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I really need as much answers as possible.
To start off, I'm 16 Female and I have HIV. It got transmitted to me from my mom at birth, so it wasnt my fault what so ever!! So I've been dating this guy for a while now and I told him i have this HUGE secret, which i will tell him when im ready and in the beginning of our relationship, I tested the waters to see How he would handle the HIV situation. So I asked him, "what would you do if I had HIV?" and He replied "I'd still love you, and i would still have sex with you." So, I was SO relieved to hear that, I was happy that he would accept me and we'd still have a relationship without worry! And that was about 2 months ago!! Then last night I asked him Again what he'd do, and he replied "well, if we were getting married then yeah I would have sex with you, but if we werent getting married, then no i wouldnt have sex with you " SO i was SO upset! and said how low that was, because his answer was completetly different before, and i also told him that
"if he wouldnt accept me if i had HIV then he wouldnt accept my "secret" " because IT IS my Secret! but he doesnt know what my secret is. so then he said "well if it was some girl i didnt know and didnt love then no i wouldnt have sex with her but if it was you then I would." so I DONT KNOW WHAT I DO! should I tell him now and get it over with??!! Tell me answers!! HELP! and please dont say that i shouldnt have sex!! BECAUSE I DONT NEED THAT ANSWER!! I've made up my mind that i do want to have sex with him.
I really hope this makes sense! (link)
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ok 'thew' is being a bitch becauses its nottt your fault you have the diease its your mothers fault. and you shouldnt have to be stuck with the consinquences of her bad decsions. but i think you should tell him. bc i dont think he would mind if he truely did love you. and wear a condom ;-] hahah good luck with your situation and if you ever need more advice with anyhting inbox me.
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i heard toothpaste works for acne....
does it actually work?
then does listerine?
what else (link)
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yeahh it actually does work it mostly gets rid of the redness
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mkay. well i'm 16/f. The last time I had my period was April 21st. and that lasted until April 25th. and was completly over April 26th. Then, my boyfriend came over and he fingered me for the first time. Now whenever he comes over, that usually happens. I give him a handjob too. My periods supposed to come anywhere from yesterday and tuesday. I'm scared that it won't come because I heard you can get pregnant from doing handjobs and then having him finger you.
What are the chances of me getting pregnant from that? Sorry, this is an akward question for me.
thank you! (link)
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ok your chances of actually getting pregnat are alotttt less then 50/50 its like .2 haha and you can get pregnat anytime doesnt matter if you have your period or not. also personally i think its sorta gross to have him finger you when you have your period but thats your call.. so go for it if you want
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is there any good songs about losing trust or losing trust and then forgiveness, as long as its not screamo or hard core rap. thanks (link)
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im not ready to make nice - dixie chicks , its sortaa close to what you want i hope.
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i need a group name for 5 people.
our group name for 6 people was sinister six.
i need something that sounds good like "fu**ed up five"
but nothing vulgar like that....
ideas pleaseee.
example... fat ass five (alliteration) (link)
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mine used to be fab five
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does anyone know any songs
like about someone you want to have but you cant
because they dont feel the same way about you or something
or maybe songs about where like you think of someone all the time
ect ect
any genre.
pleasee help
thankss (link)
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eh i dont no if theese are exactly what your looking for ..
when it was me by paula deanda
ps im still not over you by rhianna
love story by katherine mcphee
truth is by fantasia burrino
i hope i helped =]
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Hi i'm a teenage girl who has given up on relationships and everything else in life.
Before i commit suicide i want to have a hookup with someone.
How do I go about getting a hookup with a guy who won't hurt me or abuse me?
thx (link)
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woah back it up. killing yourself is NOT the answer i dont care how shitty your life looks right about now. it will get better nothign and nobody in life is worth killing your self over! beinging strong is one of the hardest things in life but you have to stay strong .. read this poem my best friend wrote .. read it and live by it
Eventually you realize thatlife sucks, love isn`t
always real, & happinessis only for alimited time.
you learn who your real friendsare. You learn
how to act like you don`t care. but then you
being to see that life doesn`t suck, you're just
too depressedto realizethat it's amazing. You
see thatloveisn`t always real, it`s always true.
you see thathappinessis limited, because then
love kicks in, a different form of happiness.
