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I'm just an average person. I love to help people out :) it makes me feel better about myself. I've been in a lot of situations so I can most likely relate to a lot of your problems. I know what it feels like to not have anyone to talk to about your problems, which is why i'm an advicenator. I'm ready to help people and be there for everyone who needs advice or just a companion to speak out to. I'm always here if you need me, don't hesitate to drop a question or even just a vent/rant note about a problem to my advice column inbox. I respond to all of them regardless of the topic. I'm upfront and abrupt about my answers and never sugarcoat. Take my advice or not, but i'm just doing my job :)Played volleyball for over 10 years, also a coach. I love to try new things. Currently I'm trying the new sport of tennis and learning about my passion of photography.
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my boyfriend is a meth user.. i am not.. i am 12 weeks pregnant will having sex with him hurt the fetus
yep.
when you have sex and have a baby.. its pretty much your genes and his genes mixing together to form a "mini you and mini him in 1"..
so yes, it will affect the baby.
Maybe you should have been more smart...
I am 18 years old, graduated highschool and am dating this guy i really like may love for about 5 months now. I have liked him and known him for two years btw.
anyway i have had many relationships; long relationships short relationships etc. but i never had sex because i didn't want to do it in highschool. But now i am thinking about having sex. I wanted to be on birth control just so i would be prepared. and used to taking the pill every day. It would hopefully shorten periods, maybe make my flat chest grow a little ;) and protect me from unwanted preg. but i am worried that i will get cancer from it.. is it really worth the risk? how big of a risk is it? I wasn't planning on having sex the first month or 2 after taking it i just wanted to be on it just in case it happens out of the blue.
SO is it worth the risk, or stick to condoms? (i wanted to use both)
yes, you can get cancer from birth control. it increases the chances but there's a shot you can get to prevent it. Its called the HPV shot and its reduces the chances.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HPV_vaccine
As for birth control, I would DEFINITELY get it if I were you. Even if you're thinking about having sex.. it will be very beneficial to you.
I was actually the same way like you before I started birth control. my mom always told me it would screw up my "natural cycle" and all the drugs were bad for me. But then I made a pro/con list and all of the benefits seriously outweighed the bad stuff. In my opinion, its worth it.
Condoms are an OK form of birth control.. but its not very effective. Plus, I like the feeling of ME being in control about birth control. I trust myself more than anyone. I know that if I take the pill every day at the exact same time (never missing a pill) then i KNOW i'm in good hands. but If I just leave it up to the guy and his condom... then i'd get very anxious and scared because i'm pretty much depending on him not getting me pregnant.
If you can, use both the pill and the condom. the chances are VERY slim if you do that.
oh and you can have sex after 7 days of taking the pill.. so you don't have to wait 2 months haha.
I would suggest getting Plan B too. Its pretty much the same thing as the pill but it has high dosages of the hormones and if for some reason you think you're pregnant, you can take Plan B up to 72 hours after sex and it reduces the chance of pregnancy by like 70%.
Better safe than sorry..
Good luck and inbox me if you have anymore questions
This may be long but please take the time to read it because I could really use some advice.
19/f I started dating my current boyfriend in February. He is a really amazing guy. Hes sweet, caring, loving, sincere, and genuinely a good person. And he adored me. We didn't have one fight for the first 3 or 4 months, I guess you can call it the "honeymoon phase". We fell in love because we fit together so well we are perfect for each other personality wise. But three months ago he hurt his back pretty badly and there's nothing doctors can do about it unless he gets surgery to fix it. But that's the last thing he wants/needs because once you get surgery you're f***ed for life. At first I was unaware of the extent to which his pain was affecting his life. Needless to say things are not going as great for him as they were when we first met. He's always in pain now, among other things going wrong.
