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I have a friend to whome i am close to. He is one of my ultimate best friends and we talk on a regular basis. There has always been this "thing" between me and him and we both know its there. There is like a spark in the air but then again, we have NEVER kissed or anything . But we are so close mentally and emotionally.
He always talks abou what kind of girl he's gunna marry and how hell treat her. It just makes me think even more about how badly i want that life with him. They say that your husband is like your best friend. I think i do want my bestfriend to eventually become my husband. I have never really thought about is like that before but i legit think that we are almost perfect for eachother. And i do think that we could date very easily but I do beleive that the ONLY thing that is holding us back is me. My weight.Dont get it wrong he does love me but he also wants a "fitter " looking gf. And i honestly dont resent him for that. He is really into body building and fitness and he doesnt really judge me at all. I just have that gut feeling that that is what is holding him back from me. But me, i dont at ALL eat junk food. All my weight was put on when I was younger and now im just been kind of stuck with it for four years. For four years after i gradually began to eat healthier my weight still just kinda stayed the same. This summer i have been watching and kind of obsessing what i eat and i have lost about 15 pounds. All i drink is water and eat three times a day of mostly vegetables. But i dont only want to lose weight because i have this weird theory lol...but so i feel better about myself in general...im just getting sick of being fat.
anyway i guess i dont even really know what im asking i just kinda wonderr i guess what you think about all of this or just any advice. ... (link)
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Aw I hope for the best of you two. If he really loves you and cares about you , he will accept you the way you are , beauty is just the outside , personality and feelings is what's on the inside that counts. If it's meant to be either way it will happen no matter what. If you want to lay that off , i'd say get some protein stuff , start working out daily , eat good , some junk food is good , uhm just cut down a bit , look up some stuff on the interent. I know just be good and be who you are in your own skin , don't think otherwise. My advice to you go out and strut your stuff and good luck with him and go out and daily excersise and why not with him let him tag along show him you care about your looks and yourself make yourself happy you know.
Good luck girl : )
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My best friend and I want my best guy friend to come over to my house and chill with us. play some tunes out in my yard, just chill, have a good time. But he bailed and I got really mad at him, but we got over it and now everything is okay. He had told me that he actually can make it to hang out. But now I kind of want to tell him that I can't and we have to reschedule so he wonders what I'm doing and maybe who I'm with. Maybe tell him that I'm at a party or something. But I would only do that with the sole intent of him wondering and thinking about me. Which I'm not sure will happen. He bails on alot of things. But he usually either unbails.. or reschedules.
What should I do? Thanks. (link)
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Well , if he does that , doesn't seem he's worth it. If a guy does it once , he'll do it again. If you sort of like this guy do that and see how he reacts , see if he cares. If you like him , or like him a lot don't risk anything alright , let it come and see what happens alright. Don't let it get to you , guys are like that , there's plenty of good better guys out there. Do what your heart desires the most. My advice to you is do it if you know the consequences , don't do it if you don't want anything bad to ever happen. He seems like he bails a lot. Don't be fooled or tricked.
Good luck girl : )
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so I've noticed lately that my face is getting really dry. I've started putting moisturizer and then i do my make up routine, which includes powder, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, and lip gloss sometimes. Well i was wondering is it that im putting too much make up on? And also is there any way to moisturize my skin with out moisturizer? i know that sounds stupid but bare with me. thanks. (link)
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Yeah , to be honest from what I see it's the make up most since you use so much of it right , you should go see a dermotologish or a specialist in some local drug store or something to see what they recommend because they know best because they are more experienced in these areas right. You should get more ideas. I think it's the make up that is hurting it not so much the face wash. My advice to you is don't use all that make up , not too much hot showers either doens't help , and go see a dermotologish or someone with more experience so they know what they are dealing with.
Good luck girl : )
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If you've recently been heartbroken, how does working out help you, especially mentally? (link)
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Working out helps in so many ways. You just put on your favourite music of course the music that doesn't remind you of that heartbrake you got , also , it helps you feel better and it eases out your pain more meaning that you'll feel more calm and relaxed , no pressure it put on your brain or anything , it just let's you relax and sweat. My advice to you is it helps you to get it off your mind and helps you relax. Go to some classes it makes it even better , plus there's cute guys at the gym anyways to look at , it works too.
