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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks.. (link)
ok making love is when u deeply feel passion and love for the other person. its more then penetration its like u connect and feel awesome being one with that person. its not just lets get freaky together. its like slow and soft and kissing and nibbling and wanting it to last forever.


So I am 15 years old and I am 5'3 I currently weigh 215 lbs. I would really like to be about 140 by the first of June ( you know summer time )
I work out maybe twice a week for about an hour at a time. I don't drink and pop at all and I replace school lunch with a salad. Is there anyway possible to loose 60-75 lbs in 6 months? I would even be satisfied with 50. I really want this. I work alot and don't have alot of time for working out for such. And I have alot of dairy in my regular diet. I rate 5's!! please I would really appresheate all your help. (link)
ok do this. just do 10 situps on the floor before you put your jammies on at night. every night add 2. then cut out the dairy eat meat cheese and cut out sugar and bread. low carbs is the way. ya see dairy has sugar in it. when not burned its stored as fat. if you have no time for exercise eat alotta salad and drink water. get a low carb dressing. hope i helped. or consider seeing a diet doctor they can give u injections its not too expensive i have done it and it works.


My best guy friend's name is "Jay". I have liked him more than a friend for a really long time and Im too shy to tell him how i feel. He flirts with me, but it might just be "friendly flirting". I really dont know what to do, is there anyway i could let him know i like him without it being too obvious or anything else?
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ok hes the cold hard facts.. no guy has a female friens who is decent looking or hot that he doesnt secretly wish that he could ya know be with. they alllllll fantasize its a male thing.
ok try this it always worked for me. listen carefully. make eye contact,in a shy sorta sexy way, smile a lil bit, bit the corner of your bottom lip, then smack him on his shoulder like a buddy. giggle a lil playfully and say wanna wrestle.he will want you bad after that trust me hehe!


i've been with my boyfriend for over a month and he still hasn't kissed me? i'm his first real girlfriend so i don't think he's ever kissed anyone before. he also still has braces and he's really insecure about them. he desperately wants to get them off and talks about it all the time. do you think maybe he could be waiting for that to happen? that would suck. how can i hint that i want him to kiss me without coming right out and saying it (that would be weird!)? (link)
he may be waiting for that yes. but he may also be uptight if he isnt experienced. sometimes girls are afraid to take the lead and make the move because of fear of rejection and labeling as a whore. well nowadays throw that out the window. kiss him lonnnng and hard and moan a lil and when he hears that he will want to kiss u over and over and over again. or............email him tell him your feelings. men tend to be more open on emails and instant messenger then in person. he might tell u he wants to.


mkay there's this guy i like and he likes me too. so he sat with me at lunch today and we barely talked. im not sure wat to talk about.. any ideas? thanks. (link)
well i think guys like it if you arent artificial. so just kinda talk about stuff to find a common ground cause ya have to figure that you dont "know him yet" so of course you may agree or disagree on stuff so just talk about anything like you would talk to a friend. whatever ya do just be you and let your natural beauty and qualities shine through and he might like you because you arent "fake"like 90 percent of girls nowadays. guys like real conversation and alot of women dont realize that. dont lie about your likes and dislikes because whatever you say you will have to live with for example if you say "oh yes mike i loveeeeeeee death rock!" chances are he will be taking you to concerts you hate and doing stuff that he "thinks"yoou like and you really hate and later you will be a bitter frump!hope i helped


Okay, so this is my fourth or fifth period, and I still don't use tampons. The catch is, next month around this time, I'm going to the beach. So I really want to learn how to use tampons for future reference. I tried just putting in a light one, and it hurt sooo bad. I put vasaline on the tip and everything, I just can't get it in. Any tips for putting that damn thing in? (link)
well i think if u squat down it glides in easier or kinda bear down on the toilet and insert it. slender are best.


My "c" key on my keyboard always sticks. It's so annoying!! I'm on a laptop. It is okay to try to take the key off or will I break it? (link)
take the keyboard to a storecircut city or good guys. they usually can help. i like best buys


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can someone please tell me what SPOONING means?
Like... i have no idea what it means.

please help

ill rate high

thank you

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well spooning is when two people are laying side by side with thier bodies pressed up next to one another. its a position. usually spooning is a sexual position but you also can lay that way to cuddle.funny name i know but yea thats what it is hun.