The one thing about him that I know and the only thing I don't like is the fact that he gets angry very easily, all the time, for no reason. He told me he's always been that way. Not angry at me, just at situations and life. I try to help him with it but nothing I say now seems to have an effect on him. He's always in a bad mood, or when I try to talk to him/kiss him, most of the time he just looks at me and doesn't respond. Sometimes he even looks annoyed. We pretty much live together because we're always at each others houses, we always want to be together. But recently it's become sort of taxing for me. I come home from being with him and find that I'm in a bad mood. I'm fighting with my parents a lot and I'm just not happy. And the sad part is that I am a huge believer in happiness and I always preach how important it is to be happy. I just get so upset when I see him so mad and we're spending time together but hes in a bad mood. We used to get along great and have a great time and now its basically me always trying to cheer him up. We'll have moments here and there when he forgets he's upset, and we don't really fight, but he's always mad and I'm always sad because of it. So I've been trying to talk to him about it and explain how I feel and he keeps telling me that his anger problem has gotten 100 times worse because he's literally always in shooting sharp pain from his back. Therapy helps him a little but he says it comes right back. I just don't know what to do anymore, I try to do nice things for him and kiss him and give him love and care but nothing works. A few times after we've come back from a night of drinking and he's like that, I get emotional and I've cried to him pretty bad a few times and I hate crying it makes me feel vulnerable and weak. It's because of the alcohol that I cry, but it's because of his mood that I get sad. Now he has it in his head that we cant drink together because when we drink we fight and I get emotional and its not me. I tried really hard last night to explain that its still how I feel, just the alcohol makes me more vocal about it. He wouldn't even hear it. He told me to talk to him when I was sober. Which I know, is what I have to do now. I really need some advice on what to say though, because now I have the feeling that he sees me as an emotional wreck. I get the feeling that he sees me differently, before he used to adore me and he pretty much had me on a pedestal. Calling me perfect all the time, and I'm not expecting that now at all I actually didn't like that but now I feel like what he saw in me in the beginning is gone. I just don't know what to do or say to him to fix this problem in our relationship. It's not like he can get rid of his pain or anger, he can't help it, but it seriously makes me depressed. Help?
I am so sorry about all of this.. I will pray for him to get better and for your relationship to work out.
I think what you need to do is take a break from him for a while. i don't mean you have to break up with him or something.. but just say you're busy this weekend and then take that time to really think about YOURSELF. You've been doing so much for him.. It seems like you're giving 90% effort into the relationship (always trying to make him feel better and make things right) but he's giving 10%.. Be honest, aren't you tired and exhausted from always doing all the work?? Take a weekend to yourself. Splurge some money and go to the spa and get a mani/pedi or a nice relaxing massage. take some of that stress away and just think about yourself for a weekend or even week. Also, think about what you really want. Is this guy really "the one" for you? Can you picture you 2 living together forever? If you can't handle all of this right now.. will you be able to handle it 10 years from now? These are the questions you need to ask yourself and figure out. If you don't know the answers.. then you're wasting your time with him. You could be so much happier if you really wanted to. but, if you do see yourself with him forever, then its time for him to start putting in effort too. I get that he's hurt and in pain, and its hard for him to put in effort too.. but he doesn't have to do extraordinary things. Its the thought that counts. For example- he doesn't need to go out and buy you a puppy and then teach it some new tricks for you.. he could just lay in bed and serenade you and sing a love song to you. or he could bake some cookies. or even rent all your favorite movies for you 2 to watch together.
If you really want to fix the problem, try telling him that you feel like you're putting in all the effort in the relationship, and you feel like you're not getting anything in return. If he starts blaming it on his injury, cut him off and say he doesn't need to do anything extraordinary. All it takes for you to truly be happy is if he said "i love you" and showed it by doing the small things. If he can't even manage to do that... then I don't think he knows what he wants.
Sometimes you have to let go and run away in order to see who cares enough to come running after you. Its up to you if you want to risk that. but just remember- life is all about taking risks. You gotta risk it to get the biscuit. The greatest hazard in life is not taking any risks at all. So maybe you need to let go and see if he comes running after you. My mom always told me that I need a man in my life who ADORES me and who WANTS to talk to me. If your boyfriend doesn't want any of that.. then maybe he's not the right fit for you.
Good luck and inbox me if you need any more help!
