Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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I don't know what to do. My camera slipped out of my hands. And obviously the lens broke.
My dad will kill me and yell at me. Because it was $300. He's going to make me feel like an worthless idiot who isn't responsible for a stupid little camera.
I've had the camera for like a year it was one little accident.
And I dont know what to do.
Should I try to get money and buy a new one?
Should I hide it? My dad wants to use the camera but I'm afraid he will bite my head off.
I dont know.
I'm scared of him.
Any help? (link)
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Even though you're scared, I would suggest telling him cause believe me, if you wait a long time and he finds the camera, you'll probably be in even bigger trouble.
Just wait till he's sitting at home [ and not in a bad mood or anything ] and be like,"Dad, I accidentally dropped the camera and I know, you're going to think I'm irresponsible but I'll work doing chores or whatever you need me to do to pay it off. I'm sorry." [ or something like that ]
I don't think you need to go get a new one, though. I was taking pictures with my grandmother's camera and I dropped it and I made the little zoomer thing crooked and it was all screwy but I went and told my grandma right away and she was like,"It's ok. I'm glad you told me." And she went to some store [ I think it was just an electronics store ] and they took it and fixed it. Now, I don't know if we broke the same thing or what, but you can try taking it to an electronics store or something and seeing if they can do anything about it before you just go and get rid of it. It might save you some money. I hope I helped!
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How do you have double pictures on myspace? I've seen on peoples myspace's where you view pictures that there would be a picture right where the caption should be. I tried to duplicate this but can't figure out how to do this. Can someone PLEASE tell me the steps at how to do this!
Thanks A BUNCH!!!! (link)
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What I do is save my picture to a folder or something and then log onto photobucket and load it into my album and take the code and enter it in the caption space. But you need to do: ", and it should show up. But, if the link/code [whatever you call it] is too big, then just go to tinypic.com and upload the picture there and take that code and do the same thing. If you're still having trouble, just IM me or leave another problem thing on my site. I hope I helped!
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theres this one guy i like
he tells me he loves me and that wont ever change and that he's so happy he talks to me and he wants to hold me and kiss me
so obviously he likes me too
but when i go to his myspace all these girls comment him
saying i love you
and like text me later
and he says i love you back and comments there pictures saying cute and everything
i text him all the time too and i wasted all my 500 texts in like a week on him!!!!
and also my best firned started talking to him before i did and like he tells her he loves her too and i know its not a friend kind of love
and i dont know what to do!!!!
cause i really like the him but hes suck a little player/manwhore
i wanna talk to him
but i dont know that to say
someone help me!!!
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I know you really like him, but I say just stick to being friends with him, because in the end, he'll hurt you. You said so yourself, he's a player. And if you started a relationship with him, he'll probably just wind up cheating on you. And even if he didn't, I doubt you'd want him telling all his 'friends that are girls' that he loves them and will call them later all the time. I have a friend exactly like this, and he starts to really like a girl, and they'll start liking eachother, and then the girl sees how many times on myspace he tells girls he loves them and calls them baby and stuff, and the girl winds up ditching him. So, I think you should do what that girl did. I hope I helped.
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I have big boobs and a small waist. So I have a problem with buying shirts. They either don't fit over my boob and the shirt ends up looking short. Or they do fit over my boobs but its all saggy and too big around my waist.
Does anyone know any stores or styles that could help me out here? (link)
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Hm. What I'd suggest is going to stores like Wet Seal, Hollister, Abercrombie & Fitch, maybe even Delias and American Eagle all and those stores and buy some long-styled shirts. And those types of shirts are in this year too, so you'll be fashionable also. I hope I helped.
