Iam 14, and pretty smart I guess, and wise (and humble about it too :)
I am really into peoples feelings but i still tend to tell you like it is, theres plenty of people out there who are always a pain in the butt and making everyone around them feel like crap, i dont want to be that person.
I awnser a wide variety of questions even ones i dont know anything about, in hopes i can help maybe even alittle bit, but dont ask me retarded stuff i dont want the drama queen stuff, im here to help if your not here to whine.
Also dont ask me gross sex problems im a christian and i dont know anything about 'blow jobs' so dont ask me about them...also if you dont like the awsner i give you then dont read it.
And just for the record I could care less about the rating you give me, so if you got a negative comment send it to someone who cares, and low ratings are good for me there showing im saying it how it is.
In all christian love, 2tammy2
Gender: Female
Location: Washington
Occupation: school
Age: 14
Member Since: June 25, 2007
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i'm not fat..i'm pretty skinny...
but my thighs bother me b/c they don't go with my body....
i'm 5 6 and i weigh 110 i'm 15/f...
my legs are pretty skinny but my thighs are huge...i guess i have stubby legs...
how can i get skinnier thighs without making them getting or looking muscular??... (link)
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ok you are really skinny im 5'4 and 116 anyway i have a ton of curves everywhere and so my thighs fit in really well. But i'm told there is no way to make your thighs smaller, i bet your a toothpick and your thighs are really tiny you just want something to worry about, what i suggest is ask your boyfriend or dad what they think they always will tell the truth as long as you dont cry at whatever they say.
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i'm so bored!! I have NOTHING to do! seriously!
I'm home with my grandma all day and we have nothing to do. My grandma doesn't have time to play around with me. (she always cooks, cleans the house, in the garden etc.)
It's really nice outside (85 degrees and sunny) but I'm on my period now, so I can't go swimming (don't tell me to use a tampon because I can't) My friends are gone away. I'm sooo bored.
Oh and also since i'm on my period, I have a lot of fatigue, so when my grandma gives me something to do... i'll be like "no, I don't want to do that"
all I do is watch TV and sit in front of the computer all day.
What else is there to do that I can do with my period?
Oh and I just got done with sports camps so I'm really sore too... so I don't want to go biking, camping etc.
HELP! Sorry for all the trouble. I'm just super super duper bored (link)
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I know how period pains are, but seriously youll probably have them for the next 40 years or something, so it's a good time to get used to them now, i do lots of excercize(which helps with cramps) my suggestions are take a Ibeprofen and go help with your grandma she sounds like she works alot she would probably enjoy any help you would give her
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I'm 13 and my sister is 9. She's the queen. My parents love her and never yell at her. If we get in a fight and my sister scratches me, I get in trouble for it. Every single day is dedicated to my sister. Today my mom and sister left me to go to the zoo. They left without saying bye and said they would be home at 6. Tomorrow my sister, my mom, and my friend are going to some baby arcade place and they'll be gone all day. My dad works so obviously that leaves no one to take me where I want to go. My friends think I'm ditching them because I always have to cancel plans since my mom drives my sister around everywhere since I don't have a ride, so my friends are mad and I'm losing them. So far every day since summer started my sister has had a friend over or she's gone somewhere, and I haven't done anything or seen a friend. My mom hates me and I thought that the older one gets to do more since they are older, but in this case my little sister is having a freakin blast this summer while I sit home crying with no ride. I live a little far away from my friends so they can't always pick me up. Me and my friends planned to go to the beach Wednesday but the rule is we all have to get a ride there so people don't feel left out. And of course the calendar says that my sister, her friend, and my mom are spending the day at the park. That means I have no ride and my friends can't give me one. I told my mom that what's she's doing is hurting me emotionally and I feel like I'm not special and I'm losing friends because of her ways, and she says my little 9 year old sister is more mature than me so that's why she gets all the fun. Summers wasting away and my friends aren't bothering with me anymore since every single plan I've made with them has been canceled or postponed because my mom can't give me a ride because she's too busy making my sister feel like a queen. I can't go through the whole summer like this. I've never thought of killing myself, but today after I wanted to go to the mall with my friend and found out my mom and sister had already left for the zoo and my friend's parents were at work so I was supposed to give her a ride, pretty much gave me a thought about killing myself. I let down my friend and myself AGAIN because I get their hopes up when we make plans and then I find out we can't even go. Help? I hate my sister!!! (link)
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wow its like Cinderalla with only 1 evil stepsister, tell your mom how you feel calmly but relaxed and stick your sisters head in the toilet for me no kid should ever do that to their sister were supposed to stick together.
