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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)



♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.

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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.



♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.



♥ [ PERSONAL XANGA SITE. ]


♥ [ XANGA LAYOUT SITE. ]


♥ [ MYSPACE. ]



♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!



♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥



♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥

advice

Ok what do you when you like the same guy that your total BFF loves. She is absolutly in love with him. He knows, that I like him and that she likes him. But he does not like her. Actually, he hates her. But she doesn't know that I like him. PLease please help!!!!!

well maybe you need to be honest with her and talk to her about it, I'm sure when you guys are comfortable about that then you can somehow tell her nicely that she annoys him or whatever she does that he doesn't like, and maybe you can give her some suggestions on how you think she could fix that. Just let her know whats going on, and that should work fine. Good Luck. I hope this helps. x0x Allie x3

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Okay well i'm just wondering if anyone else has this problem or if they have overcome it...i used to be a real good student in school and i could remember alot of things...but lately, i cant remember ANYTHING...like just today, i was talking to a friend in the bathroom about another friend and not even 5 minutes later the friend that i was talking about asked what we said...and i couldnt remember...i had to think...normally i could just tell her...do i just have too much on my mind or what? its starting to worry me because i cant remember to do anything anymore. anybody know whats going on or how to fix it?

hey, well maybe you are really stressed out, or maybe you are just being very forgetful. Think back and try to see if you have been doing anything differently lately...if none of this works ask one of your parents. I'm sure you will figure something out, good luck, sorry. x3 Allie x0x

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im 14 and me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a month now. i keep askin my mom if i can go to his house but each time she says no. i think she thinks we r gonna have sex and im only 14 im not ready for all of that yet. the most we would do is make out. how can i get her to let me go to his house??? we really want to see each other outside of skool but its kind of had cuz i hate when people come to my house and i like goin to his house and i've been there before but my mom wont let me go now. please help me.

Talk to your mom and ask her why she isn't allowing you to go over there, maybe you guys can work something out that you guys both like. Just bring it up some night. Good Luck x0x Allie x3

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I met this guy alex a couple days ago. He flirted with me almost the whole night then 3 days ago i went to a party and we made out. He said he would call em afterwards but he never did. I dont know his number or sn . I dont know how to get him to liek me becasue im pretty interested. DO u think he just wanted ass?

hey, well it's hard to tell right now. Try to get a hold of him however you can, and then see if he still wants to hang out, etc. etc. Good luck..x3 Allie x0x

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hey-whats up..... ok... i really really like this guy at my school! but the only thing is he likes another girl and people say that we look really good together! but he doesnt like me... and i asked him out and stuff but of corse..he said no bcuz he likes this other girl and thats the only reason he didnt go out w/ me.. and the girl that he likes has a boyfriend! what can i do! PLEASE HELP!!

Well, honestly, its him that needs to change really, I don't think you can really do too much to change his mind unfortunately. Just be yourself around him and don't change for him. Sorry there isn't too much to do. Allie x3 x0x

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how do u get ova sum1. i mean we broke up a while ago must have been 3 months but i cant get ova him. we were together for a long time. and den sumthing happen. i need sum help could u help me. i mean i still love him and all. i have a boifriend but i cant get ova him. he said he loved me and would nvr leave me and den he does. i need help how do i get ova him??

Wow, I know this is soo hard. Trust me, I've tried it and so has my best friend. It's not easy at all, really I think it just takes time, try telling yourself all the bad things about him that you don't like, hang out with other people, like your friends, and some other guys, this will keep your mind off of him. Good Luck. I'm sorry I know its really hard. I really hope this helps you. good luck!! x3 Allie x0x

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okay.. well obviously i need help.. i really like this guy.. we talk online all the time and we are getting to be good friends.. okay well last nite he invited me over to his house.. i really feel comfortable around him but i dont kno how to tell him that i dont feel comfortable at his house.. HELPP!!

BTW 12-f..

alyssa

alright, i totally understand how this would be hard. Maybe if you felt comfortable with him at your house you could just ask him to come to yours instead, and if you aren't comfortable with that either, then maybe you should just be honest with him and let him no that your not totally ready for that yet? It's up to you. I hope that I helped x3 good luck. x0x allie x3

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Hi, my friend is doing a project in school and I want to help her.Do you know any myths containg Cupid the God of love besides Cupid and Psyche? your help would mean so much to me ! please respond as soon as possible. And thanks sooo much for your advice!!

Hey, thats sweet that your trying to help her!! I would search it on www.google.com or www.aj.com. good luck i hope you find what you are looking for!! x3 Allie x0x

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I would like to be more spiritualy intact with myself?
Id like to maybe start yogo but i duno what kind of things to do!
Any tips on how I can become more spiritualy intact?
please

Well yoga is good. and so are Pilates. You can go buy a video of either of these [and others] at Wal*Mart or Target. Good Luck, Allie x0x

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ok well .. i have a best friend lets just say her names (debby) and we have been best friends since last year and i have this ex best friend (lila).. well my parents have never liked lila they said i was really mean when i was aroudn her and my attitude changed around them abd she caused soem problems.. so i had to quit haning around her.. and now lila is hanging out with my best friend debby and i know she is doing it on purpose because she use to hate debby and plus she has liek no friends at all.. well now i cant hang around debby because lila is always around her and i am always left out.. so my ? is do i still hang aroudn them even i hate her so much or do i just leave them all alone until she stops hanging around her..