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i really want a boyfriend this year. i mean.. this might sound really shallow, but i'd just like a kind of hot guy. none of the guys at my school are mean or anything & they're like all pretty cool.. so they'll ahve a good personality too don't worry. but the problem is... i don't know. i'm not really friends with any of the hot guys and i can't just barge in on him just like that.. =/ and there's this new kid who's pretty hot but he doesn't really seem to want to talk to me THAT much. what do i do!? i NEED a boyfriend!! (link)
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Hm. The only advice I can really give you is just try and talk to them more. If they seem like they don't want to talk, then I wouldn't keep talking cause they might get all aggrivated. Whenever you go to classes, if you sit at a group table or next to a guy or anything, just try starting up a conversation about the homework assignment, or the class or something. And then talk to him more and more everyday and then afterawhile try and start flirting a little, and see how he reacts. If he flirts back, more and more flirt, but now like, mondo-flirting. There's nothing you can really do to get yourself a boyfriend. You just have to talk to guys and be yourself and see what happens. I hope I helped. :l
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wow your advice did not help me at all (link)
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ok. sorry?
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URGENT! I am going to the beach Tuesday with 3 of my bffLs for my bday! I just broke up with my boyfriend so I want to meet some hot guys to get my mind off my ex! When we see them, how do we act to get there attention, or how do we just start talking to some guys? Hurry tho! Im leavin soon! (link)
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Well, whenever me and my friends go to the beach and want to get guys attention, sometime we'll just invite them over and ask if they want to play frisbee or something with us and we'll just have fun and talk to them at the same time. And just look like you're having lots of fun [ which you SHOULD be if you're going to the beach ] but if you're laughing and look like you're having fun, they'll want to talk to you more cause you look interesting and like a lot of fun to hang out with. Other times when we're walking, if you see a hot guy walking by you, you just sort of look at him and see if he looks at you, and then you wait a little after he walks by and then turn around and see if he's looking at you. Sometimes they'll come back to talk to you, other times they won't. But then if they do, you just wind up walking around with them and going places and talking and hanging out and get their numbers so you guys can hang out again later. :D I hope I helped, and I hope you get some hot guys haha.
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I lost my virginity about 2 months ago
aand I've only had sex 4 times
but recently I've been using a dildo and it hurts and stuff, but I keep going anyway because I want the pain to go away.
But now I'm really red and I kind of hurt
"downthere"
Could I have an STD?
or is this normal? (link)
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Well, you could only get an STD from one of the people you had sex with. So you might want to go and get tested. Better be on the safe side. You can't get one from using a dildo, unless someone who has STD's used it, which I'm sure nobody did. I'm sure it's just red and hurts because you keep using it and of course it's going to hurt for awhile. So stop using it for awhile, adn just let yourself heal and everything, and then start trying again. And if the pain and redness continues, I'd suggest going to see a doctor. I hope I helped.
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I gave my boyfriend my password to my myspace and then we broke up and he changed my password. How can I find out what the password is? He won't tell me!!!! (link)
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Gah, whenever me and my old best friend stopped being friends, she did the exact same thing. Isn't it immature, haha? Anyways, what I did was I just clicked on "forgot password" and then they should send the password to your email. And then I just logged back on and changed it to something else so she couldn't do it again. But whenever you change it, make sure it's something he couldn't guess at at all. I hope I helped!
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hey thanks for answering my eyeliner question lol..
anyways umm im starting high school, im going to be in 10th grade but here where i live it starts that time.. anyways im sooo scared of high school i mean i forgot to keep in touch with my friends all summer because i went to france the entire time!! and there's gonna be a lot of new people too.. and high school supposed to be hard tooo =( =( =( and my bffs are all going to another high school so basically im stuck with all the same people, plus new ones, just wihtout my FRIENDS. so its going to be really awkward because all the old people will have friends but i wont... help!? (link)
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Well, I'm going into 10th grade this year too and i'll be going up to the highschool too and I'm kind of worried too because all my friends have classes together basically and I have classes with like, 2 of my friends and I didn't keep in touch with all my friends either. But what I decided to just do is even though there's going to be old people with friends, that doesn't mean you can't become friends with all of them too. And also, just because you didn't keep in touch with your friends during hte summer doesn't mean you can't IM them or message them now and try and talk before school starts up. Or if you don't talk to them before school starts, just if you see them in school be like,"Hey! How have you been? How was your summer? Sorry I didn't keep in touch, I would've, but I was on vacation most of the summer." Or something like that. That's sort of the good thing about highschool, is there's a whole new group of friends you can make and you can have your old ones too! I hope I helped!
