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ok....im not a very social person, at least not anymore, see...i used to go to this awesome school where i had like tons of friends and stuff but then i had to move so now im at this new school and its sooooooo much different. now i dont have that many friends. i mean like its not like im a nerd or anything, like people like me but theres only like 4 or 5 people that i can really call my friends. all i want to do is just make more friends but i dont really no how. HELP PLEASE. (link)
i moved too and had the same problem. its allwwaayyysss hard making friends but you have to try reallly hard. a best friend mind you cant just pop out of thin air either, it takes time to relate to someone but i no you can do it good luck


ok i've had my period for bout 5-6 months. And if been at the end of the month but this time if hasn't happen i got it at the end of September but not at the end of October? Is this normal? What's wrong? (link)
for the first couple of months, its not going to be perfectly consecutive. actually, i have had mine for years and sometimes it can be two weeks early! nothings wrong and your perfectly normal.....unless you start skipping months at a time..then i would suggest seeing a doctor. hope i helped good luck


Okay hi,
I`m a 16 yr old female..
Alright this has all been taken care of but i don`t know what to do bout somethings..
here i`ll start with what has happened.. I got raped three times by the same guy over the summer..Yes i`ve tooken care of him and he`s doin 21 yrs thank god plus he admitted to it..
But i`m havin diffculties with sleeping,Yea i thought that shit only happened in movies where you feel he`s by you and what not but No its happenin to me.. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he tries to talk to me at night as long as possible but that doesn`t change how i feel after i get off the phone with him.. This might sound stupid but the only time i sleep good is with my boyfriend on weekends its like i use him to put me to sleep i mean Yes i`ve tried sleeping pills,reading and i`ve counted sheep and everything else there is to count.. i don`t know what to do i`m so tired in school and my grades are goin down horribly.. i seen a doctor to talk to about it but i don`t think that helped.. i mean this guy already took my trust and everything else away.. i mean he don`t need my sleep too.. so if you can give me advice in anything or how to deal with it better ill rate high and give advice.. (link)
first off, im so sorry that happened to you, it must be tough. But please, the best thing you can do is try to put it in the past. try seeing a therapist for a while. the feeling probably wont fully go away for a while and there really isnt anything you can do except wait for time to pass. It's kind of like when you get a really bad cut on your foot, and you cant play soccer for 2 weeks! the time passes slowly and u can't wait to just play again ya know? it takes time but the feelings gonna subside i promise good luck and be safe


Right well we got a swimmin pool built in our school last month and when the girls are on their periods they aren't allowed to sit out but are forced to use tampons!!!!!! I haven't been on since it was built but oomg. I am so scared. I have never used a tampon and I'm never GONNA so don't suggest I do. Isn't it like illegal to force us to use tampons or somethin? My friend even got her rents in about it and they still made her use tampons!! What can I do on swimmin days that I am on? I'm not using a tampon but I'm not standin in the changing room arguing bout whether to use one or not with the PE teacher its embarassing!! (link)
that is totally not fair! no one in school teachers, principals, anyone can make you use a tampon to participate in swimming! i say if you dont feel comfortable using one, then don't and if they have a problem with that, then either you or your parents should visit the board of the school or the principal. personally, i havent used one either and i would never let any one force me. please, make it a big deal because im sure a lot of other girls feel the same way as you hope i helped and good luck!


alright i need help..so i went to this halloween party and the guy i like was there and i hung out with him the whole time and over that times he kept kinda flirting like we were all cold and he was like lets hold hands and stuff and i was like my butts cold and he goes ill warm it up and he knows i get pissed when he talks about other girls cause he knows i like him and he kept doin that and being like just kiddding..i just cant tell if he likes me or not...

ill see him tomorrow so what should i do!!!

rate high for good answers! =) (link)
oh my goodness i have like the same problem w/ this guy i like but its either he reallllyyy likes you or he is just playing around as friends. get on his serious side for once and show him you care. then he'll start to warm up to you even more i hope i helped good luck!!


