transfer. Maybe you can talk to your mom about getting a better offer with the server like net zero or who ever she's with, or to change to services/servers like net zero that's only 10.95 cents a month. And when you're getting internet that fast, that's pretty cheap. Oh and a thing to do is to delete anything that you haven't saved on a disk that may be on your harddrive, delete programs that you don't use so much, and update your virus protector as much as possible. I know that I wasn't much help but those are the closest tips that I can give to you and I know how you feel because I hate it too when people say,"get a new computer." Oh and thank you so much for adding me as a favorite columnist. I appreciate it. Maybe you can email me at lovang4u@yahoo.com whenever you feel like it. God knows I never get enough mail . Well, bye.
my girlfriend broke up with me but i think she still is in love with me but im scared to ask her out again what should i do
If you are absolutely a 100% sure that she is the one you want to have so desperately, then you should definitely ask her. Don't be the kind of person that's wondered about what if I should've or could've because the only thing that will matter is that you didn't . And you will never know. Never. Unless you take the action that needs to be taken. Ask her again and be very patient with her. Don't force the issue. You have to summon the courage if she's worth it. But you have to be real though and be prepared for the fact that there may be a possibility that she may not want you back. And if she doesn't , that's her loss. Not yours. If she can't see how lovely you are, then she doesn't deserve you and therefore she isn't worth going crazy over. But I really do think that if you keep your cool and don't force things, and try to persuade her that you two will get it right this time, then I think that you'll have a great possibility of getting with her again.
Sometimes i feel like i want to die, i dont feel like miserable or anything and i dont want to die just for a way out, i feel kind of excited about death, like when i die i will be at peace with everything. isnt that what everyone wants inner peace and to live in eternal paradise? thats what i want? what are we waiting for?
Honey, life is an obstacle with a lot of challenges that face your way. It's hard and yes it really is, but you know it's all worth it. I know that sometimes things feel as if they keep taking and taking and eating everything inside of you leaving you with nothing left but you have to fight. Life is worth fighting for. You will see that it will get better. Gradually and slowly. It's also the way that you view life that needs to change because it really does affect your perspective about death and life. Oh, and not to
mention that if you kill yourself that God will punish you by sending you straight to hell. But if you don't believe in that, then I'm not going to waste time explaining it to you. I respect that . You have to explore yourself, and that is not life honey that is you and with it comes your life. Inner peace, life doesn't influence inner peace. It tests it. You have to look deep within yourself and tap into that strength that's there and then you have to live. Life will test you but will you let it beat you? It's all up to you.
I wrote a question yesterday about being accused of something i didn't do.. Hope you guys remember that... Anyways, the principal just told me that I am suspended from the bus for 2 weeks and I have to clean all the stupid busses on Monday. I think that that is child abuse. He blamed me for something I didn't do. I only ripped a tiny bit of the window film.. Thats an unreasonable reason to suspend me. This other guy cut the seatbelts, ripped the air freshener and he's going to do the same thing as me. 2 weeks of suspension and community service.
He also called my parents about it. I'm already through with my mom, but now comes the hard part. My dad. I really don't know what to tell him..
What should I say to my dad and tell the principle it's a stupid reason to suspend me??
Try and tell your father the truth and keep eye contact because it is very important that you do.Tell him the simple true and express your feelings about this unjust punishment and ask him if he could challenge the principals decision. Just try and talk to him. Just try and try harder to make him believe you .
My boyfriend is FAR too calm. I hate it. I mean i love it at times but sometimes a realationship needs some tension. Like and I wanna fight with him than kiss and mkae up. He never gets mad. Like last week this guy completly tried to get in my pants right in front of him and he just laughed it off. PISSED ME OFF!
Today one of my best friends whos like obsessed with me and he put his arm around me and was like kissing my cheek and my bf wasnt even like mad at all.
How should I make him madder like cuz this calmness with be the downful of our realtionship.
