im 14 years old and i want to no if a boy in my class likes me
Question Posted Tuesday August 24 2010, 3:30 pm
Hi I'm liz I am 14 years old and I'm from ny and There's this boy in my class name don and I really like him but I'm not sure if he likes me becuase sometimes when someone ask him if he likes me he says no but when he is next to me he is flirty and he is always saying something funny and staring at me and making eye contact with me and making fun of me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? snowboardbabe answered Friday August 27 2010, 1:43 pm: Hm well , maybe he doesn't want anyone knowing that he likes you? Don't fall for him though , you don't know yet if he actually does , maybe he is like that with everyone or maybe he just likes doing that with girls. Maybe he does like you , but try talking to him more , just don't let it get to you , there is so many other guys out there don't worry about it. Keep it up and see what happens. My advice to you is keep going and see if he makes new moves , maybe he's too shy to tell you he likes you , maybe he doesn't want anyone knowing , you never know.
Elliah4yue answered Wednesday August 25 2010, 1:05 am: Elliah4yue:
this where you dont fall for any of those
only because you still dont know how he feels
he can see you as a friend, he can just be playin games with your head because people told him that you like him, or he can pretty much be intrested...
so your best bet is to either approach him when it just you and him in school or wrtie him a message online or just forget bout it and continue wondering on how he feel's bout you...
solidadvice4teens answered Tuesday August 24 2010, 8:19 pm: Typical male behavior that is usually without fail they're way of showing interest but not taking any risks. Girls do that too but not as sly. What do you do? Well, invite him to join you and other friends for bowling, a movie, whatever and see if he wants to go.
That way no risk for you either of being hurt by showing your hand (true feelings) right off the bat. That's one way to know if he's interested in you because he'll only refuse the invitation if he's not.
You could also approach him and tell him that perhaps you're reading signals he's sending off wrong and wanted to know where you stood with him and if there's any interest. Bottom line, unless you talk to him you'll never know what's going on in that head of his when it relates to you.
It may be hard but then again if you really want something for yourself sometimes you have to go after it and take the risk. Everything he's doing from making fun of you, flirting etc. etc. suggests a strong interest he's trying to hide so you don't pick up on it and possibly reject him. That's what it's all about. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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