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what do i do?????????
Ok what do you when you like the same guy that your total BFF loves. She is absolutly in love with him. He knows, that I like him and that she likes him. But he does not like her. Actually, he hates her. But she doesn't know that I like him. PLease please help!!!!!
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Well first of all, you should talk to her about this. She should know because if there ever is a chance that you and him go out, you won't look like a "back-stabbing man-stealing girly jerk" cause she'll have known about your feelings for him also. It's best to do it sooner than later cause the longer you wait, the more it might hurt her. I would just talk to her about everything and she might understand if you two were to ever go out. But if she gets really upset, I might consider not going out with this guy because you shouldn't let a friendship get ruined over some guy. But if she does get upset, don't get upset back...just be calm. You don't need you two to fight and yell and add more problems to everything. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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anithing you doo do not mess up the friendship you and your friend have !!!!!!!
also if you really like him talk to her and see if she will be ok about you goin out with him !! but still jus dont go out with him or anithin thats the best thing too do !!
♥ Samra
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the same thing just happened w/ me and my really good friend. You can't help who you like so if you can just explain that to her maybe she will understand. It's better that you tell her sooner rather than later. Just remember though that a friendship isn't worth ruining over a guy.
<3 good luck!! <3Rachel
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I'm having this same situation right now oddly enough. I've talked to some of my other really good friends.. and they've told me that don't let guys come in between you. It's hard though if you really like him to try and forget about him. But go with your heart. If he doesn't like her then you have a better shot with him. but if you are afraid of losing a friend don't go for it!
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ill answer this as simple as i can DONT LET A GUY SCREW UP A FRIENDSHIP!
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I think you should tell her that you like him as well. This will be a good excuse for if you ever go out with him, it won't seem like you're a jerk. Just wait for her to ask "who do you like?" But don't tell her that this boy hates her. Even if it's true, you will look like you have that you-get-your-paws-off-of-him attitude, which is really not right, considering the fact that she discussed her feelings about him first (regardless of whether she liked him first). Think about it: how would you feel if you were so totally in love with this guy, and your best friends tells you that he hates you? And don't try to act all possessive over him. Just because you like him doesn't mean he's yours. The last thing you want to do is get in a fight over this guy.
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well maybe you need to be honest with her and talk to her about it, I'm sure when you guys are comfortable about that then you can somehow tell her nicely that she annoys him or whatever she does that he doesn't like, and maybe you can give her some suggestions on how you think she could fix that. Just let her know whats going on, and that should work fine. Good Luck. I hope this helps. x0x Allie x3
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