Ask him if he cares. Or just talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and everything and then you'll know the truth. Talk to him about his calmness and how it unnerves you a bit. If he seems like he doesn't care, then it's a possibility that he might not care about you and that's when you leave 'em. So, bye.
Here goes:
I'm 17 now but when I was in the 8th Grade (last year of Junior High) I was considered a "geek". I was bookworm. Overweight and quiet. There was this pretty popular boy in my class who used to make fun of me all the time. He really made my life hell. After about two months, he started acting different around me. Sometimes he'd be really mean and then sometimes he'd be super nice (like random acts of kindness) and the one day after school, him and his female friend were talking in an almost empty classroom while I was trying to finish up some math. She asked him a question with my name in it and my ears perked up and then she called me and she said "--- likes you" and I made a face at him because I thought he was an ass at the time. Anyway, I think I hurt him a bit. He told me he hated me a few weeks after that incident.
A few months passed and we entered high school and I started liking him (he was still pretty popular but I was still a geek) but I figured I only liked him because he used to like me and I thought I'd get over it.
That year he told my friend that I was a geek.
During high school I’ve grown to love him more. I'm not a geek and I've lost a lot of weight (although I'm still a few pounds up). People who used to know me consider me considerably ‘cooler’. I'm sort of what you would call semi-popular but I'm not sure if I still measure up.
I don't know if he likes me too. My friends aren’t sure either. They say that over the span of the past three years, he stares at me sometimes when I'm not looking and –I- catch him looking too (except I'm not sure if he was looking first or just kept looking at me because –I- look at him). He does stuff sometimes like get really fidgety if he's walking in front of me or put the volume up in his car if he's near me. Just basic stuff.
I'm wondering is there an indication that he likes me at all and this could work or is he still mad at me and just looks because he's trying to prove something to himself and/or me?
The only way to find out the truth is to get it from the horse's mouth. I know that it will be hard to take the risk because the courage is low, but that's the only way to find out the truth. So do you dare do it. Don't be afraid of rejection. Just do it. You'll never know the truth if you don't ask and if you don't ask, why waste your time. Just do it and tell him how you feel. Go for it . Definitely. I got a good feeling about this.
I was wondering. Do any of your know what the valence is for the element lithium?
The valence electrons for lithium is 1 because it's group number is one. See the valence electrons are whatever number the group number is. If it's Sodium, it's valence electron is 1. If it's Magnesium, then it's valence electron is 2. Groups 3-12 don't have valence electrons. If it' s Boron, then it's valence electron is 3. I know , you're thinking that it's supposed to be 13 because it's in group thirteen. But whenever you have groups 13-18, you always say that the number of valence electrons is the second number behind the first in its group number. For instance, Carbon's valence electron is 4 but since 14 is it's group number, and four is the 2nd number behind one which makes it 14,then 4 is therefore the valence electron. This counts for group 13-18. So, I really do hope that I was a little help and if I confused you more , please disregard it.
I'm 27 yrs, newly married. my problem is I'dont wan to get pregnant now. I'm totally not ready to be mother now coz i'm still pursuing my studies. I'm very scad to inform this to my husband coz i scad he will upset about that coz he loves children and he is a very loving person. I alrdy tempted to sex once but i'm scad i'm pregnant now, eventhough i take early precautions. please let me know how to avoid this pregnancy? and any symtoms?
First, you need to be absolutely sure that you are not pregnant. Go to your doctor I recommend for actual results or go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test. You could also ask your doctor to prescribe birth control pills although they aren't 100% safe you know. I really think that you would be better off safe if you told your husband about what you're feeling. You know , it's not a good thing to start a new marriage off without expressing your feelings about something. Especially something that has a hot topic such as this. You really should talk to him and explain the reasons why he feels this way. Maybe he won't overreact the way that you think he will. Oh and honey you'll have to get over the initial fear of being afraid that your husband will be upset.When you're married, you and your husband are going to be upset with each other plenty of times b/c you're going to argue. That is marriage as you know and this is a issue worth arguing over. So it's really up to you to decide what you're going to do, but I think that you should tell him. Have a nice day.