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finding out if i am a friend or something more


Question Posted Friday July 22 2011, 12:14 pm

i have a guy who sayd we are friends all his friends and mine say there is something more. should i make the first move or wait to see how he feels?
im 15 and i need to know before i embarrass myself


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cupcake_baby answered Tuesday August 2 2011, 1:13 pm:
I was in this same situation.You might just want to wait.I waited,and he eventually told me he loved me.I waited for 3 years.But if i would have asked,he would've said no.So sometimes it's best to be patient.

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Lessthan3ofgod answered Saturday July 23 2011, 1:06 pm:
I would just let it be. Don't make a move because if he tells you that you are just friends then he might be telling other people that you are just friends. People tend to always see "something more" between people even though it may be just simple flirting. Let it be, and if he feels maybe in the future that you are more than just friends then I feel he will make the first move.

Good luck(:

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dee0121 answered Friday July 22 2011, 10:33 pm:
Hey, so if he's telling you that you guys are friends then let it be. Maybe your friends and his might be seeing the chemistry between you guys but don't let that take you to go over board. Just continue being good friends and if something happens let it happen naturally. 1. you don't want to embarrass yourself, and 2. maybe he's telling you that you guys are friends cause he truly wants a good friendship and might not be ready to "take it there." Good Luck

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YoungMommy answered Friday July 22 2011, 3:34 pm:
If you like him then let him know. He might feel the same about you and may not want to tell you because he thinks that you might reject him. Just go right up to him and tell him how you are feeling good luck

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Xui answered Friday July 22 2011, 3:30 pm:
If the guy says you are just friends, Then that's all it is.


Yours as well as his friends are making false assumptions. If you really want to know how he feels then let him make the move, It would be foolish to ask when he told you that you both were just friends. If he likes you, He'll come around eventually. Be patient about it and tell your friends to chill out.

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