Iv'e been dreamming about this dude for the longest. He graduated 2 years ago though I see him around all the time. Even tho I life in Orlando and him in Tampa. I used to like him but I got over it I thought. But everytime he passes me its like all the same feeling come back. Why do I dream about this tho I got over him?
I dont think you actually "got over him".. i think he just vanished from your mind and disappeared. You simply just forgot about him. He never entered your thoughts and you forgot about your feelings for him. Until he came back and then all your feelings reappeared.
Its just a guy :) go and talk to him. be friends with him first and then try getting more involved. Dreams have meanings. Take the chance and have no regrets.
good luck!
How can I Fix my frendship with her ' ?
well obviously there is a problem between you two, otherwise she wouldn't be mad at you.
My best guess is that you 2 miscommunicated about something. well here's the number 1 rule to relationships and friendships... communication!!! If you don't communicate with her, then you'll never figure out what she's feeling, and you'll probably never resolve the problem.
Note- there is a difference between talking to someone and communicating with someone. You can talk to a wall.. but the wall won't understand what you're saying to it. If you communicate with your friend.. she will understand you, and you'll learn to understand her. The 2nd most important thing about relationships and friendships is compromising. Out of all of the miscommunications that happened, you can fix most of them by compromising so both of you will be satisfied.
Good luck and inbox me if you need more help
So this past let's say week or 2 when I wake up in the morning I don't feel good & ibjabe a headache..it eventually goes away but I'm just curious as to what is going on! I've also have not had all that much sleep (maybe 6 or7 hours a night) & I am hungry when I go to bed so u don't know if that has anything to do with it?
you should definitely be getting more sleep. I took a psychology class and one of our units was sleeping. The average human needs at least 9 and 1/4 hours of sleep. If you need an alarm clock to wake you up.. then thats not good. Your body is healthiest when it wakes itself up after you've had a good night sleep.
If you're hungry before you go to bed, then try eating a light snack. Nothing too big. Try yogurt, fruit, cereal etc.
Drink a lot of water too. The average person needs 4 liters of water PER DAY. The most common symptom of dehydration is headaches and dizziness.
Also, if your headaches are still really bad, then try taking Ibuprofen or Advil. I usually take 2 with a glass of water.
If its still happening quite frequently, then I suggest going to your doctor and asking about it.
Good luck!
I am in my 20s and have always had problems with anxiety, depression,
low self-esteem and eating disorders. I feel like I experienced sexual
abuse at such an early age that I have no memory of it. Sometimes I wonder
though if I'm just trying to find one specific reason for all of my issues
and sexual abuse seems to make sense but maybe I'm just crazy.
Here is a list of factors about myself that are concerning to me...
-bed-wetting until about 10 years old
-I was an only child and was very distant and quiet
-earliest memories of masturbating to sexual fantasies around 3 or 4
-I would frequently get caught masturbating by family members as a child
and was subsequently scolded and/or whipped
-I have memories of acting out graphic sexual fantasies with a friend around age 7
-I have a memory of being caught masturbating during nap-time at preschool at age 4
-I have memories of sexual fantasies played out by familiar cartoon characters
-compulsive binge-eating began in early childhood around age 4
-hair-pulling/trichotilomania began around age 7
-frequent vaginal yeast infections in early childhood
-earliest memories of suicidal ideation around age 7
-When I first started have sex at age 15 I experienced a great deal of vaginal pain
which continued for years until I became more comfortable with sex and my long-term
boyfriend which leads me to believe it was probably psychogenic
Even if I was sexually abused but don't remember it, should I even bother trying to remember or delve into this further? Would this make everything worse or be the key to unlocking the solution to my problems and allow me to move forward? And if it happened and I never do remember, am I doomed to suffer PTSD-like symptoms forever or can you treat those symptoms without addressing the possible root cause?
I think you could investigate this further and find out the truth... but it will be EXTREMELY hard because you were so young and have no memory of it happening.