Good luck girl : )
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I need to no somting to do for my schools Talent quest (link)
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Ah alright , well do something you are known for , there has to be something that you must be good at and is your thing , you should do something different , get a camera , or go outside , or brainstorm everything and see what you come up with. It all depends what you like to do , and from there decide what you want to do , you know? You should do something that someone or some people always say to you like wow that was awesome or wow that was good , your good , or something like that. You can always think of things that you yourself love doing even if it's like a seashell collection , or anything. My advice to you is stick with your view of the world on things and interpret your dreams and make it into something to show to everyone.
Good luck girl : )
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Iss it possible for your Mind not to listen to what your hearts says. I go out with this boy currently and im in love. && Here is another boy i used to go out with my mind wants to be with my ex. But my heart wants to be with current boyfriend. It gets so confusing at times. So is this possible ? I wonder !
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Yes it is possible to feel that way , aw I think you should hang out with your ex , and see what happens , since you really miss him and stuff , but your current boyfriend you have more feelings , but your mind isn't teling you it , your mind is somewhere else so obviously you should be hanging out with your ex. I think you should try getting a connection with your ex and see what happens , maybe the heart and mind will both cooperate more with being able to be with him again and hang out and see what happens. My advice to you is do what your heart and mind say right now , go and try to talk to you your ex , and see what happens , and from there decide.
Good luck girl : )
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Hi I'm liz I am 14 years old and I'm from ny and There's this boy in my class name don and I really like him but I'm not sure if he likes me becuase sometimes when someone ask him if he likes me he says no but when he is next to me he is flirty and he is always saying something funny and staring at me and making eye contact with me and making fun of me (link)
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Hm well , maybe he doesn't want anyone knowing that he likes you? Don't fall for him though , you don't know yet if he actually does , maybe he is like that with everyone or maybe he just likes doing that with girls. Maybe he does like you , but try talking to him more , just don't let it get to you , there is so many other guys out there don't worry about it. Keep it up and see what happens. My advice to you is keep going and see if he makes new moves , maybe he's too shy to tell you he likes you , maybe he doesn't want anyone knowing , you never know.
Good luck girl : )
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I know most people might say no, men shouldn't hit a woman back. But I think that if a woman thinks shes big enough to hit a man she should be hit back. I think that a man should only hit a woman in self defense. There are women out there that hit men when they get mad over something stupid and expect not to get hit back and sometimes they try to fight the man, while they expect him to do nothing but walk away. Im a woman and I think that if a woman hits a man she should be hit back. Just like if a man hits a woman for no reason she should hit him back. Im not saying that a woman should be beaten by a man though. Ive seen women hit men, bite scratch,threaten with a knife and chunk stuff at them. The man is supposed to sit there and take that? Most women arent as weak as people think they are.
Just wondering to see people's opinions...
If a man doesnt hit a woman back after she hits him, the next time they argue, she will try to fight and hit him, some women are vicious catty fighters..Im not saying she she get beaten
If a woman doesnt want to get hit by a man like Mike tyson, then she shouldnt hit him because shes mad, or over something stupid.
I'm a woman lol, just asking.
My cousin used to hit her ex. and he would never hit her back. the one time he did though, she never hit him again after that. Shes Grown up since then. If I was a man, I would treat her the same way as I would treat a man who comes up to me and hits me, I do not practice gender discrimination. but the point is everyone deserves to learn that lesson if theyre askin for it. Im not saying men should beat women, Im just saying she should get hit back.everyone who believes in genuine equality and responsibility should agree..
