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I'm just an average person. I love to help people out :) it makes me feel better about myself. I've been in a lot of situations so I can most likely relate to a lot of your problems. I know what it feels like to not have anyone to talk to about your problems, which is why i'm an advicenator. I'm ready to help people and be there for everyone who needs advice or just a companion to speak out to. I'm always here if you need me, don't hesitate to drop a question or even just a vent/rant note about a problem to my advice column inbox. I respond to all of them regardless of the topic. I'm upfront and abrupt about my answers and never sugarcoat. Take my advice or not, but i'm just doing my job :)

Played volleyball for over 10 years, also a coach. I love to try new things. Currently I'm trying the new sport of tennis and learning about my passion of photography.

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(Rating: 5) I got banned because i wasn't 13 yet and i lied when i signed up here so I am sorry about it taking so long to tell you this, but YOU REAALLLY helped me! I was going to run away from home with this guy who was older than me that i met on facebook and because of what you said I didn't go! the guy raped another girl he met on facebook and he wasn't 16 like he said he was 28! YOU saved me from being raped because i already had clothes in my backpack when i wrote this and had told him to meet me after school so i could be with him. THANK YOU!
(Rating: 5) Thank you! (:
(Rating: 5) That is great advice Thank You!!!
(Rating: 5) thank you! you saved my life and i wanted to come back and say THANK YOU!
(Rating: 5) thankyou sooo much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much.
(Rating: 4) Haha i know what that means, thanks:P I found out that its when someone in a car is trying to find a group of people and the people on foot have to get from point A to point B without being seen (:
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot for the support! I told her and she did not freak out after all. :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you SO much! Your answer was awesome!
(Rating: 5) :)
(Rating: 5) Amazing advice:)
(Rating: 5) Well thank you. ;3
(Rating: 5) when i'm with friends i'm completely fine. but thank you i will try new things
(Rating: 5) Thank you lol I was confused I kinda understood but ya lol
(Rating: 4) good idea!
(Rating: 5) Oh my gosh, thank you! Thank you for taking time to help :3 It really matters! <3 Thank you again XD!
(Rating: 5) thanks i really need that :) but what do i do to cherish it
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(Rating: 5) im not a big fan of snow soo idk haha but it sounds amazing! thanks
(Rating: 5) Well i am a risk taker haha.. thanks :)
(Rating: 5) i would try thank you so much!!! but the funny thing is that we always fight seens we were kids but now that we are teens the fights are stronger but i would talk to her thanks
(Rating: 5) Thanks I just might do that
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! (: That means a lot to me, thank you for you help! It's very beneficial. (:
(Rating: 5) Thanks for your help. I don't really trust him. The only thing he knows about me is my age and first name. And I should have been mentioned he texted my iPod number not my cell number. My friends don't even know the number for my iPod. The numbers are completely random so there's a chance that his friend's is similar to mine.
(Rating: 5) thank u :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. Maybe you should take up writing as well as photography; you write very well. I'm getting over him already.
(Rating: 4) Thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! I will definately use this to review before my tests. Thank you SO much!
(Rating: 5) will do! Same for you. I loving giving advice to others just not myself haha ;) sweeethoney is my username
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU :) and im sorry if it gave you a headache!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! I will try talking to her about it and see how it goes
(Rating: 5) Thank you. This really helped. :)
(Rating: 5) thanks so much for the advice! i think im now ready for them to meet:)
(Rating: 5) Thanksss :) hope it goes well!
(Rating: 5) My mom told me to ignore him completely... And if he doesn't contact me, move on.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much. I went a long time without talking to both of them and I'm pretty sure things are gonna work out for the best. The ex already knows of the new guy and tries to make me jealous by saying he's found someone new too, even though he still flirts a lot and doesn't have a new gf lol. Sooooo it's pretty clear to me what I need to do. :) THANK YOU!
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) Seriously, thank you so much. You really made me realize he's definitely not worth my time. My friends are all just being nice, it's nice that you were actually real and straight up about it. Thank you. You saved me from a waste of time and some definite heartbreak.
(Rating: 4) info was good i will bare this in mind :) thank you
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for taking your time to read my question. I'm sorry it was so long. Thank you so much for your advice, I'll try it! :)
(Rating: 5) His phone broke
(Rating: 4) thank you. i know I can... I just liked his friend and he's a trustworthy person :)
(Rating: 5) thanks :)
(Rating: 5) Thankk you!
(Rating: 5) i don't know what to say... but thank you so much! these words helped me feel better about myself. thanks a lot!!!! :D
(Rating: 5) Thank you! :)
(Rating: 5) Niiceee! Thank you so much! Haha. And you answer a lot of my questions a lot of the time lol :)
(Rating: 5) OK Thanks :)
(Rating: 3) I'm rating this a 3. While I appreciate the camera suggestion and will look in to them you didn't tell me whether these cameras would capture a picture of a car at 225mph because not all can do that with shutter speeds. Been to camera guys who have confused me to no end. Looks like I need a DSLR but the venue only wants people taking stuff from a point-and-shoot. Also lens can't be over 10'' and their security rigidly enforces every last policy too or requires a permit.
(Rating: 5) I do wash my face twice a day, I try to avoid creams because my skin is pretty sensitive..thanks for your advice <3
(Rating: 5) Thanks(: good To know I'm not like disfonctional cuz I dOnt get sore(:
(Rating: 5) Thanks and I'm gonna wait to have sex. Your right I'm only 13 and I'm too young. Thanks for your help :)
(Rating: 5) thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you <3 and I'm doing my best.