Plus, let me ask you this. Lets say you find out the truth. How is that going to help you "move forward"? can't you just move forward right now? Lets say you find out that you were sexually abused and you find the person who abused you... well how is that going to help you move forward? I dont think it will.. besides the fact that you've got sweet revenge and solved the mystery. You can still move on from it right now, even though you don't know the honest truth.
Don't get me wrong, you can find out the truth if you really want to. You can try hiring a P.I (Private investigator) and crack the code. But it will take a lot of effort and time. It's really up to you if its worth it or not.
As for your PTSD symptoms.. have you thought about seeing a therapist or psychologist? they can prescribe you medicine and really help out. Think about it. I think it would really help you.
Sometimes you don't need to know the truth in order to move on.. Sometimes the truth will only do worse (aka you'd be obsessed with the thought of this person and trying to figure out what happened that night). Sometimes its best just to move on without looking back.
But it is your call. Good luck and i'm sorry to hear about your past. Inbox me if you need any help!
Earlier this, I started liking this guy that was in a few of my classes. We are kind of opposites; I'm really smart, he's sometimes stupid, I'm a goodie goodie, he is kind of a bad boy. We texted each other around spring break and I found out that he was really nice and funny. When I was out sick a few days later, he texted me to check up on me. He is one of those boys that the teachers like but is mischievous. We would talk in school and had a few embarrassing moments like when he ran into me (literally) in one of our classes. I helped him out with a school assignment (which is how we started talking), and he made a big deal about how I helped him. When I told my friends that I liked him, none of them could seem to keep their mouths shut. In a few days, everybody who knew me at school knew that I liked him. I started getting weird notes (from his friends). His friends would keep asking me if it was true (I didn't say anything). One day, I brought dessert in for our class, and he texted me the next day about them. When I was on the bus, 10 minutes later, I got a text from him asking me out. My friend (thankfully) told me that it might not have been him, so I didn't reply. It turns out she was right. For the rest of the week, I kept getting notes and texts from his friends apologizing and asking me out again. It was so embarrassing because he never said anything to me about it. After those incidents, the texts and talking stopped. A few weeks later, he texted and called me to apologize, that it was his friends. We texted a little more that day, but since then, things have been really awkward. Did he like me and I messed things up or was he just being friendly?
Well he likes you for sure because he's texting you a lot.
Does he like you more than friends? Its hard to say.. but i think it might be possible.
His friends were texting you and pretending to be him, asking you out.. maybe he asked his friends to do that, and to see what you'd say. Maybe he's shy and does't want to ask you straight to your face, so instead he had his buddies ask for him. That definitely is a sign that he likes you.
If you think about it.. why would his friends do all of that and go through all of that hassle, if he didn't even like you?? That doesnt make sense, so he probably does like you :)
If you still like him, then I suggest you keep on talking to him and YOU ask him out :) Yeah its risky.. but you said in the beginning "he's a bad boy and mischievous"... well guys like that think its a turn on when a girl asks him out. Want to know why? Because bad boys think they are intimidating.. If you get the courage to ask him out, it will make him think "whoa.. this chick isn't afraid of me. she's so brave!" And ba da boom.. its a turn on for him :)
whats the worst that could happen? he says no. big deal. life goes on :)
good luck!
everytime I see a person that attracts ma attention I have a tendesiy of wanting to fuck no matter where we at and I dont even be knowing them not even a lil but I know how to think and know that somethings are wrong but I just have to have sex then im scared to tell ma family that I already lost my virginity
are you a sex addict? probably not because you don't actually have sex with strangers in a random place.
are your hormones going bizarre? yeah. Which is normal if you're going through puberty. If you're an old person who thinks this way, then you probably need some help because thats just creepy and perverted. But if you're someone going through puberty, then its normal to think that way. Its just your hormones and there's not much you can really do to control that.
You don't need to tell your family either. Your sex life is your personal information. Your parents don't really need to know about it. Do you know about your families sex life? Well I sure as hell don't know about my parents sex life.. and I wish to keep it that way. You're not obligated in any way to tell someone, unless you really want to.
