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I'm here to help, and I'll be as honest as possible. I hope I can help give any advice in any way, and I wish the best to everyone I respond to. Thanks!

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i've liked this girl for a week now and i can definitly tell that if we went out it'd be a long lasting/fun relationship. i am 15/m and i was wondering any like cute ways to get a girls attention.

what can really brighten up her day
would be to leave her little notes
put one in her locker one day
then like.. one in her lunch
or her binders
it really would make her day
=] hope i helped !
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okay i am fourteen years old and i'm a girl.
sorry this is sorta long.

i absolutly love a certain guy. he's one of my best closest friends. he really likes this girl (she's one of my friends) and he asked her out but she said no and he was okay with that. (but he is mad her for reading a note that she should not have read.) so he has been hugging me and kissing my neck and stuff like that. my friends always come to me and say that me and him look like we are going out. i want to ask him out, but the thing is i asked him out last year, but he didn't say no because he didn't like me. and i don't know if he's kissin and huggin to make me feel good or if he really likes me. my friends say that a guy--especially a friend,
wouldn't do that for the fun of it. they think i should go for it. what do you think i should do?

go for it =]
you have nothing to lose
unless he's the kind of guy that
you cant trust
i would totally do it
if you cant really trust him
he might be doing it
to get your friend jealous
hope i helped ! =]
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Homecoming is coming up, and I don't have a date, nor do I think I will get one. My friends Alex and Kim (both girls)say I should go with them since they don't have dates either. I really want to go, so what I was thinking is I would bribe my friend Ty (boy) into taking me, and we would still go with Alex and Kim. Before I knew them, Alex had a crush on Ty, and he found out and started teasing her and flirting really bad with her, so now she kind of hates him, but he is an assistant coach on her swim team so she tolerates him. The other problem is he is 19 and I am 16. My parents don't have a problem with me asking Ty, so I was wondering if I should ask Ty to take me knowing the history with him and Alex.

if i were you, i would talk your situationover with alex first. then , if she approves, go to your friend ty and be like, so do you wanna go to the homecoming with me with some friends ? hope i helpedd

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i just asked you about my hair, and ive used patene. but it doesnt work. what kind of pantene could i use?

i use pantene pro-v
then write afterword i use the conditioner
it really makes your hair soft and fluffy =]

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okay. my hair is natuarlly greasy. and i need to find a shampoo thats for oily hair. ive tried everything. and nothing works. and now that herbal essencess switched their line, i dont have that shampoo anymore. could you give me some tips? please and thanks ♥

two words....



pantene pro-v =]

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i need to know, how can you become a pretty person outside? i dont think im pretty or anything,i want to be a girl some guy would like. but how? tips? gerneral stuff? im a kinda preppy person,i dont dress bad,i wear makeup,but i dont know how to be pretty. i have brown hair,big brown eyes,long eyelashes,dark eyebrows,kinda light skin,kinda circles under my eyes,oval face shape,4"9 13...please help i want to look nice and aprochable,and pretty.

wow. when i read this i thought of me. everything about us is the same but i'm 4'11". try changing your style of clothes. try wearing camis and things. i'm sure your really pretty. try putting your hair in styles that you've never dont before. if you want people to notice you, you have to stand out. hope i helped !!

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okay i'm 14/female
sorry for the length of this.

i always wondered why i can't get a boyfriend. all the guys i like either have gf's already, or don't like me like that but we're still friends.
i'm in high school with over a thousand kids you'd think someone would like you.

i'm 5'1 and have brown eyes and brown hair with a purpleish red in it. i'm skinny, but average, and i think i have a really good personality, and i make good grades in school, but i'm not a nerd. i just haven't figured out why guys don't like me gf wise. why won't they ask me out or even like me?

any suggestions would be great. just drop off any questions you have about my personality to me. that way i can get better advice on what the deal is with me. and what i need help with.

thanx in advance :)

you shouldnt sit back and wait for a guy to ask you out. try asking a guy out yourself. it might be hard, but guys like girls that make the first move. plus, some guys might like you, they're just too shy to ask you out.

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Ok, I need a really really good choir piece with quite a few harmonies, but 1 that can be learnt quite quickly. We need an upbeat, preferably rocky song, that lasts 2-3 mins. Please help!

for my chorus group we sang joyful joyful. we learned it really quickly and it was really fun. btw i'm talking about the fast version.

