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Q: does anybody know the title of Story of the Year's CD? thx, *cOnFuSeD bAbII*

Year of change

Q: Wow, ii like your column ! What site did yuu use on it ? Thanksz much .

xOxO

Haha thanks!! http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?x=safe&u=html+.+help :)

Q: i dont know what to put this under but oh well, i like reading alot... and i have 8 or so new books upstairs in my bedroom i havent read. To you that might sound like a lot of books but beleive me they go by fast... and so recently my family has been broke... i mean like dead broke $5.00 broke! and when i finish all those books i think instead of buying books im just gonna go to the library... but i want to know some names of REALLY good books!!
Thanks! I rate
Amber
(shanberca)

Romance/drama books. Nicholas Sparks. He wrote the books that turned into movies like The Notebook, Walk to remember, and Message in a bottle. Their so awesome! You'll be sure to cry every time!

Q: I don't get it. My best friend we'll call her Jane, is insane nowadays. She used to be like this dork that went to church every Sunday and was so nice and sweet to everyone. Now shes off giving head to every guy she sees and flipping out in class when she doesnt understand what the teacher is saying! She doesn't make sense. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just won't listen. She's crazy now and not too fun to be around. I hate the person she's become. Now she drinks, smokes, and does pot. I HATE IT. I mean i don't like any of that but i don't dislike people because they do but Jane....she pisses me off. Every time I talk to her it seems like she's either flipping out about something or crying about how "terrible" her life is. I just want to like leave her and not be friends with her but i know that this is the time where she probably needs a friend the most. I've been beside her through everything and she thanks me all the time but then turns around and flips out on me. I can't stand her anymore and I don't know what to do. Right now im Just lokking forward to graduation to get away from her. I know it sounds mean but im really not mean, just wicked desperate. Please help me figure out what to do.

-Melanie

Shes mad at someone or something and shes acting out. All she wants is love. And the only way she can get love is if she does stuff to guys. Well thats what she thinks. Shes doing these things to escape all her problems...she needs to talk to her pastor/priest or a counselor. Thats the only way she'll get better. Tell her about talking to someone and go with her to the meetings or whatever so she has support.

Q: Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.

Hmm just bring some perfume/body spray to school one day and be like "This smells so good, want some?" lol Or before your party do that so she smells good..or you should just tell her..just say it nice like "Hey, uh, people at skool say you smell bad so make sure you wear deodrant or spray cuz I dont like when people talk bout you"

Q: i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13

You'll get it soon. Everyone starts at different times! Dont worry..just be happy you dont have it. Seriously, its not "cool" or anything to have your period. Enjoy the time you have without a period!

Q: how do u loose the flab in ur legs? besides running, because that just seems to make mine musclier (and bigger) so if you have any good leg workouts that would help thatd be great n what exercizes can u do 2 make ur calves smaller???

Pilates. You can get a Pilates video or tape at any store.

Q: Hey Sherry, This is Abby2009 from the GOG boards. Okay well i miss aleah (my bff) she lives in columbus (1.5 hrs away) and even tho i go 2 pickerington (right beside Columbus) all the time im never allowed 2 go see her...and it hurts cuz i think shes mad at me so yeah idk what to do!! HELP!

HeY! :D Hmm, why do you think shes mad at you? What did you do? If you cant think of anything then just call her up and ask if shes mad, and why she is mad. About the moving thing, you can always IM, email, and phone eachother! I know its not the same but why cant you visit her when your in pickerington? Oh and I think you have to move on, and find a new best friend. You cant hold onto her forever, because shes gone now and she needs to find new friends too. UmMm!! Yah all your life people will be switching skools, moving, whatever and your gonna have to deal with not being able to see them much so yah.

Q: hey evry1
well i have A big spanish test coming up and i have to study over 200 words
any study tips??
please help!
i rate high

1. get off the computer.
2. Go somewhere quiet, no distractions
3. No TV or Radio!
4. When is the test? Divide up the 200 words into how many days till the test. For example the test is in 5 days. 200 divided by 5 would be 40. So study 40 words a day. Also review some before you go to school, before you go to bed..and have some siblings/parents quiz you!! good luck:)

Q: OMG i have this huge problem i have this boyfreind taht im absoulty in love with! i would do anyhitng to be with him every second of mi life ! and if im not with him im not havin fun and if im not on hta phone with him im not havin fun! if im without him im tahinking about him and i dont kno whut to do mi cousin is 16 and she is tha same way and now all she does is hang out with her boyfreind! and she never does anyhting with her freinds OR ME and now im becomeing like that but tha thign is a cant control it it feels soo good to be around him
IS this ok whut can i do to help this
!!! IM CRAZY BOUT HIM !!!!
ps: me and him r really colse on our 2nd day goin out we kissed 5 made out adn now all we do is that im afraid of whut might happen next!
Plz HelP ASAP

Hey! Maybe your in love? Its a great feeling so what do you mean by what can you do about this? Unless its affecting your school work I wouldent be worried! HaVe Fun w/ Him!! But dont get too carried away and if you guys ever talk about sex, make sure your ready!!

Q: Okay, I know it sounds really weird hearing this from a thirteen year old, but I want to be a cryptographer(a person who breaks codes). I am very interested in the topic, and I have loved breaking codes and solving lodgic puzzles since I was 5. I just want some background information on the topic ( like reccomended universities and classes, stuff like that). If anyone has any info on cryptography, or cryptology, please respond. NOTE: this is not a stupid phase I'm going through

Search google for it, You'll find lots of information. I searched stuff for the career I wanted to do and got lots of good info!!

Q: Whats a casual ay to ask a guy to the movies without making it obvious that i am head over heals for him?

~*~*~signed...clueless.

Be like "Have you seen this movie" and if he says no be like.."we should go together, I wanna see it bad.."

Q: Ok I heard a rumor and me and my friend were wondering if its true. If u wear sports bra's all the time will that reduce ur growth *if ur still maturing. Signed: Fully Matured

No it will not reduce the growth!! I wore a sports bra for a while and yeah..its ok..

Q: Ok ever1 on here can be rated. How do i make my self so i cant get rated too. I wanna see how Im doing answer ppl's problems

You answer questions, and the people rate you based on how you did. Some people dont rate, most people do rate. You just have to be patient..and ratings will come! Good luck with your column:D

Q: HeY! ShErRy! I'm bored so I'm asking myself a question l0l! UmM!! Did ya know I think black guys are hott? And I think christian rock is awesome!! chya!!! :) I'm a nerd!!

:D!

Q: i have this friend his names Cam and hes really hott...c im in the popular group and all my firends either like my best friend stacie or cam and cam always sits by me at lunch but id think he likes me how do i know if he does?

Find out if he likes you. Have your friends (the one that dont like cam) ask him if he likes you. Then your friends can tell you what he said. If he likes you, try to hang out with him more or ask him out. if he doesnt like you, oh well just be friends and find someone new!

Q: i dont know if i fat or skinny... my brtoehr always get made fun of from my brother being fat but all my friends say adriane ur skinny...but idk what do...im 13 and i wear 14 slim cuz im short but idk...what should i do or think?

signd,
confused

Go to your doctor. Ask if your height and weight are normal/average. We wont know.

Q: hey does anyone have any good sites with pictures, as in drawings about love or stuff, being heartbroken and other stuff, thanks ill give you a 5

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Q: I'm looking for a good legal downloading music softwear that I can download for free. Something like Kazaa but not Kazaa. Does that make sense? Thanks! =D I will rate high the ones that are helpful!

Ares Lite. No viruses or any bad stuff goes on your computer. its free.search it under google.

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HOPE I HELPED;)