& you learnwho your real friendsare because
the old oneswere too crappy to be with you.
& you finally seethat you act like you don`t
care only to show people that you do.
and about that whole hooking up thing. Just chill with some guys make the first move bc trust me most guys are too embarresd to make the first move and would lovee for you to make the first move.
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I absolutely hate my school and my town, and I want more than anything to go to boarding school. But my parents are like, "We'll miss you too much." I think that's the only reason I can't go. Money's not a problem, and all the ones I want to go to are excellent schools. How can I convince them? (link)
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pick one relativly close so its not a far travel so then can come visit you wheneverr and tell them it'll be better for college
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Do you think it's wrong to take a picture of your boobs for a guy you're not dating?
p.s. I like him. He says he likes me. If that helps. (link)
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um yeahhh, thats how girls get reps for being a slut. not a smart move on your part. bc i guarentee that pictures gonna get around to more ppl
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Okay, so at the beginning of the year, I liked this guy. He was always checking me out and such and I knew it. So we both liked each other and he'd start sitting closer to me in class, then I would get closer to him until he moved to the other side of the room with his friends. About 5 or 6 months later he got a girlfriend. I didn't really care because I was totally over him. The day she asked him out I caught him staring at me-AGAIN! But after that there was hardly any eye-contact what-so-ever that I noticed. Until about a few weeks ago. He was putting on his sweatshirt and watched me across the hall, and he checked me out. (While he has a girlfriend) I walked by him in the hall while he was at his locker- and caught him staring. (And... they're still going out) Then he caught me staring in home-room. But that was only once. Then the next day in french class, we were walking in the hall together and he actually talked to me. Normally when I drop things, he'll be like "smooth..." sarcastically and not even spare a passing glance. Is that teasing? Is switching from nasty to nice his way of getting over me? Anyways, when he was talking to me he's like "Why'd she shut the door on us? What's wrong with her?" in a really funny way because we were late for class and neither of us liked the teacher very much. So anyways, we both take different buses and when I got off mine, I walked past his on the way home while his was driving by and you probably know what happens next. I caught him staring-- AGAIN!!! Now, don't get me wrong. I actually like it when he stares, 'cause he's a hot, funny guy, and I like the attention. But he's got a girlfriend. Does he like me? Because I'm 100% that he does at this point. But then I saw his AIM profile and on it, it said "(His girlfriend's name), I know we've been through some tough times but we're back and better than ever. You're the most amazing girl I've ever met and you're so funny. Love ya lots."
They've gone to the movies while he's been giving me attention at the same time too. I'm not saying he has cheating potential or anything... I just want to know if there's a possibility he might like me back.
Sorry it was so long.
Thanks for reading it and for answering!
Have a nice day! (link)
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i dont i could be totally wrong but if he has a girlfriend i dont think he likes you because if he did he would have broken up with her for you, he just might be a starer. idk i could be wrong but that what i think.
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Well i like this boy but he dosnt know we talk all the time but on msn we talk then we pause or will just be like hmmmm sooooooo lol can use please tell me a few things there are to talk bout we are really upfront like we tell eachother everything any adviice ?? (link)
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just be like soo who are you liking theses days , hows baseball or whatev. sport he plays , how was your day , things like that.
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So last year in an extracurricular, I met this girl named Paige. We instantly became best friends. We shared everything and her family accepted me like one of their own daughters.
This year, Paige has a boyfriend, Joey. Joey and I don't get along...at all. She, more and more, has chosen him over me. Like, at lunch, I'll go to talk to her and she'll be talking to him, and then won't talk to me.
I am realtively popular, so I have other friends, but this is the first person that I talked about boys with. The first person I really met in high school. (We're sophomores now, both 15.)
I basically told her all of this, and we had a conversation last night about not making enemies and why I won't be mean to her enemies (They aren't my problem and I don't want drama.), and she told her boyfriend everything. I assumed that everything that I've told her was in confidence, and it had been until now.
She has changed. I am taking her on vacation with me this weekend to San Diego, and since she won't be with her boyfriend, I assume that we will get along well, but I don't know if I should just leave her alone and wait for them to break up, (though they've been dating a year this August) or put extra effort into this friendship.
I made her a notebook and it's gorgeous and it's for us to write notes in, and I've written to her, and she hasn't been writing back.
