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ok so i have a bf who goes to another skool and my ex goes to the same skool as me. well i accidently ran into my ex at break today (almost bumped into him literally but i didn't). he was walking w/ this other gurl in my class and i talked to her a few times and she's pretty nice but since i stopped talking to my ex, i worry if he's saying nething about me to other ppl. i dun want ppl to think i'm a bitch or nething. and i'm paranoid about if he still has feelings for me cuz i really dun want that. how do i find out what's going on w/o actually talking to him or the gurl? it's been bothering me for a while. thnx.
-that gurl who hasn't asked questions in a while. (link)
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It's ok chief, your ex is probably just trying something new after you two split. I'm not really certain about the details on how you broke up, but I don't think that he spread any rumors or said anything bad about you- he probably doesn't want to remember you: especially talk about you. I can't tell you if he actually still does have feelings for you, but if he does, I don't think that it's something to worry about unless it gets creepy (like he starts stalking you and stuff like that). It's okay to just move on and forget about him (that's what most people do anyways). Best of luck!
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SO LIEK OMG. I have this friends, and she like, is my friend? Yeah, we have fun? And she had, like, this column that she writes for? It's on a website, that is, like, a weird website? I've never been to it, and I'm like, scared? Because what if it's like a naughty website or sumthing? Because, like, sometimes my friend sends me weird sites? And she like, wants me to ask her a question or sumthing? I'm not going to like, put my personal questions on like, an online column!? Ok, so like, should like, I like, write like, a like, question, or what like? HELP ME?
My like, name, is like, Ickbenine Berliner, or you like, can like, call me like, IKY?
Like, thanks? (link)
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yes! Ask her as many questions and humanly possible. Got any questions? Ask me :P (don't give me a 1 rating or I shall hunt you down)
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My friend is excited about turning 13 but she doesn't have anywhere to have a party. She's jealous because everyone loved my 13th birthday party. I'd let her use my basement but then her party would be exaclty like mine and it would'nt feel right. Is that selfish? Besides, I don't know if mom and dad would let me have another party since the last one got a little one of hand. So where else could she have her party? I need ideas to suggest to her! She's my BFF! I can't let her down! (link)
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Suggest a hadful of other things that might interest her more than your basement. Maybe you can go to a theme park, downtown, or the mall. Try having a scavenger hunt using those cameras where the film develops itself when you pull it out (a couple of my friends and I have done this a couple times before. TONS OF FUN)
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After my dad died, I've been having problems with myself. For a while I was okay. but recently i keep getting mad and feeling so...weird. So i started cutting, but now I don't know what to do. I can't stop...it feels so addictive. We have a spring trip soon to a water park and I don't want everyone to see my cuts. What should I do? (link)
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It's ok, we all make mistakes and yes- I do agree that cutting gets addictive. I would advise that you cover up your cuts by wearing a light long sleeved t-shirt and just go swimming in it or just not go in the water at all. Try talking to your doctor about taking medication for your depressive mood swings. Also consider going to a church if you have the time.
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i want to get colored contacts, but i don't need glasses. I want regular ones, not ones for costumers/parties etc. I went to acuvue 2 colors and they have some where the prescription is "0.00 (plano)".. does that mean no prescription? and where can i find non-prescription colored contacts? thanks. (link)
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If you know someone, or you yourself have an eye doctor, you can ask them for free non-perscription samples. They should give you enough to last you for a while.
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any good stores in... SC, CALI? like for striped, polkadot, dress-skirt type of things? (link)
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forever 21, Papaya, Macy's, etc. Just go shopping at the malls and you'll find what you're looking for.
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Hello. There is this guy that I like alot (I know, another relationship problem), but I don't know how to get to know him better to see if he likes me. I'm not really that pretty, so he's probably not really that in to me right now. I spent the weekend with him and some friends from the same team in a hotel together, and we slept together in the same bed, but I'm not sure if he likes me or if he just felt obligated. We've been on the same school club team for about 6 months, so we talk, but nothing more. I guess my question is: Do you think that he likes me at all? And if not, how can I get him to like me as opposed to other really pretty girls?
Oh, and I'm a girl, just so you know. :) (link)
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I'm sure that if he likes you at least a little bit if he slept in the same bed with you (otherwise he'd probably have slept on the floor or in a chair). If not, then I would just advise you to act yourself, and make him feel special. Compliment him, be a good friend, and do anything to make him ponder about your conversations for the rest of the day. Don't be afraid to make the first move if it comes to that, and don't worry about not being pretty. If you have a good personality, that should be enough to hit any other "pretty girl" out of the ballpark.
