Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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My friend had sex and now she's a little over a month late for her period. She said she took a pregnancy text and it was negative but plans to take another. What's going on? I'm convinced she's pregnant and then I also suggested she could be stressed. Any ideas? we're both 17. (link)
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she needs to take two more tests to make sure. she could also be late for stress, weight loss or gain, change in diet, etc.
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my WIFE OF TEN YEARS ISNT IN LOVEWITH ME (link)
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This question seems incomplete. It's not even really a question. Try to take a breath and decide what you're looking for in an answer. I've heard from many different sources that once you've been married for ten years, you don't say "I love you" anymore. It may seem like she no longer loves you, but maybe she's just fallen into the cycle of things and is used to your company. Talk to her about it. Determine what is wrong in the relationship. See what you might be able to do to fix it. Suicide isn't the answer. Every married couple goes through some rough times, it happens. And you don't get impulsive and kill yourself when things are hard. You vowed to make it work with her, so try.
Hope I helped :)
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So my friend was late for her period and was starting to get really worried she was pregnant, so after a week and a half of still not starting she took a pregnancy test and it was negative. But she still hadn't started so she decided shed wait another week to take another one, after 2 weeks she finally just started. Why was she so late? (link)
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Stress can play into a period being a little late. While she was late, she was stressing about possibly being pregnant.
Hope I helped. :)
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I am working two retail jobs this summer, and I'm worried I might be in a little over my head. Any advice on how to keep my sanity when the going gets tough? And advice is appreciated. (link)
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keep the tightest schedule possible. two jobs means not a lot of free time, so any time that you have when you're not working, be sure to eat and drink plenty, and catch up on your sleep by napping a couple times, besides regular sleeping. on your days off, get all your shopping done. if you have a day off and groceries, then clean. if everything is clean and you still have free time, catch up on sleep or catch up with your buds. scheduling everything so you can be sure you have time for absolutely everything is very important.
at work, if you're getting stressed, maybe request to have your break a little early. also be sure to make friends at work so you're not alone on the clock.
hope i helped :)
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Is the big man really upstairs? Forgive me for questioning that but for the last few years that i can remember my life has been a hell.i can say i grew up with a very excellent background, wonderful parents and sisters.but for some reason i am the odd one out. I feel like i am a burden, all i do is cause my parents pain and stress. My parents went through a lot to be where they are now and i feel like its my duty to satisfy with a promising future.i wanna be this idol of the perfect first born son but i am the total opposite. I prey to god most of my days to look after me and my family, thank him and help us be what we prey for but ive seen nothing...i work my butt of trying to be atleast an average student but keep on performing the worst. I just dont understand. There are so many immoral non christian people out there who dont study and walk away with flying colours and seem to have a life, this school problem has causing me pain along with my family and cost me a life. I lost my sense of humour,i feel wierd,weekends indoors studying has impacted my social life and does not pay off at all.i have no social life and suffer low self esteem i feel like the man upstairs is making a fool out of me (link)
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you sound a lot like me. great family, good background, but i'm also a slightly less than impressive eldest child. my sisters get straight A's and i had to cheat my way through high school or i honestly would have failed. i've been questioning God and his existence for awhile now. recently, i've come to the realization that God is, indeed, real. he may not be the God that they talk so fondly of in the christian bible, not to me anyway, but he does protect me. you think he's not doing anything for you? you said you were born into a good family. you have your health. it may be hard to get good grades, but you know with hard work, it'll pay off.
now, onto his existence. if you think about it, the world is put together way too intricately for someone to not have been behind the wheel. we, as humans, are VERY fragile. if we're too close to the sun, we get cooked. too far away, and we freeze to death. everyone on earth, depending on the location, is not burning to death or freezing. we are the EXACT perfect distance away from the sun. do you think that shit just happens? hell no. we also need oxygen to live, and how is it that right now, we're all on the only planet that has oxygen in our solar system? that we're aware of, anyway. and we also need a lot of water to survive. and the sky drops fresh water every now and again.
in conclusion, its way too much of a coincidence that our world was perfectly put together "by chance" i don't think so. i think there is more out there. i hope i gave you something to think about. meanwhile, its all right if your social life suffers for a minute so you can get your grades together. and i hope you take care of yourself. your siblings need an older brother, even if you're not perfect.