I generally get along with people's parents, and I talk to her mom now instead of her on AIM and stuff. It's going to be awkward tonight.
Is she trying to hint that she doesn't want to be friends anymore? Am I overreacting?
Thanks. (link)
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no shes not trying to hint that she doestn wanna be friends or anythign like that , taking a wild guess but i guess one she hasnt had a lot of b/f's and 2 this is her longest one , bc she doesnt no how to balance friendships and boyfriends , bc shes chosing him over you because she doenst want to lose him , and shes afraid taht if she talks to you and not him they'll break up , so dont worry about it , it'll get better in time she'll learn how to balance the two , just talk to her more about this and dont give up on her.
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okay i have know my best freind all my life and we have been freinds since birth. lately she has acted different and moslty with the guy i like. flirting with him and stuff. well she swore she didn't like him but yet she makes sure she rubs it in my face that she flirted with him. i dont want to be freinds with her anymore but how do i let her go without getting inot a fight (most of the things i've thought of ususally lead to a fight.) I really wish we could straighten it out but i have tried talking to her but she just got mad at me. (link)
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talk to her , tell her how you feel because if you guys have been best friends since birth you shouldnt loose her , and youve guys have been friends long enough for you guys to understand each other and understand were each other are comming from , so just talk to her tell her that you think shes a little fucking slut ahhah just kidding just say that you have been getting annoyed wiht hows shes been acting lately exspecialy around guys you like.
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Some people get to be pretty, do everything right, be popular, and make it seem like easy work while others stress constantly over everything and life...this is serious ive considered suicide A few times and I need help. how do thet do it? be so well perfect (link)
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those pretty popular girls with what you think is a perfect life , im one of them , i no that sounds cocky and crap but its the truth and trustttt me my life or the lives of my friends are FARRR from perfect. live looks glamorous loooking at the pretty popular girls but its just because you HAVE to be strong, i honestly considered sucide to. and me and my friends had a talk about it and guess what soo did all of them. and never ever put yourself down EVER you make your self think your not pretty , everyones pretty in there own way. even the UGLYEST person you can think of is gorgeous in there own way , and how do we do it ? you put on a fake smile and a fake laugh and trust me it foools everyones. and you look around your school at those 'pretty popular girls' and i guarentee you every single one of them wishes they werent that , wishes they didnt have to do what was 'cool' , wishes they could shop where evre they want. so i guess in the end its all about being strong confendiant and NEVER put yourself down babe NEVER you are gorgeous.
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15/f, sorry its so long. well i have two best friends. basically we hang out all the time together, we're just a trio like that. so my school lets us go out to eat for lunch. one of those friends lives like a block away from the school, so basically everyday we go to her house. well a few weeks ago it was pouring and we decided to go to her house which was a stupid idea, cuz we got soaked, and i said i'd never do that again. so in my area, as some of you may know, there's been A LOT of rain..flooding and everything. well on friday in school it was raining again during lunch but myself and my other friend (not the one whose house is close to the school) refused to go out to the other ones house. but house(ill just call her that) had her lunch there so she had to go. so she went there and came back. when we talked over the weekend she told me she was upset w/ myself and my other friend. so today, it was raining again, and my other friend refused to go again. so i was like well im not going out if its pouring, and it wasnt pouring. so my other friend was getting all pissed at my house friend, and she stayed in. i followed house though, to her house lol. we both felt bad so we ate quickly and went back. my other friend was sitting with other people and when we went over she totally ignored us. and didnt say a word to either of us the rest of the day.
so now this is getting ME upset. like was it my fault? i know she definitely overreacted (we've gotten in fights like this before, and she always gets over it a few days later) but she's totally ignoring me. i mean, if i could, i would've split myself in half and went with both. but i didnt wanna make "house" upset again. when me and my other friend did this to house she was fine. now my other friend is just being stubborn. right?? what should i do? what should i say to her? thanks so much, sorry it was so long (link)
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tell her exactly what you just said , if i could have split your self in half you would have and that last time you chose her and that this time you went with the 'house' friend. and that shes over reacting bc you decided to have lunch with the other friend and she could of went if she wanted too
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16/f Sorry about this being super long!
Ok..so...I want a vibrator really bad. I've been masturbating with my fingers for the past 2 years. I could easily order one on the internet because I have my own debited credit card, but because of my mom, me owning one would be very risky.