start like taking the taxi or a bus or something and explain to your friends whats going on they could also help with transportation whatever you do, do not allow this to keep happening
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me and my best friends bro started dating and i accedently broke his necklace and he broke up with me an i love him every time i call my bff he ansers and i cant breath but weve been broken up for 2 months i say im sorry over and over again but he wont forgive me what do i do? (link)
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im suprised your not over him yet if hes so upset about one necklace who knows what he would break up with you about, seriously find a guy with alot less retarded sensitivity
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well this is a little embarrising to ask but Im 13/f & Ive never kissed a guy before. Well I know your gonna say your only 13 girl wow! theres plenty of time but thats not the acually point. Guys I know laugh at girls who havent made out before & its embarrising for me becasue Ive been going out a lot but kissing never really crossed my mind unitl now. Well, I really like this guy & were suppose to catch up at the movies & hes gonna want to kiss. im so scared b/c what if I mess up? I just dont know how to do it. Please dont say it comes natuarally b/c where the fuck do you stick your tounge & stuff? Im really modest to ask this but I really need help! Please dont be mean lol. =) thanks (link)
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i was just 13 and i realize how annoying it is for old ppl to say well your just 13 your to young because in this now and day culturual your really not, now that im 14 all of a sudden no one says that any more, anyway it probably will come naturually dont sweat it and have fun but not to much fun, kissing is a good place to stay for another couple of years
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I am rather skinny, and I have a tiny bit in the way of a paunchy stomach (Just because I don't really look after myself, I eat what i want.)
The weird thing is though, I love when people touch my stomach (rub it, jiggle it, just like play with it), it really gets me off, (which is weird I know),so I'm not quite sure how to ask my boyfriend to it for me. I don't wanna weird him out.
Any suggestions? (link)
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if you guys do weird stuff like that then just go out and tell him, if he is pretty traditional and sticks to making out then i wouldnt weird him out with weird stuff like that until you guys have been going for a while and just ask him to do it with a sexy look on your face and he will probably do it for you
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hi friends, well i am in a country which has been rapidly developing over the years. people here are more ambitious nad have become more materialistic, change has been drastic. but here i am who is not ready to change. i don't hate money and good life but i am not very much mad about it, thanks to my family upbringing. i sometimes feel odd man out in this world, my views and obnjectives different from the crowd, how do i embrace this globalized world's changes. some one who has seen his country rapidly transforming should be able to give me proper advice. thank you (link)
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im the same way, just remember your not alone theres alot of people who arent materialistic either if you feel really strongly about it do something like run a campaighn or something to show materialistic people how much other things count and show them stuff like people starving to death in Africa and youd be suprised how many people agree with you and your beliefs, and no matter what do not compromise your feelings for the beliefs of others
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Well, i go too high school. At high school we have populars and well geeks and i really, really hate this! No one has the right to tell you who you are or name you.
Populars think they can boss me about for example 'get out of this room', 'go away, you can't hang around here'. Am really fed up i just want to answer back but then everyone will hate me, and my friends are scared because they don't want to be hated, and everyone eles sucks up to them.
i would really like to know how can i stuck up for my self without being hated by people. (link)
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ok im extremely confrontational so maybe this wont help much, but honestly running and hiding never helps, ok would you rather be disliked at school by the populuars or have a sucky high school experience and believe me no one else but the populuars will hate you theyll all think your awesome for breaking the mold, seriously the next time they boss you around like saying get out of this room say... i belong here just as much as your stupid fancy as$ does so go bug someone who cares
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im looking for a wesite that will tell me the possabilities of what my child would look like.
my man is black/mixed (white mom black dad) with brown eyes....
im white with blue eyes...
please help.
thankyou (link)
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Im assuming he will be light brown and brown eyes but heres a website:
http://museum.thetech.org/ugenetics/eyec...
