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i wreck every relationship im in
ive had alot of boyfriends but i never talked to them unless we were texting i never kissed or held hands with them and the only way i would hug them is if my friends would push me into him and then he would just hug me ....but i didn't hug back even if i really really liked the guy or even loved him i would just get all nervous, sweaty, red and self-conscious and then break up with him ive had about 13 or 14 boyfriends and dumped all of them even if i still like them i just get scared when they try to touch me for some reason
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This might be off topic.. but have you ever been in a situation where your heart, mind, or body was telling you that "this is wrong"? For example- if you were with friends and they were peer pressuring you to drink some beer or something. Have you ever gotten that feeling that says "this is wrong"?
well thats your conscious. No matter what, your conscious will ALWAYS be right. Your conscious is like your guardian angel. It wants to protect you and keep you safe.
Well this is your conscious telling you right now that you're not ready for a boyfriend.
The fact that you don't like to be touched by the opposite sex pretty much means you're not ready for a boyfriend. Its your conscious telling you "this is wrong". Honey, you're not ready for a boyfriend yet. In order to be comfortable around the opposite sex, you have to be comfortable around yourself..
it also just takes some time and maturity. I remember when I thought boys had cooties and now that I look back at it, I could never have handled a boyfriend. But as I grew up I liked being around guys and it just happened. I didn't force myself to have a boyfriend when I knew I was uncomfortable around them.
One more thing, what's the point in having a boyfriend if you can't even be yourself around them? If you're all nervous and scared... then its not fun at all. Wouldn't you rather just be yourself and be happy around a guy? So my best advice is to just lay off the guys for now until you now you're ready.
Good luck :)
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