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at a school dance, i was a little depressed because i had just broken up with some jerk. my friend set me to slow dance with another guy, but it doesn't feel right. what is wrong? (link)
I wouldn't fret about it too much. I'd just wait a little while to let all your emotions settle down.


everytime I go to the bathroom, I feel the need to tuck my underwear into my vagina, is that normal? (link)
No.


i have friends but the second i turn my back they talk about me make fun of me and they are so two faced and a backstabber because they always go crawling back to my arch arrival enemy antonia what should i do? (link)
Well sounds to me like they aren't really friends. If they are back-stabbing you and making fun of you I would stop hanging out with them.


I like to have sex with my dog, is that normal? (link)
Ummmm. If you ask me that is animal abuse. I'd stop.


PLEASE HELP ME I LOVE THIS GUY SO MUCH AND HE IS THE AIR I BREETH HE IS MY ONE SOMEONE BUT HE LEFT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW CAN I GET MY LOVE BACK? HE IS SO NICE AND I HAD MY FIRST KISS WITH HIM AND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I ALMOST KILLED MY SELF WITH A KITCHAN KNIFE!!!!!! I WANT HIM BACK BUT HE MOVED AND I DONT THINK HE HAS A PHONE.and he does not go to my school any more SO HOW CAN I WIN HIS LOVE AGEN?

E-MAIL ME!!! fatcat10002000@yahoo.com


o god please help me!!!PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
OK. IT'S OK! CALM DOWN! Whatever you do DON'T HURT YOURSELF OR ANYBODY AROUND YOU! Talk to the guy before you do anything drastic like kill yourself. If you love him THAT much he probably loves back too. Just don't hurt yourself over a guy, it's not worth it.


At school no guy likes me!!every time i ask one out they say no .what do i do??

please help
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Well, who really cares if guys don't like you? I mean they are guys (no offense) but most of them are complete idiots. You can try to please them by wearing lots of makeup and short skirts, but I mean com'on. When the right guy comes along he will probably ask you out. I wouldn't worry bout it too much.

Good luck!


I have this friend. Well, he's not exactly my friend, but we hang out at school and stuff. Awhile back, I used to like him and I told some people. One day, someone told him. Then he started avoiding me. Now he's talking to me, like all the time. He always wants my advice on something and always sticks up for me. Does anyone know why he's acting like this?

Thanks!
Confused (link)
He probably likes you.


Has anybody ever met a famous person...and if so, who?
Just wondering (hehe) (link)
I've met Andrew Stanton and some players from the Oakland A's. No one that would make you wish you were me though.


at my school dance i was dancing with this guy named sean he is really nice then we started to freak dance. i knw that is worng but i think he likes me also does he? (link)
Well he probably does. You can't base it all on just that he danced with you because I dance with all the boys at my school dance and I don't like any of them, at least not as a boyfriend.

Hope everything works out.


Did you see where my sanity went? I need to catch it and sacrivice it to the Gods of Randomness. (link)
Try looking under your bed or in your closet.


Why are people so mean?? Are any of you like that...you know...where you think you're too good for everybody else? (tell the truth) Because I want to know what you guys think...and I just hate life sometimes. I pay them NO MIND...but it's just sad...to watch how other people squirm under their wrath...I hate it...
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I don't know why people are mean. Everyone says...oh it's just because they don't feel good about themselves. That's not true because I know I am mean to some very deserving people at school and I feel fine about myself. Maybe it is like a chemical unbalance in the brain...you never know.

At school there is a boy who is constantly being teased and at first I was disgusted but than when he sat in front of me in math I felt fine when I saw his being teased because he treated other people so horribly.

People don't tease me at school, I don't know why. Last year they would tell me how big my nose is...which isn't true. I didn't really care and the guy who was insulting me ended calling and apoligizing...hows that for ya?



Hi!I am a complete dog Freak and i have a chance 2 earn one.one problem i have 2 keep my room clean 4 a whole year.and i am the messiest person ever.HELP! (link)
Same here...for a year i would be a complete neat freak. Have any friends that are neat freaks? Have them over very often. Also...stay out of your room. Keep your room clean by making your messes other places.