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okay so tuesday is my bf and my one year anniversary. its the day of the fireworks so we'll be going to watch those around 9 pm, but i don't know what to do before then. im not into some fancy shmancy dinner or anything because we're only still in high school. does anyone have any ideas? we're pretty much up for anything. thanks!! (link)
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movies, sometimes even places like Burger king look romantic on days like those, maybe go shopping for music together and then play it at someones houses while eating chocolate mouse cake or something
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15/f
my mom makes me crazy!!! we used to be bestfriends and now we fight over everything! she screamed at me for about 45 min today cause i took a shower in her bathroom and she always tells me to get out of her face and stuff. and she loves my bf more than me. she sides with him on everything.
my dad is just a jerk. he works so much hes barely home but he always yells at me when he is. he tells me im stupid and worthless... im an only child so it doesnt help. concrete angel by martina mcbride is my theme song.
someone please help me... i hate this (link)
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ok i totally know what it feels like to be treated like crap from your mom, but it is hard for them to deal with our teenage 'hormones.'
and she is probably really busy and stressful,
And i bet your mom dosent like your boyfriend better it just looks like that, because sometimes if feels like everyone hates you and the whole world sucks.
And as for your dad my dad is the same way he had a abusive father though, and hes come along way from his dad, and would he happen to say these things when youve been sitting on the couch for a half hour after he told you to do the dishes, or he yells at you because youve been bickering at him for the last hour about the party you wanted to go until midnight with no parent supervision.
And when they really bother you remember the kids who never had any parents sucky or not
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Well I know this girl from going to elementry school with her and me and her were just friends. After we graduated and go to different high schools just lately we have been talking alot through myspace and the occasional aim. I realized that I might like her and would like to go out with her but I just don't know how to tell her that I would like to get into a relationship with her when we are just friends now. Any tips for talking to her or advice would be good. Thanks. (link)
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if she is the romantic type then give her flowers and leave them at her doorstep with a really sweet note (if a guy did that for me i would just die) if she isnt romantic say something in her myspace page like pizza at 7 or something
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everyone tells me that if a guy really liked me he'd ask me out, but isn't it possible that a guy could really like you and not ask you out because he's either afraid of rejection or getting hurt again? (link)
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you are totally right, if a guy appears to like you and dosent ask you out, it could be religous reasons(he isnt allowed to), he just broke up, and unlike the normal beliefs men are extremely fragile when it comes to their feelings so hes probably just afraid, so go ahead and ask him out
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im looking for a diet.
one that actually works.
something quick and easy.
i want to loose 20lbs..
help? (link)
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... i hate dieting because once you lose weight your going to want to keep losing more...
so as long as your actually overweight... try excercizing (im in really bad shape and i walk a couple of miles everyday) and eating in moderation ya you can still eat junk food just in moderation, there is no magic diet that makes you lose 20 lbs. in one day, except for insane diet pills which are expensive and make you crap your pants, so try the traditional way and embrace your curves.
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okay so im a 16/f and my school is going to start on august 27th. and im going to be a junior. okay so at my school i get made fun of alot for being skinny and because i have alot of hair on my arms, legs, armpits. i mean its not like i don't shave or anything. i wax it but it grows back. and because i have alot of hair and im soo skinny thats why alot of people don't like me. its becuase i don't fit in. but i don't care about fiting in, i just want to have a group of friends to hang out with. i want to go back to school knowing that i have friends. but alot of people at my school are fake, do drugs/sex. and all that stuff. i mean how do i make friends when no one even wants to talk to me because im the school loser? (link)
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hmm... if there all that screwed up then definitelt dont try to change yourself to fit in better, make sure you like up your waxing or something no one wants to be friends with the caveman(not saying u are one) and as for skinny so many girls are starving themselves to look like you, so dress it up, be proud of your weight as long as you get it naturually and not by doing crash diets or anything, theres got to be some cool people in your school, try the nerd club, or i dont know drama those are the kind of people who atleast arent really screwed up that generally have a plan in life.
