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hey. yeah. i keep it real, and i'll try to help out annyway with annythin i can. im Em, and im a pretty smart chick. im a preddy good person, you know the type you would let babysit ur kids. dont take me for granted. i k how to rock it and keep it kool. w/o all the drugs and tequila. go ahead, ask me. ill anser. cuz u k im good lik that ;)

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I told my boyfriend that I'd never kissed anyone and that I wanted him to be my first kiss. He said he wanted to kiss me, too. But that was about a month ago and nothing has happened. I told him I wouldn't make the move. I'm too shy. I don't know what I'm scared of since I know he wants to. I'm just scared I'll do something wrong, I guess. Any advice?

when u r alone, start talking to him and alow yourself to glance at his mouth the back at his eyes a few times. be kinda close, like a 1/2 ft. away. hopefully he will get the message. maby he is just nearvous and he wants to like, i dont know, make your first kiss the best. hope i helped

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I am not overweight, but I have a problem in that my thighs and ass are quite flabby and I would like to tone up. I feel very self-concious in swim suits so I would like some exercises to tone up or help lose weight ready for the summer.
Suggestions not involving cosmetic surgery would help!
14/f

running and walking up and down steps can get rid of flab. those always work. hope i helped

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my bf is gone to vegas for a week and i hvaent talked to him 4 2 weeks i dont know what could have happened in vegas. he told me to email him everyday and that he would email me back i emailed like he said and he emailed me back once and on the email he told me a "a hot chick offered him a lap dance" no i know i am supposed to trust him which i do but i dont trust those others girls and when he drunk a lot of stuff can happen. i cant call him because his siter hates me and will yell at me so what should i do? should i worry?

i wouldnt. vegas isnt that crazy. maby he was just joking. if he is 16 i dont know how he would get into some where with people giving lap dances hope i helped

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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

no i have a really good guy friend in 8th grade who is going out with a 7th grade and they look great together and its only 1 grade apart. hope i helped

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My cousin is staying over my house for like 2 months and in the begining i thought i wasn't giving my sis any time with her but now i feal like they are leving me out of the picture. I was just in the room they are in and they sorta kicked me out, now i can hear them just laughing away. i don't know what to do and i know i sound really selfish but i want some atention from her to. should i say anything or just leave it alone?
what should i do?

just say "hey guys im really bored. what are u doing?"

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me and one of my best friends like the same guy but she dosent know that i like him and he asked me out and not her what sould i do say yes or no please help me i dont know what to do?

calmly tell her "i should have told u this befor but i like so and so too. im telling u now because he asked me out and i dont want you to think im a bad friend." hope i helped

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ok...there is this girl at my school who is like friends with everybody...and shes is friends with me ...well at least i think... but everytime somebody has a party she is the one who hands out the invitations and she looks right at me and doesnt give me one (we talk all the time ) does she have a problem with me?

maby the person hosting the party has a problem with u... it might not be her falt. hope i helped

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I recently found out that one of my guy friends that I'm pretty close to likes me. He's a really cool guy but I don't feel the same way about him. And honestly, I'm quite uncomfortable around him now. It's gotten to the point to where I have to sign of my screen name if he signs on. He hasn't tried anything (I don't know if he will) but it's extremely weird. I know I should be more mature about the situation but I just can't help it. I have no idea what to do. I feel as if our friendship is ruined. Any advice?

17/f

talk to him and say, "u know, i only like u as a friend i dont think its ever going to be more then that" and maby u guys can go back to being friends. he wont try annything if he knows it wont work. hope i helped

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Augh. My best friend is still stuck getting over this total jerk that she fell in love with. I kind of feel like it's my fault because I introduced them. So I have to help her get over him. Should I run through her room burning all the things that remind her of him? Should I knock her senseless and take her to a male nudie bar? What should I do? He was so mean. I can't even begin to explain it. But I'll try. She found out later that he had another girlfriend on the side. He was rude and mean to me and AUGH! How can I help her get over him? (She's eighteen)

talk to her about it and be there 4 her. that would help her more then annything. eat ice cream and just do fun girl stuff like going to the movies and stuff. be her sholder to lean on. if she fell in love with him she needs all the help she can get. hope i helped

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i really like this guy and he's a big flirt and thats hott. what kind of things can i do to make him like touch me and you no hang around me more because he likes to flirt wit people by like touching them. he does it to me but what are some ways that i can make him touch me more often and if u dont no wat im refering to by toughting im refering to like touching in those certian places that only some people like to be touched. but wat kind of things should i do to get him to do it more often. thanks so much but plzz really help.

u can get him to touch your hair by saying "my hair is like, really soft. u should feel it!" or u could do the same thing with your sweater or skin. hope i helped

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well im really trying to lose weight and my friend told me to run a mile 5 days a week then next week run 2 miles and so on if i did that up to 10 miles how long would it take me to lose about 45 pounds?

