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no friends
i have no friends at all. I have a best friend at school a best friend that doesnt go to my school and then just aquantinses. I am liek never best friends with more than one person at my school and id rather be. people think i only have one friend.
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Hi there,
I used to have the same 'problem' I only had one good friend throughout most of high school. It bothered me a lot at first because people would make fun of me for it, but then I stopped caring. It's really better to have one good friend who you care for and who cares for you than to have a bunch of 'friends' who you just hang around to look popular and who don't care about you at all.
However, since it's really bothering you, you should go and try and start some conversations with people. You can't always wait for people to come to you - sometimes you've got to meet them halfway. These acquaintances of yours - why don't you organise a get together on the weekend and get to know them better? I'm sure they'd really enjoy hanging out with you. also, you should talk to people you've never spoke to before.. a simple "Hey, how was your weekend?" is a great ice-breaker. You never know what friends you could make just by starting a conversation with a random person.
Extra-curriculur activities are a cool idea too to meet people. Like, I'm sure your school has clubs you can join with people on the same interests. Getting people's AIM s/ns and msns is easier to break the ice if you're finding it difficult to talk to people face-to-face. I got to know a lot of people through MSN.
Good luck.
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