Try controlling yourself. Instead of seeing someone you like and thinking about having sex with them.. think about something else like food or video games or shopping. Text or call some friends and just talk to them to get your mind off of the topic.
uh Good luck.
i ws a gud scholar,ws vry gud at studies,i got 1st position in academics 4rm 1st to 12th,bt for d last 2 sems my colg result is nt dat gud,i try n try ,m a really hardwrkr,i knw i cn do vry gud,i hve dat potential,i complete my syllabus 2wice,bt fail,nw my parents r nt wid me ,dey don hve dat beleive on me,wat shud i do wen my parents don believe me,instead dey discourage,i hve no one 2 say dat you cn do,i knw cn do,bt lost all hopes,because m really shattered after dis repeated defeat,bt i knw m still bettr den my frnz who got gud mrks dis yr.,bt you knw world welcomes only d winners,i cn nt get d courage 2 face d world,wat shud i do??.
i hve lost all d hopes,i don find any1 encouraging me,wat shud i do wen d ones who were capable of wiping my tears rnt wid me..,ws a gud student,sumtimes i find dat i have more knowledge dan who got gud marks
nw each morn i got up n find myself loosing hopes,please help me
can you spell???
lmao "I got 1st position in academics".. uhh no I dont think so buddy...
Please repost this question once you've learned proper grammar and spelling. Then maybe we can actually read your question and help you.
Sorry!
f/16
I starting using a birth control a month ago. I'm on the last week of pills, on the thrid day, and I haven't got my period. I haven't been taking the pills everyday at the same time because I forget. By me not taking the pills at the same time every day is why I think I'm not getting my period yet. But when will I get my period and what if I don't do I just start my new pack of pill and change the time I take them so it will be easier to remember?
Your periods will be funky the first 3 months of the pills because your body isn't used to the hormones yet. Once you've taken the pills for 3-4 months, then your body will get into a rhythm and your periods will come almost the exact time.
Actually, I was just like you. The first month I started the pill, I was freaking out because I thought my period was supposed to happen on the first day of the placebo pills, but it didn't come and I thought I was pregnant. but then my doctor said it can happen during any day of the placebo pills. She said it will probably come around the middle of the week because my body isn't used to the pills yet. So don't worry, this happened to me too. My period came about 3 days on the placebo pills. After taking the pills for 3-4 months, then you can pretty much tell the exact day your period will come. its pretty awesome :)
Oh and if you keep forgetting to take the pill... then maybe you shouldn't be taking them anymore. There's other forms of birth control, like the shot or the patch.
If you can't even remember to take a pill once a day at the same time... then maybe you shouldn't be on birth control or having sex (if thats what you're using the BC for)
If I were you, talk to your doctor and ask him/her if you can switch the times because you keep forgetting. I just take mine at noon. Its easier to remember, and if i'm on vacation with different time zones, its easy to calculate the time difference and what times i would need to take them. Example: noon in USA = 7pm in Europe.
good luck!
ive had alot of boyfriends but i never talked to them unless we were texting i never kissed or held hands with them and the only way i would hug them is if my friends would push me into him and then he would just hug me ....but i didn't hug back even if i really really liked the guy or even loved him i would just get all nervous, sweaty, red and self-conscious and then break up with him ive had about 13 or 14 boyfriends and dumped all of them even if i still like them i just get scared when they try to touch me for some reason
This might be off topic.. but have you ever been in a situation where your heart, mind, or body was telling you that "this is wrong"? For example- if you were with friends and they were peer pressuring you to drink some beer or something. Have you ever gotten that feeling that says "this is wrong"?
well thats your conscious. No matter what, your conscious will ALWAYS be right. Your conscious is like your guardian angel. It wants to protect you and keep you safe.
Well this is your conscious telling you right now that you're not ready for a boyfriend.
The fact that you don't like to be touched by the opposite sex pretty much means you're not ready for a boyfriend. Its your conscious telling you "this is wrong". Honey, you're not ready for a boyfriend yet. In order to be comfortable around the opposite sex, you have to be comfortable around yourself..
it also just takes some time and maturity. I remember when I thought boys had cooties and now that I look back at it, I could never have handled a boyfriend. But as I grew up I liked being around guys and it just happened. I didn't force myself to have a boyfriend when I knew I was uncomfortable around them.
