Augh. My best friend is still stuck getting over this total jerk that she fell in love with. I kind of feel like it's my fault because I introduced them. So I have to help her get over him. Should I run through her room burning all the things that remind her of him? Should I knock her senseless and take her to a male nudie bar? What should I do? He was so mean. I can't even begin to explain it. But I'll try. She found out later that he had another girlfriend on the side. He was rude and mean to me and AUGH! How can I help her get over him? (She's eighteen)
karenR answered Friday April 1 2005, 1:04 am: Well it does take time.Burning everything sounds good. Make a big funeral thing out of it.Poke holes in him and stuff (well, pictures).No nudie bars unless you take me with you! Really, just try to get her to talk about anything else. Have a bonfire and say this is it.No more talking about him......he is gone forever! Good luck!:) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday March 31 2005, 11:46 pm: male nude bar sounds like a fun girls night out to get her to enjoy herself. It might be too soon to try and hook her up with another guy..but if shes willing..try that. Maybe get a bunch of friends and go to a club,movie,mall, etc. Sometimes me and my friends flirt with random guys at like the movies or the mall..its tons of fun. its not anything like "go out with me" its just fun to flirt with them. maybe plan a small road trip..go wild at a party..little stuff like that can really cheer a girl up. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
milliethu answered Thursday March 31 2005, 9:56 pm: talk to her about it and be there 4 her. that would help her more then annything. eat ice cream and just do fun girl stuff like going to the movies and stuff. be her sholder to lean on. if she fell in love with him she needs all the help she can get. hope i helped [ milliethu's advice column | Ask milliethu A Question ]
sk8erdude answered Thursday March 31 2005, 5:36 pm: well you should hook her up with someone that will be sweet with her and she will probably forget about the jerk and fall in love with the other guy [ sk8erdude's advice column | Ask sk8erdude A Question ]
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