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Should I tell my mom im not a virgin and hasnt been for 3years?
So mother is very judgemental, and ask a whole lot of questions about things I tell her, but I feel very uncomfortable talking to her. I lost my virginity at 13 but felt very guilty so I didnt do it anymore until now I am 16 and has recently start hsving sex again, but I havnt told my mother because shes gonna ask alot of questions. I espesially dont want to tell her I did it at her house which she doesnt like people in. HELP???? Im a female if this helps
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I don't think you should tell her unless there's a real reason to, and I don't see one. It's your business, and no point in upsetting her.
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well its up to you..
How close are you with your mother? If you don't want to tell her, then you don't have to. Nobody is forcing you to. Its only if YOU want to. If she is forcing you to tell her, but you don't want to, then don't. Its your personal life and there's no reason she needs to know about it (especially sex life).
I'm close with my mom. We tell each other a lot of stuff and i always go to her when I need to vent or need advice. But i don't share my sex life with her. Its my personal information and there's no reason she needs to know about it. yeah sometimes she asks about it, but all i say is "mom i'm safe". haha and then she knows to back off.
Your sex life is your personal stuff. You don't need to tell anybody you don't want to tell. You make that call :)
There's this one girl I know, who literally talks about her sex life constantly and tries to make other girls jealous of her and rubs it in their face.. Thats her decision. My decision is different, I don't want to tell people about my sex life because i know one day i'll probably regret telling people. So i just keep my mouth shut :)
good luck!
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Well to be honest, it's your life, not your mothers. If you feel uncomfortable telling her no law says you must and in a few years time she will have probably guessed you are anyway. If you know your mother wouldn't approve of certain things try to respect her wishes but otherwise just enjoy yourself and be responsible :)
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