it is almost impossible even 4 a athlete to run 10 miles. work up from a 1/4 of a mile to 2 miles thats more realistic hope i helped

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I have tons of cousins but one of the families-which i am closest to live in NY. There are 3 Vayia who is out of college owning a dance studio, Karin who is a sophmore in college and Stefanie who is a senior in high school. I'm in eighth grade and i have 2 older siblings. Whenever we go to visit them they always butt me out and hang with my sister the whole time. Obviously it's because they are closer in age but i want to hang out with them. Everytime i go i try and act more mature but they still leave me out. Help me

talk to your sister about it. she probly will try to get them to include u more hope i helped

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*sorry this is so long but i really need help!* okay so my best friend has been with this one guy *bob for like 5 months. they never stop fitin n im always in b/w it! c *bob hated me for the longest time and he wud always start fites with my friend and tell her how she shudnt be friends with me... well she didnt listen but she also never stuck up for me! but dont worry im over that now! but just recently they broke up and fought every day since and then yesterday they got back together and broke up last nite. the problem is me and *bob put all of our feelings of hate aside and now we are friends! im really glad we dont fight anymore but now its causing problems with my friend! she always wanted us to be friends but now wenever we talk she usually comes up in the convo bc *bob still loves her! i feel really bad and idk wat to do! so my friend says she hates him and he makes her sick and stuff... but she still talks to him! (??idk y??) so now hes askin me to tell her that hes sorry and all this stuff and shes asking me wat to do! ive been in b/w all of their fites for 5 months and i really dont want to be involved anymore! i tried to tell my friend this but she doesnt listen and juss got mad at me... so my question is... do i help her? or do i try to stay out of it? please help me!

u should stay out of it and if 1 of them stops being your friend because u wont be in the middle that is probly a good thing hope i helped

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ok i have wavy/curley thick hair and i striaghten my hair most of the time with a blow dryer and i was wonderin if anyone know how i can striaghtn my tips they are always wavy i dont know how to get them striaght. i used to iron my tipes which made them go striaght but i dont do that anymore because it damages my hair too much. can advice i can use?

if you r worried about damaging your hair just put a little cream rinse on the part that u r going to iron and it wpnt get messed up hope i helped

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ok i have this pimple that is like smaller than a pin head. the only problem is that it is so full of like puss and junk that it is white. i have tan skin so it REALLY shows up. the other thing is that it is like right where the outside curve of my nostril meets my face. so it is sort of hidden in a crease but still really noticable. my mom wont bring me anywhere to go get anykind of nutregina or anything so i need a home remedy on how to get rid of this bugger. like putting some kind of food on it or something. i need help and i need it fast.

ok u make really strong salt water, take a cotton ball, soak it in the salt water, and press it against the pimple 4 at least 5 min. then put a dot of honney over it 4 5 min. and wash it off. it should work. hope i helped

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Hey, I might be going to meet Nicky Hilton tommorrow [if you don't believe me don't bother commenting because I will not rate you highly]. What should I wear? I was going to wear my THAT'S HOT tshirt with a Juicy sweatsuit set, but I thought it might be cheesy, considering Paris says that! Thanks ♥

wear something you like. you will end up looking better then if u wear something you dont like. its weird, but true. hope i helped

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Theres this guy he creeps me out every time I sign on he's on and he IMs me saying he's gonna rape me and crap and I'm scared...What should I do I'm 14 years old I need your help Allison please!!!!

Help!!!!

block him and tell an adult or u could be hert hope i helped

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Hello,

I'm that type of girl who never wears make-up at all. Some girls that I know look, well, scary without make-up, but I don't really look that bad, and I'm pretty critical of my looks. I was wondering, is there any make-up tips that you can give, such as how to apply eyeliner, what shades look good on my skin type. I'm pretty tan so my skin is fair. Is there anything I can apply so I don't look like a make-up junkie, but people notice I started to put on make-up? I don't want to put on too much make-up, I'm only 14.

get some dark purple eye shadow and only put it from your lash line to the crease and it should look fine. u could also get some plain clear lip gloss. im the make up queen ask me if u have anny other questions about it

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i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do

ask him to please not lie to u cause it takes some of your trust in him away and u want to be able to trust him all the time

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excessive sweat glands (is that what you call it?) well, i always have these sweat circles under my arms and i have to always wear a sweater over my other shirts and here i live in Canada and its going to be spring soon and i'll need to find a way to stop sweating so much, and its not like i sweat because i'm very active or anything, i could be just doing normal day to day things like walking and i'd be sweating under the arms. i'd really like it if the people who knew what i'm going through could recommend some antipersperents that are strong and could keep the sweat away for atleast an 2 or more hours and i'd really like them to be like.. deoderant type things because i've heard of certain dri but i couldn't find it in the stores so please recommend some deoderants for me. so far i've tried lady speed stick and soft and dri but they never kept the sweat away so please help me, sorry for the length, thank you in advance.

secret antipersperents/deoderant out there i have that same problum and secret keeps me dry all day

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