about

well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata


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hey okay...i need help BIG time! ok well like i like this guy he is in 10th grade and i am in 8th grade and we are neighbors and have been friends but like we kinda are goin for the more than friends kinda thing but like this guy i went out with in like october likes me again but he hurt me really bad and like..idk who to still go for or just ignore both or wat?? PLEASE HELP!!! IDK!!!
love r

well if u didnt say like every 5 words i could help you srry

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i've known this guy that i am dating for a really long time, and i like him so much. but it feels so odd when we kiss, because it feels as if i'm kissing someone like my brother. anybody have some advice?
thanx,
dazed and confuzed

hmmmmm thats tough because you should ask him, but if you do then he may feel weird. get one of your friends to ask him if yall have kissed he'll say yes and then she says is she good? then hell tell you. but i don't know what you should do maybe yall should just be friends with benafits hahaha kidding srry i had to make it a little funny it was getting boring. well i don't know sorry. i tryed.

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i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now. to make the situation better i was told i should hug him. and i have been he gives me hugs and i give him hugs. what more can i do?!

Kiss him on the cheek. guys like it when you come up behind them and surprise them with a kiss. I'm not a guy, but i have a lot of guys as friends.

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Ok. There is this girl at our school and like 2 monthes ago, i got the same shoes as her. Now, yesterday she wore these shoes to school and my friend and I alreayd have them but we were just too scared to wear them. So anyways, should we wear them to school or what, beacuse this girl gets mad whenver people :copy: her. What should we do?!

Wear whatever you want. if someone has a problem with it. then there just gay. it shouldn't matter who has the same shoes. i mean come on most girls have the same pony tail holder but we still wear it.

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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!

you can go out but yall just can't do anything.

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he always hugs me close and everything and i want to ask him out but not in a cute little flirty way like notes in locker or anything like that but i just dont want to be like hey dude i like you wanna go out ya know cuz he might think im weird or something so does anybody have any ideas that arnt all cute and flirty ? thanks

go up to him and tell him you like him and if he says he likes you back be like wanna go out?

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ok, I'm falling so hard for a good friend of mine. I'm going crazy though, because he is so shy, and I can't seem to get him to "come out of his shell" and open up. I'm really sure that he likes me back too, it's just really hard to tell and he's SO shy. I'm afraid that if I confront him about all this I'll scare him off! What should I do!?!?! I REALLY need help,and I'll rate too!

ummm just ask him about his feelings 4 u

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hey. ok my problem is that my parents give me noooooo freedom. They won't even let me go to the mall alone!!!!! I always confront them but they never listen. I am getting really fed up with them. I don't know what to do. Green day is going on tour and all my friends are going and i really want to but my parents wont let me because they think they swear too much. What should I do besides talking to them because that doesnt help!

show them that there not going to stop you from doing what you want. go behind there back and have fun.

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About a month or so ago, i saw this show degrassi. There was a girl named elli and she cut herself. Ever since i saw that one episode my life has been gettin worse and worse. My bf dumped me for another girl. My best friends dont ever want to do anything with me, and the guy that has liked me for 3 years hates me now. and well...i started to cut. It really relieve my pain and helps me get things out. But recently my friend say my arms and legs in gym and shes going to tell a counciler. i mean, i dont want her to!! i know its gotten really far..and its really hard to stop i've tried everythign! i've tried hiding my scissors and puttin a rubber band on my wrist NOTHING works!! I NEED HELP! what should i do? if my parents find out they might send me to a mental hospital!!

-hurt and scared

yeah well your not the only one who does this. i saw that show too. you should try to stop if you can't then ummm i know i'm suppose to tell you to stop but if you really can't stop and you can't tell anyone then just wear long sleeve shirts at gym and everywhere. and don't cut your legs. i know thats really wrong, but i know its hard to stop once you start. its almost like smoking you get addicted.

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im 18 years old and my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and were thinking about having sex.. if we do, do i need to see a gynocologist (sp?). thats what ive heard but i need to know if its really necessary and how i would set it up. and what would happen there if i went?

