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Confused....BADLY


Question Posted Saturday April 14 2007, 6:54 pm

Ok, so I'm fourteen... The girl I like/likes me, is fifteen.. She also likes someother guys, but I dunno how many... But we talk A LOT over IM and texting, but I don't ever see her at school 'cause we don't have any classes together.. And I already tried asking her out but she said she still had to figure out what guy she liked, because she really wasn't sure on who she like the MOST.. I know that sounds bad but I REALLY like this girl.. Any ideas on what I should do??

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Additional info, added Saturday April 14 2007, 8:01 pm:
Ok, some more info... Well, I text her every morning to tell her good morning and have a good day at school... but I do that to all my friends, so would that be considered clingy? And, we text back and forth during class alot and we TRY to meet in the halls during passing periods and stuff, but it doesn't seem to work out but yeah.. Theres some more info....

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ohhsnapp05 answered Saturday April 14 2007, 10:09 pm:
to tell you the truth , id move on from her , bc if she doesnt wanna go out w/ you bc shes not sure who she likes , what if you guys did start going out and then a couple weeks later shes not sure if she likes you any more and then breaks up with you , it would break your heart even more now becuse you guys did go out , soo i think itd be smarter for you to move onn.

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solidadvice4teens answered Saturday April 14 2007, 9:58 pm:
I would forget about her to be totally honest with you. If she cannot make up her mind who she likes than there is a HUGE problem. Don't wait around trying to find out if she likes you or will date you.

She's seriously jerking you around and it ought be her loss after you find someone truly worthy of you. She's shown you no consideration at all. Stop texting her each day as she can use that and say to others you're too clingy etc.

You need to forget her as hard as that is and consider this not meant to be. If she approaches you later (which she probably won't) you can tell her that you got tired of waiting for her. Right now she is like a cat with its prey--playing with you without making the kill. She's yanking your chain BIG TIMe. Don't let her continue.

Drop her all together and find another girl worthy of your attention. It's tupid to wait for this girl. She might be feeding you a line hoping you'll move on instead of telling you she has no interest.

If she never texts you back it means something. She might be hoping that you get the idea she's not interested. I feel you are wasting your time and I say that having been there myself and seeing friends deal with girls who do this.

Bottom line: move on as you'll turn out happier in the long run.

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XoXoXoXo77 answered Saturday April 14 2007, 7:46 pm:
well she might like you the most but she doesnt want to go out with you because she is worried about what people might think about her going out with a younger guy. all you can do is just keep flirting with her.. being nice to her.. try to figure out ways to see her at school. like maybe find out where her locker is and go try to say hi to her there. good luck!

xoxox

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notanotherdummblond answered Saturday April 14 2007, 7:34 pm:
get to know her more put in that extra effort to spend time with her belive me girls appericate it but don't be to clingy

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