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What is a revolutionary pensioner?? (link)
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http://www.accessgenealogy.com/military/revpensions.php
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What does it mean if your sexually attracted to someone I think it means like you like someone but Why they sexually, because Just because I like someone dont mean I wanna Have sex with them. So what does it mean haha like the SEXUALLY attracted part? also what a SEX symbol means? another SEX inserted word? Thanks:P (link)
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if you just think someone's pretty then you're just attracted. if you're sexually attracted then that means you wouldn't mind having sexual encounters with said person.
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Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
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Tanvi. (link)
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asking someone out is just putting a lable on something. you don't have to call him "boyfriend", but as long as you two are acting like a couple, theres nothing to worry about. theres seriously no need for lables as long as you're happy where you're at (and from the sound of it, you are)
as for the bad guy thing, he may not have a history of cheating, but it sounds like he has a history of losing interest. if he doesn't want to be in a legit relationship with you because he cares "too much" then you must be pretty damn important to him. he just doesn't want to hurt you. you should feel special, not everyone has someone like that. I, myself, have turned down a few guys cuz i thought i lost interest too easily. they all understand. like i said, being in a "relationship" is nothing but a lable. all that matters is that you guys love eachother and right now, nothing can separate it.
take care
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I've always been the type to have mostly guy friends. I do extreme things and I don't freak and say "OMG! I soooo just broke a nail!"
When I first meet a guy, they would say that they'd like to date me. Not even a month later, they end up saying that they think of me as a little sister. Honestly, I don't have a problem with that. I like being thought of in a sisterly way but sometimes I start to wonder why guys don't ever want to date me after they get to know me. Could it possibly be because I act too much like a guy when I'm around them because I'm around guys all the time?
When I was growing up I was pretty much a tomboy. and not until I was 12 or so did start acting even the slightest bit girly. I am 18 now and I'm always just seen as one of the guys or like a sister to guys. the only people who are ever interested in dating me turn out to be really bad people and I'm wondering if it's me? I have a good heart and all D: my guy friends say I'm pretty(though I don't take compliments) I play guitar and piano, I am a gamer chick, love movies, very considerate and always trying to make other people smile and laugh. I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong that "nice guys" are never interested in me? (link)
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the problem with guys is that their masculinity gets in the way of their brains. you sound like a great girl on paper, but those girls that say "OMG" and scream a lot? they look attractive to guys because then its a chance for guys to protect them. guys like girls that are cute and flirty. and the girls like you that enjoy fun activities and share numerous interests with the guys end up being just "one of the guys". and theres nothing wrong with this. next time a boyfriend is mean to you, guess who has your back?
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I'm 23 years old and I no longer see any point in continuing to be alive. I do not have any friends and my family is the type that just ignores any/all problems (What? Something wrong? NEVER!). I do not have any way to see a doctor to help me. I have tried for many years now to "fix" myself and try to find happiness...it is just not working. I am afraid of pretty much everything. I have trouble convincing myself to leave the house. I have never felt like I belonged anywhere. Part of me keeps saying...just go ahead and do it..kill yourself but another really small part is just begging for something...just one little bit of hope. That's the part that has kept me alive for so long...I've been stuck in this same place since I was 14ish. What do I do? What can I do? (link)
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if theres "no way" you can see a doctor and your parents "don't care" then i'm sorry, but theres nothing you can do. either get over it like the rest of us do or pull the trigger. i'm not trying to be mean, but seriously, what do you expect me to say? you ask a question like this and rule out most answers in the question: don't say see a doctor because i can't see one. don't say to talk to my parents cuz they don't notice me. the only way i see it, you have 3 choices:
have a kid. it could change your life for the better.
get over it. theres a reason its called the "cowards way out"
just quit whining and do it.
good luck. i hope you find the happiness you're looking for. whether it be death or strength.