Men: if she comes up to you and hits you multiple times are you going to hit her back? cause that would be self-defense right? for someone strong like her
Women: Do you think if that woman attacked a man he has the right to hit her back? (link)
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This is a good question. I'd say yes if that women attacked a man he has the right to hit her back , BUT it depends. I mean if a women hit's a man because she's mad or has issues then he should be aware and be ready to fight back , but not like killer mode. I mean if shes in a killer mode , he should be too so it's equal. The thing is that if he cheated on her or if he said something rude in a really rude way , i'd say he has no right to hit her if she is treated like crap just like in that movie the Titanic when her fiance hit her across the face for disobeying him , now that's not right. I think it's alright , but it's not alright to get beaten by a guy especially if it's his fault. If it's over something really stupid like a fight or missunderstanding , he should fight back , it only makes it fair , why should the man suffer , a girl is no better then a man. My advice to you is that , I think it is fair if it's something very stupid , if it involves cheating you got something a good explanation for it , if the two have been dating for a while , if not then it's not fair. Guys should be allowed in self-defense , but if they know something wrong they did , they should at least say sorry.
Good luck girl : )
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hi im kayla and i have a really important question!.. can a guy go to jail for being 20 yrs of age and dating a girl who is 14 turnin 15 right before he turns 21 can he go to jail an is that ok cuz to me it sounds fine as long as they dont do anithing are they wrong for this?? please answer as soon as possible .. thanx i would really appreciate it !!!!!! (link)
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Hm , that's a little off , BUT you got to be careful who you are choosing , if you really like this guy , then go for him , but be aware of what can happen , he can end up going to jail if something doesn't go right , if your parent's don't know , be sure to know that sometime they will find out , and know how they will react to it. Your young and just learning , but you need to know the things that can happen. It's alright love comes at any age really , but you have to be able to know that this kind of stuff can hurt you , or him. My advice to you is nothing is going wrong just odd , but just don't take the wrong road , if you really want this and know what can happen it's your choice , but if you don't know since your asking , maybe best to stick with guys the same age , but it's your choice. He can go to jail for this , but be aware.
Good luck girl : )
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ok so like today i went on a bike ride with my best friend her kinda bf like there talking and his friend. when we were close to being home we all stopped to talk and then my friend road off on her bike but i stayed to talk and like my friends kinda bf was like telling his friend to touch my boobs and i didnt care whatever. but the jimmy her kinda bf was like if u flash me i willl moter boat u and i rly wanted him to because i rly like him to so i did and he moter boated me then he was feeling me and i was like i gtg see ya later and i left.
so what should i do should i just keep it between me and him or tell her ??
and dose that make me a slut? (link)
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Hm , well that wasn't good for a guy to do that for a ride , obviously he's not worth the deal. I think you should tell her because she should know what kind of guy she likes a lot and stuff , that's not right , don't let some guy like that fool you. That doesn't make you a slut , BUT you need to learn to stop going on people's boyfriends , how would you like it if someone did that to you to YOUR boyfriend , i'm sure you wouldn't like that , so don't do that to someone elses , and it will make life a lot easier and your friend might be mad at you , at least you will learn a lesson right. My advice to you is don't do that ever again , hopefully it's a life lesson , and please don't do that to your FRIENDS boyfriends.... he's taken hun.Many other guys other then him.
Good luck girl : )
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I have this co worker who every time we are supposed to close together always calls in he usualy works days and I work the closeing shift .he only helps close 2 nights a week .I don't know if its because he doesn't like to work with me or just don't like to help close.there is a lot of cleaning you have to do at night and I know a lot of people at my job don't like to do that sort of thing because the people during the day shift don't do anything but he knowes if he don't come in than I'm on my own and that gets anoying so what do you think any ideas (link)
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Hmm , that's a little weird , but I think if it keeps going you should talk to him , that's really odd , but I think you should talk to him about it and make a deal because if you don't you'll just keep thinking and he won't come and it makes it harder. My advice to you is if that keeps on happening , straight up go and ask what's the deal or talk to him.
Good luck girl : )
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So ive never gotten my period before but this same thing happened to me like almost exactly 2 years ago (within those 2 years i had no blood or anything)....when i went to the bathroom 2 days ago and i whiped my... i saw some blood on the toilet paper but there wasnt any in my underwear so i put a pad in and a little bit more blood came out on the pad later in the day. but since that day i havent gotten any blood again! its been 2 days with no signs of blood. do you think i got my period? or no?
