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How can I get boys to like me so I can finally be happy?
I'm 15f I want boys to like me but how can I get them to I feel like the guy should make the first move but when I do I feel stupid bc it ends up failing and me being upset... I want to be happy I seem t cry way to much and I hate it I want to be happy and carefree I hate having to care about what to do bc of boys I just want to be happy help
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Well first off a boy is NOT going to make you happy you have to be happy with yourself. A guy is just something extra in your life he's not a necessity. You need to be yourself and be comfortable with who you are first. Guys don't always need to make the first move. For example there have been many times I have put myself out there and the guy didn't feel the same way. And that's okay. I always said to myself what's wrong with me? Until I met this guy that I had been crushing on for quite sometime. I finally told him how I felt and he told me he didn't feel the same way. I apologized told him I felt stupid for even saying anything. He told me I shouldn't be ashamed to tell a person how I feel and that whenever "one door closes another one opens". He was right. Don't beat yourself up because you don't have a boyfriend. You don't need to have a boyfriend. Try putting yourself out there and meeting people and eventually you will find a guy who can make you happy but add on to the happiness you already have. Good luck and hang in there!
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boys do like you. might just not be the boys you like. you dont want to make the first move because youll feel stupid if it fails. well thats what boys deal with too. if you like a guy make the fist move. will it fail? it might. so then you try again next time you like a guy. most will appreciate you taking the pressure off of them making the first move.
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no matter what society and the media has shoved into our gullible little brains, we don't need love from the opposite sex to be happy. you can't MAKE boys like you. all you really can do is just be your normal self. if they aren't falling all over you, thats normal. but someone might eventually see how nice and funny you are. but don't ever compare the aspect of being happy with having a boyfriend. no one needs one.
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