well just tell "debby" that you miss hanging out with her and you feel like "lila" is interupting your friendship..let her no how you feel and she should care. x3 Good luck. allie x0x

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Some background info: My boyfriend and I have been for a year and a half for past occasions I bought him:
Our Anniversary: hat, chain
His Birthday: few shirts, and a pair of jeans
Christmas Last Year: some clothes and a dvd

Well I have been having trouble thinking of ideas of what I should get him for a christmas present this year. I want it to be very special. I already know that for one part of his present I am going to make a scrapbook with a bunch of pictures of us and our memories and other things in it, but I also want to give him something else. I was thinking about maybe buying him one of those dog tags that you can put pictures on and put a picture of him and I on and and engrave something on it? I know he would love it but I don't know where I could get that or How much it would cost. Anybody have any suggestions? They'd be greatly appreciated! Thanks. =]

what about a gift certificate to his favorite store or something??

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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help

hey..wow..i can totally relate!! my best friend HATES my boyfriend..and she always tells me to break up with him, but i really like him so i just brush it off. she doesn't hold it against me she just thinks im doing the wrong thing because she thinks he hurts me too much. But if you really like him go for it and your just gonna have to talk to her about it...Follow your Heart! hehe xox Allie x3

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15/f Try n make this quick:

Last year this guy Rich and I were friends and he likes me but i had a boyfriend. And he openly said how mad he was and that he liked me (jokingly he wasn't like ARRRG mad) and well i saw him once over the summer n it was awesome. but he switched school so i never saw/talked to him. now he's back and im single. problem is he wears eyeliner im kewl with that but a lot of my friends will bitch about that but w/e. but he also smokes pot n cigs. like i dont care n i will never its just it makes me unhappy he does that. but like now i make sure i see him and like he is always like Give me a hug! like old times. and i really think i like him. but my mom said i couldnt date him. should i just like "date" him at school and ease my mom into it, or stay friends with this guy? how can i see if he likes me too w/o saying yo dude ya like me still? ... sorry that wasn't very quick :( thanks so much to people who answer it though!

Alrighty. Well, sounds like you need to talk to him and just say, well i think i like you do you still have the same feelings for me. You know something like that. About your friends, well you need to talk to them. They shouldn't be the ones making up your mind. If you like it and don't have a problem with it, tell them, and let them no that you don't want them to be mad at you for it. They should understand.. And lastly, your mom, well you are deff. gonna have to talk to her about it. Well just say, you know I really like this guy and I think that if you got to know him you would like him too!! Just talk to her about it calmly. I really hope that helps. Good Luck, x0x Allie

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what kind of birth control do you think is the best? i've been thinking about going on the shot since i'd have it done only every three months instead of worrying about a pill every day... have you heard anything about it?

Hey, well.. I would say the shot is a good one.. because I hate having periods every month. But really, it's whatever you think you would like.. I would talk to you mom and your doctor and see what they think is best for you. Good Luck! Hope that helped. x0x Allie

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okay i used to like this guy and i found out he doesn`t like me the same way i do. and theres this other guy that likes me except im a year older than him. all my friends say i should get with him. i like him and all, but i still have some feelings for that other guy. what should i do ?

Well your not just gonna be able to change your feelings about that guy over night. But if you like the other one that is a year younger than you. Go for him!! This is a question you need to ask yourself and see who you really have feelings for! Good Luck, I hope I helped, x0x Allie

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hey i have this friend...lets call her allie! and me..lets call me rachel neways allies an abusive friend? what do i do?

love, "rachel" hypothetically speaking of course

haha rachel hermes..i love you..!! =]

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hi~my name is emily... and i really like this guy.. but... the only thing is that he likes this other girl... i asked him out but he said no! what can i do to make him like me? or what? people think that i am pretty and stuff... but i dont think that he thinks that... and like b4 i asked him out we were really good friends... but now that i asked him out and he said no.. we dont even talk AT ALL!! so i need help! what can i do

emily

well as hard as it is, you have to back off and give him space. not completely but not being around him all the time will make him realize that he misses you..you shouldn't change anything about yourself to make him like you. A good guy will like you for you! Good Luck, x0x Allie

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soo i liek this guy but i dont think he really notices me. i've talked to him before but never liek for real. can you give me tips on getting him to notice me??

by the way its' 14/f

thnxx

Well, just be more outgoing. Go up and talk to him some day. It will prove to him that you are daring and willing. He should like that. I hope I help, Good Luck! x0x Allie x3

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ok ive been having a major problem for the past month or so over these two guys. i have been with one of them for 2 years and we broke up the week school started. i just recently met the other guy like 2 months ago. i still love the guy i dated for 2 years but i also like the one i just recently met. they both found out that i like them. it has caused some problems. i really dont know what to do. i dont want to lose either one of them and i definately dont want to make a decision now. i really dont know what to do.

Well, just sit down and tell them both, you know, i like you, but i like _________ (the other ones name) too. It's gonna take me a little while to decided what i want to do.. and just tell them how you really feel and let them no whats going on in your head. They should understand and if they like you too, then they will wait for you, if one doesn't wait..then go for the other! good luck, hope this helps.

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hi...i'm really confused about sumthin theres this guy that likes me but he is to nervous to ask me out...what do i do b-cuz i like him 2!~

signed,
really confused

Gather your nerves and ask him out!! Don't be scared, but I wouldn't do it in front of all his friends. Do it sometime when you are alone. Good Luck-I hope I helped!!

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