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did this guy like me?
Earlier this, I started liking this guy that was in a few of my classes. We are kind of opposites; I'm really smart, he's sometimes stupid, I'm a goodie goodie, he is kind of a bad boy. We texted each other around spring break and I found out that he was really nice and funny. When I was out sick a few days later, he texted me to check up on me. He is one of those boys that the teachers like but is mischievous. We would talk in school and had a few embarrassing moments like when he ran into me (literally) in one of our classes. I helped him out with a school assignment (which is how we started talking), and he made a big deal about how I helped him. When I told my friends that I liked him, none of them could seem to keep their mouths shut. In a few days, everybody who knew me at school knew that I liked him. I started getting weird notes (from his friends). His friends would keep asking me if it was true (I didn't say anything). One day, I brought dessert in for our class, and he texted me the next day about them. When I was on the bus, 10 minutes later, I got a text from him asking me out. My friend (thankfully) told me that it might not have been him, so I didn't reply. It turns out she was right. For the rest of the week, I kept getting notes and texts from his friends apologizing and asking me out again. It was so embarrassing because he never said anything to me about it. After those incidents, the texts and talking stopped. A few weeks later, he texted and called me to apologize, that it was his friends. We texted a little more that day, but since then, things have been really awkward. Did he like me and I messed things up or was he just being friendly?
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I say he liked you.. just say hey? do you really like me and i dont want any crap just tell me the truth
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Well he likes you for sure because he's texting you a lot.
Does he like you more than friends? Its hard to say.. but i think it might be possible.
His friends were texting you and pretending to be him, asking you out.. maybe he asked his friends to do that, and to see what you'd say. Maybe he's shy and does't want to ask you straight to your face, so instead he had his buddies ask for him. That definitely is a sign that he likes you.
If you think about it.. why would his friends do all of that and go through all of that hassle, if he didn't even like you?? That doesnt make sense, so he probably does like you :)
If you still like him, then I suggest you keep on talking to him and YOU ask him out :) Yeah its risky.. but you said in the beginning "he's a bad boy and mischievous"... well guys like that think its a turn on when a girl asks him out. Want to know why? Because bad boys think they are intimidating.. If you get the courage to ask him out, it will make him think "whoa.. this chick isn't afraid of me. she's so brave!" And ba da boom.. its a turn on for him :)
whats the worst that could happen? he says no. big deal. life goes on :)
good luck!
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It sounds like he was just being an typical immature guy. You didnt mess anything up cause in reality you didnt do anything wrong. He allowed his friends to play games with you. im not saying he didnt really like you but he's definitely stupid. So just let things cool off for a while if he really likes you he will grow some balls and ask you out eventually.
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