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i have a hard question taht is bugging me like hell and i would like to find a heart felt answer so it can ease my pain

i love a girl at school i have known her for along time now around 4 years(ish) but for that long we have only been friends now i am starting to change my mind about her do i really her but there are a few things standing in my way ...she has a boy freind... now her bf is a very good mate of mine we go out and skate for ages i know him through another mate of mine (but thats not important) any way i dont know what to do whould i leave them to it because they are madly in love with eachother or do i wait and go off her i havent really felt this way about a girl before sure i have had girlfreinds sure i have loved them to bits but this is different i dont know how it just is please please help my heart and head aches from thinkin about this.

if you feel that she can really be trusted, sit down with her one day, and tell her your feelings. also include that you arent trying to break her and her bf up, but you thought that she should no your true feelings. hope this helped ! update me on your situation =]


no prob
glad i can help
hope all goes well for you =]
and if you wanna talk
you have my sn
~almostlovex0x0

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my boyfriend and I have been togther for 3 years now, he wants to do more, and want me to give him head, PLEASE HELP!because i wouldnt know how.

do you want to ?

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Okay well I have a hickey and I was wondering if anyone knows how to get rid of it or make it so nobody can see it? Reply Back Pleasee! Thankss :]

wear a turtleneck =]

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okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.

thankss

alright, if i dont get back to you tonight, i'll talk to you tomorrow



oops i accidently deleted my answer
--sorry

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my friend passed away tuesday on the first day of school. i'm making a slideshow and was wondering if anybody has any idea for some good songs to put in it? thanks a lot.

when my friend thiago passed away, they played you'll be in my heart by phil collins at his funeral. i think its the perfect song.

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okay so im always so used to be the skinny girl. and lately ive gained a lot of weight. in one year i gained like 12pounds!!!!! can someone please please help me like maybe lose those pounds cause ive gotten really chunky and i wanna be skinny again. just please help..


*please no rude comments*

what you should do is exercise, eat healthy, and get involved in sports. hope i helped =]

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when do you kiss? Like on a date when you see them? when you say goodbye?

you should just kiss whenever you feel like it
when i met my bf at the movies
i kissed him when we said goodbye

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i have 2 ?s both about the same thing. first of all whenever i get a zit it ALWAYS scars even if i dont mess with it at all. anything to help that? i already use proactiv and obviously it doesnt do much ive been usin it over a year and my face is still rlly broken out & scarred also im tryin to talk my mom into puttin me on birth control to help bc ive read that it supposedly works really well for that [and also to regulate my period] so does any one have any personal experience from that? thanks yall!

hey i've never gotten a scar from a zit. but my mom is really into "natural" remedies and stuff besides regular vitamins and such because shes a pharmacist. what really helps is tea tree therapy. you just dab some on.

heres a link to what it looks like


http://www.taoofherbs.com/images/product/regular/TeaTreeOilPure-2214v2.jpg

its a little expensive, but it lasts a loooong time and its totally worth it




hope i helped =]

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Hey there. My name is Mandie, I'm 14, and a freshman, and I've recently developed a SERIOUS crush on this guy who just so happens to be my best friend's brother. I really want to get to know him better, and to tell my best friend, but there are some complications. She's always had a great relationship with him, and hated all his girlfriends (or girls he likes) because she's always been "the first girl in his life." So to speak. I definitely wouldn't want to hurt her. But then there's also him. I'm not sure I should even try because he'll very probably just think of me as a "little sister" type. From what my best friend's told me, I think I'm his type, but for him to think of me as someone like his little sister and then have me ask him out would be really embarrassing. Esecially since I would have to see him alot.

Well, I guess that's about all. What should I do? This is really one of those sweet, respectful guys you only met a few times during life. And I reeeaaaally like him. Okay then. Reply soon.

i would talk to your friend. ask her opinion. first see if sees okay with it. after that, try and find out if he has a girl in mind. maybe your friend can talk to him.

hope i helped =]

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what is the best black pencle eyeliner out there??
i want eyeliner that goes on smooth help!!

the eyeliner that i find the best is N.Y.C. automatic eye pencil. you can find it at cvs. its only like... 4 bucks. and its not a pencil. its like the pencil , but its in a tube and it rolls up. its like this :

http://altura.speedera.net/ccimg.catalogcity.com/210000/211700/211751/Products/7011242.jpg

but it says N.Y.C. automatic eye pencil , and its not as expensive as estee lauder. hope this helps !

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Hey on my phone i can click on aim, but then i can't get to even signing on but i did not download it or anything it was just there.... i want to use it, do you have to oay to activate it or something? if so how much is it

thx

i have AIM on my phone too. what you need to do is go on the website-- www.aim.com-- and go to teh section that says-- get AIM on your phone-- and you have to register your sn. hope this helps

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at school everyone call me egghead because of my head shape but i dont like it i have told the them to stop but they dont listen

from egghead

whatever you do, dont make fun of them. then what will happen is they will keep on making rude remarks and they will get ruder each time you make fun of them. laughing with them would work, or you could just ignore them. i used to be on the short side so when people would say-- wow your really short i would say-- really ? maybe your just tall... or i would say... and your point is...-- for your situation i would say-- whats so wrong with it ?-- something like that... usually they just give up. hope this helps =]

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