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okay so our school will be celebrating teachers day on the 17th because of the ongoing exams
as it is going to be my last teachers day in school
i want to give something to each of the teachers who have taught me for atleast two years now
i have a maths sir who teaches me and the rest five subjects are taught by women
any sugestions???? i need help.
i don't have a very huge budget. but i can splurge a lil'. (link)
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all teachers love sweets. what i would do is buy/bake a cake for them. not an entire cake for each one, but give them a slice or two from it. they'll really appreciate the extra length taken for their happiness, and the sweets will make them smile. hopefully, they'll all remember you by what you did for them on this last day. :)
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Hey guys,
I haven't asked for advice on here in a while. I guess I thought I was somewhat invincible,I thought I could handle all my problems on my own but now I realize I can't.
I need advice. I'm going through a lot right now.
Ok where to begin.. I turned 18 recently and with that came a whole new set of responsibilities ones I was looking forward to. College, living on my own, opening my own bank account working part time learning to drive. Basically being independent.
But something awful happened the night of my birthday. I had a party with family and friends in my house. Then afterwards we headed out clubbing. My friends drink got spiked and she was voilently sick. I lost my camera that my boyfriend had bought me too and I was just a mess. Im very responsible when I head out so when all this happened I kept beating myself up over how irresponsible I was. Usually Im the one who doesn't let her hair down. Seeing as it was my 18th birthday I felt I deserved to have a good time?but anyway Afterwards I had like a mini melt down. I was completely tripping and hallucinating.I was totally irrational.My family were so worried they brought me to the doctors and it turned out my drink was spiked too. The doctors said I have a gene that reacts badly to drugs. So even if I wanted to which i would NEVER I can't do drugs.
I'm still trying to come to terms with what happened. Me and my friend are really lucky we are here To tell the story. Its just so hard because on top of that I received my exam results,which were fantastic because I worked so hard. But im finding it so hard to be happy about anything. I decided to defer college until next year but I feel so numb.
I feel angry but I have no face to direct my anger towards. This should have been the most exciting time of my life and instead I feel a shadow of myself.
Im happy about my decision to stay home and recover because what happened knocked my confidence massively.
I feel im not good at anything. Im reflecting too much on things also.
I feel like I deserve everything thats happened to me,as some sort of punishment for the mistakes I made in the past. How ridiculous is that?!
I live in Ireland and the exam system is different from the u.s you are awarded points for each grade. The points are out of 600. I got 495. 60 above what I needed for my first college choice. However I didn't get my first choice because I missed out with a requirement in english. The course required a B and I got a C. This devastated me even more on top of everything else. English was always my best subject. I got an A in my trial exams. Anyway you can appeal results over here so I have sent my exam back to be rechecked (our school was very unhappy overall with the way english was graded)
So that was another blow to my confidence even though I did so well in all my other subjects. Better than I expected. I have soo much coming up this year that I should be looking forward to but I feel so down. I'm usually a very bubbly outgoing person. I don't want to end up becoming a reserved shy and reclusive person. How do I get through all this?
How do I stop beating myself up for my mistakes?
I feel like a bad person. I feel this is karma for all the silly things I did when I was younger?
Is it normal to feel this way?
Sorry this is long any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated!
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i don't mean to be rude, but whatever is going on right now is nothing compared to what could be going on. i know how you feel, being dragged down into a phunk, but this is how you snap yourself out of it: stop pitying yourself and feel thankful. you and your friend's drink might have been spiked, but neither of you died or got raped. you may have not made perfect grades, but you passed. you may not be able to go to your first choice of colleges, but thats why its called a "first" choice. don't you have other colleges you want to go to? that wasn't the only one, right? you have an entire year to figure it out. and even then, nothing ever turns out the way you wanted it to. i wanted to be moved out, have a job i loved, plenty of money, and have a good boyfriend by the time i was this age. but i'm still living with my parents, i'm single, and i have a dead-end job. anyway, i'm really not trying to offend you. but you need to realize that nothing is perfect, and this is going to be the most stressful year of your teenage life. things are going to turn out a bit differently than you planned. and consider yourself lucky for what you do have. in my eyes, you're extremely lucky.
good luck.