One more thing, what's the point in having a boyfriend if you can't even be yourself around them? If you're all nervous and scared... then its not fun at all. Wouldn't you rather just be yourself and be happy around a guy? So my best advice is to just lay off the guys for now until you now you're ready.
Good luck :)
i am a 15 year old female wondering if you could get pregnate from jacking off your boyfriend then fingering yourself?
its possible.
the only way to really know is wait to see if you missed your period. or take a pregnancy test.
you should have been more smart.. maybe next time you'll know to BE SAFE....
oh and if you didn't already know that jacking your bf off and then fingering yourself could get you prego.. then maybe you shouldn't be sexually active.
you're 15. I know you've heard the lecture. But lets say you're pregnant RIGHT NOW. are you old enough to take care of your own baby? Is this guy you're screwing around with a proper father for your baby? I have high doubts that you could take care of it. So my question is.. if you're not mature and responsible enough to take care of your own baby, then why are you taking the risk?
Better safe than sorry...
My boyfriend and i have a lot of fun together. We hook up sometimes but this time I want him to think I'm ULTRA sexy. I want to do something different that will turn him on INSANELY. any ideas on what could turn men on? Is there a certain way to touch his penis? Is there a certain thing I should do/dress? Any ideas!? I will try all your guys' ideas and i will rate the one that works the best a FIVE:)
yeah, just ask him what kinds of things he likes.
One time I told my boyfriend I had a surprise for him and just bought a whole new lingerie outfit and gave him a strip tease/lap dance haha. He enjoyed it.
Just try some new things too. Go totally romantic one night (candles, roses, soft music etc.) and then totally kinky the next night (handcuffs, blindfolds etc.). Try different positions, places.
Have fun!
There is something in my mind that always wants me to want attention.
I used to cut myself, and in a way that was my way of craving attention from friends etc. I have stopped that now, but I'll say something that causes attention to myself and put something in a sentence that will obviously cause attention to myself.
How can I stop craving this type of attention? Basically I can say I don't think before I speak.
Can someone just help me because this time I can't answer a question on my own. :/
You just have to learn how to control yourself. Control your mind and body.
You're not alone.. everyone wants attention in some type of way. I always want attention when I do something good, like get first place in a competition. Someone might want attention when something bad happens. Some people just want attention in general.
The key is.. think about other people before yourself. Yes, you do want attention. But there are other people out there who crave attention, just like you. Maybe you should give them a chance. I know this sounds cliche.. but be the better person. Instead of always saying "me me me. I want this and I want that", but yourself aside and think about other people. Give them the opportunity to shine.
Let me tell you a quick story. I was on my schools varsity volleyball team ever since sophomore year. I didn't get ANY playing time until senior year. Ever since I was a sophomore, my coach would always say to me "just sit on the bench and when its time, it'll be your turn to shine". And so for 2 years I patiently waited for my turn. The player who was playing in my position for 2 years got all the attention. But then came senior year, she had to graduate and then it was my turn to get the attention.
So my point is.. you've had some attention already.. maybe its time for you to "step down" and let someone else get the attention for a while. Just like that player did for me, senior year.
I know its tough.. but next time you want to brag about your new boyfriend/girlfriend, or show off something new you bought.. take a deep breathe and think "its someone else's turn now"
Learn to control yourself.
Hai iam a indian girl, 23 year old. I love a guy. He nd his loves me too. But my family hates his family bcoz his mother stays with her second husband. My family thinks he is also a worst guy like his mother, but he is a gem. I unable to tell my parents about my relationship nd his goodness. I want to marry that guy with my family permission. Hey guys pls give me suggestions about my problem quickly.
The way I see it, its YOUR marriage.. YOU'RE the one marrying this guy. Not your parents. If they don't like him, well then that sucks because all that matters is that you're in love with him and he makes you happy.