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im 14 years old and NEVER been kissed on the lips =/ i feel like such a loser because it seems like all the other 14 year olds around me are making out and stuff, and i'm the only one who's not. am i a loser? is it really that uncommon? when did you get your first kiss? thanks for the help. (link)
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Actually, it's not that uncommon. I'm 15 years old and I've never been kissed on the lips either. From being on this site and reading all the other questions like yours and reading all the responses of all the other advicenators that've not been kissed made me feel better about it knowing I'm not alone. Don't worry, it'll happen for you. You just have to wait. Don't just waste it on someone to get it over worth. I'm sure it'll be worth the wait. I hope I helped.
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when you have an eyelash curler and you also use mascara, do you put your mascara on then use the eyelash curler? or use the eyelash curler than put your mascara on? (link)
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You use the eyelash curler, then the mascara. Cause if you do it the other way, you'll probably ruin the eye curler cause you'll get mascara all over it and also the mascara on your lashes'll probably mess up. I hope I helped.
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I'm 16, 5'3" and weigh 152 pounds. I just moved to a new state and am going back to visit my friends in 2 months. I'd like to drop 20-30 pounds before I go back, and also slim down my thighs and butt. I'm a vegetarian, I don't eat fast food, and I don't drink soda. But with 6 AP classes and a job it's hard to eat right most of the time. I barely even have time to workout but I do what I can at night and on the weekends. Is there anyway that I can drop the weight? (link)
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Just stick to water and here's a site I found that might help you out:
http://www.fatfreekitchen.com/weightloss/diet.html
if that doesn't help you, trying googling up some other healthy eating food sites. And another thing you can do is, if your job isn't really far away, maybe even jog or walk to and back from work to get some exercise in during the day. Or if it is a little far, you can even just leave for your job a little earlier. But, I might insist walking cause if you jog, you might sweat, and I doubt you want to be sweating and such at work, ha.
and during the nights and weekends, maybe just do some crunches or do a little night walk around the neighborhood. to make it even a little more fun, just bring some music along or invite a friend to come with you. and that's another thing you can do. maybe just blast some music on at home and dance around so you'll be making yourself active while having fun.
i hope i helped!
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My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him? (link)
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Just be like,"I love you, but I don't want to do it. I'm not comfortable with it." And if he loves you, he should respect your decision not to do it. Never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. And who knows what he could do with it? He could put in online, show it to all his buddies, it'd be humiliating. But if he doesn't respect your decision, you might want to break up with him. You should be with someone who respects you. I hope everything works out well, and I hope I helped!
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my friend thinks she is a few days pregnant...she keeps punching her stomach because she does not want the baby. does this hurt the baby or cause her to have a miscarriage? (link)
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I know she doesn't want the baby, but how could you punch your own kid? Punching yourself in the stomach can cause the baby to grow up with mental problems, and that would just worsen her situation, so you might want to let her know that she should stop that. It's not the baby's fault, it's hers. First, your friend should go to the Clinic and find out if she's pregnant, and most Clinic's are confidental, so her parents wouldn't find out or anything. And plus, they could give you advice on what to do if she WAS pregnant, like consider adoption [ which would be the best solution ], abortion, or if she's not pregnant, provide condoms or the pill or something to prevent this from happening again. I hope I helped.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and he doesnt let me go and see my guy friends. and if i talk about another guy he gets really jealous. and if i bring up the subject he says if you were in my shoes you would understand. how do i tell him that he needs to be less protective and not as jealous without makeing him flip out?? (link)
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Just sit down with him and explain to him that you love him and you wouldn't be with anybody else and he doesn't need to worry. Tell him that you DO understand what it'd be like to be in his shoes, but you need to talk to your friends and hang out with them. And also ask him if he talks to his friends that are girls, and that you don't m ind if they were to talk and everything. Maybe even set up a hangout. Just invite a few of your guys friends and have your boyfriend and just all hang out together and maybe they'll all become friends. [ Unless you think he won't, then I suggest not ]. But you also need to think, it's kind of sweet. Because that obviously shows he cares about you alot and is afraid of losing you, but I can understand. But if he continues this way and is "not allowing you to hang out with your friends", I might wanna consider breaking up with him. You shoudln't have to stop hanging out with people or changing yourself for some guy. I hope I helped.