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I'm now a sophomore in high school and it's so much harder then freshman year...I'm taking an AP world civ. class but for some reason when i sit down to study I can't keep my mind on what i'm reading and when i get done reading a big long paragraph I don't even know what it's about? How can i become more focused? I'm already failing the class I have a C- and it seems that almost everyone else is passing...How am I supposed to study and stay focused? (link)
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highschool is tough. my personal diagnosis is one of the two; either you have ADD (which, if so, talk to your parents and your doctor about starting medication. it helped me a lot, i have the same problem). or, you're just bored with the subject you're reading and are becoming preoccupied with other thoughts. in this case, you should talk to your teacher. tell him that you're having trouble comprehending the material and maybe ask about tutors.
good luck (and remember, C- isn't failing :) i finished senior year with D's)
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I have serious writers' block and it's actually getting me kind of depressed. Are there anyways to break writers' block or to get some inspiration flowing? I'd love to go somewhere, but my family doesn't have very much money... (link)
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people break out of a writers' block when something happens to them that gets the creative juices flowing again. like a near death experience, getting pregnant, getting married, or a death in the family. the bad news is, you can't really control when any of this happens. you have to just wait for the universe to push you out of this pit. go on living, and when something mildly interesting happens, try to make it creative.
or something thats easier (for me) is writing short stories. instead of a lengthy novel, just write a few short stories. that way, you're still writing but you're not stressing too much. and when you finally come out of the block, use the short stories to continue on your next big work of art! good luck.
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I'm 16 yrs old and my mom is constantly angry at me. This has been like this since my brother(12) came back home from living on the other side of the country, where he lived with my dad for a while. She ignores me in favor of listen to whatever my brother's saying instead of me. My bro will snap at me and talk to me like I'm a piece dirt and when I snap back(out of anger) she tells me off like I'm the one in the wrong. My bro talks to my mum like she is a piece of dirt, he is always cussing and he always demands money and things to be bought for him but we're quite a poor family(I'm on my friend's computer currently). She throws stuff i've done for her back in my face for example she will constantly go on about how she needs something done but she never does it so i take time to do it for her thinking i'm helping and she acts thankful at the time but last night (in a fit of anger) she saw fit to tell me that I shouldn't have done it because she didn't want MY help. that hurt a lot... I may be talking to her and she stops listening half way through (there is always something more interesting than what I've got to say). Everytime I try to talk to her about my feelings on how she treats me she always gets anger, like I'm not entitled to my feelings and thoughts. For example, the other night I needed someone to talk to concerning some friends but she wasn't listening so I went through to my room and sat on my bed, staring into space, trying to get a handle on my emotions(trying to stop myself from crying)and she come through about an hour later and asked what I was doing just sitting there and I said to her that I was trying to talk to her earlier but she wouldn't listen. She told me to 'shut the fuck up' and slammed my bedroom door closed. I started to cry, uncontrollably and my mum came through about an hour later saying that she couldn't hear the movie she was watching over my crying and she asked why I was crying, so I responded 'there is no point in telling you since it'll make you angry' and with that she stormed out, she didn't care. I had my 'special daughter' necklace that she had give to me, it was around my wrist...I started to twist until it sliced through my wrist...I don't normally do this, I didn't even realize i was doing this in till I was bleeding... plz help.... xx (link)
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i'd say its time to go live with your dad. the truth is, your mom doesn't hate you. she's stressing and sad and angry at herself and you might remind her of herself, which would result in her lashing out at you. on top of this, opposite sex parents usually favor the opposite sex child (your mom listening to your brother and not you). around the time that daughter's become a teenager, parents get a taste of what the child is going to become later in life. either they like it or they don't. when i was your age, i got into a lot of trouble with the law and it changed my relationship with my mom forever. she acts like a mother towards me but neither of us like eachother at all, and we both know it. its because she didn't act like that when she was my age and she's scared and nervous, since she doesn't know how to deal with a delinquent as a daughter.
