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Hanging out.
My best friend and I want my best guy friend to come over to my house and chill with us. play some tunes out in my yard, just chill, have a good time. But he bailed and I got really mad at him, but we got over it and now everything is okay. He had told me that he actually can make it to hang out. But now I kind of want to tell him that I can't and we have to reschedule so he wonders what I'm doing and maybe who I'm with. Maybe tell him that I'm at a party or something. But I would only do that with the sole intent of him wondering and thinking about me. Which I'm not sure will happen. He bails on alot of things. But he usually either unbails.. or reschedules.
What should I do? Thanks.
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first, decide if you want to be friends with someone who bails and is not dependable. you really can't change people so you have to accept him for who he is. perhaps you can just invite him to things with the personal expectation that he won't show up. you can also let him know that he seems undependable; this might encourage him to change at some point down the line - BUT DON'T FOOL YOURSELF into thinking that you can change him, or that he will ever change. this is the truth.
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Well , if he does that , doesn't seem he's worth it. If a guy does it once , he'll do it again. If you sort of like this guy do that and see how he reacts , see if he cares. If you like him , or like him a lot don't risk anything alright , let it come and see what happens alright. Don't let it get to you , guys are like that , there's plenty of good better guys out there. Do what your heart desires the most. My advice to you is do it if you know the consequences , don't do it if you don't want anything bad to ever happen. He seems like he bails a lot. Don't be fooled or tricked.
Good luck girl : )
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You should realize that you're not eight years old and he's not a girl. He's not going to play mind games with you, he's just going to perma-bail.
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