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Okk so my dad booked a european cruise for us and i'm really nervous because of what recently amost happened in london. Now i'm even more nervous because we're flying to London as one of our first flights. I'm so nervous! I'm always nervous of plains even though I fly to australia every summer! Is there any way to make me less nervous?
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I remember whenever I first had to go on a plane a year after 9/11 happened. It was my first flight too, so I was especially nervous. But whenever I got there, I saw how strict and guarded the security is. They're barely letting anything go through the gates now so I'm sure nothing will happen to you. Just think of how wonderful you're cruise is going to be and especially in Europe! There's so many things to see and do there. And also bring along maybe a CD player or video games or something to play with to keep your mind off of it and keep yourself entertained for awhile. I hope I helped!
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Ok my friend (who is a guy, and I am a girl) just broke up with his girlfriend, who is another friend of mine. And ever since the break up My guy friend and me have been spending a lot of time together...while the his ex is moving on with other guys(if you know what i mean) I think he is using me as a way of not to deal with the pain. I feel so bad for him because I can see how much he is hurting and everytime I bring her up he changes the subject. I don't want to push...but i want to help him get over it. How can i do that? If you look at him you can tell he is in pain...just he trys to cover it up. I don't want him to know that I know he is in pain. So what should I do? Any help would be amzing! (link)
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If I was you, I just wouldn't bring it up for awhile. Because if he keeps changing the subject or looks really hurt everytime you mention it, it's not really helping the situation anymore. So just hang out with him, be there for him, be his friend. Just do alot of acitivites and watch movies and go to the mall or wherever and just get his mind off of her. Maybe even have some you and your friends and him all hang out together, so he could meet even more people and maybe even meet a new crush. But also, just let him know you're there for him if he ever DOES want to talk about it, just so he knows it's an option and that you care. And if he's ready to talk, he will. I hope I helped.
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ok me and my boy friend have been thinking about having sex and he has had sex with people befor but i am a vergin, he told me that in the past he has just pulled it out befor the came instead of using a condom... and thats what he wants to do but i dontkno if that is compleatly safe..plz tell me if this is safe i need to kno! thank you! byes (link)
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Everyone always think that's safe if the guy pulls out, it's not. He doesn't know when exactly to pull out, so even if he did, some of it still could go in you and impregnate you. And plus, if he's been with other girls, he could've gotten something so he might want to get tested before you two decide to do anything. If you guys want to really be safe, I'd suggest using a condom, and if he doesn't want to, then you guys shouldn't have sex. And if you want to be safer, you could go and get birth control. I hope I helped.
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im starting to absolutely hate rap, hip hop etc. im starting to like 80`s music, like i've fallen in love with it ever since my dad took my to a poion concert. soo i was wondering what are really great 80's songs/bands
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Oh, I love 80s music. There's Blondie, Duran Duran, Def Leppard, Montley Crue, AC DC, Aerosmith, Billy Idol, Bruce Springsteen, David Bowie, Go-Go's, Joan Jett & The Blackhearts. There's so many. :] I hope I helped.
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