My hair is such a hassle. It's naturally wavy and frizzy. I try blow-drying it straight, but it just makes it more frizzy and ends up being wavy again by the end of the day. I like it best when I let it air dry because it gets some curl, but it is still is sort of frizzy. I've tried some different products, but they make my hair look greasy and weigh it down. So I was wanting any tips on how to keep the frizziness down without smoothing out my curls. Thanks! (link)
use infusium 21 you can buy it at a drugstore like payless eckard, thrifty


Okay so I am a freshmen and I am currently dating this guy in my class we have been going out for 2 months. I also have had a major major crush on this guy who goes to a different school and is one year older than me for the past 2 and 1/2 years. My boyfriend i love being around him and he makes me happy, but when i get home i can't stop thinking about my crush i've told my self that i have to get over him, but i can't! I know it is really stupid to be worrying about this ,but i don't think I will end up marrying my boyfriend because we just want different things. So my question is, should i continue to date my boyfriend and give us a try or should i dump him and keep looking? (link)
i think u should break up with him it isnt fair to be having this mental affair. its just as bad as cheating. it could end up as cheating and someone is bound to get hurt. save the guy the pain. you arent ready to settle with just him and yea you arent going to marry him and if he wanted to marry you why should he you want other men be honest with him and yourself. how would you feel if you were with a guy and he secretly crushed over your friend?


ookay well i have a really old computer (1998 PLUS)!!! yes i no wicked old well.. i need yo download music for free that wont give me viruses.. and wont take up much room on my compuer if u no of some plz let me no!! I RATE 5's thannxx (link)
ok if your computer is that old it will be hard cause the memory in it isnt much from back in those days. just dont use kazaa.kazaalite is safer but still cant be sure


I'm going to NYC with my crush and his family this Friday. He's 15 im 13. I was wondering if my outfit sounds okay.

I'm wearing these comfy "yoga pants" from American Eagle. They're grey and have foldover waist. I'm wearing an American Eagle shirt that says Be Bright on it. Since we're going to NYC im wearing a white northface over it with a white knit hat that has a pom pom on it. Any other suggestions would be welcome!


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sounds cute most of the clothes from there are cute


How does anorexia and bulimia relate to psychology? (link)
its a state of mind a poor self image of someones body. the body reacts to thought process. your brain retrieves information from nerves and images processed through the vision. when this happens the thought that occurs is processed and then becomes like an illness. stress imitates this. so if you have these illnesses you become sick with it. most people with these problems feel they have no control over thier lives or enviornment so they get a rush from the fact that they have control over what they put in thier mouths. sort of a feeling of power.thats where it is a mental disorder


my best friend (ill call her susie) was dating this guy (ill call him bob) for almost a year. they were always together, and it was obvious that they were deeply in love. susie is very loud and outgoing, and is not afraid to speak her mind. she can be a little bit of a pain sometimes. ive gotten in many (non-physical) figts with her that were so bad, that we had to go to counseling just to stay friends. weve been okay for the past 5 months or so. now throughout their relationship, ive always felt a little bit of chemestry with bob, and ive gotten to know him very well because susie would always take me with her to see him. they just broke up 2 months ago, and have both moved on. susie has a new bf, who is bobs friend. theyre not friends anymore. and unfortunatly, bobs moved on to me. i have no doubt in my mind that im in love with him, and i can tell that he feels the same way about me. susie doesnt know, because i know that if she finds out she'll never talk to me again. shes threatened that if i ever do anything with him, she'll never talk to me again. im in love with him, but i dont know what to do. (link)
if shes your friend she will want you happy. dont deny what ya feel. go for it and tell her first so shes not shocked


It's my grandmas birthday on christmas day and i can't even think of one present to buy her. Can anyone give me any ideas? Thank you x (link)
do you have any special pictures of you and her together? if you do enlarge it and frame it


you can always tell i have coverup on. especially on my nose, forhead, chin, and the area around the corners of my mouth. how can i get rid of this and make my make-up look more natural?
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mix a little moisturizer in with it


Could some1 please gimme the song code for "Grown up Christmas List" by Kelly Clarkson? Or at least a site where I can listen to the whole song for free.Ive already checked google nd stuff. 5's if yu can help (link)
check yahoo launchcast you can see the song and video for free


okay so thers this sorta old rap/hip-hop old song. i need the name and the artist plz.here are the lyrics that i remember:
"yall gunna make me lose my mind up in hur up in hur. yall gunna make me act a fool up in hur up in hur. yall gunna make me go all out up in hur up in hur" i rate 5's for any correct answers. (link)
dmx


I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic? (link)
no seems normal i may be the weirdo cause i had a crush on barney rubble


can you make a email on google ?? if not where can i make a email aniwhere but yahoo !! thnx ill rate if you help !! (link)
sign up for hotmail




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