Last year this guy Rich and I were friends and he likes me but i had a boyfriend. And he openly said how mad he was and that he liked me (jokingly he wasn't like ARRRG mad) and well i saw him once over the summer n it was awesome. but he switched school so i never saw/talked to him. now he's back and im single. problem is he wears eyeliner im kewl with that but a lot of my friends will bitch about that but w/e. but he also smokes pot n cigs. like i dont care n i will never its just it makes me unhappy he does that. but like now i make sure i see him and like he is always like Give me a hug! like old times. and i really think i like him. but my mom said i couldnt date him. should i just like "date" him at school and ease my mom into it, or stay friends with this guy? how can i see if he likes me too w/o saying yo dude ya like me still? ... sorry that wasn't very quick :( thanks so much to people who answer it though!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Beautifull47 answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 9:20 pm: Hey well lets see,ok i got it!If your friends are going to be all bitchy about it then that means that they really aren't your friends and if they were they would say "If you like him go ahead and get with him"but ya and then when he came back to school like that thats ok well what you have to do is like talk to him on the phone like friends as frist and tell him that you dont like what he does and if you are on the phone just pop the question like you could say"umm can i ask you something"and if he says yes then go for it "well i wanted to know if you still like me?"well if he says yes you ask him out and if he says no and he asks you why you asked just say that you were wondering!well i hope this works for you if not email me at steph_perez47@yahoo.com and tell me more or do another advise tingy to me!k bye [ Beautifull47's advice column | Ask Beautifull47 A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 7:13 pm: just stay friends for a while... don't rush into it! i dated a guy my mom didn't like and i never told her but she gave me hell about how we shouldnt date even though i have no clue how she found out. later if you find out he likes you and you still like him then go with it. hope that helps.. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
emilyjessica0x answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 7:12 pm: Dear Boy Trouble,
Well you could see him at school and be friends because if its sumone that smokes and stuff like that hes not good newz.... but you can still be friends if you want...u can ask him if he likes you by just asking him...I did that before and it worked..tri it!! I hope this advice helped... Please Rate..
emilyjessica0x answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 7:12 pm: Dear Boy Trouble,
Well you could see him at school and be friends because if its sumone that smokes and stuff like that hes not good newz.... but you can still be friends if you want...u can ask him if he likes you by just asking him...I did that before and it worked..tri it!! I hope this advice helped... Please Rate..
ankeagle14 answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 6:23 pm: well, i think you should date him, but i also think you should tell him that he should stp smokeing and stuff. i think you should just ask him out. if he likes you he will say yes, if he dosent you can still be friens with him.
ANK [ ankeagle14's advice column | Ask ankeagle14 A Question ]
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 6:22 pm: okay.
1. who cares what your friends say? just because he wears eyeliner doesn't mean he won't make you happy and he isn't a good person.
2. i like the fact that you say you will never smoke. make sure if you date him you stick to it. make sure he knows that you aren't into that and not to do it around you.
3. just talk to your mom. tell her the truth about everything and your feelings and stuff. the more you tell her, the more she'll trust you and will know you aren't hiding anything. if she still doesn't let you, don't do anything behind her back. you can always find someone new.
AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 5:44 pm: Alrighty. Well, sounds like you need to talk to him and just say, well i think i like you do you still have the same feelings for me. You know something like that. About your friends, well you need to talk to them. They shouldn't be the ones making up your mind. If you like it and don't have a problem with it, tell them, and let them no that you don't want them to be mad at you for it. They should understand.. And lastly, your mom, well you are deff. gonna have to talk to her about it. Well just say, you know I really like this guy and I think that if you got to know him you would like him too!! Just talk to her about it calmly. I really hope that helps. Good Luck, x0x Allie <3 [ AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu's advice column | Ask AlwAySz_h3r3_4_yOu A Question ]
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