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Okay, a really close guy friend of mine just told me last night that he just realized that he has feelings for me. we were VERY close last year, but we don't have any classes this year and we rarely talk. He even has a girlfriend now that he is supposedly crazy about. I was telling him how I have feelings for this other very close friend of mine, and right as I was explaining he was like.."I feel jealous..:-/" then that's how he got into it. He said this, "I don't know how to explain it, but I guess when someone likes someone else that's when you really realize your feelings for them.." blahblah.. then he said that he's really confused. [this was online, I know..stupid] He said that he would call me and explain it to me. I keep saying, "no I don't think that would be a good idea, you have a gf" then he would be like, "that doesn't mean you cant have feelings for someone else.." I see him every once in a while and it's kind of akward.. I think I'm starting to have feelings for him, and I don't know what to do. Any tips would be great thanks! (link)
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I would normally say "follow your heart," but this guy doesn't seem worth your while. He's obviously not very trustworthy if he's thinking about cheating on his girlfriend. If he's willing cheat on his gf now then how will you know that if you start dating him that he won't cheat on you? Try to get the akwardness to go away and at least become friends with him again.
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Hey! I'm a girl and 16, and I really like this guy, David. I used to be 95% possitive that he liked me too, but I think somethings changed. I'm thinking that he MIGHT like this other girl, but she has a boyfriend already. Lately, he's been acting like he doesnt care about me, at all! Like, he doesnt talk to me, unless I talk to him. I left him a voice mail message twice (two days in a row) saying what the plans were for the night, and he didnt even BOTHER to call back and say he couldnt come, or give me the time of day. It's really starting to aggrivate me. I want to ask him what is up, and why he's pretty much ignoring me, but its hard! The last time we were alone. things were really nice, and now hes just being a JERK! In school, I go out of my way, and go to his locker and walk with him in the hallways, but hes NEVER at my locker. EVER! He doesnt show any intrest, at all. And I want to know what is up! What should I do? (link)
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What an asshole. He doesn't even deserve to be your friend. You should just completely do the same thing back to him. You don't have to treat him nicely because he's obviously treating you like a piece of shit.
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thongs are like really in and i was wondering if anyone who has used one can give my pros and cons of wearing them since at this rate i'll never where one myself (link)
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pros- you can wear them with white pants
- you never have to worry about your underwear line showing
- most guys find them attractive
cons- some people consider thong wearers sluts
- they can get uncomfortable
- you have to watch your butt when wearing a skirt
- when on your period you have to wear a tampon if you're going to wear a thong and both at once can get pretty uncomfortable
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ok i have this pimple that is like smaller than a pin head. the only problem is that it is so full of like puss and junk that it is white. i have tan skin so it REALLY shows up. the other thing is that it is like right where the outside curve of my nostril meets my face. so it is sort of hidden in a crease but still really noticable. my mom wont bring me anywhere to go get anykind of nutregina or anything so i need a home remedy on how to get rid of this bugger. like putting some kind of food on it or something. i need help and i need it fast. (link)
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Pop it, wash it out, and put any kind of white-pastey toothpaste on it overnight. It should either disappear or become a little less noticeble. If not, keep washing it and put toothpaste on it the next night.
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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well. (link)
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Use a condom, don't get pregnant, don't get caught, it does hurt a little bit, and yes you do bleed but just a little.
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I have no clue wat im gonna do for my 13th birthday partay! please give me ideas!
Thanks!
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pool party, sleepover, movies, mall, house party, dance, cooking, mini golf, bowling, go downtown, paintballing, pizza, pinata filled with marshmallows, pillow fights, texas holdem, gambling party, board games, truth or dare, prank phone calls, make a movie, make chocolate dipped strawberries, rent a scary movie... I'm out of ideas for now.
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i dont know everyone always says "your to abusive" because ill hit guys and stuff just messing around but i guess that is my way of flirting with them but it dosent work aparently what are some ways i could be nicer or just flirt in a more gentle way? thank you. (link)
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I don't think that you should change your flirting style just because a couple guys say that you're too abusive. Who knows- that might just be their strange and akward way of flirting back! But if you really want to change, i'd advise just touching instead of hitting/slapping.
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Hello,
When I am sitting in class, doing my work, and i become slightly bored, i partake in a slightly disgusting habit.
I bite a sliver of a nail off of a finger, keep it in my mouth, then use my tongue to position it so i could slide it out the front end between my two front teeth. I continue doing this at least 4 to 6 times, then swallow the nail.