The best way to figure out this problem is to talk to your parents about it. Simply say "Look, I love this man and want to be with him forever. If you don't like it, then don't come to my wedding. But i'm going to marry him whether you like it or not. Now, will you support me and let me be happy?"
It helps if you put them in your point of view. Ask them how it would feel if you said no to them marrying someone they loved.. They probably wouldn't like it either.
Hello, I am 17yr/male and I am looking to stay lean and also gain some muscle. I am currently 5'6" and about 125lbs. Since I am at a healthy weight, I would like to maintain this but I also want to gain some muscle as I am a tad scrawny and I heard strengthening muscles is important for teens. What I am looking for is someone qualified (through profession or experience)to give me an exact schedule that I can follow (and repeat weekly) to maintain my weight (cardio, running, treadmill, etc) and also gain muscle (arms, chest, abs, legs, back,, shoulders, etc). All I can find online when I search this is those insane body building sites telling me to pump iron and take supplements-that is not at all what I am looking for. I am looking for a smart routine to stay healthy and gain muscle. I have a basement with free weights, treadmill, and full gym machine (presses and what-nots). I really appreciate any help you can give me (i.e. a set schedule) or helpful site that can give me weight/reps I should do as a beginner and how often, what order, etc. Thank you very much.
I don't think anyone on this website is an actual fitness trainer but i may be wrong.
I also dont think you should be asking us (on this website) for a workout schedule because we don't know how you look, what your strengths or weaknesses are, etc.
My best advice is to go to the gym and pay for a personal trainer. Thats what i did. I needed help getting back into shape for sports season and I went to Lifetime Fitness and asked someone who worked there for a personal trainer. I got my pick of male or female. And then she asked me what I specifically wanted to work on, then she gave me some ideas and asked me how vigorous I wanted the schedule to be, then she made the schedule for me. And 2 times a week I would go to the gym and she would be there to guide me on what to do, then train me how to get better at it. It is kind of expensive but it is really worth it, if you are serious about it. Oh and you can pick how many days you want to work out, what days and times etc. so pretty much its "your" schedule but she's picking the stuff you do.
Good luck!
So mother is very judgemental, and ask a whole lot of questions about things I tell her, but I feel very uncomfortable talking to her. I lost my virginity at 13 but felt very guilty so I didnt do it anymore until now I am 16 and has recently start hsving sex again, but I havnt told my mother because shes gonna ask alot of questions. I espesially dont want to tell her I did it at her house which she doesnt like people in. HELP???? Im a female if this helps
well its up to you..
How close are you with your mother? If you don't want to tell her, then you don't have to. Nobody is forcing you to. Its only if YOU want to. If she is forcing you to tell her, but you don't want to, then don't. Its your personal life and there's no reason she needs to know about it (especially sex life).
I'm close with my mom. We tell each other a lot of stuff and i always go to her when I need to vent or need advice. But i don't share my sex life with her. Its my personal information and there's no reason she needs to know about it. yeah sometimes she asks about it, but all i say is "mom i'm safe". haha and then she knows to back off.
Your sex life is your personal stuff. You don't need to tell anybody you don't want to tell. You make that call :)
There's this one girl I know, who literally talks about her sex life constantly and tries to make other girls jealous of her and rubs it in their face.. Thats her decision. My decision is different, I don't want to tell people about my sex life because i know one day i'll probably regret telling people. So i just keep my mouth shut :)
good luck!
Compared with the A-line dress, do you think the mermaid dress is more gorgerous? Idk what others are thinking, I think so :P
My personal opinion: I like the A-line dress more.
but thats just because mermaid type dresses don't look great on me because i've got wide hips and a small bust haha.
So its whatever you like :) but thats just my opinion.
why dosent my girlfriend hug me as much as she did 12 male
The only way to really find out the truth is if you ask her buddy..
Call her up and meet her somewhere and just straight out ask her.
If you ask us people on advicenators, we can only give you some examples like "maybe she's busy." "maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you"..
so yeah, the only way to find the true answer is to ask her.
be brave and stay strong :)