Lets just say your parents will find out if you go. so just use pertection. if you do it. if i was you i wouldn't do it. wait till your married

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I started snowboarding this year and i have this instructor. He's very cute and we seem like we have alot in common. He's only in 11th grade which is one ahead of me. I think he's cute and super cool but i can never work up the nerve to talk to him or sit with him on the way up the ski lift. I always think about but hes really quiet too and he has flirted with me once but now he's juss really quiet. I wanna get to kno him but im to scared to say anything...what should i do?

Next time sit next to him on the ski lift you never know what could happen.

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Ok, I have the opportunity to go to this really good highschool, where you can have 2 years of college finished when you graduate and it looks better on your college application and everything.The problem is,I know some people that go there and they said that htey were straight A students, and when they got there they started making C's and D's, and that it was ALOT of stress and they never get to do anything anymore.Everybody keeps telling me to go, that I can handle it, but I don't really want to, and I'm scared to. At my school now, everything is going good, and there's a guy that I really like, and I would never get to see him again if I went to that other school. I just have no idea what to do. I don't want to give up a great opportunity, but I don't want to go either. I have alrady prayed about it, but I'm still confused. Please help! And please, no rude answers, I'm stressed enough as it is. Thanks! I'll rate!

P.S. Sorry so long!!

I would so not go to that school it sounds boring. i'm sorry but if you want to then you go but i wouldn't. i would pick the guy. who knows you could end up marring him.

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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?

if i was you i would shave. it may not bother you but trust me you need to shave.

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Since October last year, I haven't been having a proper lunch at school. At first it was because I just wasn't as hungry as I used to be and I didn't need to eat. Now, I do get hungry at lunch but I don't like bringing in a lunch from home and I hate queuing in the lunch hall to buy a school meal, I never have money to buy it anyway. My friends have started to comment on how thin I am getting, I have always had a slim build but now they say I am getting too thin. I can see what they mean, I am thinner but I haven't lost any weight at all. I don't think I am overweight or anything but they think I have an eating disorder. I know I don't, how can I get them to see that?

just tell them you are growing taller because you probley are. and you are eating enough.

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ok so i've started using tampons and sometimes they leak so i take it out but when i do it hurts like i havent left it in long enough.... i dont know what to do get bigger ones or what

pleez help!!!

well ummmmm there going to hurt no matter what bigger ones?!?!?!?!?! the ones you are using are hurting you so don't get bigger ones. its normal for them to hurt. what do you think that your period is a vacation heck no its not its a pain in the ass.

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what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?!

well you never really know. it just depends on the guy. you will find out if he has a g/f in like a week or so.

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My dad is always playing halo 2 on X-box live and lately he has been acting like the teenagers on there and he is 38 years old. And today he asked me to do something and when I did it, it was wrong and he said he was going to beat my ass. and I said do it and i will call the cops and he said call them now so they can take you away bitch. and that mad me so sad and I am crying right now and before he played halo he was so nice but now I hate him but when he isnt playing it he is nice sometimes and he yells at me all the time. I tell him all the time about I dont like him becuz of halo and hes is like the game isnt changing me..BUT IT IS...

well your dad right now is probley thinking he is old. if i was you i while he was sleeping take halo 2 and your x box live and through it away or do something with it. he may go buy another one, but he won't get it that way. so like tape record him before you take the xbox and after and then show it to him.

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My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?

well obviously she is trying a new kind of life. she doesn't mean anything by it. she is just trying new things. she may come back to her old self. then she may not. you can never really know what your friends are going to do. you always have to be ready for change even though you may not like it.

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i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now. but he today he touched me in the stomach and he was hugging me today once again. we are cuddling a lot does this mean anything?

it means he wants a g/f and that gurl would be you. but just to make sure watch him closley and see if he touches any other gurls. hope i helped.

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Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child?

o my goodness. i would tell someone like the doctors and they will like tell the mother if she doesn't stop then when the babys born it will be takin away from her or something. i don't really know i have never heard of a mother do that. but like they say first time for everything

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