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Well I think you got your period , congradulations , and i'd say don't even worry about it , you got a lot of time ahead to figure that out. My advice to you don't worry about it you got it you just have to wait for it to come.
Good luck girl : )
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Ive lost 30 pounds since this summer and now Im losing weight slowly I do work out. Ive tried girdles and I cant get a corset because they aren't in stores and I cant get one online. When I wear clothes my stomache shows. How do I get rid of my stomach fast or something I can wear to hide it? (link)
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http://www.telegaleria.com/s-4-body-shaper.aspx?gclid=CLKWq_L12aMCFQXs7QodqijT9A or go to the love shops or stag shopes around you to get corsets and dont do tight clothes because that won't hide it. I would say go to the gym and work out , push ups , sits ups , walking , and everything , and eat good and you'll be fine.
My advice to you is not stress okay , and relax and be good. Just try stuff online like that what I gave you or ebay or something always works or amazon , and wear light , lose clothes to hide it not tight because that won't work. Also , do excercises.
Good luck girl : )
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I had a nightmare that i was laying in a casket thirsty. this nightmare was so creepy. i'm scared that this is foreshadowing thati will die. but don't plenty of people have weird nightmares liket his that mean absolutely nothing at all? i'm scared haha is that a stupid reason to be?? I'm re doing my room and i liked this ruffly one and my twin says not to get it cause it looks like a dead girl's blanket so when i took my nap i was trying to figure out what would look good in my new room and maybe thats why i dreamt that? also, i began to think that i might be bisexual and i keep talking to this one guy who my sister likes and i'm scared that she'll find out and i commented a bisexual girl's picture on facebook saying your so pretty girl (link)
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Well , I think this might help , http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070430224359AAHog4z
To dream of dying often means one has a subconscious fear of losing someone or something ~ not necessarily close or treasured by them. It can also mean letting go of past conflicts situations and feelings.
Read more: What does it mean when you die in your dreams? | Answerbag http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/425378#ixzz0xooOLZDz
thats what I found and theres more just go look at it , or this http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060901200127AAoe1hj
just look through those and see what happens , good luck girl : )
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ok so I am dating a really cute guy i have been best friends with since 6th grade then,i decided i like him a week ago and then he asks me outese and says he loves me.also like very girl i know has a massive i love you crush on him i feel like i don't deserve him.Any advice??
thnx in advance
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Aw well hey don't worry about it , if it's meant to be it will , don't worry , if he loves you don't worry about that girl , and you sure deserve him most likely , don't put yourself down. My advice to you is do what you love doing, if you really love this guy then go and keep it going with him , see where it goes , make him happy , and don't bring yourself down because of some girl.
Good luck girl : )
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I started hanging out with this boy, 16, I too am 16 and I am a female. I like hanging out with him, I love being around him and he's a cool guy to just know you're around. We're making plans to hang out a second time and I don't want it to be the last. Without being mushy and gushy "I love being around you and hanging out with you" How do I tell him that I want to hang out again after this second time? Also, without being annoying. I want him to be with his other friends but I don't want our hang outs to stop.
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Well , that's good you like him , and just like approach him calmy and be cool and be like hey want to hang out again? or hey what's up? what you up to whenever ? Would you want to hang out? blah blah blah , anything like that. Also , you could always give him hints like oh theres nothing to do , just don't sound desperate. Don't text him non-stop he might think that's a bit too much , but hey don't let the hang outs stop. You can make it possible make them more fun hang out with him. My advice to you is just approach him and ask him what you up to or if he says im bored then be like want to do something? oor it can or cannot be out of the blue.
Good luck girl : )
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18/female.
I've never tried marijuana, i've obviously heard a lot about it from health class and that, but I'm very curious about it. pretty much everyone i know takes a hit once in a while, some more than others, but i'm never around when they do.
I guess i'm just wondering if it's really worth a try. I told myself I would never try it; that i want to be able to grow old and tell my grandkids that hey, it really is possible to be straightedge your whole life, and you CAN say no.