your mom sounds like a class-a cunt right now, and even if theres plenty of psychological problems that could be causing her behavior, its NO EXCUSE. first thing i'd do if i were you is call the police and tell them that your mother is being neglegent to your feelings and emotionally abusive. next, consider your other living options. maybe you could be emancipated, maybe you could live with your friend for a little bit, or just go live with your dad.
whatever you decide to do, i hope you find happiness. oh, and don't try and talk things out with your mom. you've already proven it does no good in helping whatsoever.
good luck, and i'm here if you need anything else.
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I'm 15f I want boys to like me but how can I get them to I feel like the guy should make the first move but when I do I feel stupid bc it ends up failing and me being upset... I want to be happy I seem t cry way to much and I hate it I want to be happy and carefree I hate having to care about what to do bc of boys I just want to be happy help (link)
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no matter what society and the media has shoved into our gullible little brains, we don't need love from the opposite sex to be happy. you can't MAKE boys like you. all you really can do is just be your normal self. if they aren't falling all over you, thats normal. but someone might eventually see how nice and funny you are. but don't ever compare the aspect of being happy with having a boyfriend. no one needs one.
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Hi,im 22 year man from south africa .don't have experience in relationship,i met this girl now ,i want to kiss her so i never kissed someone before. How to kiss her or which portion of her lips i have to hold with mine.help please (link)
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usually, when kissing someone, you both lean your heads to your right. so, you would go right, she would lean left. your lips should gently touch. just aim for the center of her mouth, point blank. in time, the kiss will get more passionate and deep, and thats when you start kissing with tongue or love biting. hope i helped.
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im 13 and i talk to alot of older guys mostly 15 16 17 year olds and like we talk and get to know each other and then they ask me out i usally say yeah and then they send my umm picks that i really don't want then they ask me for pics and i have sent them but then the next day i usally have a new boyfriend i love talking to guys but i just feel like a slut because they are so much older then me does that make me a slut??? (link)
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you're not a slut, you're a girl. every girl loves and craves male attention, especially if they're straight. since you're not sleeping with anyone, i would say no, that doesn't make you a slut. but you may want to rethink sending pictures. its illegal, and if one of these guys was 17 or 18, he could go to jail. or someone could leak them onto the internet. just something to ponder.
take care.
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what medicines can I take to end my life? Either over the counter or prescriptions? (link)
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if anyone on this site answers this question with meds you can take to kill yourself, they could get booted or even arrested. if you're looking for help, try a doctor.
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Basically, I started being sexually active recently and I'm an 18 year old girl in the UK and I notice my boyfriend doesn't really like wearing condoms because he can't feel a thing, so I have been thinking about going on the pill, but I have several concerns:
Firstly, all my friends that are on it are only on it because they have very bad periods and it apparently helps, however, I'm one of those lucky girls where my periods are not heavy and barely cause me any pain so I'm not moody or whatever, I don't want to go on the pill and suddenly get bad periods and become emotional and moody! is this a likely side effect?
Also I don't want my mother to know, so is it possible to get it done in private? or would my mother have to come with me?
And finally, a list of possible side effects would be helpful, for example, I heard gaining weight is one and I would rather not do that haha.
Summery: Will the pill cause any major changes to my body/personality and how can I get on it in private? thank you :)
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you should be able to get a prescription from your doctor without parental consent, since you're 18. then again, i don't know the laws of stuff like that in the UK.
a list of possible side effects:
water weight (at most, about 10 lbs, i believe)
moodiness
lighter periods
no cramping during periods
cleared acne
blood clots (especially if you smoke)
stroke (especially if you smoke)
heart attack (especially if you smoke)
now, all of these aren't definite, they are just possible. the more severe ones are possible and may have been reported, but i'm not sure. i just know what the commercials say.
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