Yeah, usually I give advice, but I figured I'd ask this time. Two of you have already seen this question, but I thought I'd just put it out here for the rest of you to help me with.
Okay, here it goes. I've found my DREAM college. I mean, this is what I've been searching for since, like, ninth grade. I'm almost certain I'd be accepted there.
Problem 1 - CalArts is in Southern California. Now, I live in michigan and my mom doesn't want me to go that far away.
Problem 2 - The tuition. $22,190. My dad doesn't have a job, my mom can't work, and I don't have a job yet. Even if I did, I wouldn't be able to make that much by next year. However, I do have books written, and could publish them, but even with that I'm not sure I'd be able to make the money.
Problem 3 - my parents both think that the only reason I want to go there is because my boyfriend's going to a college down there. That's not why I want to go.
So essentially, I'm wondering what you guys think. Should I try to get into a college my mom doesn't want me to go to, even though it's my dream school AND if I went there, I'd probably have somewhere to live? Help me out...
-Siren (link)
Sounds like you know exactly where you want to go and your heart seems really set on going there. Tell your parents that is where you want to go..within time they should be able to realize it and accept this.

To get the money: Do you already have money saved up or not? If you do then thats great and you should continue saving up. If you can you should get those books published. Also try geting a job at a resturant. Preferably a nice one because along with the pay you get good tips.

Hope I could be of some help!


One of my friends, Lizzy, is always talking about her friend, Kate. It didn't bother me until I realized how much Kate hates me. Kate once went on Lizzy's screenname on AIM and started saying "I hate you!!" and stuff like that. When I told Lizzy, she said, "I'm going to kill Kate, I am so mad at her!" but they are still best friends. Also, Lizzy talks about all this stuff she hates and when I do, she says its not that bad. And she is always saying blondes are dumb, which they truely aren't and it bothers me to hear people say that. But when I told her it bothered me she just said "Its only a joke." K, so today I said, "wow, Mrs. F really acted like a cheerleader today!" and she said "most cheerleaders aren't ditzy."
K, she said blonde jokes as a joke, I realize it...so when I say the cheerleader thing as a joke, why should she get all mad? She's not a cheerleader, but I am a blonde. blondes aren't dumb. I told her that!

PLEASE HELP ME! WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER WHEN I TALK TO HER?????? (link)
If you really value the friendship tell her exactly how you feel. Say that Kate isn't always nice and although it may be a joke it still hurts. If Lizzy feels the same way about your rfiendship she should tell Kate.

If you don't want to talk to her try giving her a little bit of the silent treatment to get her attention. If she is smart she will realize that something is upsetting you and will ask you about it.

AS a last resort you might just want to stop being her friend. I mean she doesn't seem like exact best friend material. Hope I could be some help! Let me know how it all turns out!


Does it hurt to get your ears pierced or your nose or your cartilige or whatever????? (link)
I've only had my ear peirced, but they don't hurt much at all. It feels kinda like someone is pinching with their nails on the earlobe but about a minute after it doesn't hurt much. It's going to feel wierd though because having stuff on your ear is a big difference.


I recently just became boyfriend and girlfriend with this really nice guy. I really like him and I know he likes me, but he doesn't want people to know about us yet. A dance is coming up and I REALLy want to slow dance with him but I also don't want to give him away to all his friends. I also heard him telling someone he doesn't like anyone when i was right there. I respect that he doesn't want people to know...But i do. What should I do? (link)
I don't think that he doesn't want to be you boyfriend or have people know that you are together. I think maybe at the moment he is just gathering himself. I'd give it a coyple of days...a week MAYBE two at the most.


Lately my boyfriend is being very cold to me. He doesn't want to hug or hold me, he barelly calls. I try to be very affectionate with him but it hurts when you get no affection back. He constantly thinks that I am either lying or cheating on him, which I am doing neither. I love him very much and I want things to work out between us but I don't know what else to do to show him I am good to him. What should I do? (link)
I know this is a tricky situation. If I were in your place I would have no idea what to do either. I know you probably don't want to do this but just ask him what's wrong. Maybe if your friends with one of his friends you can ask them what its all about. If he really isn't responding at all maybe he isn't the right guy.


I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused (link)
When they shout insults just ignore them. If they start to hurt you you need to talk to an adult. If they do hurt you try not to fight back. I don't want to say violence is not the answer, because sometimes it is...but don't do things to provole them. If you have to even avoid them...ask to be sat away from them in class.


I am in love with this boy Joey. He is in 8th grade and I am in 6th and he will be leaving for high- school soon. I don't want him to leVE BUT i DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL HIM BEFORE HE LEAVES. i WANT TO HUG HIM AND TELL HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL BUT I DON'TR WANT TO BE EMBARRESED
WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
I am in 6th grade too. I don't know how you feel about dating older boys but at this age it's not the best idea. They are more experianced and want to rush into things. He's probably not the love of your life so just let it go. Wait until high school or college to date older boys, then you are smarter and more experianced.




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