My sister says I would really like the feeling because I'm pretty chill to begin with.
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Well , it's up to you , if you want to try it you'll do it , if you don't you don't , sometimes it's good to try it for yourself since your so curious , but you have to be careful. That's not the best answer you gave about wanting and being curious , but it's alright that you are and stuff , but you have to be careful with that. I mean it costs money , cops , tests , and who knows what else. You have to be precocious , I know there is a first for everything , but you have to be careful. My advice to you is be careful with what your injecting in yourself. I wouldn't do it , but it's really up to you.
Good luck girl : )
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i am depressed. i dont know why but i am. i just cant help but dislike everyone and i cant seem to find joy in anything lately. i am not usually like this. whenever im home alone im miserable, but at the same time i dont feel like seeing anybody.
i recently broke up with my boyfriend so im guessing thats a big part of it, even though i was the one who broke it off. i find myself wanting to go back to the relationship, but i feel like maybe if i get through this depressed stage ill be able to realize that i broke up with him for a reason. or maybe i just need him in my life.
any ideas on what would make me happy? im trying to keep away from music that reminds me of him but even the most irrelevant songs do. any ideas? thanks (link)
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Aw well hey thats normal , I guess , but I mean maybe you just need to be with your friends instead of your boyfriend . There is so many guys out there don't worry about him , didn't say why you broke up with him , BUT I think you should at least go out with your friends and have some fun. Head out of town , go see a game , go watch a movie , go goof around , don't waste your time and be depressed. Yeah I dont want you to see yourself depressed and I know the songs are hard and stuff you know , but I think you should like honestly go with the songs that don't remind you of him , find out new songs , so they dig into you more then the old ones. Also , I think whatever makes you happy do it , go play the sports that make you happy , go to the beach , go study , go pray , go do whatever makes you happy. I'd say go out with friends and make you happy and do something like party , dance , or do whatever your heart desires. My advice to you is just do things that you yourself love doing not including anyone except your bestfriends , like go look up some cute guys or something meet others. Don't let it drage you down , go watch movies and listen to songs that don't remind you of him , go do something other then that.
Good luck girl : )
PS YOU CAN DO IT!
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i have so many red spots on my face, i think they are acne scars but i'm not really positive. its almost impossible to cover it up so i look gross all the time. i use a toner/astringent from clean &clear every night because i heard that was supposed to even out the skin tone but it doesnt. i use st. ives green tea scrub in the morning because its supposed to reduce redness but it doesnt. i just dont know what to do and it makes my self esteem go down so much. i cant wait for the day that i can walk out in public without makeup on. anyone know how i cant get my skin evened out?! i will love you forever. (link)
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I would say go to the Dermotologist asap because if you don't go too soon it can get worse , or you can try Accutane it actually works , so you never know , but don't let it bring you down your probably as beautiful as ever don't worry about it. My advice to you is go see a Dermotologist and try different medicines and consult with your doctor.
Good luck girl : )
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hi i have been friends with this guy for about 2-3 years and he has liked me and i knew it... but that was about a couple of years ago... and i thought he went off me i have never reall as in REALLY loved him... but he went out with one of my sorta ish friend but she is not really my friend and they never worked out like at all!!
now he says he likes me... and idk if i feel the same... but he makes me feel good about myself and has always been there for me.. and we are really friends...
should i give him a chance...
or should i wait....
or should i stay friends ?
please help me please i really need some advise
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Well , it seems that you can't make up your mind. I'd say do what is best because your double thinking it's like you should , but then you shouldn't which is a problem because it shows your not that into him and when your not that into him you will hurt him and it won't turn out good and might ruin your friendship with him right? That's great he makes you feel good and stuff and there for you , maybe you should take it another step further , but like talk to him or talk to hima dn sit down and talk , if it's really what YOU want to do. I mean be aware if you guys go out and you guys dont work out who knows what could happen , but hopefully that never happens with you guys. I wish you guys the best. My advice is don't be afraid to try you never know , and you let it go and it came back to you right? So it's your choice maybe you should give him a choice or see how it goes you know.
Good luck girl : )
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