Hey...I need help agian! If you have never had a boyfriend, you are in 8th grade, 13, never even kissed a guy...Then do you get one! I like a guy but I wouldn't know how to act AT ALL (everyone says to talk, but what if you don't know what to talk about!?)I don't even know how to kiss! (that is embarrasing!) I want a boyfriend but no one has asked me out...I don't even think anyone has ever liked me! SOME of my friends say I'm really pretty..but when I go out with them they always get the guy(!), and I get jealous (but don't show it) I don't wanna tell her though...I guess that ended with 2 questions...PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!
Amy (link)
wow we are sooo sisters but ya, i did have a guy once and i tried to act totallllllyyyy normal, like my usualy self only a little more flirty hehehe and went with the flow and everything went fine and the only way a guy is going to know you like him is if you take a chance and tell him what have you got to lose? there are millions of boys waiting for you rite..RITE good luck :)


I currently have Limewire, and I need three of the songs I downloaded to get on a cd. I have a blank cd and everything...but can someone tell me step by step how to get it on there? Someone thats experienced in Limewire? I'll rate 5's! (link)
limewire doesnt have a CD burning process you need to download windows media player (free) and then save ur limewire playlist and open it in windows media player and then burn ur Cd!


alright, i'm 14 years old and i'm around.. 5'3" or possibly 5'4" and im about 106lbs. I'm just asking.. is that really skinny? I mean, I have like, real high metabolism ( both my parents have it ) and all my friends say I'm too skinny and that I need to gain some weight. I'm just having some trouble. How would I go about doing that? Cause I'm not gonna sit there and like, pig out till' i die. I just don't want people thinking i'm anorexic or something. I mean I'm really not that skinny. I think I'm averagley skinny. =/ I don't know. Please help.




Signed,
Sad to be skinny (link)
thats a perfect weight for ur height and age


hey does anyone know what the AIM virus does? I got it and I know it sends im's to everyone else on your buddy list, but is that it? please answer a.s.a.p NeLLiE x0x

P.S. Is it also true that you have to uninstall and then reinstall AIM? thats what my friend told me... (link)
no just get virus blocker it reallly works


At what age is it appropiate for a person to have sex? Ss we get older the standerds seem to be dropping. I just read a question by a thirteen-year-old asking if she should get on "the pill" if she has had sex. Since when is that what is on a 13-year-olds mind? (link)
there is no 'appropriate' age. its old enough and when u feel rite


I am 13 year old boy in the 7th grade and I met this incredible girl over the summer. I had asked her out, but she wasn't allowed to date, yet I got her phone number. I still wasn't sure if she liked me as I liked her. Because as school came around I felt closer to her.I asked her out again during school, yet she still couldn't date!!!!!!! We have our last period together and we sit next to each other. Neither of us are very social at that time. I don't know if she feels the way I feel because I can feel this in no crush... I am in love with her. I need advice on when to ask, her where to ask her, what to ask her to, and if she can go how should I dress and what should I bring. (link)
ok, just tell her that going out doesnt mean going to the movies and whatnot, its like, talking to them online or on the phone and carrying her books in school (which she should like hehehehe ) and if she finally can go out, then do something casual, jeans and a shirt ya know? ok good luck :)


I really want to play softball. I want to get in shape because I think try-outs are very soon. What can I do to prepare? What should I take? What should I wear, I know that I should wear nothing to tight but something kind of neatly loose, right? SOmeone please help me. Thank You in advance. (link)
u should jog around ur house for about an hour everyday ya know? practice hitting and have someone throw some balls to you bring lots of water and ur gear, then ull do great good luck :)


there is this boy that i have liked for ever and he always tells me how he likes me too, as a friend. well he is preppy and im preppy but turning skater and im scared he wont notice me at all if i change. what should i do because i really want him and his attention? (link)
dont turn skater, just support him alot ABOUT his skating and he should know that u care a lot for him :) good luck


Ok...I always wash my face once a day. Sometimes 2 times. I can't keep the zits from coming! I need help. How do you prevent zits and blackheads!!?!?!?! (link)
i have this cool stuff its called clean and clear daily cleansing pads they really work good luck!!


Thursday is my boyfriend and I's 1 year and Friday theirs a dance. Its a costum dance. I guess he wrote this thing there gonna annonce to me and stuff. Anyways.. I need some ideas for costumes.. Somthing that i can dance in but still look hott! Please just list coustum ideas or anything would help alot I'm desrite! Please make it school approprate!(sry about sp)


Thanks in Advance 5+ for anwers. (link)
ok you could be a rockette! its those grls on broadway you know? that kick high and look reallly cool anyway, you could also be malice in horrorland rather than alice in wonderland and get an alice costume, cut it short and put rips in it and red stains all over put dark makeup on and get high heel black shoes good luck!!!




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