I am interested in stopping this habit for myself, because I don't think anyone notices it. (link)
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I used to have almost the same problem. Try putting a band-aid on the finger you bite on most often and it will help remind you not to continue your bad habit. Or if you're a girl (sorry... you didn't really specify your gender) you can polish your fingernails to also help you remember not to bite.
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i would walk 3 miles every other day? 1/2 mile run on the days when i dont walk? how about that? or would running about 2 miles be better instead of walking fast? like for my legs..to be toned, a nice tight butt/legs kuz i have a big butt but it looks gross lol im not fat but lol idk!
and um also i heard from someone that you have to run a FOOTBALL FIELD to burn off ONE M&M?!??!?! IS THAT TRUE? please respond !!!! (link)
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If you do pretty much any conditioning program, the standard is running 2-3 miles a day (no walking) and then weight training. If you want the toned body that you're after, I'd try running the three miles instead of walking them, because running 1/2 a mile a day isn't going to get you in shape. If you can't run 3 miles right off the bat, try running as much as you can whithout walking until you can work up to 3 miles.
And I don't think that you have to run a football field to burn off one M&M, but maybe the number of calories equivelent to 1 M&M.
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i have a really close guy friend we close but we cant be nothing but friends because on long distance and i hate long distance realtionships because the never work out. ok but n-e-ways sometimes we act like lovers and sometimes like friends but even when he had a gf we did the samething because he always liked me more then his gf even though he broke up with her for me but i still didnt go out with him and like now i dont know what to do i do love this guy and like he perfect for me and all but i am really confuessed?can you plz help i wil rate! thanks! (link)
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I would try a long distance relationship. Even though (like you said) they don't normally work out, it sounds like you two might pull it off if you love eachother that much. You should at least give it a try.
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I blush a lot. If I get a tan (on my face), will that help make my blushing less noticable? (link)
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Yes, it would help a little, but probably not much.
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I'm 16, i get told i'm pretty, 5'3, 120lbs, brown hair and eyes, sophmore, friendly, funny, and i love just about everyone... ok well thats the 411 on me but theres a huge problem with it: I'm sick of being single! Ive been single for waaaayyyy too long now. I want a real relationship that lasts! I used to like this one guy who just got out of a really long relationship, so that obviously didnt work out so well... then i started liking this other guy who goes to another school (i still kinda like him now too but things are confusing) and i THINK he likes me too. He's let me drive his car w/o my permit, he's taken me to this romantic park that i really wanted to go to so i metioned it to him and he surprized me, he didnt smoke for a week because i dont like it, he's spontaneously stopped by my house to pick me up, he takes pics of me on his camera and he left a message on my phone last week saying that he was looking through them and seeing me made him happy so he thought he'd call me... basically hes done adorable things like that! but the problem his he has a gf that he got after i started having a thing for him... i heard about it before he talked to me about it and he said "do you think i was sober when i asked her out?? no.." and "youre better than her, thats why i'm more worried about you being mad right now than even being with her" but yet like 3 weeks later he's STILL going out with her. I have a feeling he likes me, but since i'm not a skank i wont do all the things that his "gf" will do with him (i wont do them especially because he has the gf now). I think that he's falling for me and my personality but he's still with her because he wants some.. but i dont want that at all! I want a boyfriend who will love me for me.. i dont want to get played!!! what should I do?? PLEASE (link)
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Just be patient and wait for a different guy. The guy who likes you now but is going out with that other girl is obvously not good enough for you. I'm sure you're beautiful and many other guys are just dying to get to know you, so get out there and find your dream man!
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I like my friend, hes so fun to be around & I think at one point he used to like me too, you know how you can just tell? Besides, i used to nag him about who he liked and at that point, he would say that he was shy and such, and that he didn't want to ruin anything if he said something. Anyways, after a while, i started to like him and it was obvious hehe. I told him I like him and wells he told me to call him back when I had a chance to talk about it, when I did, he ignored the subject and wells i thought something was there but i guess at that point there wasnt. Anyways, nowadays, it seems like he likes me again, doing the same things when he might have liked me, but on and off..and i think i still have feelings for him..should I ask him about it? (link)
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Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I would just ignore his mixed signals. A lot of times, guys show signs that they don't intend to show. He might not like you in that way at all and just doesn't want ruin the friendship between you two. Don't ask him about it, because if he doesn't like you then you'd end up making a fool of yourself. If he does like you then he'd be the one asking you if you like him. Good luck with whichever decision you make in the end!
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