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How to plan my marriage
Hai iam a indian girl, 23 year old. I love a guy. He nd his loves me too. But my family hates his family bcoz his mother stays with her second husband. My family thinks he is also a worst guy like his mother, but he is a gem. I unable to tell my parents about my relationship nd his goodness. I want to marry that guy with my family permission. Hey guys pls give me suggestions about my problem quickly.
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So what if his mother stays with her second husband? doesnt mean he will or you will!!! Sometimes people like that... you know their sons and daughters grow up seeing what their mother went through and they don't want to be like that.. I think you should sit down and talk to them about it. I mean its YOUR life.. YOUR marriage.. NOT theirs. I suggest you talk to his parents and try to make a gathering of your parents and his parents. I am sure something will work out. I don't know if you want.. but you should talk to this man you love... It will become great. Just give it time and I think what you just wrote you should tell them...tell them and show them that you and WHY he is such a gem... show them that you really really want this.
Good luck
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If you are close to your family like I wish I was with mine. Your families permission is a big ordeal. First off you need to spend more time with each others family, I dont know if you being Indian changes the way you do stuff than my family but With my husband once sometimes more a week wed play cards and wed cook dinner for his family have lots of bbqs and we spent time with my dad which is my only family where I live. my husband talks to my brothers and my mother over the phone and computer.
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The way I see it, its YOUR marriage.. YOU'RE the one marrying this guy. Not your parents. If they don't like him, well then that sucks because all that matters is that you're in love with him and he makes you happy.
The best way to figure out this problem is to talk to your parents about it. Simply say "Look, I love this man and want to be with him forever. If you don't like it, then don't come to my wedding. But i'm going to marry him whether you like it or not. Now, will you support me and let me be happy?"
It helps if you put them in your point of view. Ask them how it would feel if you said no to them marrying someone they loved.. They probably wouldn't like it either.
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You just have to go to them and tell them look I am marrying this man weather you like it or not but he is a nice guy and I love him and I want your blessing. Tell them he is everything to you and he treats you great and that you want to live your life with him. If they dont understand then oh well dont sacrifice your happiness over their selfishness
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