I actually got a mini-massager online(which is just a regular everyday massager) a few months ago and had it for about 2 short days...but my mom is so sneaky she came into my room, found the box and order form in my trash which said "massager" and she jokingly confronted me about it. I made up a lame excuse that i was giving it to my friend for her birthday as a gag gift. Then, she said "Oh haha I thought you were using it to masturbate or something HAHA!" and then, to make it seem more convinving, I told her "EW! i would never do that! now i'm not going to give it to my friend because thats gross and she'll think i'm weird". So, my mom decided she wanted it. And, well, I had to give it to her, just to backup my whole lie. (Actually, she's smart, and she might have had a hunch i was lying and was testing me...) It's not that i think my mom would care (she's a OBGYN and I think she's used to this kind of stuff)...it's just SO embarrassing and I don't want her knowing I masturbate. It would just be too weird if she knew. And the way she acted about it, like how she laughed, made me feel like a fool.
Anyway, she's VERY nosy and comes into my room a lot and looks through my stuff like drawers, so it would be hard for me to hide a vibrator anywhere.
So, basically, I was wondering what I could do about this issue. I'm not going to have a mother/daughter talk with her about it and I never want to, so please don't suggest that. Where are good places to hide things? What are other objects that vibrate that won't seem too obvious? I have one of those big back massage things, but it's too loud. I also run the risk of my brothers hearing me or something.
Just plain advice about this would be nice too. Thanks! (link)
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umm under your mattress might be a good hiding spot and i also might suggest geting a dork w/ a lock ;-]
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15/f/can't drive
I have a $120 budget. My mom and dad's 25th anniversary is coming up on april 18th. We will be on vacation in orlando, fl. Does anyone have any ideas as to what I could do?
I thought of getting flowers delivered and possibly send them down to the hotel's resteraunt. (link)
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ok i think what you should do is go to the hotel resturant and tell them the situation like your parents anmiversary and see if they can like set aside a table for your parents like get it all by them selfs order flowers like to the hotel. and see if they can make it a candle lit dinner and have like rose pedels on the table haha and maybe like get a limo to take them around the city if youd have enough money idk the limo might be a tad to expensive ahah
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14/f 118
i want smaller thys. i run a mile a day or a little over a mile a day, and do track & soon cheerleading again. i don't want my thys to get more muscle.. will runing get them bigger? i just want to loose weigh and get skinner- my top is small but my thys/butt are too big. what can i do? i dont want to go to a gym or yoga -home kinda exercises (link)
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um you can do sqwats um take 2 hand weights and have them in your hands and bring them to your shoulders and go in to a sitting position (but dont actually sit down obviously) hah and then stand back up and do that 10x 3 reps
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Ok, I am going to a new high school next fall, and i would really like to have a reputation as a prep. I have the personality, and I kind of was a prep at my old school, but I got caught up in the wrong crowd and my rep went down the drain. SO, I would like step-by-step type advice on how to have a sweet, preppy, reputation at my new school! how to meet the right people, not act like im trying to hard, how to dress, etc! thank you SO MUCH!!
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ok being a prep is basically 90% your fashion as you probley no , american eagle hollister and abercrombie clothes really help like you might not start out on top in your new school but trust me you wont start out on the bottom you'll probley be somewhere in the middle but that doesnt mean you cant climb to the topp. but always be personable say hi and stuff , like trust me ppl will wanna be your friend bc they'll be like aww shes so nice. soo just be personable but liek dont try to hard doing it haha i hope ive helped haha
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Ok, so I'm fourteen... The girl I like/likes me, is fifteen.. She also likes someother guys, but I dunno how many... But we talk A LOT over IM and texting, but I don't ever see her at school 'cause we don't have any classes together.. And I already tried asking her out but she said she still had to figure out what guy she liked, because she really wasn't sure on who she like the MOST.. I know that sounds bad but I REALLY like this girl.. Any ideas on what I should do?? (link)
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to tell you the truth , id move on from her , bc if she doesnt wanna go out w/ you bc shes not sure who she likes , what if you guys did start going out and then a couple weeks later shes not sure if she likes you any more and then breaks up with you , it would break your heart even more now becuse you guys did go out , soo i think itd be smarter for you to move onn.
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