(Rating: 5) this helps alt thnx :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I feel so inspired :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks!! =)
(Rating: 5) thanks, it actually ended up being a kidney stone. :D
(Rating: 5) I think I needed to read this. Wile I realize that our relationship may not be healthy, I love her and wouldn't want to not be around her thank you for undersrtanding and for the wake up call
(Rating: 5) The advice was good, straight forward, and directly answered my question. Thank you so much!
(Rating: 4) Thank you. I never planned on not telling her as she knows this has been a plan for the last 25 yrs. Leaving her behind would be totally out of the question. I just don't know how I plan to sell and move and then sell and move her. Communication will be key; I just don't want the stress to overtake me and not have the patience for her.
(Rating: 5) Thank you.. and I'll try to do that! And yeah, it wasn't my friend. It was me.. but he didn't know that..? Make sense?
(Rating: 5) Thank you(: Haha I would have never thought of that! I think i'll try bumping into him because he isnt in my grade so I cant ask him bout homework and when I see him is when we leave to go home so I wouldnt have a pencil! but I love your ideas I'll derfintly try it! and also i just wanted to leave the name of my website/advice column with you so you could check it out because I never have anyone ask for advice from me on it so it is www.annatn.web.officelive.com
(Rating: 5) THANK you sooo much :) its good to have someone else in my situation and who thinks the way i do :D
(Rating: 5) I finally got in touch with her a few hours ago. I did tell her all of that you said and her response...."you dont need anyone in your life at all that can hurt you like that" and she hung up. She's gone...and shes done with me but i dont get that part. SHE caused me not to walk again, yet SHES the one mad at me? Thats backwards. I have a journal from the past year with all my emotions. I can never show someone though cause there are some deep secrets in it. Im not allowerd to go to school for another month! Im on hospital bed rest so i cant see her in person either. I am not as upset about my friend as I am about me not being able to walk and play softball.
(Rating: 5) Thanks :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks, I got your email saved :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) thanks so much i appreciate it but i tried talking to them even let other people talk to them they just don't understand
(Rating: 5) Thank u so much! I am taking ur advice and moving out in september, hopefully :) I didn't do it earlier bc of the expenses... And fear. But ur right. I am because this is my life and I know I'm going 2 be doing better in school too having my own space and coming into my own home. I need 2 function as an adult. Thank u for shaking me! I will message you :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 5) Yeah I've tried writing him a note once like it was a full page just taking about random stuff I gave it to him and he never said anything about it but thanks I'll try anything at this point and I probally will be needing help in the future
(Rating: 5) good adviceee.
(Rating: 4) u think i should wash inside with water?
(Rating: 5) ok listen they joke alot and stuff about it..i dont care what they think and im the creepy gdark kid at a rednack school with a mohawk ...im not trying to be cool i just dont know if i really like her but i did ask her out but i havent got an answer and if someone made fun of my girlfriend(which they do) id fight for her pride or watever its called
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I didnt even think about contacting the radio stations!! The pasta and festival thing is also a fantastic idea!! Thank you!! :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I was also wondering though what I can do because I'm not sure it's a good idea to go out and leave school to try to make it in the competitive world of modeling. I'm just so confused still. Haha what part of Europe are you from?
(Rating: 5) Awesome! Ill try it for suree! So you think i should lift weights every other day for about a month? And then switch it to once or twice a week?
(Rating: 5) thank you : )
(Rating: 5) Thank you hun
(Rating: 5) Yeah, i actually totally agree with you! I have always been insecure about them because of things i have been through with friends and other people. It makes me less confident about myself. I never really wanted to get a boob job (because i don't want to change who i am). It was just a thought i wanted to experiment info on. But thanks a lot! I won't consider it again. :) xoxo!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much :) It helps to know that someone out there cares and that I'm not alone.
(Rating: 5) Thanks!! :)
(Rating: 4) Thanks :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks
(Rating: 5) Well I gave them a 1 because they had said a very rude answer about my grandparents dying and part of it included "just get over it dumb a**" and the website had to suspend that answer from their page and mine. So yeahh.and that doesn't work trust me.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much. he hasnt talked to me and its been 2 days :l... and i dont wanana txt him or calll him first ..
(Rating: 5) thank you
(Rating: 5) didn't mean to put cancer sorry. I meant just how to get sick
(Rating: 5) You're right.I do want her to be happy but every time I see her she's with another guy.It just makes me mad.I will try to talk to her and settle this.Thank you.
(Rating: 3) it only effects me not who i hang out with...i only have one freind who listens to metal like me but no one else does ....i dont wanna convert styles is all
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the idea, I'll see what I can do :p
(Rating: 5) Thankyou so much for this. I'm so sorry about your ex-boyfriend. I can't be friends from him. Your advice really helped me come to this conclusion. He is just an annoying, COMPETITIVE jerk who will get pissed at me for anything I do. Even when I didn't vote for him to play a part in our drama play. THANKYOU! ♥
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much :)
(Rating: 2) better than the advice before you. jeez guys its not like i slept with him. i don't know why that porty person said i "gave it all away too soon" i let him put his hand somewhere okay? jeez. weve been dating for half a year, our relationship means a little more than that physical stuff
(Rating: 5) Thanksss i love them though lol !
(Rating: 5) Thank you. This helps a lot. (:
(Rating: 1) I was looking for advice and I don't think 21 going on 22 is considered a child so your bad, thanks a lot?
(Rating: 5) thanks!:)
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