Hope i didnt offend you to much and my advice helps!!!
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Okay, recently I have started shaving my legs and arm pits with out any soap water or anything and it is working actually really good. The reason I have been doing this is because especially in my arm pits I would get razor burn when I use soap and water or even shaving gel. So one day I read on the internet that someone shaved without any soap or water and it took away the bumps. And when I tried it I immediately saw an improvement under my arm pits and legs. Afterwards I put lotion on my legs and they have been looking great. My question is, is this bad for my skin? And if so, what can I do to reduce razor burn on my legs and especially under my arms? Thanks! (link)
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I have read a lot of stuff, and i dont think it affects your skin negatively, maybe you should try a electric shavor (they can be really cheap at places like Fred Meyer) to reduce rezor burn, as far as i know dry shaving is fun probably the better choice if it feels better
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15 f
my mom wont let me out. she gets mad even if i go to my friends house. since its summer vacation i dont want to stay in my house all bored. but she doesnt let me go out. i dont have cable, im an only child, and the only thing is the computer but i hate playing games in it and a computer cant entertain me for 12 hours a day. what can i do at home thats fun for me? or how can i make my mom let me go out. im tired of staying here. thanks! (link)
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Ok my best advice is do not whine, and nag at your mom and cry when she says she cant get anything, either she is cracked or very overpretective, i suggest calmy telling her with all the details like the exact location, time and numbers of the parents, tell her in like 2 weeks in advance, dont pop it on her last minute, and as for the whole computer thing im in the same boat, i watch alot of TV, maybe try to go to some summer camps, run a summer business, like baby sitting or dog walking, work on schoolwork or do extra stuff over the year if your a nerd.
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Sometimes my mom can be my best friend, but often she takes it way too far. She'll ask me very private questions, won't let me have time to myself, and whenever I don't get invited somewhere she pesters me to basically admit to her that I'm a loser. She's always making me feel worse about myself asking questions like "Why does no one like you? Why don't they invite you places? Why are you sitting home alone again?" I quit cheerleading a few months ago (she was totally against me quitting it) so now she always tells me if I stuck with cheering I'd actually have friends. This really hurts.
I've tried asking her to stop, but then she just tells me I'm too sensitive and to get over myself. I'm not sure what to do about her anymore. (link)
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She sounds like my moms, mom who was very manipulative or however you spell that, she was always trying to get my mom to do whatever she(not my mom) wanted, by attacking her emotionally and then making her depend on my grandma so my mom would do what she wanted, in other words make sure shes not doing any mind games or anything, tell her what shes doing is not acceptable and you will not tolerate it if she wants to talk to you then she can be positive and accept what your doing in life, after all its not hers
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15 f
ok so i really need money. my parents dont give me allowence and its just so hard to go shopping with my friends and not have enough money to get what i want. so i know i can babysit, watch a house for a neighbor while they are on vacatiuon, walk dogs and stuff like that. but how do i ask for those jobs. like i have asked some of the neighbors that i know and they said they dont need anyone right now. so what should i do? i really need the money. like how do i let anyone else know that i am whilling to take care of there dogs and things like that? help? thanks!! (link)
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ok i am so in your position except iam like a really good solicitor, i made a bunch of really awesome flyers and everyone loves them, heres the web page were i got them:http://www.americangirl.com/books/sggmoney/index.html
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everytime i use veet on my bikini area, i get bumps so what do i do to prevent them? thank youu (link)
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it says on the back of my veet bottle not to use it on your bikini area, i suggest traditional waxing or shaving, google shaving tips down 'there' and you should get a bunch of good tips
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